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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 05:53 PM
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Home Schooling
I just saw a report on CBS News tonight that just showed that few states require parents to be certified, be backgrounded checked, or even tell the authorities that their kids are being home schooled.

So how can we ensure that home schooled children are being taught well?
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poskonig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 05:55 PM
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1. Why is this the state's responsibility?
Especially when homeschoolers do better academically than their counterparts in the public schools?
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:03 PM
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8. i homeschooled mine for 7 years..enrolled them in public school last year
...both are john hopkins talented youth scholars..in the top 99 percentile...terra nova test results: both in top 1% nationwide....and i am not a certified teacher...must be those inherited genes from the milkman :7
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Malva Zebrina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:11 PM
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17. good for you and I hope good for your children
may you live your life in comfort knowing that your children will be in the forefront--hopefully., You are wonderful.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:23 PM
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32. Marianne thank you for your kindness
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wadestock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 04:13 PM
Response to Reply #8
310. congratulations....
you've just done one of the most rewarding things you'll probably ever do....
I envy you.

The school system doesn't lack quality teachers...it suffers from inadequate management...to allow teachers to teach the way they want.

My 11 year old is not learning squat for the amount of time he spends in school....and the only way he "gets it" is to sit down with me and get the basics that he didn't get in school in the first place.

The cutsy math methods, the homework which leads them to burnout....may be screening the best....but its not bringing up the bottom.

I've never met a kid that was home schooled that didn't seem infinitely more calm, secure, and confident....and probably better equipped to take on the real world.....

For all intents and purposes, my Dad was home schooled on the farm....brought up in a school system with 6 grades in one classroom....so there was never a lot of schooling.....but he has that "old school" command of the basics that you just don't see these days...
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:04 PM
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9. Worst argument EVER. Public Schools don't have the luxury...
...of exclusionary scoring or admittance. Hence the silly "Homeschoolers do so much better" nonsense.

While some parents may do a suitable job homeschooling, that can't be denied, a nation would be crippled by a mass movement toward homeschooling.



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LARED Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:06 PM
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10. Why?
would a nation would be crippled by a mass movement toward homeschooling?


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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:11 PM
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16. Mass de-socialization.
Which I might add is swell for some kids, I can accept that, but how could a mass movement not create severe problem both for the children taught by bad parents (No regulations, no standards, no help) and the millions of socially inept (Not all, but can you imagine if a majority of American children were taught that way? <shudders> ) children?
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thinkingwoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:16 PM
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21. mass de-socialization like the founding fathers?
The country was founded by "home schoolers."

Public schooling is a relatively new phenomenon. The myth about homeschooled students suffering socially has been debunked.

I should know better than to open these threads. Homeschool bashing is rampant here among people who pride themselves on being better informed than freepers.

That's not the case on these threads. Educate yourself about home schooling. Please. There is a reason why the homeschool numbers are growing so fast. There is something fundamentally wrong with the public school system and it must be fixed by Democrats or it won't be fixed at all.
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damnraddem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:34 PM
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41. Some parents don't think that the schools do enough, are competent, ...
and so on. And many of them do very good jobs -- if the parent is well-educated, home-schooling provides a very good student/teacher ratio. Some parents don't want their kids educated in the cultural milieu of public school, reflecting the dominant culture. They may or may not do a good job. Some parents don't want their children exposed to alternate cultural influences, points of view other than the parents', anything (including science) that isn't in accord with their own religious bigotry. The kids are the victims then.

Yes, homeschooling might be OK for the left, if: (1) the leftists are also competent in teaching their kids; and (2) the kids are exposed to cultural diversity. But that is no answer for the nation -- it leaves the poor with less hope, it makes for a left further isolated from the rest of the population, and it weakens public schooling overall.

AS to our 'founding fathers,' they were part of a largely-agricultural society, and one in which trades were learned by apprenticeship. We live in a very-different society. And the sons (not daughters) of the FFs had a very good chance of going onto college: Harvard, University of Virginia, and so on. There, they learned how to be members of a ruling elite, quite apart from learning various academic subjects. In short, what the FFs did is no model at all for our current society.
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Old and In the Way Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:36 PM
Response to Reply #41
95. Is it coincidence that the rise of American influence in the 20th
century coincided with our progressive public education? I think not.

It won't shock me when we devolve into a banana state, either, when parents become the primary educators of our kids.

That might be OK if every society on Earth did this, but the enlightened ones know better.....
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:34 AM
Response to Reply #95
209. Is it coincidence that the rise of Republican influence in the US
coincides with people making the ridiculous argument that because The Founding Fathers were "home-schooled", the same sort of education is all we need today, more than two hundred years ago?

I suggest the poster wash their clothes by rubbing them on a rock in a stream. That's how the American colonialists did it, so it should be good enough for us
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thinkingwoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:31 PM
Response to Reply #209
324. the truth is ridiculous?
What public school did the founding fathers attend?

Do tell. I'm waiting.
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Old and In the Way Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:31 PM
Response to Reply #21
93. Were they teaching Calculus back when the founding fathers
were going to school? I believe that was a relatively new concept. How you can compare the technical demands of the post-industrial population today with our agrarian society of 250 years ago is beyond me.

My kids are learning this in public schools....and how many parents understand this math? Or real science? I've got a college degree from a relatively prestigous liberal arts college (30 years ago) and I don't feel qualified to teach my kids. So what becomes the standards for accepting kids into higher education? Money? Connections? (That's the way education was handled back when our Founding Fathers were alive). Who are the certifiers?

I guarantee you that in 20 years, we will become a 3rd rate country because parents are not teachers, kids will learn less, or worse, they will learn biases that aren't truth. Our society will become one hugh State of Babel because we won't have a basis of agreed standards. We'll be a joke in the eyes of progressive countries.

But the Republicans love it. They'll have the money to get their kids educated and they won't have to pay taxes to support it for the rest of the society. And, of course, a democracy requires an educated population, so that will go too. In a few generations, we'll so be back to the good old days.....and our society will finally be getting the jobs that the Chinese will send us because we'll be well prepared for $1.00/day wages.

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NicoleM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:43 PM
Response to Reply #93
99. Are you saying
that kids don't learn biases that aren't the truth in public school? Because I would have to strongly disagree with that statement. Your kids may be lucky enough to go to a "good" public school. I wasn't. Let me give you a for example. We lived near an Indian Reservation. The school was mostly white, but there were a few NA kids. Those kids got called to the principal's office all the time for minor to non-existant infractions. The idea was to harrass them into "going back to the rez."

Some public schools are excellent. Some are terrible.
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:08 PM
Response to Reply #93
114. keep tellin' 'em
Us old folks have to be good for something, even if it's just being constantly annoying.

Yup, there are actually reasons for things like a public school system, amazing though this may seem to people who think and look only as far back as their own brief life experience, as far around them as their own family circle and as far ahead as, well, tomorrow morning.

What your school system has to look forward to is what happens to any publicly-supported and operated system for the provision of essential services when the élite choose, and are allowed, to withdraw their participation and support from it. It, and the people who depend on it, are left by the wayside. And ultimately, the society whose overall success depends on them begins that long slide, if a new set of reformers don't come along and succeed in reversing it. How wonderful it would be if occasionally the pseudo-reformers would just listen to the old reformers in the first place.

This is what happened to Britain's National Health Service in the latter part of the last century. The better-off were allowed to go outside it for superior service ... and guess what? They didn't want to keep paying for it, to keep sharing the burden with the people who needed the NHS. I spent a few hours in an NHS hospital 10 years ago with my injured mother, and I was frankly shocked. And this is what we in Canada refuse to let happen to our own health system.

Anybody remember life before mandatory-contribution public retirement schemes? Nobody who does would ever support going back to a society that relied on discretionary individual provision for old age.

The schools will be absolutely no different. Unless the burden of educating children is shared by everyone -- parents, non-parents, future parents, former parents -- it will fail those who depend on it. And the instant one class of those people, the (economically, socially, intellectually) advantaged parents who think their children deserve better than other people's children deserve, is allowed to leave that system in large numbers, let alone encouraged to leave it by having their contributions refunded, the system is doomed.

These issues are not simply matters of ideology, of collectivism vs. individualism. They are core issues for the economic success of a society. The good health and education of all members of the society, and their ability to feed and house themselves, are the minimum basic, crucial factors in any society's development. And a society that does not agree that the burdens and benefits will be shared equitably in at least those minimum respects will remain, or sink back into, underdevelopment.

Basic lessons of history. Like you say. So say it loud!

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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:42 AM
Response to Reply #114
174. Ummm...Iverglas....
people who send children to public school pay to do so. People without children pay to send children to school. Rich people whose kids are in private school still pay into the public school coffers.

You sound like you're saying we should not only abolish home-schooling, but private schools as well. Screw that...
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:38 AM
Response to Reply #174
181. if you're not going to try to understand the post
... how 'bout you not waste both our time "replying" to it, eh?

"people who send children to public school pay to do so. People without children pay to send children to school. Rich people whose kids are in private school still pay into the public school coffers.

Duh.

And the rest of it goes like this: many of them do not want to.

And my point was this: when publicly-funded and -operated systems for the provision of services to the public lose the allegiance of a large segment of the public, particularly one that tends to be influential in public policy-making, and they opt out of participation in it, they can be expected to demand the ability to opt out of paying for it.

And I illustrated the foreseeability of this happening by citing the example of the British health care system, in which the better off (and less sick?) were given the ability to opt out, and then contributed to the degradation of the public system by opting out of paying for it at the ballot box.

Your public educational system is already seriously underfunded. There are already large numbers of people opting out of that public educational system, whether their choice be private school or homeschooling. Damned if I don't see a connection between those facts -- and not the "it's so bad I have to abandon it" connection so many here claim. I see the "it's so bad BECAUSE they abandoned it" connection.

If you don't see that connection, or choose to say you don't see it, I don't really care.

"You sound like you're saying we should not only abolish home-schooling, but private schools as well. Screw that..."

That would indeed be my personal preference (and screw whatever you like). Unlike some people, I don't always or automatically propose that my personal preference be made into public policy, i.e. law. So when you say that I "sound like" that's what I'm saying, all I can say is that you might want to test out some hearing aids.

In fact, I didn't say anything about what public policy I would propose. If asked, I would reply that the best answer is probably to improve the public system immediately and significantly; funding for the public school system should be increased (and, as I understand that problems in the US, locally-based funding should be replaced by equitable, broader-based funding formulas), just for starters. Sometimes carrots are useful when sticks are not appropriate; carrots also often achieve an objective where sticks would be counterproductive.

Taking the horse's blinkers off is also almost always helpful. Perspective -- looking at the past, and the big wide present outside that narrow field of vision, and engaging in informed and good faith speculation about the future -- can do wonders for one's ability to make good choices in the here and now.

The UK national health system is an object lesson in what happens when essential public services, for which burden-sharing and benefit-sharing are essential if good-quality services are to be universally available, are converted into discretionary purchases subject to the buyer's ability to pay. That is: an example of what can be expected to happen if the public school system, in which the burdens and benefits of the essential service (and fundamental right) of education are shared, is similarly made subject to market forces.

Your own history will show you that a good quality public education system has been crucial to the success of your society.

And armed with this information, and of course good faith, a little speculation would lead you to anticipate what is likely to happen if a critical mass of parents withdraws its children from the public school system in the US.

All I can do is point you to where to find the water. Can't take your blinkers off for you so you'd have to acknowledge seeing it, and can't make you drink it.

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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:46 AM
Response to Reply #181
182. Horseshit.
"And my point was this: when publicly-funded and -operated systems for the provision of services to the public lose the allegiance of a large segment of the public, particularly one that tends to be influential in public policy-making, and they opt out of participation in it, they can be expected to demand the ability to opt out of paying for it."

Tell that to people with no kids who have been paying to support the school system practically forever.
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berry Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 02:55 AM
Response to Reply #182
187. As a person "with no kids," may I refuse to be included in your example?
Supporting public education is not like buying a widget. I feel perfectly OK paying taxes for the education of other people's children. Frankly, I don't want to live in a country where educational opportunity is not available equally to all. (I know--it's not been perfect ever, but I believe it's fatal to give up on this ideal. I agree with Iverglas--totally. Only wish I could have expressed it as well. I especially agree that the funding should be not local, but at the state level, at least. It's obscene that suburban schools be like country clubs while inner city schools can hardly function for lack of funds. So in a way, this is like privatization. Those who could, withdrew and moved to the suburbs with the better schools, and stopped worrying about the city schools.)

I also think we need a national health system. Same reasons, plus the basic inhumanity of denying health care to those who fall through the cracks.

But as long as we're so big in the US on everybody going private and caring only for his/her own narrowly-conceived welfare, why stop with privatizing education and leaving health care in the mess it's in? Social security, medicare, prescription drugs, medicaid, aid to dependent children, even pensions for the military and government employees--why not scrap them all? And tell businesses they don't have to provide any of this either (except for the top execs, of course). Wouldn't that make for a lovely world? Everyone in their own private bunker.

Actually, my big gripe about taxes is all the money spent "defending" the US from imagined or self-created enemies. I wouldn't mind a modest military, but I do object to the public funding of the paranoid fantasies of neo-cons, hawks and others of their ilk. IMO, our security would be better served by spending most of the military budget on education instead (while doing a better job with diplomacy).
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 07:58 AM
Response to Reply #187
192. 'k
"Frankly, I don't want to live in a country where educational opportunity is not available equally to all."

So are you saying we should close all non-public schools?

What about specialized schools, like for the arts, or for the handicapped?

What ever happened to freedom of choice? If parents pay their share towards the public school system, but decide that they don't want to use it and instead want to pay more to send their kid elsewhere, why shouldn't they be able to? Or is it some kind of conscription idea, where everybody must be issued a public school "education, K-12, Mod. 0 Mark 1"?
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:38 AM
Response to Reply #192
213. Please stop the straw man horseshit
iverglass has already made it clear that he is not promoting a policy to close all non-public schools. If you can't respond to the points that were actually made, maybe you could be as consistent about not responding to arguments that nobody made.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:08 AM
Response to Reply #213
227. What Iverglas seems to be saying...
is that allowing students to opt out of the public school "experience" degrades that "experience" for those who don't opt out. She cites England's public health system as an example.

I don't have a problem with private schools or home schooling, as long as there are no decreases in public school revenues because of it. In fact, I'd ENCOURAGE home-schooling and private schooling, because it means a larger slice of the pie for the students that remain in the public school environment. If there are 5,000 school aged children in an area, and a thousand of them opt out, that means that there are only 4,000 students to be educated in public schools with the same amount of money.
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:15 AM
Response to Reply #227
228. Like I need you to interpet Iverglas
Edited on Wed Oct-15-03 10:17 AM by sangh0
You've did a crappy job interpreting Iverglas so far. Your latest effort is just as pitiful, as demonstrated by your use of the phrase "seems to be saying", when what you really meant was "seems TO ME to be saying"

IOW, your interpretation is more about your own (lack of) arguments, than what iverglas actually said.

Iverglas didn't say that sending your kid to a private school degrades the public schools system. S/He said that the decrease in the support for the taxes that pay for a public school system degrades the system.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:24 AM
Response to Reply #228
234. Iverglas said...
"And my point was this: when publicly-funded and -operated systems for the provision of services to the public lose the allegiance of a large segment of the public, particularly one that tends to be influential in public policy-making, and they opt out of participation in it, they can be expected to demand the ability to opt out of paying for it."

This suggests that in order to keep these people from trying to opt out of paying for the system, you might want to make it so that they can't opt out of the system at all. She opposes people opting out of paying for the system

Tell me, SanghO, do you actually think mandatory inspections of the residences of home-schoolers without suspicions of criminal activity would come even CLOSE to passing constitutional muster in the US????
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:29 AM
Response to Reply #234
239. More spin and "Iverglas seems to say"
this time phrased as "This suggests"

This suggests that in order to keep these people from trying to opt out of paying for the system, you might want to make it so that they can't opt out of the system at all. She opposes people opting out of paying for the system

It suggests that only to those to unimaginative to come up with more than one possible course of action, or those too emotionally wedded to their politics to take an honest appraisal of ALL the available options.

Another suggestion is to make the public school system every bit as good as private schools, thereby eliminating the motivation for why so many choose to home school.

Tell me, SanghO, do you actually think mandatory inspections of the residences of home-schoolers without suspicions of criminal activity would come even CLOSE to passing constitutional muster in the US????

Compelling interests
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:36 AM
Response to Reply #239
243. And how is that "compelling interest"...
any different from the state's compelling interest to apprehend criminals?
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:44 AM
Response to Reply #243
248. Ask a lawyer
I don't have the time to explain the obvious (ie. the differences between criminal and civil law) to the oblivious
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:45 AM
Response to Reply #248
249. I did...
he wrote the posts you read.
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:48 AM
Response to Reply #249
250. A REAL lawyer
not someone who goes on the Internet and pretends
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:49 AM
Response to Reply #250
252. Ummm....
how many Bars do I have to be a member of in order to become a "real lawyer"?
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:50 AM
Response to Reply #252
254. Just one
One real Bar
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:52 AM
Response to Reply #254
257. What, now you want me...
to fax you a copy of my State Bar card????

Heh...
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:55 AM
Response to Reply #257
260. more straw men
I never asked for you to fax me anything. I already have plenty of mouse pads
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:37 AM
Response to Reply #234
244. nope
Me: "And my point was this: when publicly-funded and -operated systems for the provision of services to the public lose the allegiance of a large segment of the public, particularly one that tends to be influential in public policy-making, and they opt out of participation in it, they can be expected to demand the ability to opt out of paying for it."

You: "This suggests that in order to keep these people from trying to opt out of paying for the system, you might want to make it so that they can't opt out of the system at all."

Of course the biggest reason for NOT saying that what I said "suggests" any such thing is that I HAVE SAID in response to that specific allegation that I DID NOT WANT TO "make" anything that way. Remember those carrots and sticks?

Keeping the quality of the public school system at such a level that most people want to keep their kids in it is the best way of preventing the kind of exodus that could be expected to undermine it to the point that it was no longer viable. Of course, doing that also protects the kids whose parents don't have options and ensures that they get decent educations and the all-round ability to be fulfilled and productive members of their society.

And it has all those wonderful fallout effects that have been mentioned in this subthread, like enhancing property values and quality of life for the entire community. Not to mention providing an educated electorate and labour force, thus enhancing the governance and economy of the society, and providing a larger and more stable income-tax base ... all the things that are the reason we have public schools in the first place.

It's really quite odd to interpret something that someone said as meaning something that it does not, on the face of it, mean ... and that s/he has already said it does not mean.

But hey, not unexpected.

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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:19 AM
Response to Reply #227
230. being hard of seeing and hearing
Edited on Wed Oct-15-03 10:19 AM by iverglas
... as you apparently are, I remain unsurprised at your allegations about what I "seem" to be saying.

"In fact, I'd ENCOURAGE home-schooling and private schooling, because it means a larger slice of the pie for the students that remain in the public school environment."

Yes indeed! That is EXACTLY how it worked when the UK allowed opting-out of the public health care system.

Thousands of patients opted out of the public pie, freeing up resources in that pie for the patients who remained. Patients who remained in the public system had quicker and easier access to doctors, beautiful new hospitals were built for patients in the public system, more staff were hired to provide care in those hospitals ...

NOT

Patients who remained in the NHS were left with hospitals like the one I took my mother to -- no ice to put on a head injury while waiting five hours to see a resident (and hell, no change so that I could buy cold Coke from the vending machine to put on her head, leaving me to bum spare change from the helpful but obviously poor folks in the waiting room -- except the ones arguing with themselves), no cleaning staff to remove the blood bled by ER patients on the floor and reception desk ... while my London friend's partner languished in a private hospital across town, with its sunny atrium and private rooms and posh catered menus.


What iverglas IS saying

is that allowing students to opt out of the public school SYSTEM can reasonably be expected to degrade that SYSTEM for those who don't opt out.

... not what you said I seemed to have said. Quelle surprise.


(omitted word inserted on edit)

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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:26 AM
Response to Reply #230
237. So...
"is that allowing students to opt out of the public school SYSTEM can reasonably be expected to degrade that SYSTEM for those who don't opt out."

You DO support banning the opting out of the public school system, right?
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:42 AM
Response to Reply #237
246. *Yawn*
So...You DO support banning the opting out of the public school system, right?

Iverglas also said "In fact, I didn't say anything about what public policy I would propose. If asked, I would reply that the best answer is probably to improve the public system immediately and significantly; funding for the public school system should be increased (and, as I understand that problems in the US, locally-based funding should be replaced by equitable, broader-based funding formulas), just for starters. Sometimes carrots are useful when sticks are not appropriate; carrots also often achieve an objective where sticks would be counterproductive.

I'll make you a deal - Tell me which word you didn't understand, and I'll explain how to look it up in the dictionary
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GinaMaria Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:47 AM
Response to Reply #182
218. I'm one of the people you
are speaking about.

I pay large amounts in property taxes that go into the public schools in my area. As a result, the public schools in my area are highly rated. People are climbing over each other trying to move into my neighborhood because of the schools. My property value has increased 4 times since I purchased, partially due to the public schools.

