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StellaBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:27 PM Original message |
Etiquette: a worthy art or an elitist filtering device? |
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samdogmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
1. Good manners are always in style--just my $0.02. n/t |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:38 PM Response to Reply #1 |
9. Ditto. |
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MsTryska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 03:22 PM Response to Reply #1 |
43. damn straight. |
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ornotna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 07:39 PM Response to Reply #1 |
55. Yes ma'am, you are correct |
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drthais (771 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
2. ok... |
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calico1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
3. There is a difference between having good manners |
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StellaBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:36 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. I agree |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:37 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. using little, petty "infra-dig" code to discriminate |
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drthais (771 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 08:21 PM Response to Reply #3 |
26. snob? |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:36 PM Response to Original message |
4. Etiquette in my opinion is a form of respect |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:51 PM Response to Reply #4 |
12. oh the irony |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:59 PM Response to Reply #12 |
16. Absolutely |
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Geoff R. Casavant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 09:47 PM Response to Reply #12 |
28. You are correct! |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 03:43 PM Response to Reply #28 |
47. So the dilemma is |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 10:56 PM Response to Reply #12 |
32. Agree. Wasn't it Kennedy who drank the finger bowl water... |
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TomInTib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
6. I have actually watched Cheney eat and... |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 07:00 PM Response to Reply #6 |
17. Why does that not surprise me? |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 07:32 PM Response to Reply #6 |
18. Now there's a shocker!! |
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Athame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 10:41 PM Response to Reply #6 |
30. I used to tell my children |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
7. Good manners, taught well, help you throughout your life. |
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calico1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:42 PM Response to Reply #7 |
10. Exactly. Which disproves the notion that somehow |
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EST (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:46 PM Response to Original message |
11. Proper etiquette is a form of social grease. |
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KT2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
13. I too read old etiquette books |
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bhunt70 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
14. I'm with you, in fact I once considered a career in Butling |
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Hamlette (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
15. it's both (don't cha hate answers like that?) |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 03:33 PM Response to Reply #15 |
45. Actually, the super rich do NOT act or decorate like Martha Stewart |
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Hamlette (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 06:19 PM Response to Reply #45 |
49. agreed, some "old wealth" is like that...like the Scots. |
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StellaBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 07:03 PM Response to Reply #45 |
52. Having lived in Europe for four years, I agree totally |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
19. My parents always insisted on good manners -- how to eat, address |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
20. I deplore bad manners |
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tnlefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 07:40 PM Response to Original message |
21. Wow - so much to think about! I honestly suppose the answers depend |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 07:44 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. you nailed it |
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tnlefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 11:03 PM Response to Reply #22 |
34. Why, thank you annabana, and when would like to join us for |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 04:55 AM Response to Reply #34 |
37. why shucks |
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KenCarson (170 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
23. "good manners are the lubricant of social intercourse" |
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OffWithTheirHeads (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 08:13 PM Response to Original message |
24. Manners is simply a way of showing respect! |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 08:18 PM Response to Original message |
25. What's the difference? |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
27. Grace and comfort are good; but snooty snobbery isn't. |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 10:23 PM Response to Original message |
29. I was taught: Etiquette/exclusive. Manners/Inclusive - then there's |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
31. I think it's necessary |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
33. Depends whether you mean "Don't wear white after labor day" versus |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 01:26 PM Response to Reply #33 |
38. Sometimes it's necessary |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 03:28 PM Response to Reply #38 |
44. Of course. It's important to be fluent in etiquette and comfortable |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 11:15 PM Response to Original message |
35. To a certain point it's worthy... |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-17-05 11:20 PM Response to Original message |
36. Good Manners Will Get You Far |
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12345 (267 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
39. etiquette changes depending on the social group. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
40. It's all about consideration and good boundaries, so of course |
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countryjake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
41. Guess it depends on who you're trying to impress! |
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MsTryska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
42. self delete. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
46. Good manners can be broken into three categories: |
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Taxloss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 04:05 PM Response to Original message |
48. Manners matter. |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 06:31 PM Response to Original message |
50. Ettiquette is a martial art, like Akido |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 06:35 PM Response to Original message |
51. Etiquette is just snobbery in pretty shoes. |
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Kailassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 07:29 PM Response to Original message |
53. Etiquette can be a good start, but ... |
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Chemical Bill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-18-05 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
54. Manners are nice, but I'd rather stop the war in Iraq. n/t |
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