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newportdadde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:36 AM
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Just why exactly is Natalee Holloway still news?
Maybe she was running for office? Flipping through the cable news shows for election results I saw a lot of her. Well her clothes at least.. in a desperate attempt to find some returns on TV I flipped to Fox News and Got Van Strussen with Natalle's dad looking at her clothes in her room or something.

I feel sorry for her parents I can't imagine loosing a child but at this point what more can be done with the constant stories and exposure?

Many people go missing each day in the US but do we hear about them? No.
Many people are murdered each day and do were about them 24/7 or much at all? No.

Rich girl of privilege partying down all night long in Aruba and choosing to leave with strangers = Newsworthy and horrible.

A poor girl/boy from a place as far as you can get from privilege dieing in Iraq for a lie because he/she dreamed of going to college but couldn't afford it and needed the money = Nobody gives a shit.

The priorities are really jacked up in this country.
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Stand and Fight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:38 AM
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1. Excellent point. K&R n/t
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KalicoKitty Donating Member (777 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:44 AM
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7. Also an diversion from the crimes of Bush and his band of thugs
:puke:
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Inland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:38 AM
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2. Because it's easy and can't offend anybody but Arubans.
All thouse other things take more effort than putting a family member on TV and are likely to draw conservative ire.
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Neil Lisst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:41 AM
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3. Truthfully? You really want to know?
Edited on Wed Nov-09-05 11:44 AM by Neil Lisst
Fox News and other TV media are feeding a segment of the daytime market, women who otherwise will watch Jerry Springer, or Oprah, or Maury, or some such nonsense. MSNBC does it, too.

There is a concerted effort to use salacious events involving women and/or children to the audience which mosts hangs on that stuff, and that is primarily the women's market. No, not the ordinary news viewer, male or female, but the daytime viewer, the same viewers who watch Soap Operas, Oprahs, and the various Clash shows and judge shows.

Generalizations are always overreaching, but I think it can be said that it's the Romance Novella Syndrome. Oh, the drama of white women in distress!
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:43 AM
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5. I think it's because her mom won't let this go
Okay, I can't imagine the pain of losing a child, but she is blaming all the wrong people here, especially the people of Aruba who opened their homes and hearts to her and her family.
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Neil Lisst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:48 AM
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12. I agree her persistence is a factor, but demand has to be there.
Why do people watch it?

Isn't it like the wait for Lori Peterson's body?

There are some in the population who enjoy a degree of angst by proxy in their daily lives, and worrying about a young missing woman helps provide that.

It's TV. It's competing for viewers. THAT is why they do it. Because it works, because it gets a certain segment of viewers who would otherwise be watching angst on Maury. "You are NOT the father!"
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kskiska Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 01:35 PM
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32. Mrs. Levy couldn't let go, either
but Chandra was wiped off the TV by 9/11 and never returned. The Natalee story has occasionally been eclipsed by other news, but for some reason, keeps coming back. Singlehandedly, Greta Van Susteren keeps it going. Maybe the Holloways are paying her. It's been said they're big * supporters.
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lady raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:32 AM
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41. I understand, but if I were in her shoes,
I might be doing the same thing. The woman is desperate to find her daughter, and if it were my child, I'd probably be doing a lot of what she is doing.

I blame the media, but I don't blame the mother one bit. That's her baby.
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Village Idiot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:11 PM
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22. DING DING!!! There truly is NO OTHER REASON for...
Geraldo, Greta van Sustern and Nancy Grace to be on TV...
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Jara sang Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 01:49 PM
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34. Good call, they don't cover it nearly as much in the evening.
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depakid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 04:14 PM
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77. That I can agree with you on
Well said.

However, I think that analysis also spills over into the choice of "news" that's aired during other time slots. Especially when it's convenient to the senior news editors' preconceived agenda's.
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KalicoKitty Donating Member (777 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:41 AM
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4. Is her mother a new member of the staff on FAUX?
This has griped me for a long time.

Sickening!