My property taxes have increased as a result of increased property values, but that money goes right back into the schools and again will increase my property value.

People without children in the public schools can benefit by paying for public education.

The problem with vouchers is that it takes the money I've paid into my neighborhood schools and gives it to private institutions which do nothing to add value to my home or community. Vouchers are a rip off to any non-parent paying for public education. (Got a little side tracked on vouchers, but it does fit with the discussion).

Vouchers are a repuke rip off scheme. Watch your property values plummet. Sorry, but I have no obligation to pay for a private or home school education for anyone. My civic responsibility is to pay for public education. In return for my participation, my property values increase.

Peace
Gina
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:02 AM
Response to Reply #218
224. Gina...
I have NOT suggested vouchers are a good idea, in fact I've stated on another thread that I oppose vouchers. However, I have no problem with a person who wants to go ahead and pay taxes to support the school system then not sending their kids to those schools, and paying more money to send them to the private school of their choice, or to home-school their kids.
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:20 AM
Response to Reply #224
232. More dodging and spinning
You completely failed to respond to the main point of Gina's post, which refuted your ridiculous claim that people with no children don't want to pay taxes for public education. Instead of acknowledging that your argument was blown apart, you used the distraction of vouchers to pretend that Gina didn't destroy your argument
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:29 AM
Response to Reply #232
238. Around here...
such groups of people will periodically try to "opt out" of paying for the school system. They meet insurmountable resistance, and never win. This doesn't mean that they aren't out there.
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:44 AM
Response to Reply #238
247. More spin
As GIna made clear, many never try to "opt out" because they recognize that a public educational system benefits everyone, including those who have no children.

Not that you'll ever admit your mistake. You'll just continue with the "Bring 'em on" approach
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:48 AM
Response to Reply #247
251. You're starting to bore me....
Zzzzzzzz...............
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:49 AM
Response to Reply #251
253. I'm not surprised
Facts are boring to some
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:51 AM
Response to Reply #253
256. You've offered opinion, not facts...
and misinformed opinion at that...
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:57 AM
Response to Reply #256
261. Uh huh
I must have missed where you explained why rental properties are subject to different rules. Oh wait! Here it is!

"Rental properties are subject to different rules because rental properties are subject to different rules"

Brilliant!!!
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:06 AM
Response to Reply #261
266. State Landlord-Tenant acts....
coupled with little things like the ICC...
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:10 AM
Response to Reply #266
267. What happened to the privacy???
I thought it was unconstitutional to search someone's private property without a reasonable belief that a crime occurred? How come you didn't say anything about the ICC when you were trying to push the idea that searching the home of home-schoolers was unconstitutional? Could it be you know that educating our children might also fall under the ICC?

Nah! It would be dishonest of a lawyer like you to withold relevant legal facts.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:22 PM
Response to Reply #267
277. Heh! See Lopez....
"Could it be you know that educating our children might also fall under the ICC?"

That's the case where the Gun Free School Zone Act was struck down as unconstitutional because....well, you know. ;-)

Last time I checked, home-schooling wasn't considered to be "commerce".
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:31 PM
Response to Reply #277
281. You checked?
Really? You wouldn't just be saying that in order to make a point that's not actually supported by any judicial decision, would you?

If not, can you cite the case where the courts found that home-schooling is NOT subject to the ICC?

Last time I checked, home-schooling wasn't considered to be "commerce".

And you wouldn't be ignoring the legal fact that the ICC is applicable to activities that aren't "commerce", would you? That would be dishonest for a lawyer to do that, wouldn't it?
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:39 PM
Response to Reply #281
282. nope...but I've read Lopez....
and if you had read it, you'd see that you're going to need something considerably more than just saying home-schooling affects Interstate Commerce to get it to stick...
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:24 PM
Response to Reply #282
288. So you admit deliberately posting inaccurate info
Edited on Wed Oct-15-03 01:27 PM by sangh0
and now you're gonna try and switch the burden of proof onto me with the straw man that I'm "just saying home-schooling affects Interstate Commerce (in order) to get it to stick"

You've made the assertions (about the unconstitutionality of inspecting the homes of homeschoolers) and so the burden of proof is on you. Instead of deliberately distorting the facts --like saying that property rights brings privacy rights that prevent any searches of homes when you know there valid legal justifications for searches-- why don't you defend your positions? If you won't even defend your own opinions, why should anyone believe anything you have to say?

Why should anyone believe you when you falsely claim that homeschooling is NOT subject to the ICC, when you know that no court has ruled that to be true?

Why should anyone believe you when you falsely claimed that you "checked" the law, and homeschooling wasn't subject to regulation based on the ICC?
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:44 PM
Response to Reply #288
296. they've never approached the subject....
Edited on Wed Oct-15-03 01:45 PM by DoNotRefill
primarily, IMHO, because Lopez struck down the federal law banning possession of firearms on school property due to the fact that Congress's finding that such legislation was permissible under the ICC was absurd. If they can't pass legislation regulating guns on school property (which is generally publicly owned) as being detrimental to interstate commerce, what on EARTH would make you think that they could do so to mandate in-home inspections for home-schooling using the same rationale?
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:57 PM
Response to Reply #296
301. But you said you "checked"!!!
Last time I checked, home-schooling wasn't considered to be "commerce".

Could it be that you, a lawyer, don't know that it's unethical to claim to have "checked" and found that "home-schooling wasn't considered to be 'commerce'" when the truth is:

1) You didn't "check"
2) The courts haven't decided either way on this issue

they can't pass legislation regulating guns on school property

Could it be that you, a lawyer, don't know that Lopez wasn't about "regulating guns on school property"?

On school property, guns ARE regulated - specifically, they're prohibited.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 03:15 PM
Response to Reply #301
306. Last time I checked...
you were neither paying me for legal advice nor a participant in a court case that I am involved with. In other words, please feel free to bite me. ;-)

Lopez was about extending the ICC to cover the regulation of conduct at schools, on the theory that education affects Interstate Commerce. It was held not to, which was an absolutely STUNNING reversal for the "expand the ICC" crowd, which had been growing in power since the days of FDR.
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 04:09 PM
Response to Reply #306
309. You need to check again
Lopez was NOT about "the regulation of conduct at schools". It was about the regulation of conduct NEAR schools"
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 05:55 PM
Response to Reply #309
314. So, do you now admit...
that the ICC doesn't stretch that far?
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sangha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:26 PM
Response to Reply #314
322. No, I don't
And as a lawyer, which you claim to be, you should know that this issue hasn't been decided by the courts.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:14 PM
Response to Reply #322
330. Heh...
While there hasn't been a case "on the four corners", there has been a case which comes close (although there's much less of a fundamental liberty interest in public than in the privacy of your own home). I've pointed it out to you multiple times in this thread. In light of Lopez, you're absolutely, positively fucking DREAMING if you think the ICC could be extended to somehow be applicable to inspection of home-schoolers without totally gutting Lopez, something I don't see this court doing. Given the rationale behind Lopez, can you come up with ANY plausible way for the courts to rule the way you claim to think they should?
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GinaMaria Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:49 PM
Response to Reply #232
284. Thanks
You nailed it. There's great benefit for people without children in the school system to financially support the schools. Right wing arguments conviently leave us out of the equation and discussion about schools. They talk alot about having parents decide, giving parents choices blah blah blah... These parents shouldn't get a choice about my tax dollars. Thanks again for pointing out that my post wasn't addressed.

Peace
Gina
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Frederic Bastiat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:32 AM
Response to Reply #181
208. iverglas, one thing I love about living in Canada
Edited on Wed Oct-15-03 09:34 AM by exCav
Is that sending the kids to a private school is affordable, I don't mind contributing to our crumbling public school system even though we have absolutely no intention of using it.
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:38 AM
Response to Reply #208
212. too bad
... you can't opt out of the health care system you despise, ain't it?

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Frederic Bastiat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:20 AM
Response to Reply #212
233. Oh well
Can't win 'em all

:-)
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:16 PM
Response to Reply #16
22. Wow!
I am so surprised that people on this board seem so ignorant about home schooling. I think it is a great option for people on the left. The no regulations, no standards and no help are absolute lies. And if you met my five and seven year old children you would change your mind about the socially inept label.
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Missy Vixen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 08:53 AM
Response to Reply #22
197. Really?
>The no regulations, no standards and no help are absolute lies.<

Let's talk about our neighborhood, shall we?

There are several homeschoolers in our development. Here's how it goes.

Family #1: Four children under 10. Dad works unbelievably long hours. Mom "homeschools", which consists of no structured time whatsoever. How do I know this? I've heard the "honey, go upstairs and finish a page of your workbook," multiple times per week while Mom wants to tell me the latest neighborhood dirt on the phone after 9 PM. The kids are very bright to begin with, but they do not socialize at all with other children, so it's difficult for them to find playmates. Mom pulled out of the local homeschooling collective -- she thought the other moms were "snotty".

Family #2: Won't public school their kids because the school will not indoctrinate with their fundamental, far-right-wing beliefs. Mom's not happy; her husband is so controlling that he's sealed them off from the entire neighborhood. Gee, I wonder what's going on.

Family #3: Daughter has Down's Syndrome. Mother is functionally illiterate and "homeschooling," which consists of taking her shopping, out to lunch, etcetera. Daughter is virtually uncontrollable at 11 due to NO discipline or behavioral expectations. Our district, though small, has an outstanding special education program. Mom and Dad, though, are convinced that the only acceptable school is the local private one. The private school told them that they'd take the daughter, but it would cost double the normal fees. As a result, she's still being "homeschooled".

Family #4: Family's here on a work visa. They have two other children in local schools and doing well. Youngest son, 12, is being "homeschooled" by a mom who has not adjusted well to life in the USA, and made sure that he didn't, either. She kept him home most of the first year they lived here because she was "lonely". He's been in some fairly serious trouble with the law over the past two years, and been kicked out of school numerous times for fighting with other children. I have no idea whether or not she's doing a good job with homeschooling, but it's tough to teach anything when one spends most of one's time trying to get the other neighbors to "keep an eye" on one's kids while you are off at the local restaurant visiting with others from your home country...

We know ONE successful homeschooling family. The mother has a teaching certificate and is a reading specialist. Their daughter has scored in the 95th percentile of standardized tests given yearly to homeschoolers in our state for the past seven years. The mother has school from 8 AM to noon during the school year; everyone who knows them also knows that they are not to be disturbed during school hours. Interestingly enough, the daughter has been asking to go to public school over the past couple of years; they're now discussing whether or not they want to send her to the local Christian private high school. This young lady is a walking, talking ad for the concept of homeschooling. Her mom makes it look easy, but I know that it has been hard work and her mother's structure and expectations that has brought this kind of success.

To finally get to my point, after observing numerous "homeschoolers" in both this neighborhood and our former one, it's difficult to believe that there is adequate oversight at all. For every homeschooling National Merit Scholar, I'm willing to bet that there are two or three kids who are getting little or no instruction, with no structure and no real measurable results. I also worry about those kids in households like #2 above; the only people who might get any indication or proof that something might be wrong at home are teachers.

Julie
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:25 AM
Response to Reply #197
236. What state is this?
You are acting like there is a national standard. You cannot say that there are NO regulations, NO standards, and NO help unless you know something about what each state requires. The generalizations are so frustrating. I submit two portfolios a year and visit with a state rep once a year. We have regulations, standards and help if we need it.
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July Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:59 AM
Response to Reply #197
263. Doesn't really prove to me the need for regulations
I believe parents should be free to take their children out of schools and do as they wish; most homeschoolers are dissatisfied with the system in the schools, so I don't see why the system that they dislike should oversee them or require them to follow its own standards. They are taking on the responsibility to do what they think is best, rather than handing it off to the schools. Examples of people who don't educate their children well (and what is the standard? -- a good education could be something quite different from what is offered in public schools) don't mean homeschooling must be regulated. Our very regulated public schools often produce poorly educated children, and, in fact, use some unqualified and poorly qualified teachers in doing so. I think high quality in public schools AND the choice to homeschool according to one's own lights would be the best situation.

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thinkingwoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:38 PM
Response to Reply #22
326. home school ignorance is pervasive here
Worse yet, the vast majority of people posting about it here have NO interest in educating themselves about the truth of homeschooling--good and bad.

It's infuriating.

I feel totally shut out by the left every time this subject comes up on this board. It's as if my life experience has no merit whatsoever.
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LARED Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:20 PM
Response to Reply #16
26. I guess it depends on how you define "mass"
Home schooling is way to hard of a job for it to become a mass movement. Of course there is always the chance that some that should not home school do, but most parents want a good education for their kids and as long a public schools are there that's where the kid will go.

I could see home schooling morphing into private local education cooperatives where parents are involved at all levels once more people grow dissatisfied with public schools.
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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:24 PM
Response to Reply #16
35. wow, a typical fallacy about home-schooling
"millions of socially inept (Not all, but can you imagine if a majority of American children were taught that way? <shudders> ) children?"

You seem to be under the (incorrect) impression that home-schooled kids don't have social activities and don't spend time with other kids. Do you know any families that home-school? I do, and every single one of them participates in activities and schooling with other kids. In fact, the home-schooling families I know send their kids to more extra-curricular activies (like sports, art classes, music classes, etc) than the non-home schooled families I know.
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NewYorkerfromMass Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:49 PM
Response to Reply #35
105. Socialization factor is a HUGE myth, yes
The kids get social interaction in a variety of ways.
and my sister's 3 home schooled kids are spectacularly brilliant if I do say so.
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Yupster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:14 PM
Response to Reply #16
118. Homeschooling is big out here
They are mostly in loosely tied groups through the churches. They get together at one house or another and the parents divide the work. Lots of field trips and picnics. Plenty of socialization. Plenty of friends, but the parents choose who they socialize with.

PS -- we are not homeschooling our own little one.
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gate of the sun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:10 PM
Response to Reply #16
136. fact is most homeschoolers have better education
than can be found at public school. Many parents buy curriculum's for their children.....Not many go cold turkey. Socialization for home schoolers is often created by a group that does outings and educational activities together, also many are also enrolled in other activities like gymnastics, art, music etc. Your child can get a much better education and more fulfilling socialization in a homeschooling situation. I think the curriculum and socialization in public school is inferior especially in regards to curriculum and the socialization that occurs in a group at school may not be what alot of parents want. I have homeschooled 4 children up to about age 9 for some of them I think it went very well and in some ways not so well for others.....but that may well have been the case in a public school as well. I have a 3 year old that I do not plan on going to public school ever and will be homeschooled a good portion of his life. YOu ever here of a book called the "dumbing of america" by (some New York teacher of the year.) I can't remember his name right now. an eye opener.. Also evolution's end by Joseph chilton Pearce. is a good one though not primarily anti-school.
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Bandit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:14 PM
Response to Reply #10
19. Study your history when school wasn't mandatory
No body "home schooled" The kids worked in the fields or around the house and did not get any schooling. Why would it be different now if there were no requirements? It is a race to the bottom if you ask me.
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Old and In the Way Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:45 PM
Response to Reply #19
102. exactly....
When public education is dismantled, we are on our way to 3rd world status.

I know there are good, motivated parents who have chosen to teach their kids at home. Some have done well, some haven't. Most don't get the socialization skills needed.

Make this the law of the land and watch this society go pfffft...
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Shrek Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:53 PM
Response to Reply #102
107. I'd like to see you back this up with some evidence, please.
Most don't get the socialization skills needed.

I am the parent of a home-schooled child and your assertion is exactly the opposite of my firsthand experience.
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seventhson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:05 PM
Response to Reply #102
133. I can tell you are the product of a typical miseducation
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 09:07 PM by seventhson
Your lack of tolerance and your ignorance is astounding.

I would have to say that you point of view is the STRONGEST argument for homeschooling I can think of.

Think on this for a second:

Homeschoolers pay taxes. Their children do not attend school -- so public education has MORE money for FEWER kids.

Modern education is really miseducation.

Those IN education KNOW that it is now almost ALL about George Dubya Bush's standardized testing and TRACKING for the whole population (just like Nazi Germany). EVERY CHILD left behind and EVERY child tracked and recruited into the New World Order.

UNSchooling is the wave of the future.

Teaching children to teach themselves EVERYTHING so they do not really NEED schools but can learn by DOING and studying what they want and need to know. The WHOLE WORLD becomes their school, yo.

Homeschooling HELPS reduce the stress on schools AND helps reduce the dependence of our children on a defunct and corrupt system.

YOU MUST be a public school miseducated individual. Otherwise your intolerance would not be so severe and you so uninformed
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poskonig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:15 PM
Response to Reply #9
20. Crippled by what? Lower public school costs?
I thinking people learning independently is great. Given the internet, homeschooling is a better option for students in the 21st century than the old 19th century factory model. Homeschooling is more interactive than sitting silently behind a desk for 8 hours, students have more information at their disposal, and students don't have the violence problems, bullying, et cetera, that are rampant in the public schools.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:17 PM
Response to Reply #20
23. Maybe so but school is just more than learning
Its interacting with others, school doesnt only teach you like facts and theories it teaches you how to work with others.
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poskonig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:20 PM
Response to Reply #23
25. Sitting in a desk quietly for 8 hours is not "socialization."
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 06:20 PM by poskonig
People have to raise their hands to speak, or even go to the bathroom in the public schools. Crikey! Public schools are clearly based on the old 19th century factory idea.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:24 PM
Response to Reply #25
34. Public schools are older than that
Ummm in public school there is class discussion you know. I don't generally mean socialization but working with people, you know like people skills that may help you out. The first public schools really started in the 1600's in New England I believe and it was Jefferson I think who supported a public school system.
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poskonig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:26 PM
Response to Reply #34
36. Have you been in a school lately?
Students have to raise their hands to speak in our system. How is that "socialization?"
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:34 PM
Response to Reply #36
42. Do you know how old I am? lol yes today
I am a student so dont tell me about what schools are like when I experience them daily. Actually we are allowed to have pretty open topics. I am not just talking socialization here.
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poskonig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:38 PM
Response to Reply #42
51. You are "allowed" to have open topics?
Your language betrays you. :evilgrin:
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:40 PM
Response to Reply #51
52. I am not the best writter in the world ya know
Besides imo you are sounding elitist just like Ive seen my private school friends act. Just because you had an awful time I see you mentioned doesnt mean everyone else is.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:45 AM
Response to Reply #52
175. "I am not the best writter in the world ya know"
Why is that? Could it be that you go to a public school? ;-)
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 08:02 AM
Response to Reply #175
193. DoNotRefill what a churlish post!
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 08:33 AM
Response to Reply #193
196. It was done in jest....
as I'm sure the spelling errors in Kleeb's post were done in jest (his other posts are much cleaner). I'da thunk the " ;-) " would have indicated that....
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:22 AM
Response to Reply #196
203. I'm an ex-HS English teacher. JK may not be great at composition,
but he is easily one of the brightest people and clearest thinkers on the DU boards. He could be a wonderful political writer with the right editor.

He never fails to astonish me with his intelligence; he's a perfect example of why the voting age should be lowered AGAIN.


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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:37 PM
Response to Reply #175
293. I write better when I take my time
and besides I dont write like that always, just quick talk. So to speak.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 04:05 PM
Response to Reply #293
308. John,
I took your spelling to be a joke, and not to be just typos, based upon your previous erudite posts. That's why I responded the way I did, with another joke post...
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 04:26 PM
Response to Reply #308
312. Its ok
I was just saying when I take my time, I can be pretty good at writing. No offense taken what so ever, I just dont like elitist shit being thrown at me, and you werent the one who mocked it, it appears konig did hopefully he was joking but some of the stuff said like "factory model" reminded me of what pissed me off so dearly the night my friends who are privately school bred insulted public school people. Its ok really. "ya" that was a quickie and a fool around. I am not that formal in my speak.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:16 AM
Response to Reply #36
201. Hah! (Laughs hysterically). JK IS in high school as we speak.
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:35 PM
Response to Reply #34
47. Have you ever been around any home schooled children?
eom
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:41 PM
Response to Reply #47
55. Have I?
Yes I have and I could qualify as a child myself, I am only 16, I know people who go to private, public, and are homeschooled. I've seen smart and dumb out of all.
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elfin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:49 PM
Response to Reply #34
106. As I recall
it was in 1619 in Massachusetts - first universal public schooling legislation.
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Old and In the Way Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:07 PM
Response to Reply #106
113. Have a friend in NH that lives in Lee.......
her house was supposed to be the 1st actual public school in America, I think.

It was Danial Webster's 1st school anyway and I think he's the father of the public education movement.
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Jen72 Donating Member (847 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:17 AM
Response to Reply #34
202. In may experience, class discussions usually only
involve the teacher and the more extroverted kids.
The quieter kids, get intimidated, if they have trouble speaking or reading in a group, they risk humilitation. Homeschooling can give a child an chance to develop comfidence in there skills. If they are inclined to be that quieter kids, they can get neglected in a public school. Also is a child has a learning difficulty public schools do not always have the resources to help that child.

