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Placebo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 02:53 AM
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Poll question: Gays & Lesbians: Have You Ever Been With a "Straight" Guy/Gal?
I've had my share of 'straight' guys. And a few of my ex's are now suddenly 'straight'. :shrug:
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Moonbeam_Starlight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 02:58 AM
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1. Straights! Have you ever been with someone
who was gay?
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Winamericaback Donating Member (398 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 03:35 AM
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4. I've been with someone who was BI
I didn't know until after I broke up with him. It didn't bother me in the least. What would have bothered me was if he had cheated on me while I was with him.
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 07:34 AM
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6. "Been with"? I was MARRIED to someone...
Ugly scene.
She didn't "figure it out" until we'd been married 8 years...

I STILL haven't "figured it out" and that was almost 10 years ago....
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Maestro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 11:23 AM
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9. Yeah, my prom date back in '85
In college I later found out that she was either lesbian or bi as I caught her making out with another good friend of mine whom I knew as a lesbian. Wierd situation that was. Our relationship has never been the same since even though I told it was fine.
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dr.strangelove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 12:11 PM
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13. I was told I "Turned" a girl gay.
Once of my college girlfriends came out right after she dumped me. She swears it had nothing to with my performance, that she was always gay and just needed to accept it. I for one think it was because I was so great in bed. She knew no man could ever compete with me, and having already achieved the height of heterosexuality, she began to search for the perfect woman to be with. She gets a kick out of this whenever I tell her. I remain close with her. She and her partner are expecting their first child in the early spring.
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jdots Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 03:00 AM
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2. I have been with some really GRIM PEOPLE
i think thats where the difference is= grim unimaginative emotionally wiped out,violent sub humans.
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Moonbeam_Starlight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 03:02 AM
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3. That sounds icky.
Were they good?

LOL.
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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 03:42 AM
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5. first timers
I have had quite a few! That's OK...as Blanche Devareaux says, "This brings out the artist in me!" :evilgrin:
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motely36 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 08:26 AM
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7. EEEEEWWWWWWW!!!!!!
:puke: :puke: :puke: :puke: :puke: :puke: :puke: :puke: :puke: :puke:

Just the thought of sleeping with a woman.

YUCK!

No offense
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Runcible Spoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 11:15 AM
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8. man, we Bi people always get the shit end of the stick!
Never mentioned in polls, never asked for our unique opinion!
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 11:35 AM
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11. thats cos we dont fit nicely into peoples tiny little niches
and people dont like that
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liontamer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 12:01 PM
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12. I've found you fit quite nicely into tiny little niches
;)
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nytemare Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 12:43 PM
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14. I dunno, I have fit in a few tiny niches in my day
But preconceptions are way to small for me to fit in. :)
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 12:45 PM
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15. tee hee hee
we bi's are funny :P
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nytemare Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 12:47 PM
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18. Bi's tri harder
:)
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arwalden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 12:46 PM
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16. Must You Be Addressed Specifically?
Isn't that one of the benefits... you can respond to either type of poll... depending on your mood or state of mind. You don't have to be labeled or pigenholed? :-)
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-25-04 05:47 PM
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21. arwalden sorry i should have been more specific
not in this poll...but in relevant sexuality polls and in life bi's get ignored...thats all i was trying to say
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 11:25 AM
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10. Yes, a few...
:)
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 12:47 PM
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17. My short answer? No.
Never had. Never will, at this point.
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ronnykmarshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 12:49 PM
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19. Two married men.
They picked me up at the subway station on my way home from work.

They claimed they were both married to women and fooled around with guys when they went on business trips. (they were from Colorado)

Might have been true. Years later I was dating this guy and we were swapping stories and the same thing happened to him. Same two guys, same stories and same pick up line.
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skypilot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-04 01:02 PM
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20. Never "been with" a straight guy but...
Edited on Wed Nov-24-04 01:03 PM by skypilot
...I get kisses from them all the time. Some of the boys are real friendly here in Philly. City of Brotherly Love and all that.
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