Okay, I went to troubledwith.com so you don't have to. When I am done I will take a shower.
Question: The other day a Christian friend of mine told me she was a lesbian and that she thinks it is okay with God. How can I talk to her about lesbianism from a Christian point of view?
Answer: Homosexual behavior is against the design of human nature. Men and women are indispensable to each other; they aren't interchangeable blocks.
The tree of homosexuality bears bad fruit. Sodomitical acts have not only external consequences like death, disease and childlessness, but internal ones. Some of the internal consequences are psychological, like loneliness and compulsive behavior. Others are moral, for we cannot violate the human design yet expect things to go on as they were; "that road leads down and down."
To refuse limits on sexual desire is to make an idol of lust. In our day the most popular false gods aren't cats and crocodiles, but youth, beauty, money, fame and sex. When a person pursues sexual desire even against the design of human nature — even at the risk of protracted and agonizing death; even when to do so she must overcome shame and disgust over her own acts — then it's a pretty safe bet that sexual desire has become her idol.
Once upon a time
"a Christian friend of mine told me she was a lesbian." Well actually she was my girlfriend's girlfriend. (You don't even want to know...) For a long time she truly believed God was going to wave His High Holy Cross Double D-Cell Dildo over her, and make her lust after men, but that miracle never happened.
If you want to know what hell looks like I can tell you, because the three of us travelled that road and back. Mostly I remember those damned rat bastards holding out their balls.