:puke:
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bigscott Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:43 AM
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6. i think the equation is
white = news

minority = not news ever

:wtf:
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KerryReallyWon Donating Member (297 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:44 AM
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8. She is still news as they have gone to a different arean...
Dr Phil has stated he believes she is still alive and that she is a sex slave in the Carribean. This takes it to a new areaa...one where the U.S. does not want to go....Dr. Phil is also looking into a segment on Johnny Gosch, as his story is one of documented human trafficking....

now watch how they try and take her off the news....just watch!
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bigscott Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:46 AM
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9. OMG me and Dr Phil?
funny - I bet my mother she was now a sex slave in South America - she was appalled that there were such things - my poor naive Mom:pals:
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notadmblnd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 01:40 PM
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33. The Johney gosh story goes very deep into BFEE territory
Dr. Phil IMO, will never come near to finding out what happened and who was/is behind it.
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thereismore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:46 AM
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10. because she allegedly had sex with three men the night she vanished. nt
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HardWorkingDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:05 PM
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20. Kind of a cold subject line...
so what are you saying? From what I've read she might have been incapacitated and assaulted while intoxicated.
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thereismore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:21 AM
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38. I'm just saying that the psychophants are attracted to that sort of thing.
They want to mull that aspect over and over. That's what I meant.
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AlCzervik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:47 AM
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11. If it bleeds it leads. This story must be selling a lot of Tide and
Range rovers.
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sinkingfeeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:48 AM
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13. CNN's website has a story on Elizabeth Smart. Guess there's a
real shortage of 'stories' today.
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begin_within Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:53 AM
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14. And, why were Scott & Lacey Peterson ever newsworthy outside Modesto?
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AlCzervik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:55 AM
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15. omg i live in northern california, the coverage here was non-stop
it lead every local news broadcast for months and months.
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begin_within Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 11:56 AM
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16. Same here and I'm in San Diego. It was nationwide, and I never knew why.
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femrap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 12:52 PM
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56. FEAR....that's why!
The Media in our culture wants everyone to be afraid. A fearful citizenry is one that OBEYS.

Part of the 'divide and conquer' strategy as well.....usually the Media shows the 'evil' black male after the white female. Where in actuality, the black male and white female are both oppressed by the white, rich male. So FEAR is used to divide them.

Who we ALL need to be fearful of is the rich white male CEO....that's the real enemy...and probably the ones who are making shitloads of $ off human (primarily women and children) trafficking.
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Retrograde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 01:43 PM
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68. well int was kinda local to the Bay Area...
the bodies were found in SF Bay, the trial was held there, Modesto is arguably on the fringes of the Bay Area, so there was a small local angle at least.

I thought the San Jose Mercury's trial coverage was rather restrained, all things considered.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:05 PM
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19. Catherine Crier says mainly because it was Xmas Eve
And the national and regional news was very slow that day and rest of the week. So... the story got legs.
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:47 AM
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44. It was her smile
I finally heard someone say outloud what I knew it was. Her wonderful smile, seriously that and they needed something for filler-what do you expect them to do cover a Presidential race?

Also, apparently many people think that she had the *sigh* perfect life. Former cheerleader married to a family business and dashing (?) husband expecting their first child *sigh*

Some thing along those lines.
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Arkansas Granny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:15 PM
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24. I think the reason the Peterson case was "newsworthy" is
because she was pregnant. Wasn't the fact that Peterson would be tried for the death of his unborn son a big deal in this case? Maybe he was one of the first to be tried on this point. I didn't follow the case closely, but with such media saturation, it was nearly impossible to ignore.
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:00 PM
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17. she's a "Star"
they've invested millions and hundreds of hours in establishing the "Natalee" brand.
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HardWorkingDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:03 PM
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18. Hold on folks....
I'm sorry, but I'm disappointed in the lack of sympathy here on this issue.

There are many reasons this story is receiving so much coverage and not all are because of bad things.

