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I'm glad many here have seen through the filters and faced one of the toughest issues any of us WILL face in our lives...death. Be it a parent or, forbid, a child or other near one, the process can be shocking just because our society ignores this topic so thoroughly. Except for the occasional funeral, death and aging are kept far away and when issues like these come forward, many are not really aware of the very basic issues involved here.
When I heard the wingnut spin point last night (almost every GOOP shill invoked some, if not all, of the DeLay, Inc. hammer points) that Terri was "alert and laughing and joking"...it was so blatanly outrageous, but then it called back an incident I witnessed in my mother's illness.
She had been suffering from several degenerative illnesses, including altzheimers in her last years...suffering small strokes that would affect her brain...destroying her ability to control her body...requiring a feeding tube and slowly fading away.
Her condition was progressive and regressive...while she remained alert in many ways, her ability to remember or even speak became difficult. From a woman who had an encyclopedic memory of all sorts of interests, now she couldn't tell you the time of day or who had just visited her 5 minutes earlier. It's one of the toughest parts of this road...and one where you're always hoping for a miracle...looking for the simplest signs of her former self.
After two years, her feeding tube had started to harden (it's made of latex) and had clogged up. We had to replace it and she was taken in for the simple surgery to replace the tube. In the process, her medications were altered for the procedure. The night before the procedure I went to visit her and for the first time in months she said hello to me by name...then we chatted for the next 45 minutes...her speech was very fluid and I stood in amazement.
The next day, after the simple procedure I went to visit her and she had again drifted back into the quiet state she her illness had forced her to endure. While she still would speak and was never comatose or in a clinically vegetative state, she gradually faded as her illness affected more and more of her brain.
The hypocrisies I've seen from the right wing and fundies these past couple days is beyond even my cynical imagination. Their selective picking of this family's inner battles for their own political and economic gain reeks for the many "principals" this bowls over and the reality that millions have faced in their own confrontations with death and the dying.
Shame on the corporate media for exploiting this story as well and manufacturing it as some morality play. They have their own ethics they better look after, before they start telling me how I should view mine.
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