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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:32 PM
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What are some of the characteristics of a human Alpha female?
I told my wife I think she is an Alpha female.

Help me out folks.
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jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:34 PM
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1. Wins or draws every argument she ever enters into
Edited on Sat Nov-06-04 12:35 PM by jpgray
I've encountered that type a few times. Since I'm the same way to an extent, it got very heated at times. :scared: In certain areas we males are just inferior when it comes to argument. For example, women can usually recall dozens of slights, real or imagined, that occurred months or even years ago, and dredge them up as ammunition for an unrelated argument. I forget them instantly. :dunce:
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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:37 PM
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3. That's congruent with our relationship, another reason for me to love her.
She's a genius.
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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:35 PM
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2. By the way, she'll be reading this thread in about 5 hours so be
constructive and educational please.

Bob
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 05:34 PM
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19. Oh, I guess that means that I shouldn't talk about our affair?
:bounce:
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Nevernose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 09:13 PM
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24. Get out of the house! GET OUT NOW!
If you feel that way when considering the effect of this thread upon her, then I'd say she's either exceptionally high-strung, or an alpha female.
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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 09:50 PM
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25. Well, she's not just one dimensional Argumentus
besides I promised to try to find some support of my statement-I've seen the fully developed alpha female in her at times--and survived!
lol.
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Nevernose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 09:57 PM
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28. Interesting people are rarely one dimensional
And I congratulate on a mate you obviously admire.

But on a more serious note: are human beings really classifiable as alpha or beta? I thought psychologists/sociologists debunked this years ago, along with Social Darwinism and eugenics. As you so aptly pointed out, most people (inclusing your girlfriend) aren't one dimensional.
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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 10:03 PM
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29. She's my wife and the bass player in our musical project
The Books Banned, and I'm Bob, the drummer.
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Nevernose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 10:10 PM
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30. Oh, sorry.
I wasn't talking about your wife. I was talking about your GIRLFRIEND.
:evilgrin: :evilgrin: :evilgrin:
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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 10:14 PM
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31. Went that way in our first marriage, we got remarried in 1987
and are monogamous-I'm a lucky man to have her as my soulmate--and I don't have any BOYFRIENDS either---lol.
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glitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:38 PM
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4. They tend to be very beautiful, and always right. ;) nt
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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:43 PM
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5. Do human Alpha females get obsessional and ritualistic?
Or is that a more common human trait?
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PBX9501 Donating Member (231 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:45 PM
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6. Human Behavior..
Is strikingly similar to dog behavior. (no insult) Dominance traits include things like always setting the agenda, refusing to concede any point of discussion. Control over finances. The list is long. People respond to motivation in different ways. Working with programmers is very different than working with graphic designers, in my experience. Alpha traits are not bad as long as they are not always focused on you.

Subtle rewards and correction can mitigate this behavior. Providing she isn't a psychologist and knows what you are up to.

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alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:47 PM
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7. It also means "Mom" ya' know.
Edited on Sat Nov-06-04 12:58 PM by alphafemale
That's one of the reasons I first adopted some version of it when we, as a family went online about 7 or 8 years ago.

We are also nature lovers including wolves and coincidentally that was about the same time the wolf pack was reintroduced into Yellowstone.

We all adopted names with some wolf related name.
Since then they've drifted away from that.

But I've always been amused at how some of the people, especially males of RW persuasion seemed to immediately take offense at my screen-name when I am on some boards.

Coming from this proud, self-described Alpha Female, I say that I do battle to win, but I am also fiercely protective as well as nurturing to those in my family and larger group.

oop: edited for grammer
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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:52 PM
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8. Thanx, alphafemale!
Edited on Sat Nov-06-04 12:55 PM by bobthedrummer
You've touched on some of the main points in our interesting relationship.

On edit: The only conservative part of me is conservation-I'm politically independent and very socially progressive.
:hi:
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alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 01:22 PM
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14. Glad to help
:hi:

She sounds great.
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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 10:36 PM
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32. She IS great and I'm blessed with having her as my SOULMATE.
:hi:
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Cerridwen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:54 PM
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9. Anecdotal
Has control over the remote control.

There is usually one place in the main living area in which there is a chair of "power." Alpha controls the chair.

Toilet seat left up or down?

Whose job is it to clean? Who is "helping out" when they clean?

Who rears the children? Who is "babysitting" when the official child rearer isn't available?

:evilgrin:

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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:59 PM
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10. She sets the clocks strangely, it works for her whereas I prefer precision
with the timekeepers. She gets "weird" if I mess around with the timepieces.

Also is a perfectionist in some areas.

That's ok, to a point-sometimes it's irritating beyond belief.
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hippiechick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 12:59 PM
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11. You called ?
:hi: Bob !!!

Haven't heard from ya in a tic, hope things are getting better !

Alpha Female ... hmmm ....

Takes no shit under any circumstances.

Knows just how to get what she wants but generally doesn't have to resort to sneakery because, well ... she's just always right :)

Will throw herself in front of a moving bus to protect her children and/or those she loves.

Doesn't leave things 'up to committee' when action needs to be taken.

Oh yeah, and having red hair doesn't hurt :evilgrin:




:hippie:

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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 01:07 PM
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12. She does have red hair, now.
:hi: :hug: :P
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 10:39 PM
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34. I like that.
Strong and nurturing. :thumbsup:

Blondes are cool too! :D
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Pithlet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 01:09 PM
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13. This thread had better be tongue firmly in cheek
A DU alpha female has spoken.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 02:13 PM
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15. I WILL KICK YOUR ASS BOB
OK now what was it you were asking? :7
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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 04:22 PM
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16. LOL!
I asked for some characteristics of human alpha females, not an ass whuppin' from you lady!
:hi:
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 04:59 PM
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17. I would count myself among those alpha gals
Edited on Sat Nov-06-04 05:00 PM by Skittles
five brothers and no sisters did it; I remember the one single time I ratted them out - they had my face pressed in dirt for a long time. :o
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 05:01 PM
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18. Clearly takes the lead in group situations
Also Alpha females tend to unite with an Alpha Male in work situations and usually combine strenghts. Case in point: Bill and Hilary.

In fact, Bill and Hilary are a perfect example of an Alpha Male/Female relationship.

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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 09:51 PM
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26. Lovely
"fat ugly bitches.Usually end up as single mothers who hate men"
:eyes:
Yeah because powerful, intelligent women are obviously fat and hate men. What a ridiculous statement.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 09:52 PM
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27. And we just want men for their sperm. :eyes:
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 05:44 PM
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21. She's a great big sonuvabitch, twice as big as me.
Got hair on her arms like branches on a tree.
She can swim, fish, fight, f*ck,
Roll a barrel, drive a truck,
That's what Alpha Female really seems to be.

Sorry...parody of an old fighter pilot song.
;-)
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LiberteToujours Donating Member (737 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 05:46 PM
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22. Think Family Guy
That man who Peter punches out who is actually a woman. :D
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bobthedrummer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 09:10 PM
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23. Well, she read the thread and aside from a few posts she says she IS
an alpha female, a beautiful pagan/Christian petite one!

Thanks to all the other alpha females that participated!
:bounce:
:hi:
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-04 10:38 PM
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33. Read NSMA's posts.
Therein lies your answer in beautiful totality.
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