I would hope if one of my girls went missing like this there would be this much coverage. Just try to put yourselves in the shoes of the mother for a moment. Her she is facing a group of government agents that she feels is not doing their jobs and is fighting back the only ways she can. I applaud her for her efforts.

And coverage like this is not always determined by race. Here in my area there is a case going on of a murdered black woman. She was missing for some time, then her body found in another state. This was national news and covered very heavily in the local media for quite some time.

Sadly, I think if anything that determines coverage it is the attractiveness of the missing person rather than race. And this includes the class and physical aspects.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:07 PM
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21. I think most posters mean the non-stop "nutty" stuff, like Dr. Phil
Saying that she was abducted by sex traffickers and is being used as a prostitute, etc.

There has been no news for a while, so there's no reason for the case to be on as much as it is. In the Peterson case, at least we had the Amber Frey thing, etc.
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femrap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 12:55 PM
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57. Nutty? This is the new Big Biz.....just like
dealing in drugs. Human Trafficking is big money! It is NOT 'NUTTY.'
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:19 PM
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26. I am sorry to say it but in a more rational era
her story might have made national news on a slow news day... at the end of the program

Today she makes the news almost constantly while things that are news worthy are not even on. That is the complaint. Nor her, poor girl, went on vacation and got killed, poor parents, but this is NOT a national story
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 01:00 PM
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61. look there are lots of missing people right now
we still have hundreds of unidentified bodies at dmort in gabriel, louisiana

this is too much coverage abt a girl who prob. got sick of her self-righteous parents & ran away for some freedom, as i did at her age, as not an unknown number of girls do in the south

there is not even a body, there is no proof this girl is dead or gone against her will

but the bodies at dmort are undeniably dead

the unfairness of news coverage is just plain outrageous
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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 02:02 PM
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71. You are aware that soldiers & innocent Iraqis are dying every day, right?
The media seems to forget that but to me that story is far more important than one missing teenager.

I know her family is worried and I feel very sorry for them but my god, this is just not worth the hours and hours of coverage it gets.
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HardWorkingDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 03:32 PM
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74. No need to be condescending...
Of course I realize all of that and all of the rotten things that go on in this world every day, HOWEVER, that doesn't mean that those of us here should become cold and unsympathetic to a missing young girl.

Some of the replies here are disappointing.

I have female children myself and feel if something similar happened to any of them, I'd want it on the news every night too. Especially when something obviously is being covered up in Aruba.
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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 05:14 PM
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78. I don't think people are unsympathetic to her family
they are frustated at the amount of news coverage this story gets while all these other horrors/new stories are going on around the world.

For example, the other night when polls closed here in California I tried in vain to find any national coverage of any of the elections going on...instead you had Nancy Grace, Greta on Fox and Rita Cosby all talking about this girl who has been missing for months and that there had been no developments in the story that day.

And of course Jennifer Anniston on Larry King :eyes:
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mwb970 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 05:17 PM
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79. No, it really is too much coverage.
Hours and hours of coverage every week, month after month, for one random person? With no new news? Come on.
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BurgherHoldtheLies Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:13 PM
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23. Hmmmmm...Holloway and Twitty: Republican donors from Alabama?
Relatives or the family directly?:tinfoilhat:

TWITTY SECURITY SERVICES
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$300
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TWITTY, FRED V
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$500
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TWITTY, FRED V MR
HAZEL GREEN,AL 35750
DOD/CONTRACTOR/INVESTIGATOR
4/21/2003
$2,000
National Republican Congressional Cmte

TWITTY, FRED V MR
HAZEL GREEN,AL 35750
RETIRED/RETIRED
1/11/2005
$500
National Republican Congressional Cmte

HOLLOWAY, CHARLES H
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RADIOLOGY ASSOCIATES OF DOTHAN/DIAG
3/28/2001
$250
Radiology Advocacy Alliance

