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First of all, I am not a religious nut. I am not even religious.
Things I wonder about:
Why this forum thinks it is only Right Wing Religious Nuts who have issues with how this woman is dying?
Why Michael did not "remember" she never wanted to be on earth in this manner years after the fact that she was.
And yes, he has a new family now but still dictates whether she lives or dies.
I have read so many posts here lately about this conflict. I have watched it become political and her parents criticized. Michael raked over the coals at other places. People blaming parents here on her bulimia? Suggesting she would hate being "Seen" on tv because of her bulimia, but in the same sentence saying she is not there to care.
On her dying: I think the "there" in here is no longer there. I do not think there is a recovery possibly. That being said.......
Does her not being there as a personality make her less human? Some of the discussion I have seen pretty much make fun of anyone caring for the body that lies in that hospital, and the fact we are voluntary starving it because there is no "there" there. I am conflicted with that.
I am conflicted that a man married to a woman he loves can so callously treat the parents of that woman. Yes, maybe he feels that they need to come to terms. But as a parent, my god, hopefully I will never get to that point, but I can understand their need to have her even in this limited aspect. He has kids now with another woman. Does not some part of him feel compassion for what they are going through? For all of those who said Terri never wanted to be this way; how would she KNOW she was this way to care? The parents get comfort from this person. She has a purpose here in that manner.
Bottom line, I do not believe him about Terri's wishes. I know many of you have expressed you would not like to live that way. That is your decision. Some others would prefer the hook up...that is their decision. But honestly, I find it totally dishonest that either he won a lawsuit on the basis of "recovering" her with therapy while knowing she did not want to live "this way"; or he is lying about her expressing this wish. One or the other, I find him disingenious at least with the jury that gave him the award, or with the comment he attributes to Terri.
So while I sit here conflicted, I am aghast that some posters on here are delighting on this serving justice to the Repukes or the Right to Lifers. I am Pro-Choice, rational, "true" feminist who has problems with this case. I guess I am just amazed that so many of you taut 'well the courts said"....... after watching what transpired when the courts SUPPOSEDLY installed a fake president. Are the courts only right when they follow your agenda or desires?
And seriously.....a few of you, not all, GLOATING over political gain when a woman is dying and her parents feel they are truly fighting for her life. If that was my daughter, I would call in Hitler/Saddam/Osama if I felt it would keep her alive and I believed she was in there. Cut them a break.
Anyways, sorry for the rant....
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