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NNN0LHI Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 07:47 PM
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Poll question: Hey guys. If a womans says NO twice what do you do?

Army Officer Testifies He Had Consensual Sex With Fellow Soldier


http://ap.tbo.com/ap/breaking/MGB3EH9T18E.html

FORT RUCKER, Ala. (AP) - An Army officer accused of raping a soldier in her barracks room testified Wednesday that a night of dancing, flirting and kissing led to consensual sex, not rape.

First Lt. Mike Hall, 35, told a military judge at his court-martial that 1st Lt. Jennifer Dyer invited him into her room and that, during two short episodes of intercourse, he stopped both times when she said "No."

Dyer, 26, has accused Hall of forcing her to have sex twice last August at Camp Shelby in Mississippi.

The defense contends Dyer, a New Jersey National Guardsman at the time, made up the rape story to get out of the Army and avoid being sent to Iraq.





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Jacobin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 07:50 PM
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1. Some guys get off on forced sex (NOT a valid excuse)
I don't.

I find it much more rewarding when both parties are into it. Is that weird?
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Berserker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 07:52 PM
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2. Thats easy
when a woman says NO thats what she means! What is so hard about that?
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glaucon Donating Member (116 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 07:55 PM
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3. Ask a third time?



.....or not.

:)
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NNN0LHI Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 07:56 PM
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4. Army Officer Acquitted of Raping Soldier in Her Barracks Room
Army Officer Acquitted of Raping Soldier in Her Barracks Room


http://ap.tbo.com/ap/breaking/MGB1HAX328E.html

FORT RUCKER, Ala. (AP) - An Army officer was acquitted by a military judge Wednesday of raping a soldier in her barracks room, a claim the defense said she concocted to keep from being sent to Iraq.


First Lt. Mike Hall, 35, of Nashville, Tenn., was also acquitted on an adultery charge but convicted of having sex without informing his partner that he had genital herpes.

Hall had testified in his court-martial that a night of dancing, flirting and kissing with 1st Lt. Jennifer Dyer, 26, last August led to consensual sex, not rape as she alleged.

He said Dyer invited him into her room at Camp Shelby in Mississippi and that, during two short episodes of intercourse, he stopped both times when she said "No."



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ruggerson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 07:56 PM
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5. Dunno, it's never happened n/t
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sonicx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 07:57 PM
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6. warning: this poll will be freeped...
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NNN0LHI Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-28-05 07:06 AM
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12. It wasn't freeped too bad. Thanks for the warning though n/t
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Poppyseedman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 08:25 PM
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7. After I ask my wife the second time
and she says no to doing the dishes, I'll normally do them:evilgrin:
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ClintonTyree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 08:35 PM
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8. One "No" would be enough for me...
of course that's never happened yet. ;)
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-28-05 07:43 AM
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14. I'm tellin' ya!
One "No" and I'd be outta there SOOOOOOOOOO fast!
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Lone Pawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 08:36 PM
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9. Keep going...
to another bar, where I might find another girl.
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Dob Bole Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 08:54 PM
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10. Never had that problem....
Ey!!

Seriously though...rapists are the slime of humanity, and I approve of castrating them.

That might sound harsh to a lot of people, but it's ridiculous to have serial rapists on the street victimizing people.
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 09:09 PM
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11. When in doubt, stop
Some men seem to think that anything other than angry resistance means "yes". They also seem to have no problem in lying, coercion, and asking multiple times often as the woman gets drunker or higher in order to have sex. Some of these cases are judged not be rape, but I they aren't really consenual either, are they? Why is it cool in some circles of men to trick a woman into sex or come as close as possible to raping a woman without not technically raping her? With this mentality, we should not be suprised when some men cross the line and really think that they didn't do anything wrong. When in doubt, stop. If she really wants to have sex with you, you can have sex tomarrow, right?
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King Coal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-28-05 07:18 AM
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13. Beg. Definitely beg.
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