HOLLOWAY, HUGH
DOTHAN,AL 36303
RADIOLOGY ASSOCIATES OF DOTHAN/RADI
10/29/2004
$500
Everett, Terry

HOLLOWAY, HUGH
DOTHAN,AL 36303
RADIOLOGY ASSOCIATES OF DOTHAN/RADI
11/3/2003
$250
Everett, Terry

HOLLOWAY, JOHN
MONTGOMERY,AL 36123
HOLLOWAY CREDIT SOLUTIONS LLC/PARTN
10/13/2004
$200
Everett, Terry

HOLLOWAY, JOHN M
MONTGOMERY,AL 36123
HOLLOWAY CREDIT BUREAU CO
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$500
Sessions, Jeff

HOLLOWAY, JOHN M III
MONTGOMERY,AL 36103
HOLLOWAY CREDIT BUREAU COMPANI
3/18/2003
$1,000
Shelby, Richard C

HOLLOWAY, JOHN M III
MONTGOMERY,AL 36123
HOLLOWAY CREDIT BUREAU CO
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$250
Sessions, Jeff

HOLLOWAY, KENT L
HUNTSVILLE,AL 35801
HUNTSVILLE CREDIT BUREAU
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$1,000
Sessions, Jeff

HOLLOWAY, KENT L
HUNTSVILLE,AL 35801
HUNTSVILLE CREDIT BUREAU
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$1,000
Sessions, Jeff

HOLLOWAY, KENT L MR
OWENS CROSS ROADS,AL 35763
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$2,000
Bush, George W


http://www.opensecrets.org/indivs/index.asp

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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:17 PM
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25. Those channels are no longer news
they are infotainment
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zbdent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 01:20 PM
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27. General Francisco Franco
is still dead . . .
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 01:32 PM
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28. True crime draws a huge segment of the population
Mostly females, who in some way identify or fear of being a victim, or mothers who fear for their daughters. Watch A&E.....almost every show is Cold Case Files or some such. Lifetime has two hours of Unsolved Mysteries a day and TV movies about kidnapping, rape, murder almost constantly.

I feel sorry for the parents, and certainly I would have hoped this would have been resolved by now. But the every night for an hour on FOX is overkill, and clearly just a way to "keep Greta busy".
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femrap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 01:04 PM
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63. The rich white males who own the media want women to
live in FEAR. So that is what is programmed and marketed to women. Look at the programming on Spike...lots of crime shows, murder, rape....but marketed differently.

You mentioned A&E....when that channel first appeared, it was GREAT...it offered lots of ART. It was kinda high brow...now it is crap. The rich white boys do not want an intelligent citizenry who THINK and ANALYZE. They want people to obey...no questions asked.

And they want women to be fearful...stay in their 'place,' be quiet, and stay home (where it is safe). They create a culture of FEAR...women need to consciously overcome it.

Turn off TV and open a book!
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FreedomAngel82 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 01:34 PM
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29. I thought I heard she had some sort of ties to Bush?
They were family friends or something? And of course anything to keep reporting real stories. I wonder if they'd still be on the story if they were some other color besides white and/or if she was ugly by today's standards.
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mtowngman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 01:34 PM
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30. What do you expect the news to cover...
torture condoned by our government? CIA leaks from the White House? Lies and incompetence?
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McCamy Taylor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 01:34 PM
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31. White blonde female. 'Nuff said.
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triguy46 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 01:51 PM
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35. White, young, "christian"
Would not be the same for minority, poor, and non member of a neo-theocratic mega church in the suburbs. Why was she hanging out in bars in Aruba late at night? What possible 'good' is associated with that behavior?

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Jara sang Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 01:54 PM
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36. Natalee Holloway = fish food
They will never find her. Murderers that live on islands do body dumps in the ocean. I guess we should all boycott Aruba... oh wait , I was already boycotting them and didn't even know it.
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Wordie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 01:55 PM
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37. Because Bush administration disasters were getting too much attention???
I feel for the family. I condemn the crime. But this should not be dominating the news, imho.
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:27 AM
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39. You know--I'm so sick of these threads.
They are pointless and flamebait. As a mother, if I had lost my daughter you bet your sweet ass I would move heaven and earth to try and find her. I don't give a rats ass who the politician would be helping me to find my daughter, I wouldn't give up.