I was a quiet kid, during class discussion I was so stressed worrying about being picked on and speaking in front of a class that pick on me, I learnt very little.
I wish I had good Homeschooling, public schooling is agreat thing but for a child it can also be hell day in day out.
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gate of the sun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:17 PM
Response to Reply #25
139. well said
n/t
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:31 PM
Response to Reply #23
39. John...there are many venues for that ...theater groups...little league...
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 07:22 PM by ElsewheresDaughter
soccer....dance ....arts, enviromental and acedemic camps of all stripes...networking with homeschooling group in your area re: science fairs and field trips....helping in local soup kitchens...food pantry...and community service...many places to learn social skills and working with others :7
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:38 PM
Response to Reply #39
50. I know that
but not everyone is going to volunteer. I dont have a problem with home schooling though, I think public education although it needs work is a good system.
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trogdor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:50 AM
Response to Reply #9
219. Consider the source.
Most of this "Homeschoolers do so much better" bullcrap comes from the same loony fundy right-wingers who think somebody with a 10th grade education is qualified to homeschool because she's the kids' mom.

I have two BS degrees, and I have reservations about it.
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jmowreader Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:10 PM
Response to Reply #1
14. Aargh. Tell us another freeper lie
There are homeschoolers that do better academically than public school students.

There are public school students that do better than homeschoolers.

To assume that all homeschoolers do better than []all public school students is hogwash.
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poskonig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:21 PM
Response to Reply #14
28. Statistically, homeschoolers do better than their public counterparts.
No one, even freepers, say *all* homeschoolers do better than *all* public school students. This is a strawman.
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:43 PM
Response to Reply #28
100. and statistically, whites do better in school than blacks
It's all a question of what conclusions one draws from the statistics, isn't it? And of course, of whether what one is comparing is two outcomes in which all other things are equal. Which they aren't when we compare the success rates of black and white students. And which they aren't when we compare the success rates of children educated at home and in the public schools.

Regardless of where a student is schooled, it is common knowledge that one of the best, if not the best, predictor of academic success is parental commitment to the child's schooling.

It might just be possible that the average homeschooling parent is more committed than the average non-homeschooling parent to the child's schooling. It just might be that the attitude of the parent, not the venue of the schooling, is key in that success.

There is also the obvious fact that children who are homeschooled tend *not* to have parents who are illiterate or unable to speak the dominant language of their society. The children who do have those parents -- who will obviously be lacking at least some elements of the crucial parental involvement in their education -- are pretty much all in the public schools. Skewing the success levels up for homeschooling, and down for public schooling -- because the comparison is made where all other things are not equal.

There is every reason to believe, from the available information and studies, that those children would do as well in the regular school system as they do in homeschooling, given the parents' commitment to their success and engagement with their education.

It's just amazing what ya can do with statistics when you try ... and especially when you start out by comparing populations where the results are largely pre-determined by bloody definition.

Hell -- with literate parents, who were fluent in the dominant language and committed to their children's academic success, who knows how much better those homeschoolees could have done in the public schools than stuck in that homeschooling backwater??

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goddess40 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 07:54 AM
Response to Reply #1
191. Because sometimes these children are being abused
Homeschooling can be the way to go for some families but the state has to protect all of its citizens, including children. In WI parents sign a sheet of paper saying that they will be respondsible for their children's education and that is it. I personally know a family that was 'homeschooling' because they were too lazy to get the kids off to school in the morning - there was no educating going on.
Child molesters and abusers also will sign their kids up for homeschooling to hide their dirty secret.
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maha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:24 AM
Response to Reply #1
204. The state has an interest
... in the lives of children, to be sure they are not being starved and beaten and locked in closets, for example. And we all have an interest in maintaining as high an educaton level in the U.S. as possible, for a lot of reasons.

The high academic achievements of home schooled children are based on the achievements before home schooling became a fad of the VRWC. It used to be the case that parents who home schooled were mostly exceptional, well-educated people.

In recent years. however, the religious right has brainwashed families into believing that no good Christian parent sends a child to public school. So these days parents who are barely literate themselves are home schooling.

You cannot tell me that barely educated, ignorant parents can properly teach their children. For these parents, the reason to keep their kids out of schools is not to educate them, but to keep them from being exposed to secular society.

Also, there is a concern that home schooling with no oversight at all could become an easy dodge for abusive parents to keep teachers from noticing their kids' bruises, broken bones, and malnutrition.

Oversight is required.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:54 AM
Response to Reply #204
258. There are methods of oversight....
that don't involve trampling on civil rights. One such example would be pupil testing on an annual basis OUTSIDE of the home.
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:02 AM
Response to Reply #258
265. A test? For being "Locked in closets"
to be sure they are not being starved and beaten and locked in closets

What kind of test can determine if a child has been locked in a closet?
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:48 PM
Response to Reply #265
283. Actually...
I was referring to a test to determine if the child was learning in accordance with accepted norms....
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:30 PM
Response to Reply #283
289. Another evasion from DNR
maha plainly and clearly spoke of inspections in order to check for child abuse/neglect. In response, you suggested a test, and once again you will prove yourself unwilling and/or unable to respond to the point that was actually made, and instead, post about irrelevancies no one made any mention of.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:54 PM
Response to Reply #289
299. There are two possibilities:
"The state has an interest in the lives of children, to be sure they are not being starved and beaten and locked in closets, for example. And we all have an interest in maintaining as high an educaton level in the U.S. as possible, for a lot of reasons."

Maha's point #1: The state has an interest in seeing that children are not physically abused.

With me so far? OK, if we're looking at the State's interest that children not be abused, then why not mandatory visits for ALL families with abusable-aged children? Oh, yeah....no probable cause, and all those silly Constitutional protections...

Maha's point #2: The State has an interest in seeing that education levels are maintained.

Fair enough. In that case, give them tests once a year.
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 02:01 PM
Response to Reply #299
303. And you skipped past the one maha emphasized
as is typical, you pretend to address the poster's main point by distraction and evasions. In this case, you raise the straw man argument of "mandatory visits for ALL families with abusable-aged children" which no one but you raised and is irrelevant to this issue. There's no need to inspect the homes of public school students because the students are accessible for inspection every school day.

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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 03:21 PM
Response to Reply #303
307. How do you get that?
"There's no need to inspect the homes of public school students because the students are accessible for inspection every school day."

What about weekends and summer vacation? Where's your constitutional authority to invade home-schooler's homes for inspection? Child abuse is a crime. If your purpose is to check for child abuse, then all the standard constitutional protections apply.
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 04:13 PM
Response to Reply #307
311. More evasions from DNR
The effects of abuse and/or neglect don't disappear over the weekend. Inspections during class hours is sufficient. Summer vacation is irrelevant because school is not in session and public school students aren't accessible to school officials either.

Where's your constitutional authority to invade home-schooler's homes for inspection?

Simple. The place where ALL constitutional authority comes from -the Constitution.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 05:58 PM
Response to Reply #311
315. Fine...
Edited on Wed Oct-15-03 06:07 PM by DoNotRefill
"Simple. The place where ALL constitutional authority comes from -the Constitution."

In that case please quote the relevant section that gives the Federal government the authority to require mandatory home inspections for all homeschoolers.
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MrBenchley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:38 AM
Response to Reply #1
245. Ask the McGuckins...
who ended up in a feces-filled shack armed and afraid...

Or Andrea Yates' kids...I'm sure they were outdoing public school kids up to the end...

By the way, how do we KNOW homeschoolers do better academically than their counterparts in the public schools?
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 05:56 PM
Response to Original message
2. You got me even though I know some people who are
Interesting really, both now go to Catholic school, now one no offense to him isnt so bright but hes a good kid I like him, and hes not as elitist as the other, now the other kid gets good grades in Catholic school, finds me a dummy because of my public school breeding, and I consider elitist. It depends really and both of these kids live in my neighborhood.
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 05:56 PM
Response to Original message
3. What does home schooling have to do with
Having a background check?
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dofus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 05:56 PM
Response to Original message
4. How can we insure that
kids in traditional schools are being taught well?

In some cases home schooled kids are way ahead of their counterparts in regular schools. Others don't learn a thing. Some states require that the home school register itself with the state and that the kids take standardized tests those years. It's a state by state thing.

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Jen72 Donating Member (847 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:25 AM
Response to Reply #4
205. I remember having a bizarre supply teacher who late
got done for sexual assault at a local boy's high school.
The sad thing is that whether a child is homeschooled or at a public
school, the risk of abuse it there. Background checks and qualifications will not always protect people.
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kiahzero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 05:56 PM
Response to Original message
5. Sane requirements
How about making sure the parents are at least somewhat qualified to teach?

Make it harder to home school, so you can't just take your kids out because they teach "godless evolution"?

The whole home-schooling movement disturbs me. There's a reason we train teachers. It's not something anybody can pick up and do.
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poskonig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 05:58 PM
Response to Reply #5
6. My sister was secularly homeschooled.
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 06:03 PM by poskonig
I don't appreciate having my independent minded family lumped with the religious wackos. I hated High School and had the option of going to college or homeschooling at 16, and I chose college.

I'd also add that elementary education majors sometimes are not the brightest people in the world. Their training is focused on crowd control and less on hard knowledge. I remember my sixth grade teacher telling my class about evolution. "What did the cell decide to do, grow a head one day?" he told us, mocking the central principle of biology.
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kiahzero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:30 PM
Response to Reply #6
38. I'd argue that
You made the better choice, assuming that your sister had the same choice.

Note that I did not say that all homeschoolers were religious, but rather, that I don't feel that the school teaching a subject you don't like is a valid reason for pulling your kids out of school.

I'd also add that elementary education majors sometimes are not the brightest people in the world. Their training is focused on crowd control and less on hard knowledge. I remember my sixth grade teacher telling my class about evolution. "What did the cell decide to do, grow a head one day?" he told us, mocking the central principle of biology.

Yes, but how many teachers did you have in sixth grade? I know I had somewhere around 8. Ultimately, the odds are good that you'll have several well-qualified teachers in a institutional setting. The odds aren't quite as good with parents teaching their own children.
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poskonig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:34 PM
Response to Reply #38
45. My experience was rotten.
I went to a Lutheran school from K-3, so when I went to the public schools after that, the standards were lower across the board. There was a *lot* of fighting, the academics were inferior, the faculty were lamer, et cetera. And these were Illinois "blue ribbon" schools, too.

If I had to do it over again, I'd have my parents homeschool me K-12, and then I would go to college.
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kiahzero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:43 PM
Response to Reply #45
57. My experience sucked too
I flipped between two different school systems (one in VA, one in RI, back to the same one in VA), the second time in the middle of the school year.

But I'd hesitate to say that I could have come out much better. <ego>I like to think of myself as a rather smart guy, and most of the people who know me would agree</ego>. Perhaps it is egoistic of me to assume that just because I made it through public school, that everybody else should be OK too.

I do think that it takes training to teach, if only because I've tried to tutor people, and often failed miserably. I know the stuff inside and out, but trying to express it to others can be incredibly frustrating.
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Jen72 Donating Member (847 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:45 AM
Response to Reply #57
216. I have friends that teach at London schools.
They hate teaching because the kids do not want to learn.
One friend said he hasn't really been able to teach all this term because the kids are so continually disruptive. Many kids just can not stay still and quiet for long enough to get a class going.
Other friends have told me about sexual harassment by the pupils to the teachers, fighting, bullying, kids that go home at night to mothers on Crack or on the game. My friends are aged between 26 and 32, not one of them wishes to stay in teaching, they are so dispondent about their jobs.
My point is that the kids are getting tougher to teach, it isn't just funding or quality teaching that stop kids from getting a good education. I don't know if teachers in the US have similar problems, whether the teachers grow to hate their jobs too.
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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:46 PM
Response to Reply #38
60. What makes a teacher well qualified?
"Ultimately, the odds are good that you'll have several well-qualified teachers in a institutional setting. The odds aren't quite as good with parents teaching their own children."

A degree in Education? There are lots of teachers well-educated in "Education" and woefully lacking in knowlege of the subject they are teaching. And don't tell me that an Education major is smarter than you're average person, I've known too many of them :)
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kiahzero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:57 PM
Response to Reply #60
71. Education majors alone are sometimes bad
But Education + Subject X majors aren't. As I said above, knowing a subject isn't enough to be able to teach a subject.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 06:03 PM
Response to Reply #71
316. I'm a certified HS English Teacher in AZ. In Arizona,
HS teachers are required to major in their subject field and minor in education (might be the reverse; it's been a while) to graduate with a teaching degree.

I no longer teach, but without both the subject background and the education background, I couldn't have done it.
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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:37 PM
Response to Reply #316
325. Many of my my public school teachers were great
A few of them were great, most were mediocre, and some were horrible. I fully support public schools and teacher's unions, and I oppose any schemes to try to destroy public education and hurt education workers - vouchers, corporate schools, privatized eduction, and the rest of that crap.

But leave homeschoolers alone, they aren't hurting anyone. Parents have a right to keep their kids out of school and government shouldn't be forcing families to do it.

I have a unique perspective on K-12 schooling - I went to a private elementary school, was home schooled for a year, and graduated from public high school :)

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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:01 PM
Response to Reply #5
7. WRONG!!!!
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 06:03 PM by pbl
Do you even know anything about home schooling or how children learn. Why make a sweeping generality about people who choose to home school.

You say that teaching children is not something that anybody can just pick up and do. I really do wonder how children ever learned before schools were forced upon us.

On Edit: A couple of authors you may want to check out are John Taylor Gatto and John Caldwell Holt. They may be able to enlighten you on how children learn and why our current way of teaching children is failing so miserably.

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kiahzero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:38 PM
Response to Reply #7
49. ...
I really do wonder how children ever learned before schools were forced upon us.

Am I reading this correctly by assuming that you think mandatory education is a bad thing? If so, please elaborate; I don't understand what you're trying to say.
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Xithras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:48 PM
Response to Reply #49
63. Mandatory education? No. Forced public education? Yes.
There's a BIG difference between the government saying "Every child must be educated" and "Every child must be educated by the state". Government mandates that children should be educated for one reason: Uneducated children become uneducated adults, who are often unemployable and are likely to turn to crime or welfare for substinence. It is, therefore, in everyones public interest to make sure that ALL of our children are educated.

But why should it matter to you or me HOW they're being educated, so long as they are? I do agree with yearly testing, BTW, but it's rather totalitarian for the government to step in and dictate the finite details of its citizens lives.
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:53 PM
Response to Reply #49
68. My point is that I wonder
how children ever learned before mandatory education came along? Not trying to be extreme, just wondering why so many people feel that public or private schools are the only options.
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kiahzero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:00 PM
Response to Reply #68
74. I think
Religious education, mainly, with some supplemental education sometimes; I'm not a historian, but I recall from my history classes that it was mainly either you learned the family trade or worked as an apprentice.
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jmowreader Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:58 PM
Response to Reply #68
157. They didn't necessarily need to
I come from down in the valley
Where mister, when you're young
They bring you up to do
Like your daddy done


Fifty or a hundred years ago, you didn't necessarily need an education. Yeah, if you were going to be the doctor or the banker, you'd go away to school and come back to ply your profession. But if your dad owned the livery stable or the smokehouse, as soon as you were able to hold a hammer or a pork shoulder, you'd be learning your trade. Apprenticeship, they called it, and it ended as soon as your dad decided he didn't want to work anymore (or he got killed or dropped dead). Nine years later, after your own son could hold a hammer or a skinning knife, he'd be learning his trade from you.

You could apprentice to other people too...if you were one of five or six sons, you might be learning to make tinware or shoes for the tinner or cobbler who just happened to be blessed with seven girls. But that's how people learned in those days.

The problem with that line of reasoning is that if your dad wanted you to follow him in the tugboat-pilot trade and you wanted to be a silversmith, there'd be trouble.

Also, forget the "finer points" of life--while you were learning just the proper mix of sugar, salt and saltpeter to make that ham taste like it has for six generations, you certainly weren't learning anything about the humanities.

There are still apprenticeships available, but they're few and far between. These days, you go to community college to learn how to cook instead of slinging hash in the family restaurant. Hence, education is now a necessity.
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Yupster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:23 PM
Response to Reply #7
120. An interesting question?
Would I rather my kid is in a class with 21 other kids with a qualified teacher who marches the kids up Bloom's Taxonomy, or

Would I rather my kid taught with his sister (only child in my kid's case, but) by a mother who doesn't know educational theory but loves them both more than anyone in the world.

I think they'd be fine homeschooling, especially if they were part of a homeschooling group.
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gully Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:08 PM
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11. I considered Homeschooling, and have not ruled it out...
I know there are many concern's surrounding the issue, but it can be a very wonderful experience for a family.

Traditional public schools shove kids behind a desk for 6 hours and expect them to 'learn' something? This is so anit-nature for kids KWIM? In addition, children can treat eachother with such disregard. Did anyone hear about the 12 year old who hung himself recently due to being 'teased'?

Children can learn at home in 2 hours, what it takes in 6 hours at school. In addition, children learn 80% of what they are interested in and about 20% of what they are not...

There are many good reasons to homeschool.

http://www2.netdoor.com/~nfgcgrb/brohshecm.html
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:12 PM
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18. You are right.
You may be interested in a book that I'm reading by Grace Llewellyn and Amy Silver called "Guerrilla Learning."
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madfloridian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:59 PM
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73. In FL parents get public school money for this.
That is what worries me. I have taught many excellent students who were home-schooled.

What worries me is that fact that public school money is going for it, with no accountability required in some cases.

How can there be public schools left when they are taking the money from them to give to charter schools, home schools, and private schools?

So many of the programs for home-schooling are put out by fundamentalists, extreme ones. That worries me, as the goal of this administration is to get them while they are young.

If the parents want to teach them religion, well and good. So many of the ones I taught by 6th grade were totally intolerant, very anti-social, and their parents were unaware. Try telling parents that their child is those things. Not good.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:31 PM
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92. madfloridian say what? in NY homeschoolers get nothing/ no help and
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 07:33 PM by ElsewheresDaughter
the school district still gets my $1,700 a year school taxes
i requested use of the science lab so that my son could meet the state requirements...school said NO!
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madfloridian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:45 PM
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101. I know the virtual school parents do, and I have read of others.
This may fall under William Bennett company's corporate vouchers, which still in the long run take money which would have gone to education. Computers are delivered to the parents, books, materials. Qualified counselors in the public school do monitor them a little, which takes more money.

There are several other ways this may be done, but I need to find the articles.

Don't get me wrong, I am not against home-schooling. I am against the death of the public schools. As a retired teacher, I am against the lack of standards of voucher students whose name may never be revealed.

If you are home-schooling, they should provide something. I can see both sides. I just think our country should provide an education. The schools can't do it here in Florida anymore. It is one of the biggest losses our country can suffer. It did not have to be.

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kdmorris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 06:24 PM
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320. Not ALL FL Parents who homeschool get money
Two of our daughters do go to the Florida Virtual High School ( http://www.flvs.net/_florida_services/index_fls.htm ), which is not the same as the other that William Bennett runs. The other daughter, we still make lesson plans for ourselves. We receive no money or help of any kind from the state or anyone else. And we still pay our property taxes to support the public schools.

In general, with regular homeschooling, you don't get anything in FL, except that your children do still have the right to participate in public school extra-curricular activities (the ones Jeb Bush hasn't gutted yet).

You are required to take your children to be evaluated by a teacher every year and maintain a portfolio for them. But the state of Florida doesn't supply books, computers, or help of any kind that I've ever heard of (after 4 years of homeschooling), with the exception of the one program run by William Bennett that just started this year.

Karen
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Shanty Oilish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:17 PM
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138. In PA cyber-homeschoolers get a FREE computer, printer, books...
...the works. Same in Wisconsin and probably a few other states. Use a state-chartered school for the curriculum and the freebies, teach the kid yourself, and the school district pays the bill.
Examples at www.connectionsacademy.com and www.pavcs.org
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madfloridian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:20 PM
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141. Thanks, I was not sure about other states.
I think Connections is the Bill Bennett company, and he has truly benefitted from his connections I would say.

Yes, the ones here get a new computer as well.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:31 PM
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147. dang not only did i not get any aid from NY DOE for my school taxes
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 09:32 PM by ElsewheresDaughter
$1,700...but i had to purchase all my childrens text books and materials from pocket...another $700 to $800 anually...and thats how it should be if you choose to homeschool...no money should be taken away from the public schools children to support my choices
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trogdor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:30 AM
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240. I'm not so sure about that.
I think taxpayers should expect some value for what they pay in taxes.

I wouldn't expect NY DOE to bend over backwards, but there should be some give and take, for example:

There should be some certification process for parents. That'll shut a lot of people up about what I like to call 'homeskool.' You don't meet the minimum requirements - your kids take their asses to public school, end of story.

The curriculum should be subject to review by the state DOE, and should meet certain minimum standards.

The kids get tested BY THE STATE EDUCATION DEPARTMENT every year. You do not get to proctor the test. You don't get to watch your kids take the test, or be in the same room. You wait in the waiting area until the kids are done, the STATE, not you, get to evaluate the results, and if the kids don't pass, your homeschool program goes 'poof.'

