I was raised by a single mother who worked 2 jobs; secretary by day, waitress by night. She earned a high school diploma, and went back to school when I was 17 to earn an AA.
I was neglected/ignored by my father, a truck driver who dropped out of school after 8th grade.
I lived in apartments until I was 30; lots of them. We moved continuously.
I got married out of high school and immediately had 2 kids; took 12 years to earn an AA, then finished the BA, another 30 units, and a teaching credential. Now I'm a salaried teacher.
Am I white collar or blue?
I chose Limbo...based on this book:
Limbo: Blue-Collar Roots, White-Collar Dreams by Alfred Lubrano.
I think I fit the description:
From Publishers Weekly
Lubrano's view of the challenges that upwardly mobile children of blue-collar families (he calls them Straddlers) face in establishing themselves in white-collar enclaves could spark lively debates among Straddlers themselves, not to mention those Lubrano views as having a head start based on birth into a white-collar family. In this combination of memoir and survey, the Philadelphia Inquirer staff reporter recalls his freshman year at Columbia; he'd expected classmates to regard him as sophisticated because he was a New Yorker. However, this son of a Brooklyn bricklayer found himself on the outside of elite cliques populated by men he characterizes as "pasty, slight fellas-all of them seemed 5-foot-7 and sandy-haired." This was only the beginning for Lubrano, who came to see entry into a select educational institution as a harsh cultural dividing line between his blue-collar upbringing and his white-collar future. Becoming a journalist cost him emotionally when he felt torn between abandoning cherished values from his youth and accommodating his new profession's demands. Lubrano's interviews with other Straddlers have convinced him that ambition puts many of them in positions fraught with similar ambivalence and unexpected culture shock. With quotes from Richard Rodriguez and bell hooks, Lubrano illustrates his thesis: "Limbo folk remain aware of their `otherness' throughout their lives perpetual outsiders." Yet he's quick to recognize individual Straddlers who've persevered in the face of those outsider feelings (though, regrettably, he doesn't share self-reflection). Straddlers' ultimate challenge, Lubrano opines, is to be as steadfast and self-possessed in reconciling their white-collar present with their blue-collar heritage as they have been in achieving their professional goals.
Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information, Inc. http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0471263761/qid=1083726519/sr=2-1/ref=sr_2_1/103-1675114-8369458
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