As for her disappearance, why the hell doesn't anybody WAKE THE FUCK UP and see that there are not only one, two or three MISSING girls in foreign countries, but many. If you would have seen the movie, "Human Trafficking," it would have opened your eyes to a growing problem that is barely addressed. I hope they keep this in the news. Maybe it will blow the fucking lid off of this shit. :argh:
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lady raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:38 AM
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43. I agree.
I don't think the problem is NH getting TOO MUCH attention so much as it is the OTHER missing people being completely IGNORED.

If it were my child, I would probably allow the devil himself to help me find her, and while I have little time for neocons, especially * supporters, if your child is missing, I don't care about your political views.

Honestly- The baby this woman carried in her womb and has loved for 18 years is missing and could be a sex slave, torture victim, murder victim, or whatever. She's doing what she has to do to help her daughter, and I doubt that there is much else in the world that matters much to her until she either gets her daughter home or finds out what happened to her. The constant non- news about it DOES get on my nerves, yes. The constant media attention really seems to be making no difference in finding her, but I'm not going to blame her mother for trying.
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QC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:49 AM
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45. A lot of people here channel their annoyance with the news coverage
into attacks on the missing woman. I've seen some truly freeperish comments on her these past few days, most of it along the lines of the old "that woman shouldn't a got herself raped" line of thinking. I've seen Holloway described as a "girl gone wild," accusations that she pulled a train with the three suspects, and the like. Real Freak Republik stuff.

Why do so many have such a hard time understanding that one can disapprove of the obsessive news coverage without attacking Natalee Holloway? Doesn't anyone actually think anymore, or is it all just stimulus/response now?
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 11:03 AM
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48. well said
and thank-you:thumbsup:
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:55 AM
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47. As a mother
Edited on Thu Nov-10-05 11:01 AM by Blue_Roses
I really feel for her. That could be any one of us standing there. This shouldn't be about what political party is helping. Murder, human torture, and kidnapping have no political affiliations.

Why can't we have a discussion about the possibilities of what could have happened--one being human trafficking or the murder of an American on foreign soil--rather than political affiliation:eyes: The night that the movie, "Human Trafficking" aired, I posted a thread about this and there were only 3-4 replies. This is an epidemic that doesn't get media attention and it's growing in leaps and bounds.

http://www.lifetimetv.com/movies/originals/humantrafficking.html

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MADem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 11:07 AM
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49. I know what you mean, and I agree, if your kid is lost, you go to the wall
I do not blame the parents for USING the media. I'd USE them too. I would shlep from Larry King to Greta to Catherine Crier to Rita Cosby to every fucking show out there. I'd give them drama and grief, I'd give them MUST SEE TV--anything! I would be tireless, relentless, angry, motivated, and I would NOT STOP. I would pull publicity stunts, do everything I could to keep the focus on the issue, spend myself into debt, do ANYTHING.

The fault is not the parents', nor is it the victim's. The fault lies with the people that did that young, invincible-feeling, young girl who made a serious error in judgment harm, and the police who fucked up--or covered up--the investigation.

There is a market for those stories, there always has been, and there always will be. The fact that the media outlets are snatching it up to boost their market share is just their nature. They're vultures, after all. They aren't gonna cover the first day of kindergarten, or the wonderful sunrise, or the flowers blooming in spring. And if they did, people would be lunging for the remote in unison, like a Jack LaLane exercise routine, in search of salacious tales on other channels.

If it bleeds, it does indeed, lead.
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 11:14 AM
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50. sometimes the "bleeding leading" story is what it takes
Edited on Thu Nov-10-05 11:15 AM by Blue_Roses
to blow the lid off of something bigger. I know it's not fair and the coverage does seem to be "ratings grabber" for the networks, but really, who the fuck cares when it's your child. I'm with you--I would become a media HOG and POUND THE FUCKING DOORS OFF every studio in this country to get coverage.