What the local district should provide to YOU is the loan of any and all textbooks and other class materials the other kids get to use. The cost for running off copies of course outlines is minimal, and besides, YOU paid for the damn things. You SHOULD be able to use them. In my ideal school district, all this stuff would be online anyway, so nobody would have to worry about the 59 cents' worth of copier toner.

Since use of science labs requires supervision and contains certain potentially hazardous materials, schools should be exempt from allowing homeschoolers to use them. Sorry. You can't have everything in Why's Libertarian Socialist Republic.

Your kids should be eligible to sit for the Regents exams on an equal basis with his public school counterparts. There is NO reason why homeschoolers should not be eligible to get a Regents diploma. None at all. You can homeschool yourself through college via Excelsior College or SUNY Empire State College and get a real diploma, why can't someone who successfully homeschools through high school?

So, what would the result be if Why were to get elected Governor and his progressive, common-sense platform is implemented? Well, you wouldn't have quite as many people doing their kids injustice by subjecting them to ill-run homeschool programs, but you would have the remaining programs much better organized because parents get the guidance they've been screaming for and the oversight they need to keep everything above board.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:53 AM
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176. Draftcaroline....that first site you linked to says it's still....
Edited on Wed Oct-15-03 01:03 AM by DoNotRefill
public school, the kids are just cybercommuting. I'm pretty sure the county ends up saving money by not having to provide a building for the students that do that. Schools are expensive to build.
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thinkingwoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:22 PM
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30. You need to get better informed
My children are not homeschooled because I fear the teaching of "godless evolution."

They are homeschooled because they both possess genius IQs and were withering away in public school for years.

They are homeschooled because ALL the PUBLIC schools in this area (actually within a 50 mile radius) are filled with God talk and I wanted my kids to focus on math and literature and history and science.

They are homeschooled because my 1st grade son was beat down by a gang of girls and lost a tooth and the teacher grilled him for an hour demanding to know what HE had done to provoke them.

They are homeschooled because my genius IQ son was bored to tears in 2nd grade and would not sit still and his teacher demanded I put him on Ritalin "or else."

I've got a news flash for you. We don't train teachers in this country. I come from a family and in-law family of teachers and we all agree the public school system is horribly broken. Don't blame homeschoolers. Blame ignorant knee-jerk reactions to new ideas and honest criticism.
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kiahzero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:35 PM
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46. See above
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 06:35 PM by kiahzero
1) I agree the public school system is flawed. The answer is not to pull out of the system and see if you can do a better job by yourself.

2) Note that I didn't say all children were homeschooled because their parents were scared of evolution. I said that shouldn't be a valid reason for pulling your kids out.

3) Your first grade son had every reason to be pulled out; If it were me, I would have tried to find a private school. However (I'm assuming you're in the South, based on your description of the school system), it's hard to find a good private school that isn't religious, and it is expensive. So I can understand the home schooling there. As for your other son, it is possible to buck the system. My parents did it for me - as I recall, my situation was very close to the one you described back when I was in second grade.

4) As for training teachers, surely you agree a college education is generally superior to no college education? Again, not saying that all homeschoolers are taught by people without college educations, but I know of too many who are.

On edit: typo
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thinkingwoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:52 PM
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327. I'm in the Midwest
Edited on Wed Oct-15-03 09:53 PM by thinkingwoman
Schools are bad all over.

As for "bucking the system" my husband and I and our two kids struggled to buck the system for years and finally realized we didn't have to beat our heads against the wall anymore.

We have no regrets for our decision and fewer stomach aches all around.

Finally though, I must ask. Why do you believe I should have sacrificed my kids to the public school system? Why is the answer "not to pull out of the system?"

I have encountered this attitude before and I cannot comprehend it. As a parent, my job is to give my children the best possible start in life. Public school would NOT be the best. So I should have left them in a substandard situation for the good of the system?

No way. My kids deserved better and they have it.

P.S. edited to correct bad typing
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July Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:15 AM
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268. Have you checked out some of the teachers out there?
Before all the teachers at DU get annoyed, let me say that I agree teaching is a tough job, and that not only were both of my parents teachers but I have taught, as well (college, not public school), and have about 30+ teachers among my cousins. However, I have been severely disappointed by some of the teachers I have come across in my children's schools (all of them in supposedly good districts). Some of the teachers are simply uneducated, despite their degrees, and a few have gone wild on the relative freedom a teacher has in a classroom. I have seen some real martinets out there, and I pity the children who suffer under their control.

Because I know quite well what teachers go through on a daily basis, it pains me tremendously to have to tell my children "your teacher is wrong" when they come home with factually incorrect information, examples of their teachers' incorrect grammar, or improperly graded tests. Some teachers have only a modest knowledge of their subject matter (in higher grades) because they haven't majored in the subject but in "education." Many children would be better off with their parents -- including parents without college degrees -- than with SOME of the teachers out there (again, I don't want to paint all teachers with a broad brush).

My mother, who taught for many years in a sizeable city's public schools before becoming an administrator in the same system, says that if she had young children today, she WOULDN'T send them to the public schools, BECAUSE OF the teachers. Since she directly supervised scores of them (and worked with them before becoming a principal), she's in a position to know. It's a crap shoot sometimes.
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dreissig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:24 PM
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331. Parental Control
When parents decide what they want their children to learn, those children don't learn things those parents consider bad for their chilren.
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in_cog_ni_to Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:08 PM
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12. I think some states require
that the children be tested and the tests must be sent to the state education dept. I do believe, in Illinois, that the school must be notified that you are home schooling and then they give you all of the requirements needed for each class, grade etc. or you can get the information from the State Education Dept. I don't know what they do if the tests aren't sent in or if the child is doing poorly.

I do know that homeschooled children tend to far exceed public school kids in academics.

But, I don't think any parent has to be certified or have background checks.

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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:21 PM
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27. NY only requires a letter of intention to home school , your IHIP ....
(individual home instruction plan) and quarterly report (your childs grades)....assessment test at 4th and 8th grade level.
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Malva Zebrina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:09 PM
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13. who does the home schooling?
a mother who can afford to stay home and do it. A mother whose husband has the total burden of support. The rest have to send their kids to a school, while they go out to work so that they can pay their mortgage and the bills. That says to me that home schooling is just another form of the elite looking out for themselves-- which imo is just another form of "I got mine" and the hell with the rest. I think this attitude does not bode well--because the entire society will have to depend upon each other-- the home schooled will someday have to depend upon the less than fortunate public schooled individual for his support and for his survival. So therefore, it is is the best interest of everyone that they vigorously pursue and defend a well supported public education.
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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:22 PM
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29. Do you know any families that home-school?
I know a number of them.

"home schooling is just another form of the elite looking out for themselves"

You obviously are not familiar with many, if any, home-schoolers.
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Malva Zebrina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:02 PM
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76. It is fine if the family can afford it and the mother is educated herself
enough to perform that task. For those who are not, for those who are striving to upgrade beyond the talents of the mother who may not have a good or a firm grasp on say, the English language, it is not the same. Immigrants to this country, traditionally have been those who perhaps did not have a firm grasp on the language and who HAD to depend upon public schooling to propel their children upward as they desired most sincerely--and THIS has been the strength of this country in it's melting pot democracy. In the long run, even the home schooled, who think they have avoided the "perils" or the "evils" of the public school system (those ignorant teachers)that does not afford THEIR precious,and most intelligent little boy Johnny or little girl Jill, the first place in the class, as THEY know their children deserve above all the other children in the class,
, will have to, inevitably, need to depend upon those "others" who are public schooled.

A society is a web, an interweave. I believe that working for a school system that supports all--is the best. It is NOT, imo, in the best interest of society, for some to get better because thier mothers can afford to stay at home and not work, while others do not, This is NOT in our best interest) as a society. It might be in YOUR best interest for YOUR child in the immediate perception of what it BEST for YOUR child, but in the long run, it is not in the best interest of society and therefore not in the best interest of your child. Eventually YOUR child, as he 0r she grows, will depend upon others for his or her best interests in life. It is NOT, imo, the best thing for each to take care of ITS own--because in the long run, your children will need to depend upon those others for their happiness and their survival.
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Xithras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:16 PM
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84. What kind of twisted logic?!?!
"It is NOT, imo, in the best interest of society, for some to get better because thier mothers can afford to stay at home and not work" ... "It might be in YOUR best interest for YOUR child in the immediate perception of what it BEST for YOUR child, but in the long run, it is not in the best interest of society"

On the contrary, it is in the best interest of society for every child to be educated to their best and fullest abilities. For some children that means a public school education, for others a private school education is preferable, and for many, 1-on-1 or home schooling is the best option. What's important here is that the education of no child should ever be sacrificed for the good of "society", because a highly educated child is potentially more beneficial to that society than a moderately educated one.

If a parent can offer their children educational opportunities above and beyond what our public schools are capable of offering, then we should ALL be supportive of that. After all, that kid could grow up to be the next Einstein, Von Braun, Beethoven, or Salk. Education is the key to improving our society, and NO educational system should be ignored or regulated if it WORKS. The numbers prove quite clearly that home schooling does work, and that it does have a place in our society.
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Malva Zebrina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:10 PM
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116. to quote
"On the contrary, it is in the best interest of society for every child to be educated to their best and fullest abilities. For some children that means a public school education, for others a private school education is preferable, and for many, 1-on-1 or home schooling is the best option"

And for those whose mothers can afford to stay home eight hours a day, then that is an advantage, certainly. Of course, it is NOT viewed as elitist--it is viewed as the "best interest" of the child when the mother can be at home and be supported by a husband, is it not? -and that child who is kept at home under Mommy's wing, does NOt get along in a public school at all, is that correct?--the teacher does not understand the child's needs--or the teacher is not giving attention to the child's genius abilities--or the teacher is not qualified or for some reason does not recognize the genius they see before them--ie your child--anything to make an excuse for the child not being able to adjust or learn in a social situation--or the parents not being able to adjust to the fact that their little "genius" is not being given his or her "due" by the teacher--who does not recognize that this child needs something the other children do not.

Sorry, but home schooling is elitist--and your child is the most important to you--of course. There was a tinme when the public school was an institution that was the ideal for a country like this--it is now an embarrassament--and it was done on purpose.
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Old and In the Way Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:29 PM
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122. I postulate that the reason is our social policies in the past 30 years
have underfunded public education. Simply look at our federal spending priorities to see where we make our future investment.

Sad that in 30 years we won't have enough smart people to maintain our defense investment.

If we founded public education the way we should, we wouldn't have this debate.
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Xithras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:45 PM
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154. Different children have different learning requirements
FYI, I'm being a mouthpiece for my wife on this one. She's got a Masters in early child development, helped establish our new local Head Start program, and has been an elementary public school teacher for years. If you really want to argue and stubbornly stick to the belief that shoving all kids into some kind of 30 kids to a teacher, 1 size fits all, standardized curriculum state school is the "ideal", and that all kids are going to "adapt" to it, then I'm not going to argue with you. I'm simply going to tell you that you're wrong.

Homeschooling works, and there's nothing "elitist" about giving your children the best. In fact, I'd say that, as parents, it's our DUTY to give our children every advantage we can manage.
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Malva Zebrina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 05:30 PM
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313. Yeah, except that your master's degree wife is able to stay at home
and teach her own children. Others, whose intelligence quotient may be even above that of your very degreed wife who is able to stay at home and teach her children better than any teacher in any public school can, because, of course, she recognizes that her own children will do better without all of that competitition in a classroom situation, because perhaps her own children deserve ALL of the attention of the teacher and this should not be shared with other children who OBVIOUSLY are not as SMART as the child of the "degreed" mother and father, and will do better without the teacher who has to teach ALL of those children, some of whom may actually have more talent and more intelligence than the "degreed" parents, but who do not have the luxury of the home sc hooling of the stay at home mom who is supported by the husband, so who can teach her children exclusively away from any competition. This is elitist. It is ONLY the parent who can afford a father who can support them all tha can devote all of their attention on educating their own children, separate and apart from those who MUST attend a public school in order to learn how to read and write. It IS elitist. It IS separation, puposefully, away from those "others"
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Old and In the Way Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:23 PM
Response to Reply #76
119. Sorta like a business outsourcing.
May be good individually to do it.....but the problem is when every country decides to outsource their production.

I think you really hit the nail on the head. A society of totally home schooled is going to produce a lot of unintended consequences.
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Heddi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:35 PM
Response to Reply #76
127. have you never heard
of NIGHT JOBS?

I know several people that home-school, and one parent works during the day while the other homeschools, and the one that homeschools works at night while the other is there with the kid.

NONE of the people I know are what you'd call 'elite'---in fact, they're just regular working Joe's and Jane's like everyone else. They struggle to pay bills, they do the best that they can to keep their family strong, and they're doing quite a good job at it.

One of my friends (who has no education aside from attending a community college back in the early 90's) homeschooled her daughter. At age 16, she (the daughter) took the SAT and scored a 1550 on it. When she entered college, she was able to audit both a bio 101 and a chem 101 class because of what her mother taught her.

When she compared what SHE knew and was learning vs. what her friends knew and were learning, she was YEARS ahead of them.

And again, I stress---both parents in the household worked full-time jobs 5 days a week. They were not rich, affluent, or elite. They were just doing what was best for their child. And their child got a much better education than she ever would have going to a public school
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:21 PM
Response to Reply #76
142. right on
All of it. (I was saying much the same to Old and in the Way up the board a bit.)

And also, what a fortuitous "unintended consequence" of it all -- all those women removing themselves from the labour force "voluntarily". (Funny how it's mothers who do the homeschoolin', eh?) And being economically dependent on men. The economically dependent just aren't in a position to make many demands, individually or as a class.

Yup, there were reasons why women once demanded the ability to be economically independent, just like there were reasons why people fought for mandatory school attendance and free, publicly-operated schools.

But they (we) were really just deluded.

True freedom for cihldren doesn't lie in having an education and growing up to be members of an educated society; it doesn't lie, for women, in being able to support themselves and their families, and participate in the economic life of their society. No, it lies inside the nuclear family and its four walls, where children's educational opportunities are dependent on their parents' whims and disposable incomes ... well, on their fathers', since the incomes are theirs ... and women's opportunities end at the doorstep.

Imagine us imagining there was something better.

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dmr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:41 AM
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272. Not all of us are dependent upon men and their incomes
I am raising my son alone, without child support to boot. There are plenty of sacrifices made for my son to be homeschooled this year (see posts elsewhere in this thread). There are no whims or even disposable incomes here, and my opportunities as a woman didn't stop at the doorstep. I found a way for this to work for both my son and myself. I'm a 51 year old professional woman and have worked since my teens. Life's circumstances change whether we want them to or not, and horrific they did, in my case. I am a survivor and have chosen to be proactive. I am sure I am not the only woman (single or married) to do this.

Now,while my son is upstairs in his room researching and writing his paper on the 5th Column, I'm pursuing my dream of a home-based business, unrelated to my former healthcare profession. I am available to answer his questions and offer him more challenges, all the while his lunch is warming in the oven. I can be mommy, tutor, activist, businesswoman and just me at the same time - all independent of a man's financial support.
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:27 PM
Response to Reply #272
279. ah, more anecdote

And of course, your personal experience disproves the assertion that the OVERWHELMING MAJORITY of homeschoolers are women, in two-parent families, who have no independent income and are economically dependent on their husbands.

No? Then what was the point?

I wasn't talking about exceptions to the rule. There always are exceptions, aren't there? And we're all exceptional in our own exceptional ways. I'm an exception to lots of rules. For instance, I'm in the top low-single-digit percentage of income earners in my country. I'm a woman. Does this mean that all women earn more than 95% of the rest of the population? (That would certainly be mind-boggling.) That there are no barriers to women in employment?

I was speaking about a PHENOMENON, and the fallout from that phenomenon. not individual cases. Surely that was obvious. If you want to argue that I was wrong about the phenomenon, or its fallouts, feel free.

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dmr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:55 PM
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300. No, I have no intention in arguing about your phenomenon
I don't speak to people in a patronizingly superior manner. My antedote, as you refer is not meant to intrude upon your phenomenon.

So, what was my point? Just posting to my friends in DU that might find an exception to generalizations interesting or even encouraging - nothing else.
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gate of the sun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:22 PM
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143. that is not necessarily true
all the homeschoolers I have known have not had high incomes maybe because alot of the mothers stay home and give up income for the betterment of their children. YOU may know some elitist that homeschool but to catagorize it as an elitist activity is incorrect.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:40 PM
Response to Reply #13
54. Marianne ...i am in total support of public school education...
my children are now in one...i am grateful tho for my firefighters husband salary which allowed me the luxury to home school for those years...you are correct about it being a luxury...although i do know many who sacrifice dearly to home school.
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Yupster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:29 PM
Response to Reply #13
123. Doesn't have to be rich
I send my kid to private school.

My brother in law and sister in law (both professors) together make more than I do. My wife doesn't work outside the home.

My brother in law tells me that he just got back from Paris, and is about to take a trip to the southeast USA for a few weeks.

Then he tells me he wishes he had enough money to take his daughter out of the local sorry public schools and put her in private school, but they just can't afford it.

I would say (but don't for my wife's family's sake) that they could afford it if it was important to them. They choose to live a higher lifestyle instead. We live more simply, but spend the money on our son's education.
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Robin Hood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:11 PM
Response to Original message
15. Here's a home schooling issue, Abuse.
How can children who are being physically abused by their parents be found out and protected if there is no over sight such as teachers, school nurses or school social workers? How many children will become hostages to abusive parents under home schooling?
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:23 PM
Response to Reply #15
31. Oh, please!
How many children go to public or private school are abused by teachers, coaches, or other children? Just more stupid arguments for the government to stick its nose where it doesn't belong!
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Robin Hood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:45 PM
Response to Reply #31
59. If you think that is a stupid argument
than you are an idiot who should be schooling no one. The facts are that the percentage of parents who abuse their children are far greater than the occasional incident at school. There are thousands of children who have been saved from their parents by pro-active schools. It's too bad that Andrea Yate's children didn't have that protection.
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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:48 PM
Response to Reply #59
62. maybe mandatory inspection of homes?
What a nightmare - government agents inspecting everyone's homes for signs of abuse. Take a look at what DCF is doing in Florida - I wouldn't let those freaks near my kid.

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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:01 PM
Response to Reply #62
111. Exactly!
Are these the same people who are against the Patriotic Act? You would never know by some of the arguments that are made when it comes to people being able to raise their own children.
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Yupster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:32 PM
Response to Reply #62
124. Maybe regular interviews with the kids
to get them to tstify against their parents. Ve Hav Vays to Make You Talk Little Girl.
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gate of the sun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:27 PM
Response to Reply #62
144. Du scares the hell out of me
when people start talking about more government oversee. I appreciate what you said.....Someone very close to me who was probably abused more severly that most people here on DU homeschools his child. This person was also helped by a teacher in regards to the abuse. This person would never agree or condone the idea of mandatory inspecting of homes. Do people want to be free or what???????
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:59 PM
Response to Reply #59
109. Sure, make it personal.
My point is that you act as if there is some great epidemic of children who are home schooled that are also being abused and that is not supported by facts. If you didn't know then perhaps you should educate yourself about the regulations that the majority of states require for children to be schooled at home. There, in fact, are only eight states which require no notification, Texas being one of them. If Andrea Yates is the poster mother for home schooling, then Mary Kay Letourneau is the poster teacher for public schooling. Sounds ridiculous, doesn't it?
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Robin Hood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:08 PM
Response to Reply #109
135. What facts?!
There are no facts because there is no over sight. The only time that a problem is noticed is when it is to late. I shudder to think what kids will be subject to if home schooling truly becomes a wide spread trend. As it is, we will never know what percentage of the 850,000 home schooled kids are being abused, and we will never know.


And isn't comparing a murderer of five children to the sexual exploits of one male student and a female teacher a little ridiculous?You are having to stretch far to make your argument.
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:30 PM
Response to Reply #135
145. and then there's the compounding effect
Being compelled to homeschool her children (as Yates essentially was) didn't exactly do wonders for her mental health.

Public schooling might well have spared them from that fate, not just because of the opportunity for oversight, but perhaps mainly because the situation that culminated in her divorce from reality and their deaths might well simply never have developed.

Privatization of the burden was not limited to caring for / educating children in her case, of course. She was also caring for / coping with an elderly demented parent.

But heck, I'm sure he was better off in the care of a stressed and psychotic woman and under no public oversight than he would have been in a publicly-overseen facility under the care of properly trained and compensated professionals, too.

And I'm sure it was the Yates's right to keep him away from that oversight and care. Either that or he was their responsibility. Or both, more likely. If you're a Republican, anyhow.

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gate of the sun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:31 PM
Response to Reply #135
146. we will never really know
how many public school educated kids are abused sexually or otherwise either.

Since one or two mothers have murdered their children supposedly because of some kind of postpartum episode require that all homes be routinely inspected..........just in case???? give me a break!
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Robin Hood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:39 PM
Response to Reply #146
150. We have a much better grasp on abused children
when they go to public schools. Teachers, school nurses are taught to look for signs of abuse and report it. Are you telling me that parents should just do as they please with their children and society has no authority to protect these children?

