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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 07:59 PM Original message |
Divorced DU'ers: When did you *know* the marriage was over? |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:00 PM Response to Original message |
1. The light goes off, and you know instantly that it's over. |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:48 PM Response to Reply #1 |
17. Well you KNOW it's over, but it can take years, even DECADES to admit it.. |
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physioex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:02 PM Response to Original message |
2. I agree with you last statement... |
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Demeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
3. You Feel Afraid, VERY Afraid |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:05 PM Response to Original message |
4. When I caught my wife in our bed with another guy |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:11 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. Ouch! |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:45 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. It was 23 years ago |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 09:54 PM Response to Reply #15 |
26. Glad to hear that |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 09:34 PM Response to Reply #8 |
25. that does suck |
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mhr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
5. After The Very First Year And The Sex Stopped |
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lapfog_1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
6. Hmmm... |
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griffi94 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:08 PM Response to Original message |
7. i knew it was over |
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stellanoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
9. I woke up in the middle of the night with the word |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:13 PM Response to Original message |
10. After he cheated more then once. |
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No2W2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:15 PM Response to Original message |
11. When people told me in my support group |
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Nlighten1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:25 PM Response to Original message |
12. You just know. |
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Mizmoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:29 PM Response to Original message |
13. I knew but felt so bad about it and so guilty |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
14. 1st time: |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
16. When she caught me with my girlfriend |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:51 PM Response to Original message |
18. There is a light. You'll also know if that person's "the one." |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:56 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. All of your experiences are so sad to me. :( |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 10:31 PM Response to Reply #20 |
28. These are far from all of my expereinces |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
19. I don't know if it is, really |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:59 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. I can't remember the last time my hubby and I had sex (do married people |
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Pepperbelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
21. I stayed married 8 years longer than I should have for a total of ... |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 10:47 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. yep, that's pretty much the way it's working out for me.... |
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OffWithTheirHeads (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
23. She got into EST |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 09:02 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Ooooh EST and Lifespring |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
27. I *Hate* When That Happens n/t |
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CO Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 10:39 PM Response to Original message |
29. I Knew Marriage #1 Was Over When She Tried to Kill Me |
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flamingyouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 10:49 PM Response to Original message |
31. Looking back, it had been over for a long time |
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BiggJawn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 10:50 PM Response to Original message |
32. When she started treating me like a field hand instead of a partner... |
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CO Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 11:00 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. Let It Go, Man.... |
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BiggJawn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 11:03 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. I should be so lucky. |
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Unperson 309 (836 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-04 11:43 PM Response to Original message |
35. When My 1st Spouse Said That If I Died, They'd Say It Was Accidental. |
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put out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-17-04 12:38 AM Response to Reply #35 |
36. And I have told my loved ones |
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