I love my kids that much.

I really think they need to start looking at the other facets of this story--there are so many other factors.
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RandomKoolzip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 01:01 PM
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62. You're assuming she's been sold into some human trafficking racket.
She coulda been killed by a lone looney, ya know.
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 01:54 PM
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69. you GODDAM RIGHT!
Edited on Thu Nov-10-05 01:59 PM by Blue_Roses
Anything is possible and this needs to be discussed with ALL political parties:eyes:

My point is not just that this could have happened to her, but that it DOES INDEED happen as we speak.
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femrap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 01:13 PM
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65. Thank you...people are sticking their heads in the sand
over this issue of women and children being sold into slavery. And the money involved is incredible. It is heartbreaking to me....I wish the Media would devote more time to exposing this issue. And I wish the Justice Department, FBI, etc. would devote more money to jailing the scum that promotes this most horrendous of crimes against women and children.

It's as if people think these women want to be prostitutes....they are held against their will. What gets me is that the 'johns' in this country think this is just fine. They know of these slavery operations, use them, and think they are doing nothing wrong....they think it's just fine that women are used for money. It sickens me.
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 01:57 PM
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70. I think they stick their heads in the sand because
the US is the biggest contributor to this problem and it's disgusting that they just turn a deaf ear. I don't know if this is what happened to Natalie Holloway, but it's a possiblity and it's not just something that is made for "Lifetime".
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femrap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 03:57 PM
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76. I believe 'Now' on PBS had a expose on the sex trade in Thailand...
I believe it was about a year ago. It is heartbreaking. And I believe it is much more widespread than people want to think.

It's the worst kind of slavery.
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dogfacedboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:31 AM
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40. It's all they have to keep Greta busy
until another woman or child dies mysteriously or disappears. FOXpropaganda is a bunch of sick fucks.
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QC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:37 AM
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42. Why the obsession with her at DU? Six threads about her the past couple
days. When it comes to Miss Holloway, we're as bad as Faux News.
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:52 AM
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46. UPPER-CASTE FEMALE OF PRIME EGG LAYING AGE WHO DISAPPEARED
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npincus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 11:15 AM
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51. I support her mom's call for a tourism boycott of Aruba
this whole episode stinks of conspiracy at the highest levels of their governmet. For that reason, this is more than just a white girl-missing crime story. That said, it IS the sensational story of the last few months that seems to domoinate the networks that try the hardest to pimp for the WH and distract Americans from the issues of the day.

Not really addressing your comments, just throwing in my own.
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malaise Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 03:42 PM
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75. Government cover up?
There is separation of power between the judiciary and the government in Aruba.
What about the 17 year old US exchange student in Brazil who hitched a ride and was found hundreds of miles away. If she wasn't found were you going to recommend a boycott of Brazil. Look losing kids is hard but if your kids take stupid risks, they are responsible for the consequences.
Why on earth would a young lady traveling in a group leave alone with three strange obviously rich young men. If I had done that and lived to tell the tale at that age, my father would have told me that I was begging for trouble and grounded my naive ass for three months.

Neither the US government not the Alabama government control the legal system in Aruba and I can tell you that Caribbean people are beyond pissed with this story. Do you have any idea what this investigation has already cost that poor ass island?

Since so many of our citizens are missing in the US maybe we should boycott America.
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unblock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 11:16 AM
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52. didn't she used to be one of the spice girls?
:shrug:


:evilgrin:
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Robert Cooper Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 11:44 AM
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53. Reality and ?
I'm curious about what those who think Aruba should be boycotted would do? The Dutch legal system has run its course on the suspects. I'm really getting the feeling that torture is not beyond the possibilities considered.

Has it not occurred to anyone that the law enforcement did a proper job, that the suspects are innocent, that unknown parties may have caused the disappearance?

Instead we seem to be treated to assumptions of guilt: law enforcement screwed up or covered up, the son of a judge is always guilty if suspected of a crime, the non-white brothers are guilty of something.