Maybe a few child torture cases here and there are ok with some in this thread, as long as they get to home school. It is painfully obvious that few here care about protecting children from their number one predator, their parents.
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gate of the sun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 10:25 PM
Response to Reply #150
160. dude I think you are seriously overreacting
shit happens all the time all over the world I never said I thought it was good that someone was abused..But you cannot police everyone and take peoples rights away from everyone because of somebodys horrific behaviour. White Straight Men are the most quilty of sexual abuse so maybe we should monitor all of them I mean it's there *ucking fault we have to live with this shit. I mean leave the *ucking homeschoolers alone and go after the real culprits. For crying out loud.

Maybe a few child torture cases here and there are ok with some in this thread, as long as they get to home school. It is painfully obvious that few here care about protecting children from their number one predator, their parents.you see what I mean?

This is really unfair.......It is painfully obvious that few here care about protecting children from their number one predator,straight white men. I mean none of you here agree that we should monitor and investigate and enter into the homes of all straight white men to make sure none of them are sexually abusing children and all children should be forced to go to public school and have all those well trained watchers that are schooled in sniffing out abuse and also none of the teacher can be straight white men.... with that said all you who disagree really don't care about abused children right?
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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:47 AM
Response to Reply #150
217. I don't want you to have a grasp on my kids
Edited on Wed Oct-15-03 09:50 AM by WhoCountsTheVotes
"It is painfully obvious that few here care about protecting children from their number one predator, their parents."

Simple solution - take all the kids away from their parents, put them in boarding schools where they are checked for signs of abuse by professional educators, problem solved right? Perhaps we should install cameras in homes to check for abuse?


What is it about public education that brings out some liberal's inner Nazi?


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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:45 PM
Response to Reply #135
153. No oversight?
Try again. Refute the fact that 42 states require notification and 29 of those states have a good deal of regulations.
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 10:20 PM
Response to Reply #153
159. I had no trouble understanding what LG said
I can't for the life of me figure out why you would.

What Liberal Guerrilla said was:

"There are no facts because there is no over sight. The only time that a problem is noticed is when it is to late. I shudder to think what kids will be subject to if home schooling truly becomes a wide spread trend. As it is, we will never know what percentage of the 850,000 home schooled kids are being abused, and we will never know."

And you respond:

"Refute the fact that 42 states require notification and 29 of those states have a good deal of regulations."

I'm sure that those states also have speed limits.

I can't think of how either speed limits or what you're talking about would address the fact, and potential problems inherent in that fact, that homeschooled children can be kept out of the public eye and away from public scrutiny virtually completely for most of their lives.

Let's assume that children are abused by homeschooling parents at the same rate as, no more or less frequently or seriously than, children who are in a school system.

Children who are in a school system are observed for several hours a day by teachers and other professionals who are trained to detect signs of abuse even where it isn't obvious -- and even other children who can and sometimes do convey information about abuse to the appropriate persons. They are also told about abuse, and about their right not to be subjected to it. They are instructed in ways to report abuse and escape abusive situations. And if they do report, they are offered protection.

Which of these are regularly available to homeschooled children? Especially homeschooled children who are abused?

How is a child who is never taught what abuse is, who never hears that s/he is entitled not to be subjected to it, who is never offered a conduit for reporting it, who has no notion that there is protection available from what is happening to him/her, likely to be able to avoid the abuse and the abuser?

Might I offer the totally subjective impression that it is more common among homeschooling parents to keep their children away from television, and that they are lauded for this resolve? Even frivolous entertainment programming on television is a source of information for an abused child about what is happening to him/her and how to make it stop. Is an abusive homeschooling parent being responsible by limiting his/her child's exposure to the noxious infuence of popular culture with its sex and violence, or protecting him/herself?

SOME homeschooling parents are abusive -- physically, emotionally, actively or by neglect. Just as some non-homeschooling parents are. But homeschooling undeniably provides better cover for an abusive parent, and less protection for the child.

Anecdotes are always such fun. My only personal experience with homeschooling (that sort of thing is just so not heard of in urban Canada) went like this. Five little girls under the age of ten lived with their educated, middle-class parents in a row house in the downtown of a large Canadian city -- with subsidized rent of course, since a couple that chooses to have five children and only one income (the father's civil service job) tends to need that sort of thing, and Canadian society tends to provide them with it. Of course, it was the mother who did the homeschooling. And most days, the homeschooling seemed to consist of five little girls under the age of ten running around naked and shrieking and unsupervised in the tiny shared backyard of the row of four houses, one door around the corner from a busy traffic artery and visible from the sidewalk on that busy street.

It isn't just parents, themselves, that some kids need protection from. It's the dangers that the moronic parents expose them to. If these little girls had been in school, they would not have been running around naked within sight and easy reach of anyone who walked by. And of course, I have no idea what went on behind the closed doors of the house, but I wouldn't actually be surprised at anything done by a parent who left a naked 10-year-old girl and her little sisters outside alone in the inner city. Just not quite normal, to my mind.

Anecdotes are actually a waste of time. But I'll put mine up against anybody else's, nonetheless.


Is there any substantive argument against, say, inspecting the homes in which children are schooled, or better, requiring the kind of regular physical check-ups and psychological/emotional check-ins (say, with guidance counsellors or in health classes or peer-group discussions of developmental issues) that occur in the public schools?

I mean, other than "liberty!!!"?

Sure it's a limitation on liberty, an infringement of privacy. Lots of things are. We do them when the objective is sufficiently important to justify doing them. Some of us think that child protection is sufficiently important. Some of us think that a really very technical and limited infringement of our liberty or privacy is more important than child protection.

Go figure.

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Robin Hood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 10:32 PM
Response to Reply #159
163. Thank you,
I could not have spelled it out any better my self. I would agree that if this trend does continue, regular home checks and physicals should be mandatory for kids who are being home schooled. But even that is not enough.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:14 AM
Response to Reply #163
180. I think you'll find that you run into....
some very serious constitutional problems there. Where do you find Constitutional authority to compel home inspections in cases where there's no reason to believe a crime has been committed? That flies DIRECTLY in the face of at least two Democratically treasured civil liberties....the Right to Privacy and the Right to be free from unreasonable searches.
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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:56 AM
Response to Reply #163
221. Try Communist China
Your views will be more acceptable there. Here, in the United States, we prefer freedom and civil liberties.

The scariest part?

"But even that is not enough." - so mandatory home inspections and physicals are not enough for you? What exactly are you planning to do to our children anyway?
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:11 AM
Response to Reply #159
179. Yup....you're a lawyer, you should know this....
"Is there any substantive argument against, say, inspecting the homes in which children are schooled,"

There has to be probable cause that a crime was committed, along with a judicial determination that PC exists. We're talking BASIC Constitutional right to privacy and to be free from unreasonable searches and seizures. Of course, you live under different rules than we have down here...lucky for us!!! :)
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 02:00 AM
Response to Reply #179
184. and now you may feel absolutely free

to piss off. Don't let me stand in your way.

2. Everyone has the following fundamental freedoms:

(a) freedom of conscience and religion;
(b) freedom of thought, belief, opinion and expression, including freedom of the press and other media of
communication;
(c) freedom of peaceful assembly; and
(d) freedom of association.

7. Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of the person and the right not to be deprived thereof except in accordance with the principles of fundamental justice.

8. Everyone has the right to be secure against unreasonable search or seizure.


"We're talking BASIC Constitutional right to privacy and to be free from unreasonable searches and seizures. Of course, you live under different rules than we have down here...lucky for us!!!"

But on your way out, do also feel free to print out the above excerpts from the Canadian constitution and maybe find a way of stuffing them somewhere you're likely to notice them and not likely to be able to keep on pretending you aren't familiar with them.

"There has to be probable cause that a crime was committed, along with a judicial determination that PC exists."

And feel free to learn some constitutional law while you're gone.

Your statement is correct in the case of searches for the purpose of obtaining evidence of a crime.

Duh again. That's not what anybody's talking about.

How, I wonder, would you explain health inspections of meat packing plants, or occupational safety inspections of workplaces? No warrant needed, no crime need be believed to have been committed.

(Never mind screeching about how these places are not dwelling places. The gummint can't search a meat packing plant or a workplace for evidence of a crime without a warrant either, can it, chum?)

Here ya go. How would you explain the fact that you must permit a property standards inspector to enter your home and inspect the renovation you've been doing (or an electrical utility inspector, to inspect your rewiring)? Quick -- where's that crime? If there's no evidence of non-compliance, why should compliance inspections be permitted?

You know what there is? There's an activity going on -- construction, wiring -- that is subject to public oversight even though it's happening in your very private property, because your society has decided that the interest it seeks to protect -- safety -- justifies this intrusion into your home. YOU can be compelled to demonstrate compliance with the requirements that apply IF you want to engage in that activity.

YOU choose to engage in this regulated conduct -- to make structural changes to your home, or redo the electrical wiring. You may not do that without consenting to inspection. That's the law, and you can whine to the inspector about liberty and privacy all you like. Don't let him in, and you won't get an occupancy permit for your property and you'll get charged with a bylaw violation if you occupy it, or you won't get any electricity supplied to your property.

(I'm guessing. That's how it works up here in utopia, but I suppose I can't speak for your neck of the backwoods.)

So do the math. YOU choose to engage in the regulated conduct of educating children -- an activity that is subject to a range of completely valid legal requirements. YOU choose to conduct that activity in your home. YOU have therefore chosen to permit inspection of your home, if the interests that such inspections would serve are determined to justify that utterly minimal intrusion on your privacy.

Me, I'm still wondering why anyone would be of the opinion that this petty obstructionism for no genuine purpose (invasion of privacy my ass) is a decent ("moral", if you prefer) response to the fact that such inspections (and other forms of oversight which are, in my opinion, minimally necessary) might well save some other child from serious harm.

Me, me, me, is all I hear.

Is it getting fainter? Just because the gun dungeon has finally bored me to death and I've pretty much abandoned you, you really needn't be following me around, you know.

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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 02:17 AM
Response to Reply #184
185. Silly Iverglas....
"Your statement is correct in the case of searches for the purpose of obtaining evidence of a crime.

Duh again. That's not what anybody's talking about.

How, I wonder, would you explain health inspections of meat packing plants, or occupational safety inspections of workplaces? No warrant needed, no crime need be believed to have been committed."

Ever hear of "expectation of privacy"? You don't have an expectation of privacy in a meat packing plant now, do you...

"Here ya go. How would you explain the fact that you must permit a property standards inspector to enter your home and inspect the renovation you've been doing (or an electrical utility inspector, to inspect your rewiring)? Quick -- where's that crime? If there's no evidence of non-compliance, why should compliance inspections be permitted?"

Because it's a recertification that the house is fit to be re-inhabited. That means that while it's your property, it's not really your home, it's a building under construction. by obtaining the building permit, you're basically voiding the original occupation permit. In case you didn't know this, occupied dwellings are given great deference in US laws on privacy issues.

"So do the math. YOU choose to engage in the regulated conduct of educating children -- an activity that is subject to a range of completely valid legal requirements. YOU choose to conduct that activity in your home. YOU have therefore chosen to permit inspection of your home, if the interests that such inspections would serve are determined to justify that utterly minimal intrusion on your privacy."

The law, here at least, states that children must be educated, and provides public schooling for those who want to take advantage of it. Please cite ANY law from ANY state in the US that authorizes home inspections of domiciles for people that home-school.

"Just because the gun dungeon has finally bored me to death and I've pretty much abandoned you, you really needn't be following me around, you know."

Don't flatter yourself. I've responded to posts by several other authors other than you on this thread. The only reason you're getting responses from me is a) because you're responding to my posts while the others aren't, and b) because you still don't seem to have a very good grasp on how things work down here.
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 02:33 AM
Response to Reply #185
186. like I said
- feel free not to respond when you don't understand the concepts

- feel free to piss off anytime you like


"Ever hear of 'expectation of privacy'? You don't have an expectation of privacy in a meat packing plant now, do you..."

You're a funny fella.

Now you run along and tell that to a meat packing plant owner whose plant you are about to subject to a warrantless search for evidence of a crime. I have a suspicion you might find yourself looking up close at a large bit of meat, or an implement for turning it into small bits.

You not believing in that "private property" stuff at all now, boyo?


"Because it's a recertification that the house is fit to be re-inhabited. That means that while it's your property, it's not really your home, it's a building under construction. by obtaining the building permit, you're basically voiding the original occupation permit. In case you didn't know this, occupied dwellings are given great deference in US laws on privacy issues."

Ye gods, talk about yer question-begging. Wanna look that one up and explain it in your own words? A cat is a cat because it's a cat. You must allow your home to be inspected because you must allow your home to be inspected. Works for you, does it?


"Please cite ANY law from ANY state in the US that authorizes home inspections of domiciles for people that home-school."

You don't grasp the business of argument at all, do you?

That --

"So do the math. YOU choose to engage in the regulated conduct of educating children -- an activity that is subject to a range of completely valid legal requirements. YOU choose to conduct that activity in your home. YOU have therefore chosen to permit inspection of your home, **if** the interests that such inspections would serve are determined to justify that utterly minimal intrusion on your privacy."

-- was what you'd call MY ARGUMENT. See that there "if" in that last sentence? "IF the interests that such inspections would serve are determined to justify that utterly minimal intrusion on your privacy"? You familiar with the idea of HYPOTHETICALS? IF "x", THEN "y" -- which is NOT a statement that "y" is true, UNLESS "x".

MY ARGUMENT is based on the premise that the interests that such inspections would serve DO JUSTIFY the utterly minimal intrusion on privacy in question.

I DIDN'T SAY that this determination has been made. So I DIDN'T SAY that homeschoolers are, at present, subject to an obligation to submit to home inspection.

And yet there you are, arguing with one of that straw menagerie you're so fond of.

Maybe you'll introduce me to them some day. I'd be curious to see how I could so often be mistaken for one of them. I sure don't see any resemblance myself, but then I don't wear the blinkers you're obviously so fond of.

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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 07:49 AM
Response to Reply #186
189. Heh...
"Ye gods, talk about yer question-begging. Wanna look that one up and explain it in your own words? A cat is a cat because it's a cat. You must allow your home to be inspected because you must allow your home to be inspected. Works for you, does it?"

Nope, all new construction is subject to building codes and require a building permit. Buildings that will be occupied as dwellings are no exception. Until there is an inspection and an occupancy permit issued, it's still legally under construction, and can't be occupied.

"MY ARGUMENT is based on the premise that the interests that such inspections would serve DO JUSTIFY the utterly minimal intrusion on privacy in question.
I DIDN'T SAY that this determination has been made. So I DIDN'T SAY that homeschoolers are, at present, subject to an obligation to submit to home inspection."

Your "ARGUMENT" flies in the face of constitutional law down here. You can make it all you want, but that doesn't make it something that would pass constitutional muster. As such, it's a completely bullshit argument, unless you're advocating amending the constitution.
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:52 AM
Response to Reply #189
220. Malpractice
Nope, all new construction is subject to building codes and require a building permit. Buildings that will be occupied as dwellings are no exception. Until there is an inspection and an occupancy permit issued, it's still legally under construction, and can't be occupied.

And again, DNR "begs the question" by not explaining how or why the govt's power to inspect is consistent with the property owners' property rights and his/her right to privacy on land that s/he owns. DNR just claims that it's "subject to inspection" but the home of a homeschooled child is not.

Maybe that explains DBR's frequent use of barnyard epithets. You know "If you have neither the facts nor the law on your side, baffle 'em with bullshit"
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:05 AM
Response to Reply #220
226. it's always a joy

To see that *somebody* "gets it".

Even (hell, especially?) if it's somebody one doesn't (as I suspect) always agree with.

;)
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:18 AM
Response to Reply #220
229. Hmmmm...
could it be that there's a much higher standard to be reached to justify searching a person's home than there is to inspect a freshly constructed building? Might it be that there's a lower expectation of privacy in new unoccupied construction than in somebody's home? Have you noticed that the building inspector can't routinely inspect an existing private residence for building code violations, even if they know it's not up to code, unless they want to try to condemn it?
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:24 AM
Response to Reply #229
235. The answer is "No"
A citizen has the same right to privacy on his/her privately owned land as they do in their privately owned home.

Have you noticed that the building inspector can't routinely inspect an existing private residence for building code violations, even if they know it's not up to code, unless they want to try to condemn it?

That's not true. We have lawyers here who force inspections in buildings with code violations despite the opposition of the landlords. There's no need to condemn the building.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:35 AM
Response to Reply #235
242. "landlord" being the operative word....
"That's not true. We have lawyers here who force inspections in buildings with code violations despite the opposition of the landlords. There's no need to condemn the building."

Rental property is subject to different rules (your state's landlord-tenant act), and the landlords are generally NOT the tenants. It's the tenants that have the privacy issue, not the landlord.
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:54 AM
Response to Reply #242
259. More "begging the question"
DNR continues to claim that private properties can't be searched unless there's a reasonable belief that a crime has been committed, but also claims that rental property, privately owned, can be searched. And why is this?

Because "Rental property is subject to different rules" without giving any explanation of how that can be true when rental properties are privately owned and entitled to all of the Constitutional protections that non-rental properties are entitled to.

TNR also fails to explain how people who don't own the property have a privacy right on land they do not own. TNR is in danger having his "privacy is based on property rights" argument blown out of the water.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:22 AM
Response to Reply #259
269. Now you're just being silly....
Rental property is, by definition, commercial. There's commerce going on there, in the form of a rental operation. It can be subject to both State (Landlord-Tenant Act) and Federal regulation (under the ICC) that a private dwelling is not.

The privacy right attaches by nature of the person moving into the place. This can take several different forms, for example, the prohibition of the landlord re-entering the property without advance notice to the tenant, or even search and seizure rules being applied to an occupied hotel room.
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:32 AM
Response to Reply #269
270. Straw men, evasions and insults
Is that all you've got?

If a homeowner rents a room in their house, that house is not transformed into a commercial property. It still is a private dwelling.

And if you really were a lawyer, you'd know that the ICC doesn't just apply to commercial activities - It applies to any activities that affect interstate commerce.
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:24 PM
Response to Reply #270
278. Remember Lopez from '92?
that pretty much shoots a wide-assed hole in your "argument"...
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:32 PM
Response to Reply #278
290. Yeah, right
Lopez "shoots a wide-assed hole in your argument" and "rental properties are subject to different regulations because rental properties are subject to different regulations"

Did you ever wonder if maybe your legal advice is NOT considered sancrosanct?
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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:02 AM
Response to Reply #159
225. "moronic parents"
I think the problem is people like you, who seem to think that you are better qualified to raise other people's children than their own parents. And you'll use horror stories and random anecdotes to justify your interest in other people's children. Quite frankly, people like you scare a lot of parents, and wish to keep their kids away from people like you and any of your home inspections, "group therapy" "peer counseling" "emotional check-ins" or whatever new schemes you come up with to interject yourself between parents and their children.

Busybodies always have a good excuse, and of course, it's always "for the children".
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:00 AM
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264. Yes "moronic parents"
Didn't you read the post. Iverglas didn't call all home schooling parents "moronic". S/he was speaking of a particular pair of parents. Here, read it, since you missed it the 1st time:

And most days, the homeschooling seemed to consist of five little girls under the age of ten running around naked and shrieking and unsupervised in the tiny shared backyard of the row of four houses, one door around the corner from a busy traffic artery and visible from the sidewalk on that busy street.

It isn't just parents, themselves, that some kids need protection from. It's the dangers that the moronic parents expose them to.


Yep. "moronic parents", and it takes a moron to not realize that playing naked in the yard near traffic is NOT "good parenting"
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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:54 PM
Response to Reply #264
285. and the exception is used to make a rule?
Yep, there are moronic parents, and there is child abuse. Now is this a justification for the invasive police state tactics that are being proposed here? Another comment said parents shouldn't be allowed to home school because they might teach their kids that evolution is wrong. I suppose next incorrect political beliefs will be used as a justification?

So because some parents are abusive, all children must either be in school or have a state agent inspect them on a regular basis? Perhaps next will be drug tests to make sure the kids aren't smoking pot? How many civil liberties are we willing to part with "for the children" exactly?

The contempt for home-schooling families, the incorrect stereotypes being bandied about here, and the general belief that professionals can raise and educate children better than their own parents reeks of elitism to me.


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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:11 PM
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286. They are running out of excuses
For why home schooling should be illegal. First it was that the children couldn't be taught by their uncertified parents. That turned out to be false. Next, it was that the children were going to be social misfits. Well, that turned out to be false too. Now they want to say that the parents are using home schooling as a vail to cover the deep, dark abusive desires they have for their children. Of course, that is also false.

The argument they are using is completely flawed. One question would be, what are you supposed to do to protect the children from their evil parents before the kids are eligible for school. Wouldn't the need for scrutiny have to be applied to parents with children between the ages of 0-5?

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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:21 PM
Response to Reply #286
287. that's what "early childhood education" is for!
There seems to be a vocal faction of people that want to separate children from their parents as early as possible, and any excuse they can come up with is fine.

Scratch the surface and you'll find people who object to what other people's kids are being taught, and an amazingly arrogant attitude that their beliefs are the correct ones that other people's kids should be taught. If the parents object, these people are ready to send in state agents and kidnap the kids, it's shocking really.

