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Edited on Wed Nov-24-04 02:40 PM by WilliamPitt
I went out in my neighborhood today to run some errands. I went first to the local grocery store that is run by a Muslim family from Ethiopia. The mother and I are on happy small-talk terms because I am in there every day. She wished me a very happy Thanksgiving and gushed over how much she loves this holiday.
From there I went to the coffee shop run by a young Hispanic man who is becoming one of my best five-minutes-a-day buddies. He just moved into his new apartment and is making himself for dinner tomorrow. His family, I gathered, is elsewhere and he was on his own. He was really excited by the prospect, however; Thanksgiving at his place meant he had arrived, I think.
After that, I headed to the small furniture store down the block to check out new couches. The place is run by an older Chinese man. He guided me around the different stuff, and at one point asked me what I was doing for Thanksgiving. I told him, and he replied that his whole extended family was coming to his house for dinner. He was smiling ear to ear, and wished me a happy holiday when I left.
Thanksgiving is a secular holiday, which in my opinion makes it profoundly important to this country's essential core. Christmas is for Christians, Hanukah is for Jews, Ramadan is for Muslims, etc. Any of these religions can partake in the other holidays, and do, but the intimate mysteries of each faith make each holiday essentially exclusive for each religion.
But when this nation was first formed, the ideal was simple: America is for everyone, a secular nation where all religions are welcomed and none are enforced over the others. The fact that we seem to be losing that essential understanding of ourselves makes this holiday all the more important.
The noise of commercialism, the business of cooking and traveling, and the sadness for some whose circumstances make this time a sad affair, have a way of obscuring the meaning of this day. It is for everyone, the way America should be, and that's why I like it so much.
Just some thoughts.
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