And check out the similarity in arguments defending NH's mother and the arguments defending the Schindlers when they went to the mat for Terri Schiavo.

Does there not come a point where a quest for justice and the truth turns into a lynch mob filled with conspiracy theories to justify any activity?

I might love to see America boycotted (tourism and products) till Bush is indicted for crimes against humanity. Is that going to force you to do it? Are you going to ignore your own laws and system of justice to satisfy a world's lust for justice?

What is Aruba to do to end such a boycott against them? Torture the suspects into a 'confession' to satisfy NH's family?

What happened to respect for due process and respect for the innocence of suspects until proven guilty in a court of law? Or do we forget all of that when a grieving white mother gets on TV and begs America to do -something-?
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 01:06 PM
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64. hear hear
i'm amazed that so many on DU think the aruban and netherland authorities & justice system is somehow inferior to our own, it's a bit ridiculous on the face of it to call for a boycott of aruba just because they don't follow the usa practice of just finding somebody, anybody, and convicting him of the crime whether he's guilty or not

then 15 yrs later when the DNA evidence proves the man innocent, we're all "oopsy"

no one should be in jail for murder when there is not even any evidence a murder occurred, that is just madness
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 12:52 PM
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55. She's white. (n/t)
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cascadiance Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 12:58 PM
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60. So's Michael Jackson...
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cascadiance Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 12:56 PM
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58. Because now Michael Jackson is off the hook and no longer "available"...
Edited on Thu Nov-10-05 12:57 PM by calipendence
... for distraction purposes...

Scott Peterson I guess is also done now too... Need some newer blood!
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 12:57 PM
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59. we're still counting the dead from katrina
as far as i'm concerned, in the words of a nasty editorial elsewhere on the internets, fuck natalee holloway

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femrap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 01:20 PM
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67. hope that doesn't happen to your daughter...nt
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 01:15 PM
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66. Parental guilt and the possibility of "Sex Slave Trade"
Edited on Thu Nov-10-05 01:16 PM by SoCalDem
Fox et al are preying on the horrific guilt and anxiety of the parents, and using this story to inject the "possibility" that natalee's not dead, just "captured for the sex slave trade". They eat this stuff up, especially if the "girl" is photogenic and of course being blonde is a plus.

As long as there is no body or remains found, they can all pretend that she's alive. Every parent in that situation must vacillate between wanting to find a body, and NOT wanting to find a body. As long as there is no "proof of death", the child can remain "alive" in their heart, even thought their brain 'knows the truth'.

They know their daughter is dead, and that their decision to pay for/let her go played a big role in her death. The fact that they apparently did not impart their "deeply religious morals" into her psyche as much as they thought, must be bugging the hell out of them too.

Her 'reputation' as a god-fearing, innocent Christian girl has been challenged, and they probably feel that if they can get someone to pay for her death, it might restore her reputation in death.

and they are pissed off because their clout with a republican congressman from their district does not translate into clout in a foreign country.

and no matter what their politics, they are parents whose dream daughter is gone forever, and they want justice for her.

the media is using them, and they are using the media...Most people are not even paying attention anymore.
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Ivan Sputnik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 02:18 PM
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72. Golden girl goes missing
"It shouldn't happen to someone like her" stories are always popular. (Ask any Hollywood scriptwriter.) And the (for-profit) news media can't pass up a sure-fire ratings draw. The public is partly to blame for being fascinated.
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electron_blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 02:56 PM
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73. For some people, this is their "Survivor: Aruba"
It's entertainment for them, in some sick way.
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SlipperySlope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 05:31 PM
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80. She is news because SHE HASN'T BEEN FOUND YET!!!
All this babble on this page isn't doing anything to get Natalee home. That is the important thing, and we shouldn't lose sight of it.
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Robert Cooper Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:19 PM
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81. And what legal solution do you propose?
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Ilsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-10-05 10:41 PM
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82. It is now a selacious sex slavery story.
They'll be quoting scooter libby's novel about bestiality and sex industry training soon. Hoping to bring their ratings up.
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