Of course, these people cannot properly be called liberals.


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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:35 PM
Response to Reply #287
292. Keep up the straw man parade!!!
It really gives you credibility when you make up stuff, like how I want to outlaw homeschooling when the issue is inspecting the homes of homeschoolers.

And telling us about who the "real liberals" are really impresses me! It's like magic!
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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:42 PM
Response to Reply #292
294. I didn't say you want to outlaw homeschooling
When did I say that? Are you lying? I believe that making up stuff damages your credibility.

I don't consider anyone who wants "home inspections" to be a liberal, so sue me, you own the word?

Maybe just keep you nose out of other people's business and most things will be fine? Believe it or not, lots of parents just aren't interested.

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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:51 PM
Response to Reply #294
298. In post #285, which YOU wrote
Yep, there are moronic parents, and there is child abuse. Now is this a justification for the invasive police state tactics that are being proposed here? ...I suppose next incorrect political beliefs will be used as a justification? ...

So because some parents are abusive, all children must either be in school or have a state agent inspect them on a regular basis? Perhaps next will be drug tests to make sure the kids aren't smoking pot? How many civil liberties are we willing to part with "for the children" exactly?

The contempt for home-schooling families, the incorrect stereotypes being bandied about here, and the general belief that professionals can raise and educate children better than their own parents reeks of elitism to me.


I don't know why you're raising issues like "invasive state tactics", the banning of "Incorrect political beliefs", "drug tests", "contempt for home-schooling families", etc when I said nothing like that, unless you're trying to smear me with someone else's words. I know you wouldn't be trying to do that, so why, in response to a post of mine, do you criticize opinions I've never expressed?

I don't consider anyone who wants "home inspections" to be a liberal, so sue me, you own the word?

Ahh, so now I'm saying that I own the word "liberal"? You wouldn't be saying that in order to avoid admitting that you are off your rocker in promoting a litmus test for liberals?

Maybe just keep you nose out of other people's business and most things will be fine? Believe it or not, lots of parents just aren't interested.

Well if you say so, I'm sure it must be true! After all, from you I've learned about all sorts of stuff I never knew before like "sangha wants to drug test home-schoolers" and "sangha has contempt for home schooling families"

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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:57 PM
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302. I think a more accurate statement would be:
"After all, from you I've learned about all sorts of stuff I never knew before like "sangha wants to drug test home-schoolers" and "sangha has contempt for home schooling families""

"sangha wants to violate the civil rights of home-schoolers"...that pretty much sums it up...
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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 02:11 PM
Response to Reply #298
305. sangh0, I invite anyone to read the thread, my comments and yours
and judge for themselves about who is lying and who is proposing invasive state tactics.
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maha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:26 AM
Response to Reply #31
206. Not that many.
When teachers beat, starve, rape, or otherwise abuse children, they tend to get caught.

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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:05 AM
Response to Reply #15
178. Heh...I was abused as a child...
and my teachers didn't do dick about it except set me up from more abuse from other students. Sometimes it seemed like a competition between my stepfather and the schools to see who could leave the most and worse marks on me.
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Jen72 Donating Member (847 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:59 AM
Response to Reply #178
222. I was picked by one teacher is a vicious manner.
When that happens,it is giving a green light to the other kids, I
was hell. I was singled out, shouted at for untidy work and things that I now know were down to Dyslexia. The man has put me of Roman History for life.

My best friend at the same school was bullied by another teacher, because her family decided to send her to boarding school.
If my friend did the slightest thing wrong, she was told she would not get a reference, my friend was eleven years old and had no choice about her the school she went too. In fact this particular friend was going to boarding school because her mother had been ruled incapable of looking after her and the grandmother who she lived with didn't want to bring her up fulltime.
This teacher once pushed her on to the stairs, because my friend wasn't quick enough for the. It got so bad she was physically sick at the thought of going into school during the summer term and never returned.
The teacher that did this was an exellcent Science teacher but was famously volitile and known to bully people with sheer temper.

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WhoCountsTheVotes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:18 PM
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24. None of your business, frankly
Any parent has the right to keep their kids out of school. Coerced government schooling is a hallmark of totalitarianism. I'm a strong supporter of public education, and I'm against vouchers, but no one should be forced to send their child to a school if they don't want to.
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DemVet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 06:08 PM
Response to Reply #24
317. My thoughts exactly.
Well said. :toast:
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mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:24 PM
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33. two factoids that might be relevant to this discussion....
First, my daughter was largely home schooled during middle school - high school after she presented a very good case for it herself, based upon her perceptions of public school after six years of Montessori school. She's doing quite well in her University studies these days, so I can only consider her home school experience (entirely secular, thank you very much) a success.

Second, I am a university professor myself, and I can tell you that no one did any sort of "background check" on me when I was hired other than verifying my academic credentials. I could be a serial child molester or a triple felon for all anyone here knows. I might even be YOUR kid's prof. Now THAT'S scary....
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LittleApple81 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:29 PM
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37. Lack of enforcement of standards might be a problem.
I have several friends who homeschooled with varying degrees of success.
I could not have done it by myself: my own problem, I guess. I don't think I have the discipline to enforce rules and regulations about studying habits, etc. etc.
Fortunately, my kids did OK in public schools. The older (a female) did not "fit" in school here in the central US (too much of a reader and traveler I guess--and non-religious to boot: one of her classmate's mother brought her daughter to play with my daughter and, when she realized we were the parents, took her home after 15 minutes and told the child not to play with my daughter because she was an atheist). So she finished Abitur in Germany. The younger one (a boy) is doing great in HS here in the USA.
As I said, I am glad they do OK in a school environment because I could not teach them at home. We would have a lot of fun, though!
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Xithras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:33 PM
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40. My wife is a public school teacher...
and she will tell you flat out that homeschooling is superior to classroom education, and that an under-qualified educator working with a student 1-on-1 can often do a better job than a qualified educator forced to divy his/her time between 25-30 kids. Why? Because children learn the best when they're being directly interacted with, and that's something that just doesn't happen in most classrooms. Our current educational system is broken, and doesn't address the realities about human learning... that we learn most effectively in small groups of 4-7 people.

You also have the problems with "social distraction" in schools. Whether we're talking about troublemakers or finding dates for the prom, most kids in public schools have a long list of things that keep their minds OFF the books, and on things that don't help their GPA. Home schooled kids don't deal with these problems to the same degree, and typically learn better as a result.
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peabody71 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:34 PM
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43. Testing data proves across the board that Home schooled kids do better.
In addition studies show that children that spend the most time with thier parents are better adjusted with better behavior, simply because they respect them more.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 06:10 PM
Response to Reply #43
319. Please cite the data, if you can?
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proud patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:34 PM
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44. There was a show that showed a story about a suicide
of a home schooled child .

Social Services said the house was not
condusive to learning and the children
were abused emotionally

Very sad story .
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LittleApple81 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:37 PM
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48. How many kids that go to public school and are chided and
tormented by classmates end up committing suicide also?

I know my daughter had problems with harassment at school for the only reason that she was not like the others (not to the point of suicide, fortunately). She has a pretty strong personality now but at the time she went through terrible times.
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proud patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:21 PM
Response to Reply #48
86. I was harrassed at school too
:-( I was tall , a redhead w/glasses and was teased a lot.
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librechik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:01 PM
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112. Yes, this is what they call "socialization"
Scratch the surface of the Mandatory Education people and there is a sincere and well-meant desire to "toughen the kids up" by exposing them to schoolyard bullies and whatever. This is not an experience I would recommend to a sensitive youngster if they could somehow be protected from that kind of chaos.

My situation was somewhat unique: My child was in a special school for the gifted but still got harassed. We were all relieved when homeschooling became legal in Colorado and we could remove him from that frankly abusive situation. I have several college degrees and it was my pleasure to devote some of my time to guiding his education.

We homeschooled from the age of 8 to 18, (except for a period when he wanted to "try out" high school. That was highlighted by a lame hazing incident, the sight of other kids being regularly hassled by cops on patrol in squad cars, as well as a disappointing and unfortunate prevalence of ignorant and incompetent teachers. That was the worst part--it was my old high school, where I got a first class education 30 years ago--I had to send back all his English papers with the teacher's comments corrected for grammar! (that made me extra popular)It was a bizarre and sad comedy.

So we went back to homeschooling where he taught himself algebra and Japanese, among many other interesting things. He always got terrific scores on the achievement tests you must take every 2 years to advance as a homeschooler in Colorado. It's easy nowadays with computers to teach a kid everything he needs for those. In the last year or two I was going to college myself and I took him with me to some of the classes and made him help me with my homework. It was fun.

He's in college now and getting perfect grades--he got the highest score in the class in his math requirement class; this after never taking a math class! (and I wasn't much help either--his father helped with that.) He's a delightful, mature creative human being, quite Buddhalike and brilliant, and he has many many friends and fans. He has traveled to Australia twice to be with his girlfriend, who lives there. He just turned 22.

I would recommend homeschooling to anyone willing to make the sacrifice of time and the commitment to the soul of the child.(I didn't work much while I was homeschooling him, so our income suffered) However, if you do it right, you will turn out an individual citizen, not a statistic.

He made me proud the other day when he said that just voting wasn't enough for him. He wanted to have an influence on politics and speak out. Forgive me, but speaking out is the OPPOSITE of what the kids are taught in schools today.
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bpilgrim Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 10:58 PM
Response to Reply #112
168. applause
what a wonderful story :toast:

i met my wife in the land down under, wish i was back there now.

thanks for sharing :hi:

peace
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maha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:29 AM
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207. Is anyone here arguing against home schooling?
Edited on Wed Oct-15-03 09:30 AM by maha
The issue is not whether home schooling should or should not be allowed. Of course it should be allowed. It is well documented that it can be very beneficial for some children and for some families.

The issue is whether parents should be allowed to keep children out of school with no oversight or follow-up whatsoever. And I say no.
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Demobrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:40 PM
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53. We can't.
I know a 14 year old in AZ who was taken out of school in 5th grade, can't read and spends his whole life playing video games and eating snacks. Neighbors have called child welfare, but there's nothing they can do. In AZ all a parent has to do is write a note to the school board saying they're home schooling, and that's the end of it. If they want their child to grow up ignorant, that's their right. Like the kid's mom says, He's my kid and it's none of the government's business what I teach him.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:14 PM
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83. yikes that's not saying much for AZ public school either...
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 07:40 PM by ElsewheresDaughter
>I know a 14 year old in AZ who was taken out of school in 5th grade, can't read<

taken out in 5th grade and can't read?... doesn't seem AZ schools did any better imho

AZ needs to fix both issues...NY has a good homeschooling system read my post 27( i think) or is it post 29 :shrug:
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Demobrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:44 PM
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152. Yeah, it's sad. Rather than get him extra help
his mom let him just stop trying. Now he's 100 lbs. overweight, lonely, angry and there's no way anybody can help. I'm glad to hear it's not so lax elsewhere. This total neglect of a child's education and health to me is a form of abuse, and I wish there was some way the state could step in.
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dmr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:42 PM
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56. This year my son is being schooled at home
I have him enrolled in an accredited private school in California (we're in NY) that offers distant learning. Since it's a privte school we do not have the state intruding.

I was a bit apprehensive at first, but he is learning more being schooled this way than when he was sitting in a classroom. He is also a happier kid. He is given interesting projects to do. I also give him research / writing assignments to do on the side, just to further his knowledge base. It is also giving him time to learn html, he is studying for his amateur radio license, he does more reading, and is doing volunteer work.

He has teachers and counselors he can contact by phone or email. They have been extrememly supportive.

There have been no socializing issues - shoot, he had friends stay over here for the full 3 day weekend - and they're coming back again on Friday!

I only wish I could have done this at an earlier age.
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:50 PM
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64. What is "distant learning"?
Forgive my ignorance. I don't have any kids yet, but I intend on home schooling if I'm lucky enough to have one or two. At least for a while, that is.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:54 PM
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70. "distant learning"...virtual classrooms...internet
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dmr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:06 PM
Response to Reply #70
78. Right
it's both interent and text books.
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:07 PM
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79. Ah. I see.
Thanks. I'd probably stick to books, though. Nothing feels quite as good as a nice thick book in your hands.

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in_cog_ni_to Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:05 PM
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77. Or
some distant learning schools will send out "paper" lessons. They supply the books, tests ect.. they grade the papers that you have to send back at a certain time. They have teachers available via the phone or internet for any questions the child may have.
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in_cog_ni_to Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:51 PM
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65. How old is your son?
I actually thought about homeschooling my son a few years ago. He's 10 now.
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dmr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:07 PM
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80. He's 14
This school teaches all grades.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:18 PM
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85. dmr if you live in NY ..your private "distant learning" school must by law
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 07:19 PM by ElsewheresDaughter
file a quarterly report and annual assessments of your child on your behalf...makes it easier on you ...lucky you :7
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dmr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:24 PM
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88. I know
:)
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:43 PM
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58. Heres my opinion on it
Different things work for different people imo so public school may work for me and it may not work for you or your kid. Its that simple. Thats why we have choice people.
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Logansquare Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:48 PM
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61. Some people can and should do it
Some people NOT! Like Andrea Yates, for example.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:52 PM
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66. i concur...i believe it was Rusty who demanded that Andrea home school
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 07:44 PM by ElsewheresDaughter
tragic ;-(
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:54 PM
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69. Thats been my point all along ED
Ok one of the guy's I mentioned who was homeschooled despite our political differences is a good friend.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:58 PM
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72.  ok i understand now John
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 06:58 PM by ElsewheresDaughter
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:01 PM
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75. Thanks
I just think what works for others may not work for me and vice versa. You seemed to have done a good job teaching your kids and you should be a proud person but Ive seen how others have ended up myself and wasnt so good, Ive heard stories of publically educated people who go on to big things and those in public school who dont make it too far. Its all about the individual in the end. I have seen elitism is on all sides of it too.
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maha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:39 AM
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214. Poor woman
Did you hear Andrea Yates trying to starve herself to death? They put her on antipsychotic drugs and she gets better, but then she remembers what she did to the children and gets worse. And Rusty is free as a bird ...

But even if the kids were still alive, one has to wonder about a schizophrenic mother as home school teacher. Not ideal, I suspect.
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NicoleM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 06:52 PM
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67. I'm considering home schooling.
I don't have any kids yet (one on the way) but I've given it a lot of thought. My aunt homeschooled her kids for several years and she did a terrible job. She didn't want them in school because she was a fundie.

I had a horrible experience with public school pretty much the whole way through. We live in a rural area, so we are not in a position to send our children to private school.

This might sound rude but I'm going to say it anyway: I am smarter than most of the teachers I had. I don't want my kids bored off their asses all day waiting for the rest of the class to catch up. I've been there, and it's not fun.

I also don't like the fact that conformity seems to me to be encouraged in public school. And I don't feel that kids know enough by the time they graduate high school.

The public school system is broken. Somebody please explain to me why I should have to sacrifice my child to it while we wait for it to be fixed.
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madfloridian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:08 PM
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81. In Florida, the schools won't be fixed.
Parents who are internet-schooling get paid for it, sent computers, books,etc.

Charter schools and private schools are getting the money. There is no way to fix the public schools in Florida now.

My tax money goes to children who don't have to be tested, don't have to be named. They are unknown. No accountability.

Our schools are broken here in spite of great teachers, in spite of aides and paras who really care. Public schools can not operate without money.

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alcuno Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:25 PM
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89. I was in the Tampa area this summer and followed a story
about a private school in that area. Do you remember reading about a principal who was taking middle school age girls on overnight trips to Disneyworld? They were dressing up in identical Mickey Mouse bathing suits and he was taking their pictures? Something like 40 trips? It was SO creepy.

The point of this story is that there was apparently no oversight of the school from a state level and nowhere for parents to turn. The principal was supported by the Board and they FIRED teachers who spoke out about the inappropriateness of the situation.

I am from Florida and can't believe what is happening to the school system down there.
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madfloridian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:36 PM
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96. Yes, it is so sad. It is happening all over the country now.
I think that the parents would have fought for a free education for all, if they had not first degraded the public schools so badly.

I can see from this thread that the present administration has totally gotten the public ready for no public schools. They have done it quickly and incisively. Like a sharp knife.

I do think people would have fought to keep schools free and public, but they did not know what was happening.

I was always respected and much appreciated by the kids I taught and their parents. It did not matter, though. Most of the teachers I worked with were wonderful. That did not matter either.

First they are giving the money to the private, charter, and home schools, and they are pretending some degree of accountability. Soon they can drop the act. There will just be no public schools available.

It is been so quickly done here in Florida, that teachers are just waking up to the fact. For several years they have lowered standards, taken money away, and blamed the teachers.

I can see the view of the parents on the board, but I wish they understood the background of the vast movement afoot now. But then, not even some of the teachers here believe it yet.
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:09 PM
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115. Where are they giving out money for home schoolers?
I've not heard that at all.
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madfloridian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:27 PM
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121. Let me find the articles. There are so many, it will take a while.
They give them to the students who are starting in the virtual schools. (Bill Bennett is profiting from all this....hope he keeps his gambling in check). There are also other cases of handicapped kids who are given vouchers for private school, and often just don't attend. We think they don't attend, we don't know. There has to be accountability for tax money. In a couple of cases the school head was arrested for flagrant violations. I say school head, because there were only ten students, unknown names, and no accountability.

Someone just said, I have a school. Send them. Send me the voucher money, I will teach your kids.

I posted several here this week on the subject, one this morning. They disappear amongst the Dean/Clark/Kerry bashing. I even shamefully kicked my own posts just to get attention.

Now, there may be more cases I don't know about. It is all very secretive. I only found out today about the private schools getting the money for tutors from the Title I programs. That is nationwide, too. Our county gave 6 or 7 religious private schools $66,000 in tutoring money for voucher kids who are not accountable to the public schools.

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NicoleM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:30 PM
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90. That's not good.
We all benefit from having a public education system whether or not we use it. I have no problem paying taxes to support public education even if I choose not to send my kids to public schol.
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Katarina Donating Member (753 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:51 PM
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131. Education in florida has never been good.
I was born and raised here until we moved to Texas in 8th grade. I was way behind in school when I started 8th grade. Especially math and science. Moved to North Carolina in 9th grade and I was pretty much up to par with what I learned in Texas.

MadFloridian, do you really think that our education system is broke because of homeschooling?? It's not you know. The day Jeb Bush is voted out of office will be a wonderful thing for our schools. Until then though, it's just going to get worse. I live in the fastest growing county in Florida, 8th in the country. Every year our schools get more crowded. We have one high school in my county! It has over 2500 students in it. All of our elementary schools and middle schools are loaded with portables. I don't think that the 50 families that homeschool in my county is the reason for this. It's because every year good ole boy Jeb cuts the education budget just a little bit more. Our superintendent gets a $30,000 raise this year yet we have special classes cut. That's not the home-schoolers fault. Do your school board members get paid a full time salary to do a part time job, and a half assed one at that? Ours do!

And by the way, home-school families do not get money from the state. I home-schooled my 3rd grader last year. I received nothing from the state. I bought my own curriculum, supplies...everything, out of my own pocket. As for no accountability...not true. As a homeschooling parent, I am obligated to keep my sons work for 2 years. At random times during the year I can get called into the homeschooling liaisons office to show my sons progress. I have the option of either letting my son take the FCAT or being tested by a certified teacher. So you see, there is accountability.

As a side note let me say FCAT is nothing more than a moneymaker and our children are the wage slaves. Our middle school got an A grade last year. Almost every cent of it went for bonuses for the faculty. The students who worked their butts off all year got nothing out of it. In previous years some of the money has went towards charter buses for field trips, socials etc...But this year they get nothing. Is that fair?

Home-schooling isn't for everyone. But they are not the reason our schools are in such sorry shape either. It's Jebs fault and the administrators that mismanage the budget.
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madfloridian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:07 PM
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134. I don't think you read a word I said.
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 09:16 PM by madfloridian
I am sorry, but you need to read my posts again. Who the heck do you think I was blaming. No, Florida schools have NOT always been bad. That is just not true. We used to be competitive nationwide for any colleges. I did not say that all home-schools got money, but some do, more will. At least here.

If you do not understand my posts then I don't know what else to say. Perhaps someone else could explain to you how very much I detest Jeb and his methods. Hey, if you guys think America will be fine without public education that is ok with me.

But first, please go back and read the posts. I see nothing wrong with home-schooling. I see lots wrong with diverting funds from a public education to vouchers, to charter schools, and to parents who will internet school. That is only the first step. If my money is going to vouchers, I want the children held accountable. That is MY tax money. It is MY money.

I taught 33 years, and I am sad to see the loss of public schools. If you thought I was criticizing you, then perhaps you misread what I was saying.

On edit:I see this is your first post. I do not mean to be rude to you. It is very painful to see the parents here not understand the terrible loss our country is experiencing. The goal of this administration is to totally do away with public schools. They are doing it rapidly.

It also hurts when parents just blame the schools. They have done it so long, that it has come to fruition. There are so many factors in play, so many with their hands in the cookie jar. Students and teachers are innocent victims.

I have seen this board blame teachers and schools so much that I get defensive. What if there are no free schools? What then? The Bushes are doing it, not the teachers, and the parents are allowing it to happen. They are allowing it because they don't know what is happening, nor do they know how to stop it.

This is called righteous indignation at the loss of our public schools. My tax money is not going down, it is just going to other places with no accountability. If you are not taking tax money, then you are only required to be accountable to yourself and your child.

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Katarina Donating Member (753 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:32 PM
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148. Actually, I did read your posts.
And when you say: "In FL parents get public school money for this.
What worries me is that fact that public school money is going for it, with no accountability required in some cases.
How can there be public schools left when they are taking the money from them to give to charter schools, home schools, and private schools?" it's simply not true. Home-schoolers do not get money. That is the point I was trying to make. It happens to be my tax money as well. And if you think it's bad now, just wait and see what Jeb does with Edison schools.

I'm sorry if I upset you, it wasn't my intentions.




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madfloridian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:46 PM
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155. It is beginning with the virtual schools, and with some special ed.
I can not seem to find the special ed article, but it is in my files. Will search for you. It is not all yet, it is beginning. It is mostly now special cases. It is new, and I can understand people not knowing. I do not think just regular home schoolers get anything. I will find the other articles.

Here is a post I made recently that dropped like a rock because I was not bashing someone's candidate.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=104&topic_id=513336
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 10:05 PM
Response to Reply #148
158. welcome to DU Katarina...you write/sound like a DU keeper to me
Edited on Tue Oct-14-03 10:07 PM by ElsewheresDaughter
:hi: :hi: :hi:
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Katarina Donating Member (753 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 08:55 AM
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198. Thank you ElsewheresDaughter
I just found this board a couple of weeks ago and am completely addicted to it. I'm very happy to have found it. What a great group of people. :)
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madfloridian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 10:31 PM
Response to Reply #148
162. Here is another post, and a quote from a previous post.
There was one special article from the Palm Beach Post, but I can only find the links not the article. It is not in Google cache.
Here is a quote from that article from August 10:

"SNIP....."State tax money intended to send disabled students to private schools is being siphoned off by middlemen who use it to help parents home-school their children -- a use never envisioned by the law's sponsor.

The state's oversight of the McKay scholarships program is so lax that the middlemen -- organizations listed in state records as private schools but often just a person's home or Web site -- are able to take in thousands of dollars each year in state vouchers with little accounting for how that money is spent....."END SNIP
(To John McKay's credit he is irate about this.)

I believe this is being investigated, but I can not find one thing about it. Especially disabled children should be accounted for as so much could happen beyond their control. This is sad.

Also here is a thread with some other things of interest. I hope you forgive me for getting snappy, it was not at you. I am just so shocked that even teachers I taught with who are not yet retired do not have a clue what is happening. They could have fought it as well, but they did not know....just like the parents did not. These folks are sneaky and evil.
Here is my previous thread.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=104&topic_id=358139

There is some interesting stuff here, even if the links don't work.

:hi:
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dmr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:21 PM
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87. That was part of the problem my son faced
He was bored sitting there, as you say, waiting for the rest of the class to catch up or - and this is a big problem, while the teacher dealt with behavioral problems. It got to the point where my son was shutting down in school.

Another issue was the school's denial that there is a drug/gang concern. My son was cornered several times, and even as a big musceled kid (5'11", 200 lbs) they sucker jumped him.

And, still, another issue were the teachers who followed closely the GOP talking points belittling the students who did not.

I want my son, who would make a wonderful orator if he was interested, to develop his critical thinking skills. I don't want someone to tell him what and how to think.
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Old and In the Way Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:38 PM
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129. Public school system may be broken.......
but it's only because we are investing in our future. I read the posts here and it doesn't surprise me that very intelligent, liberal people would decide to homeschool. But I think we are kidding ourselves if we don't understand that our public school system is broken because we'd rather build trillion dollar aircraft carriers than make the same investment in our society's future.
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genius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:09 PM
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82. What a fascist comment. Most homeschoolers are liberal Democrats
these days. The schools are indoctrinating the kids in following whatever they are told and refraining from independent thinking. If they continue independent thinking, they are drugged. All we need is to have the government come in and order the homeschoolers to teach a pro-war, right-wing curriculum rather than the pro-peace, liberal curriculum most homeschoolers are now teaching.

By the way, the government has no idea how many kids are being homeschooled. There are millions and the current number one reason for homeschooling is that kids can't get an good education in the schools.

If everyone could afford homeschooling, the schools would probably be relatively vacant. Have you seen the low quality of education that's coming out of the schools these days?

Check out John Taylor Gatto for an excellent discussion of the American educational system. America adopted its current model from the NAZIs.
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NicoleM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:35 PM
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94. Bingo.
The schools are indoctrinating the kids in following whatever they are told and refraining from independent thinking.

That is another big problem I have with public school. I have always resisted going with the herd. This did not make for a good experience in school, from either the teachers or the other kids.

Also, I don't think I mentioned before, but kids eat CRAP at school. I was a mentor one year for a second grader. She could buy candy at school, and did every day. The teacher supplied candy, too. And then there are the "treat days." I don't want my kid feasting on sugar all day long--I don't think it's conducive to learning. But if you ask that he doesn't get what the other kids all get, he gets branded "weird."
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trixie Donating Member (696 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:37 PM
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97. The times they are a changing
True....the whole homeschool movement was a liberal left idea but that has changed and the Christian right has used homeschool to isolate, indoctrinate, and start their own movement.

I am a librarian at a public library that has grown from rural to metropolitan. The homeschool movement of the day is quite different than the one we knew. I have noticed the following traits amongst today's homeschoolers:

1. Isolation
2. Biblical Living which would include federal headship/corporal punishment/movement to keep women at home and out of the polls.
3. Children being instructed by parents who do not value education and most do not have GED or high school diplomas.
4. These homeschoolers vote down any public funded service, hence the quality of life for the community is in peril.

I will agree that there are homeschool families I deal with that homeschool for reasons such as medical, high/low intelligence/military on the move etc. These families are vastly different than the new trend by the radical right.


I have been told that I am damned to hell for wearing pants, for working, and for the higher education of women. I have one family who "homeschool" and both their children work at their business during the day and they try to get in some studying at night. This violates child labor laws and education. Because of these families I agree with some kind of regulation to protect the rights and welfare of the children.:freak:
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alcuno Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:42 PM
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98. Welcome to DU, trixie
That's a terrific first post. You're damned to hell for working? I hate to ask where you live.
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trixie Donating Member (696 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:46 PM
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103. Thanks
It's not where I live (Michigan) but what I encounter dealing with the public.

I would just like to add that public schools are only as good as the community who supports and gets involved with it.

Don't like your public school? Get very, very involved.
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NicoleM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:48 PM
Response to Reply #97
104. That's America.
People have the right to be religious wackos.
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 10:48 PM
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165. what kind of nonsense is this?
"People have the right to be religious wackos."

And do religious wackos have the right to engage in human sacrifice because their religion mandates/authorizes it?

To kill protected species of animals willy-nilly because their religion mandates/authorizes it?

To burn down national forests because their religion mandates/authorizes it?

To stone their adulterous spouses to death because their religion mandates/authorizes it?

If not -- exactly how is your comment even relevant to whether people have the "right" to violate child labour laws because their religion mandates/authorizes it? To beat their children because their religion mandates/authorizes it? To deny their children an education because their religion mandates/authorizes it?

That was the subject of the post you responded to.

People have a right to practise their religion.

CHILDREN HAVE THE RIGHT not to be put to work, not to be beaten and not to be denied an education. Those are things that your society as a whole has agreed on, quite some time ago. They are not things that people may just opt their children out of, any more than they may opt out of the laws on homicide and arson and environmental protection.

If you are actually saying that they should be able to opt their children out of those protections, I have to ask what makes their children less deserving of protection than virgins and bald eagles and giant redwoods, and adulterous spouses. Or should the protections we have agreed to give all them also just be optional, and dependent on everybody's religious preference?

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NicoleM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 08:31 AM
Response to Reply #165
195. Chill.
What I was responding to was this:
True....the whole homeschool movement was a liberal left idea but that has changed and the Christian right has used homeschool to isolate, indoctrinate, and start their own movement.

I am a librarian at a public library that has grown from rural to metropolitan. The homeschool movement of the day is quite different than the one we knew. I have noticed the following traits amongst today's homeschoolers:

1. Isolation
2. Biblical Living which would include federal headship/corporal punishment/movement to keep women at home and out of the polls.


We have what we like to call "Freedom of Religion" down here. It means that people are free to do what Trixie said people are doing. They do not have the right to abuse their children. They do not have the right to violate other people or other people's property in the practice of their religion. They do have a right to raise their children in their religion, even if I think they're religious wackos. That's just the way it works. Now, you may argue that raising kids to be religious wackos is child abuse, but I don't think you'd find many courts here that would agree with you.

You don't like homeschooling. WE GET IT.
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:35 AM
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211. hey, congratulations
"We have what we like to call "Freedom of Religion" down here."

I must have been confused. Up here, we have mandatory Sunday services, thrice-daily school prayer, compulsory deductions from our paycheques to the Church of Canada and statues of saints in the grocery stores and all public parks, and nobody who won't pledge allegiance to Jesus Christ is allowed to immigrate. Or have children.

Could you be more baselessly patronizing? The actual fact is that up here, freedom of religion, while of course guaranteed by the constitution, is very seldom thought about, since very few people have any interest in anyone else's religion or lack thereof.


"What I was responding to was this: ...

Yeah? And what I was responding to was the fact that you had said "People have the right to be religious wackos" in response to a post that included these, which you conveniently omitted this time:

3. Children being instructed by parents who do not value education and most do not have GED or high school diplomas.

I have one family who "homeschool" and both their children work at their business during the day and they try to get in some studying at night. This violates child labor laws and education.


... and the fact, which we both know, that in both Canada and the US, some parents and religious cults use "freedom of religion" as grounds for claiming a "right" to batter their children.

And my point was that "freedom of religion" does not override laws enacted to protect important public interests -- three of which are providing children with an appropriate education, protecting children from being exploited for their labour, and protecting children from mistreatment.

So of course, your present selective quoting of the post you had responded to, after which you say:

"Now, you may argue that raising kids to be religious wackos is child abuse, but I don't think you'd find many courts here that would agree with you."

... might be designed to make it look as if that is what I *was* arguing, but it wasn't. I think we both knew that.

I mean, particularly since what I SAID was:

CHILDREN HAVE THE RIGHT not to be put to work, not to be beaten and not to be denied an education. Those are things that your society as a whole has agreed on, quite some time ago. They are not things that people may just opt their children out of, any more than they may opt out of the laws on homicide and arson and environmental protection.

I just don't see anything there about children having a right "not to be raised to be religious wackos". Did you?


"You don't like homeschooling. WE GET IT."

Gee. And here I thought that the purpose of discussing issues was to explain one's opinions and listen to other people's explanations of theirs, and consider the merits of the facts and arguments each offers. After all, important things are at stake, and in a democracy, it seems to me, it is important that people who want their policies to be implemented be willing to put their reasons for wanting those policies to the test of public criticism.

I know, it's so much more fun to fling opinions around. It's just that that's not what I do. I offer the facts and arguments that I consider persuasive for my position. And I'm always interested in discussion that offers counter-argument and facts for another position, or attempts to rebut what I've offered. I'm just not seeing any of that.

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NicoleM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:00 AM
Response to Reply #211
223. "Could you be more baselessly patronizing?"
Pot. Kettle. Black.
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Old and In the Way Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:48 PM
Response to Reply #97
130. Welcome aboard trixie!
I guess that's my concern too. I tend to lump all home schoolers together. Up in Maine, the vast majority appear to be religous fundies.

I suspect that these kids will not be well adjusted to deal with society and we will pay a price for this some day in the future.
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:33 PM
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126. WTF? Ever hear of John Dewey?
If what we have is "based" on anything it's his philosophy. I suppose he's a "Nazi" now?

Of course with local differences we can hardly be considered of one system.
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alcuno Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:30 PM
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91. We had a student at our school who was a complete disaster.
Mom's solution was to take him out for home-schooling. The problem was that she already had a full-time job. There was no one providing oversight and no state standards to adhere to.

I believe that the majority of parents who homeschool do a terrific job, but states and communities have an obligation to set some standards and monitor what is going on. If education is COMPULSORY, then it needs to be regulated.
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MrsMatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 07:53 PM
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108. In my experience
I typically need to hire 10-14 seasonal staff every summer - some are returning employees and others are new. I prefer to hire college students, because the job requires intense public contact (data entry and customer service). I have also hired my share of high school students. By far and away, I prefer the home-schooled high school students, to the public school students. They are more respectful, mature and responsible. Socially, they are not quite in synch with their peers but they pick it up fast. My current part-time staffer, who is home-schooled, reminds me in many ways of myself at that age - naieve, facinated by words and information (we both confess to reading the encyclopeadia and dictionary for fun in elementary) and socially concerned. She was in public school until 6th grade, but she became so bored she convinced her mother to home-school her (her mother is college educated, by the way).
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elfin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:01 PM
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110. As a natural history museum volunteer
I see many home schoolers with their parents trying to take advantage of outside the home opportunities to learn.

That part is good -- BUT invariably, it is the PARENTS who are enriched by the visit - the kids are either spookily non-interactive or just plain lost about the concepts we try to get across.

And forget ANY mention of evolution - if they request I not cover it, I direct them to the administration which backs us up completely.

The group programs offered as "Camps" by the museum are very popular with these clients, probably trying to hack the very real socializtion problem. The educators report much more inappropriate behavior from them along the lines of demanding excessive off the topic attention and inablilty to "get along" on group trips etc.

So far, my experience has been that this trend makes the parents feel good and the kids underserved.

There are eceptions, of course, primarily with truly gifted kids whose programs have been slashed by the budgets. They do need the individualized programs that can be adminstered by a bright and engaged parent.
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Kolesar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:13 PM
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117. My public school teachers taught me how to think.
They challenged us with topics such as interracial marriage and homosexuality. There were plenty of anticommunist hawks in the faculty, but other faculty did lead us in discussions on the ongoing Vietnam War. Many of them were empathetic and thoughtful people who could sense when their students needed help.

These professionals had years of training and experience that most parents could not come close to matching. I remember the parents of my peers--they were plenty challenged just getting the business of the house in order. They had scant time to help the children with homework. It would have been a mistake for them to attempt to homeschool their children.

It took me decades after finishing school to realize what fine teachers I had. The only weak spot was the math and science teachers who were a bit over their head, but as a group at least they tried and they cared.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:32 PM
Response to Reply #117
125. We learned about WWI last year
and were viewed some of All Quiet on the Western Front and I really wanted to get the book and I did and I really loved it and its part of my reading process. I quote from it at times, and its so great.
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Kolesar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:37 PM
Response to Reply #125
128. We read "All Quiet on the Western Front" also (!)
I recall the scene when the infantry soldier was reflecting on the possibility of him getting killed and the best he could do was to tell himself that "the sun will still come up tomorrow morning". As a teenager, his line did not adequately explain the situation, but as I have aged, I still think back on that line and ponder it. It does have more meaning for me now than it did then.
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 10:25 PM
Response to Reply #128
161. That book now is so beautiful: my favorite quotes
Actually I read on my own choice.

"He fell in October 1918, on a day that was so quiet and still on the whole front, that the army report confined itself to the single sentence: All quiet on the Western Front. He had fallen forward and lay on the earth as though sleeping. Turning him over one saw that he could not have suffered long; his face had an expression of calm, as though almost glad the end had come."


"Do I walk? Have I feet still? I raise my eyes, I let them move round, and turn myself with them, one circle, one circle, and I stand in the midst. All is as usual. Only the Militiaman Stanislaus Katczinsky has died. Then I know nothing more."



"I am young, I am twenty years old; yet I know nothing of life but despair, death, fear, and fatuous superficiality cast over an abyss of sorrow. I see how peoples are set against one another, and in silence, unknowingly, foolishly, obediently, innocently slay one another."


"'But now, for the first time, I see you are a man like me. I thought of your hand-grenades, of your bayonet, of your rifle; now I see your wife and your face and our fellowship. Forgive me, comrade. We always see it too late. Why do they never tell us that you are poor devils like us, that your mothers are just as anxious as ours, and that we have the same fear of death, and the same dying and the same agony--Forgive me, comrade; how could you be my enemy?'"
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NicoleM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:17 PM
Response to Reply #125
137. In my school
we never read the book (by that I mean *any* book). Ever. At most we watched the video.

I also never had to write a paper in high school.
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 08:58 PM
Response to Reply #117
132. See Spiked I'd be the opposite
I was the victim of a terrible school system. When I grew up they had introduce "The year 2000" plan here...Yeah I know the name is the kiss of death. It was a learn at your own pace type thing. Wel, for a kid with learning disabilites learn at my own pace didn't work out so well. I know in theory it should. But all that happen is I became less interested in school and more unorganized to the point that it even effects me today.

I didn't really start learning until I was 16...I'd gotten kicked outta summer school the year before and had to go to boarding school for the next year's summer school.

The boarding school was run on a 1940s style....I got A's and B's in subjects that I had failed the remedial versions of. And I retained the info.....back to public school...same old shit, couldn't do it. I wish they wouldn't experiment on kids the way they do.

I know some homeschooled kids that are amazingly bright...they speak German, and seem to know something about everything. But they have a dedicated mother.
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Kolesar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:35 PM
Response to Reply #132
149. My brother was learning disabled, and he did not do so well after all
The school system did not know what to do with a dyslexic, so they let him "slip between the cracks". My mother tried some extra learning, but it barely helped. He is very maladjusted. I don't think homeschooling would have helped him at all. He needed a better school, whether private or public.
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maha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:34 AM
Response to Reply #132
210. Dedicated mothers.
Andrea Yates was a home schooling mother, and she was a flaming schizophrenic. This is better than public school?

I had a crumby time in public school, too (ca. 1950s and 1960s), but I've seen worse things.
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thinkingwoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:00 PM
Response to Reply #210
328. the problem with yates
was the schizophrenia.

Surely you're not arguing that she killed her kids because she was a homeschooling mother are you?

Are you suggesting that if her kids had gone to public school that she wouldn't have drowned them after the school day was done?

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seventhson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:19 PM
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140. It is NOT YOUR business to ensure ANYTHING
As a society we have chosen certain fundamental privacy rights. Among them is the right to educate your children as you see fit.


Where I live there are minimum requirments that are less than what is required in the public schools.

But it is the right of parents, in my opinion, to educate their children with NO ONE interfering unless they are in serious danger
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Robin Hood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:47 PM
Response to Reply #140
156. And with no one interfering,
how would anyone know whether the child was in serious danger or not?
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seventhson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 11:26 PM
Response to Reply #156
170. You pay attention. Mandating supervision is Unconstitutional and
violates fundamental privacy rights.

Obviously if you see a child who is in danger or who exhibits signs of abuse, then you ask for the state to investigate.

But to assume that children are at risk because YOU do not know what their parents are doing is ludicrous. There must be EVIDENCE of neglect before state intervention is constitutionally permissible. They are called the Fourth and 14th amendmentAmedment and they are damn good ones to protect us from coercive state intervention in our families lives.

Your assumption that homeschooling is BAD is the error. Should I be allowed to supervise how you DISCIPLINE your kids or your wife or husband because NOT watching you MIGHT let you be abusive???


Peeking into the lives of people and their families to impose your values system is dysfunctional and deviant. It is exactly what the Bushes are trying to do.

Let people educate their children in peace. There are guidelines in every state. If there is evidence that someone is woefully inadequate (but NOT evidence created by nosy spying bureaucrats and busybodies) in educating a child - then it will become obvious sooner or later.

School does NOT guarantee education or freedom from abuse. Where I work the violence scares kids away from school and they cannot learn there.

I say mind your own business on this issue. The people destryng our educational system in Washington (the BFEE) are where our efforts should be focussed. We are not a totalitarian fascist regime YET are we???
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 11:55 PM
Response to Reply #170
172. freud slips in?
"Should I be allowed to supervise how you DISCIPLINE
your kids or your wife or husband because NOT watching you
MIGHT let you be abusive???"


"Discipline your wife or husband"?

I'd say that anybody doing that is in dire need of supervision ... or more accurately, his(/her?!) victim is in dire need of it.


"Mandating supervision is Unconstitutional and
violates fundamental privacy rights."


You need to read up on this stuff.

Searching your home for narcotics violates your privacy rights, but it is *not* unconstitutional unless it is unreasonable. A violation of a right is not unconstitutional if it is a justified violation. This really is the truth. You can ask your Supreme Court.

Opinions may vary as to what is "justified" -- but this does not mean that one opinion is as good as another. There really are rules and criteria to guide that determination.

The more compelling the interest that is to be protected by violating the right, the more minimal the impairment of the right, the more likely the violation is to be justified.

There appears to be disagreement as to how compelling the interest is here -- how compelling the state's interest in protecting children from abuse, and ensuring that children's right to an education is respected, is.

You may indeed argue that those interests are not sufficiently compelling to justify public oversight of the welfare and progress of children who are homeschooled that necessitates truly minimal impairment of parents' privacy and liberty rights. Whether you could argue that and call yourself progressive would be another question, in my ever so humble own opinion.

And it does seem to me that your bitch is really not at all with the impairment of the parents' rights, but with the fundamental notion that children have the rights in question -- their own rights to life and liberty, and to an education -- and are entitled to exercise those rights and entitled to protection from parents who prefer to violate those rights.

Your insistence that parents have some "right" to do with their children as they see fit without outside interference, as somehow guaranteed by the parents' right to liberty and privacy, looks to me like advocating the truly unconstitutional violation of children's rights by allowing parents to deny them the protection and education they are entitled to.

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seventhson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:39 AM
Response to Reply #172
271. Right. It is a Constitutional argument.
The children and the family have a right to be free of miseducation and programming by a fascist state.

The issue I raise is EXACTLY one of requiring proof that the parents are doing something wrong before you can "monitor" them in the role of STATE as PARENT.


The assumption is that parents are doing something WRONG by homeschooling.

I would argue the oppositie.

It is akin to allowing the state into your home top monitor how you treat your kids to "prove" you are not doing anything wrong. It's bullshit. Same with relationships: Why not just install cameras in everybodies homes to BE SURE they are not doing anything wrong, huh???

I think it is state deviance.

Children should have the right to education - I agree.

There should be requirements (there are). But MONITORING people to see if they are violating the requirements would be an unconstitutional deprivation of privacy rights.

I understand the point. I disagree with the premise.
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:13 PM
Response to Reply #271
275. who? what? where?

"The assumption is that parents are doing something WRONG by homeschooling."

Such an impersonal formulation.

WHOSE assumption would that allegedly be? The assumption made by that straw-filled effigy out there in that field?


I could say it all again. When occupational safety inspections are conducted in workplaces, when health inspections are conducted in food-packing plants, when ..., when ..., NO ASSUMPTION is made that any wrong-doing is taking place.

Compliance inspections are just that: inspections to ascertain COMPLIANCE. They are justified by the overriding public interest in ENSURING COMPLIANCE with measures are required to be followed in the interests of the persons they are intended to protect from some harm that they are at risk of suffering.

I'll say it again: we ain't in the 19th century any more, Toto.

Government of, for and by the people, isn't that what it's all about? And the people fulfilling their civic responsibility to one another by prohibiting harm being done to their vulnerable fellows, and taking steps to ensure that it is not done, where it has been determined to be necessary to do that.

The fact that children are shut up in a private home 24/7 just doesn't make them less entitled to oversight than any other child.


"But MONITORING people to see if they are violating the requirements would be an unconstitutional deprivation of privacy rights."

Try listening up, now.

The purpose of the monitoring is NOT to see whether anyone is violating anything.

The purpose of the monitoring is TO ENSURE THAT THE RIGHTS OF PEOPLE WITH RIGHTS are being respected, and specifically, in this case, to ensure that their right to be educated and not to be harmed is being respected.


"The children and the family have a right to be free of miseducation and programming by a fascist state."

And paranoids have a right to treatment.

Perhaps a time machine would suffice, in some cases.

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maha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:43 AM
Response to Reply #170
215. Dear Genius
"Obviously if you see a child who is in danger or who exhibits signs of abuse, then you ask for the state to investigate."

If a parent can keep a child isolated at home so that no one outside the family ever sees the child, who's gonna ask the state to investigate? The Home School Fairy?
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 11:04 PM
Response to Reply #140
169. that being your opinion
You are of course entitled to it:

"But it is the right of parents, in my opinion, to educate their children with NO ONE interfering unless they are in serious danger"

It just doesn't happen to be FACT.

"As a society we have chosen certain fundamental privacy rights. Among them is the right to educate your children as you see fit."

Nor would that be.

The fundamental problem with your formulation of reality is that children are not furniture or pets or cattle; they are people, and -- hold onto your hat -- they have rights too.

That idea was novel a century or so ago. It's pretty generally accepted these days, at least among the literati. You know: the ones who went to school.

No one has any "right" to do "as they see fit" to any other human being, "with no one else interfering". And that applies to children, no matter whose they are. Sorry to burst your nineteenth century bubble, bub.

In modern, developed societies, the right to an education is rather generally regarded as fundamental. Ever read the Convention on the Rights of the Child? Yeah, yeah, I know. The US and Somalia have never ratified it. Bearing that in mind, it looks like a pretty good statement of what the civilized world in general thinks about the matter:

Article 19

1. States Parties shall take all appropriate legislative, administrative, social and educational measures to protect the child from all forms of physical or mental violence, injury or abuse, neglect or negligent treatment, maltreatment or exploitation, including sexual abuse, while in the care of parent(s), legal guardian(s) or any other person who has the care of the child.

Article 28

1. States Parties recognize the right of the child to education, and with a view to achieving this right progressively and on the basis of equal opportunity, they shall, in particular:

(a) Make primary education compulsory and available free to all;

(b) Encourage the development of different forms of secondary education, including general and vocational education, make them available and accessible to every child, and take appropriate measures such as the introduction of free education and offering financial assistance in case of need;

(c) Make higher education accessible to all on the basis of capacity by every appropriate means;

(d) Make educational and vocational information and guidance available and accessible to all children;

(e) Take measures to encourage regular attendance at schools and the reduction of drop-out rates.

2. States Parties shall take all appropriate measures to ensure that school discipline is administered in a manner consistent with the child's human dignity and in conformity with the present Convention.

3. States Parties shall promote and encourage international cooperation in matters relating to education, in particular with a view to contributing to the elimination of ignorance and illiteracy throughout the world and facilitating access to scientific and technical knowledge and modern teaching methods. In this regard, particular account shall be taken of the needs of developing countries.


In what bizarro universe is it not in the best interests of a child to be given an education that will enable him/her to exercise choices, and his/her own rights and freedoms, as an adult??

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seventhson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:52 AM
Response to Reply #169
273. It is a major problem. Does the STATE know better than YOU as parent???
I agree that education should be available and - to some degree- compulsory.

However WHAT that education involves is NOT universally agreed to.

Monitoring parents who are homeschooling becomes one more way the state can impose its values on our children.

The No Child Left Behind act is one more way to standardize education (theoretically) which is backfiring.

We are becoming like the Rhinoceroses in Ionesco's famous play. Homogenized, Pasteurized and marching into a sick conformity.



As far as the DANGER to children: the alleged DANGER exists whether or not one goes to school. Children in the public eye may or may not exhibit signs of damage.

But to assert that forcing people to be "monitored" to avoid potential dangers to children who are not in the public eye will resolve this problem is ludicrous and dangerous.

There are ALWAYS going to be some people and children who fall through the cracks. This can occur in foster homes or under "state supervision" as well. It is a hazrd of life.

But to impose the state's will on homeschoolers when they are in compliance with their state's laws and when there is no evidence of a problem is just big brotherism.

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goddess40 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:28 PM
Response to Reply #140
280. Children have rights too
How can they obtain their fundamental right to persue happiness if they got a substandard or no education. I can't wait for the first kid to sue their parents because they got a lousy homeschooled education.

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kentuck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 09:40 PM
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151. "Testing data proves across the board that Home Schooled kids do better
What testing data? Can you direct me to the data comparing public school students with homeschooled students? In this state (Colo) homeschooled children are not required to take the state mandated CSAP tests, it would be hard to make comparisons between the two groups without getting a baseline and then subsequent testing. Kentuck's Wife
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i have issues Donating Member (451 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 10:53 PM
Response to Reply #151
167. I was home schooled for eight years,
as I was just a kid at the time, I had no knowledge of any stats relating to testing...What I do know, when my sis and I entered junior high, we were testing at High School levels...and ended up being the youngest sophmores in high school. Single Mom and grandma did the teaching,,, Maybe a fluke?
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 11:38 PM
Response to Reply #167
171. and guess what?
I attended public schools for my entire childhood (except for three months when I was interned in the children's ward of a religious hospital with a broken leg, where I was treated with contempt by the staff and schooled by a school board-provided tutor, completing grade 3 that fall and entering grade 4 after xmas, along with the rest of the kids doing the skip-a-grade plan).

And I left high school a year early (i.e. without doing the Canadian grade 13 year of the era), at 16, to go to university on scholarship, and completed my undergraduate degree (3 years, here) in two years, at the age of 18. By the time I was 26, I had completed another couple of years of undergraduate study, a law degree, a couple of years of part-time work as a government researcher and a year of work as a professional in the public service, had done the whole articling/bar ad thing, and was practising law.

Oddly enough, a lot of my classmates in the public school system didn't achieve those things. I hope I'll be forgiven for assuming that a lot of your fellow homeschooled kids didn't and won't achieve what you did, either.

Anecdotes. The stuff that public policy discussions are made of. Not.

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Blue_Chill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:19 AM
Response to Reply #171
231. Anecdotes?
Hold on there. You have already been shown data showing homeschooled kids out perform public school kids. You dismissed that.

No you are attacking the anedotal argument.


Why not just be honest and say you have a problem with it based on a made up fantasy in your head that you are unable to back up with any real data.
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maha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:31 AM
Response to Reply #231
241. Yes, but it takes years for the damage to be done.
It used to be that home schooling was rare, and that the enormous majority of parents who home schooled were well educated and dedicated.

That is no longer the case. Home schooling has become a Cause among right-wing religious nutjobs who are about as capable of teaching their children as I can fly. And, unfortunately, it will take a few years for the damage to show up in data.

However, it has struck me in this discussion that advocates of home schooling have missed the main point. The main point is not whether home schooling should be permitted at all, but whether there should be some state oversight to be sure the children are at least receiving a minimal amount of care and education. Why would the latter bother you?
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thinkingwoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:04 PM
Response to Reply #241
329. there IS state oversight
the original post contains inaccuracies. There are a FEW states where the rules are what some might call lax. There are also states were curriculums must be approved by state authorities and annual testing conducted.

Most states fall somewhere in the middle of those extremes.

There IS state oversight.
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iverglas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:50 AM
Response to Reply #231
255. who? what? where?


"Hold on there. You have already been shown data showing homeschooled kids out perform public school kids. You dismissed that."

I seem to have missed both where I was shown it and where I dismissed it. I musta been really sleepy.

Perhaps you are referring to post 100, in which I responded to someone's allegation that such data exist, and offered reasons why I might be likely to consider it not to show such a thing?

Dear me, if you're that disturbed by argument-by-anecdote, there is certainly fertile ground for you in this thread. Which, gosh, was my point.


"Why not just be honest and say you have a problem with it based on a made up fantasy in your head that you are unable to back up with any real data.

Mea culpa. I was listening to those voices in my head again and deluding myself into thinking that I was ... well, saying something. Perhaps I typed it in invisible pixels, since you seem to have, uh, missed it.

Do try reading about what happened to the UK's public health care system, and the people who depended on it, when patients exited it in droves. That's the kind of data I rely on when arguing that "permitting" large-scale opting-out (by which I mean giving incentives for opting-out, whether directly or by disincentives -- poor quality -- for staying in) is unwise.

What "data" you're suggesting I should offer in support of oversight of homeschoolers and their children, I haven't a clue. I believe that the issue was the potential for abuse, neglect, non-education and exploitation of children in the homeschool situation, and the right of children to be protected from those things. Without the oversight (and without comparisons based on "all other things being equal", not "different by definition", populations), quite obviously no data on those topics is available. I'll quote sangh0: would you suggest that I consult the Home School Fairy and report back?


Oh, btw. I already have one little guy following me around misrepresenting what I'm saying and asking loaded questions and making parallel-universe inferences from my posts. Maybe you could take a rest today.

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Blue_Chill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 11:59 AM
Response to Reply #255
274. You really do try to be as smug as possible don't you?
Perhaps you are referring to post 100, in which I responded to someone's allegation that such data exist, and offered reasons why I might be likely to consider it not to show such a thing?

The reasons you gave were intended to muddy the water and side stepped the bottom line. Home schooled kids out perform public schooled kids. But then again who doesn't do better then public school kids?

But nice job side stepping that all important reality.

try reading about what happened to the UK's public health care system, and the people who depended on it, when patients exited it in droves. That's the kind of data I rely on when arguing that "permitting" large-scale opting-out (by which I mean giving incentives for opting-out, whether directly or by disincentives -- poor quality -- for staying in) is unwise.

I don't care. Seriously if the public school system fails, so be it. I would rather not have it at all then allow it to keep failing our society. So you can rely on any data you like but the only thing I'm interested in is 'make it work' and make it work NOW. If not the right thing to do is look for other solutions.

The reality of the oversight and everything else is the need for some here to have control over all things taught to children. To reomve the parents from the equation all together. That I will not support.

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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:20 PM
Response to Reply #274
276. It's hard to resist smugness when you
claim that "Home schooled kids out perform public schooled kids" and think that someone provided evidence of this when all that was done is that poskinig CLAIMED this without providing any evidence to support it.

So where is this evidence you keep claiming is out there?
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BigEdMustapha Donating Member (70 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 06:50 PM
Response to Reply #276
321. home school student performance
Here's a couple of links to stats about homeschoolers performance:

1997 study - http://www.hslda.org/docs/study/comp2001/HomeSchoolAchievement.pdf

"shows home schoolers outperformed their public school peers by 30 to 37% across all subjects"

Also here for some figures on homeschoolers and college enterance exams (among other things) - http://www.hslda.org/docs/nche/000000/00000017.asp

"2219 students reporting their home school status on the SAT in 1999 scored an average of 1083 (verbal 548, math 535), 67 points above the national average of 1016. Also in 1999, 3616 home school students taking the ACT scored an average of 22.7, compared to the national average of 21"
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hedgetrimmer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 10:46 PM
Response to Original message
164. what is your point? what sort of democrat are you?
are you the kind of democrat who removes the rights of the people?

are you the kind of democrat who does not know the issue at hand and make random verbalizations?

where is your posts on your own thread?

know the facts not some cbs special... the media language and idealogy that is america from the classrooms to the streets have you by the balls.... wake up and have a thread that is intelligent not "flame-throwing"... good luck...
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Hippo_Tron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-14-03 10:50 PM
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166. Ummm we have more important things to worry about...
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cap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 12:30 AM
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173. no parent will ever admit failure...
no parent will ever admit that he/she screwed up their child if they do not do a good job of homeschooling. A parent can only teach a child what he/she knows. The child can not go beyond the parent. This is why I will not homeschool my kid. I want my child to do better than myself and to be exposed to people with talents in areas that I can not hope to achieve in.

Homeschooling can work well as an additional option. But... how will you ever keep up with new trends in education? You can give an education based on your own experience. But you would have been the parent using rote methods to teach math instead of the "New Math" which gave kids set theory at an early age -- necessary to understanding database work.

Beyond a minority of people, homeschooling usually means the Mom at home. Not exactly a blow for women's liberation. Maybe a choice but I don't see that compensating for a poor public school is much of a choice.

Simply having a second point of view on a child's development and potential is invaluable. I think that many on this board have benefited from a teacher pointing out an ability or a talent that went unnoticed in the family.

Remember labor unions fought for public education. This was one of their great achievements. Parents had the only option of homeschooling. Go back and look at history to understand why it was not sufficient.
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BigEdMustapha Donating Member (70 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:03 AM
Response to Reply #173
177. There are always options for parents who want to homeschool
I hate to use my first post to disagree with someone, but here goes...

"A parent can only teach a child what he/she knows"

I do not believe this is true - there are many options for parents to teach beyond what they know:
1. Curriculum from legitimate educational companies can be purchased to teach complex subjects all the way through high school.
2. Local home school groups pool resources to hire tutors for 1 on 1 or small group lessons for advanced subjects.
3. Preparatory schools where the student attends classes 2 days of the week while home schooling the other days. This allows the student to receive instruction from a teacher with advanced knowledge of subjects while also allowing the parent to supplement and work with the student on the other days.
4. Parents often reach out to friends or family with knowledge in certain areas they might be lacking in to assist in the subject.

"how will you ever keep up with new trends in education"

Parents who homeschool can be much more flexible in the education process. With all the one-on-one time with the child, they can discover what teaching methods work best for their child and adjust on the fly. The choices for curriculums are endless and cover all “old” and “new” learning methods. Would you rather have the choice to teach your child a “new” math process or any other process you choose immediately, or wait years for some state legislature to see what textbook company gives them the most money to mandate the schools teach their method?
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JCMach1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:47 AM
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183. Home schooling is another symptom of the death of Civic Culture
in this country. Honestly, I don't care how good or bad it is-- or who does it.

What I see is a process that CAN socially isolate kids. Later, if they do participate in groups they are the type that lack diversity.

Another thing (expecting a flame), the homeschoolers that I know (and yes this includes family) have MAJOR control issues. They want to control their childrens lives in virtually every detail (including their education).

I think a better research question to ask about home schoolers is not WHAT ARE THEY LEARNING, but WHAT THEY AREN'T learning.

I'll shut up now.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 08:17 AM
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194. JCMach1 your brush is too broad
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wellstone_democrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-16-03 12:12 AM
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332. how about 200 anecdotes?
If we want to go by stories and personal experience I guess I can offer about a couple of hundred in my years as a college professor. For every kid I see entering freshman classes who has a superior or enriched curriculum through home schooling I have a minimum of 5 who are hopelessly behind. Often they read quite well but have no training in critical thinking and have less in writing. Those who are products of a "religious" home schooling experience are often sadly lacking in any post-19th century subjects. (NOTE: there is a big industry developing in reprinting 18th and 19th century textbooks as "family friendly" and unfortunately more than simply science has moved beyond 1826....)

Anecdotal to be sure, but it is what I do for a living. I was once much more supportive of homeschooling efforts but, frankly, I've seen too much of the result. As JCMach says, there is some really odd "control" stuff thrown in---I regularly get letters signed thusly:

Jane Doe (as her teacher not her mother!)

usually explaining that the C I gave her child/student is *wrong* because I fail to recognize either "genius" or "creative thinking"---believe me, I'd love to see either one or the other. It isn't anger that moves me to be leery of these students, its sadness.
Your child might have that wonderful, disciplined enriching experience. Good for him. I see too many who make the worst public school grads we get look like they went to prep schools.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 02:55 AM
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188. You can't. I wish I had a nickel for every kid I saw running around
during the school days. Ask someone what they are
using for their kids and then ask them if its
certified. Too many aren't. Be interesting how many
of them get into a college with this as transcripts.
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Classical_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 07:53 AM
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190. Let them home school their kids
just keep their parents off of the school boards! They are trying to ruin public education through stealth campaigns and those are the kids I worry about.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 06:10 PM
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318. You are SOOOOOOO right about this--it isn't something most
people are aware of. While we argue over the next Democratic President, how many of us know who is on our school boards? I took the time to find out the year before my son started school, and I didn't like what I found.

They are indeed stealth candidates, usually fundies. They will tell you that they "haven't formed an opinion" on an issue, if you can even get them to admit there ARE issues. My school board had a homeschooler on it until recently.
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maha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:11 AM
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199. Home School Scam

You can find all kinds of testimonials from people who home school and say their children benefited, and I have no doubt they are right. I am not against home schooling.

However, I do not think parents ought to be able to keep their kids out of school with no checking or oversight whatsoever.

Until relatively recently, home schooling was rare and usually undertaken only by dedicated, educated parents who had good reason to take their kids out of school.

But now home schooling has become a cause of the extreme religious right. (No doubt this is tied in to the VRWC crusade to destroy pubic schools.) You cannot tell me that some Born Again whackjobs who are barely literate themselves are capable of providing a good education for their children.

Further, "home schooling" is a perfect scam for abusive parents who don't want teachers to notice their kids' bruises and broken bones.

Plus it can be a strain on the schooler. Remember Andrea Yates?

Oversight is essential.
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kentuck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:14 AM
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200. We shouldn't asume every parent is qualified to teach....
Just as every trained teacher is not the same. However, they are at least trained in the education field.
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October Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:44 PM
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295. Actually not all teachers are trained
Private schools often don't require a degree, let alone child development training.

And there are plenty of teachers in private schools who have degrees in business administration teaching elementary school-age children. It's outrageous. I'm talking about some "elite" private schools too, which do not require any sort of certification from the state (PA and NJ).

On the other hand, our family is fortunate to live in a "good" public school district. Yet still there are many punitive rules, unusual teaching methods, and other narrow-minded approaches to put up with.

We "supplement" our children's education, but I can totally understand why frustrated parents lean toward total home schooling.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 10:57 AM
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slaveplanet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:33 PM
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291. cbs hit piece?
Edited on Wed Oct-15-03 01:35 PM by slaveplanet
The way i see it a child would be far more likely to experience a violent confrontation in puplic school than in a home school setting.There are exceptions of course...I guess it's CBS's job to find those. More hard hitting breaking news from the folks at CBS...Why don't they spend some time on the voting machine fiasco?
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qanda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 01:50 PM
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297. Yes!
Evil home schoolers are about the least of our worries.
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MaidinVermont Donating Member (91 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-15-03 09:29 PM
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323. How can we ensure that public schooled children are being taught well?
That's the bigger question.
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