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Today was an important day, as was yesterday, to me. And it dovetails into something more.
Yesterday mom came off the ventilator and could talk again, but she was drugged up and not making too much sense. Today she was but I did not see her today - dad was there, as always, and we all agreed to stay home and let her rest as they decreased her meds. She got too excited and would not sleep with people coming in and out of ICU.
My dad is an amazing man when it comes to many things, especially this. He sleeps in the waiting room. Every two hours like clock work he wakes up and walks in to check on her, without fail. One lady there was telling us how she timed him and could not believe his devotion to caring for her.
This goes into more about what I am trying to discuss. Yesteryear.
I was born in 1965. I recently got dvd's of all the old family 8mm movies my folks had taken from that era and well before. Dad was in korea and helped teach people english and other things, he helped out at orphanges and other places. He did a lot for people there but does not really talk about it too much. There were a lot of things on the home movies though that I found astounding.
Then there was mom and grandma in NY back in the 50's. Both dressed nice, everyone seemed to be then. Men wore hates, women wore skirts (mom dresses like a biker now, jeans, leather jacket, a hat - she hated dressing up but did so for her mom). Grandma was a school teacher, granpa was police chief and later the mayor.
I remember Billy Jack movies (and I own them all now and have autogrpahed books from him). There was a shift in the air back then, change on many levels. From technology to politics it all seemed so fluid and new, so magical in a way.
the left was a movement for the people, for peace. They were energized around a few basic things (at least it seemed to me back then). Equal rights for all people, ending discrimination against blacks, fighting the power. They had sit ins, peace buses, and more. And even with it all there seemed to be scary things all around - I remember Busing. I ended up being bused for 1 year to a predominantly black area - but what bothered my parents was not that, but that I was going to a school far away when I lived down the street from one. I did fine. And in the end the kids bused into my school locally ended up being good friends of mine (my best friend in fact came from the south side, a gay conservative chess player and a big influence in my life).
things were turbulent back then because the people made them that way - they would not sit around anymore and take the bullshit. It all caught on too I think because the 'middle america' I knew at the time did not see it as all bad (ie, my parents didn't care about skin color at all, they loved people as people and god made them all).
The left was out to make things equal for all, not out to attack the morals of the middle and kick out nativity scenes from the town and ridicule the people who shared their country. They stood for something many ended up relating to - equality and justice. You're a smoker? Cool. You're a christian, cool. And so on it seemed to me in those days.
But there were those in the middle too that fought it. Our neighbor moved out when a black family moved in, I ended up being friends with their son (Arthur). At school we celebrated hannukah and christmas (we had one jewish kid in the whole school, Mike Beagle, whom my mom on the pta made sure I spent time with and played with so he would have friends and not feel left out. I still remember him after all these years gone by). There was the only black kid in elementary, Charles Butler. He and I did a commercial for class (a project). He came up with the idea to do one on soap. He came in, talked about the great soap, walked off to take a shower and I walked in. We got a kick out of it. Sad thing, his dad used to beat the hell out of him with a belt and sticks, and no one did anything about it back then :(
In the middle we find people on both sides, waffling. I remember the KKK coming to town. I was at my grandma's house in Byesville Ohio and we were getting ready to head home. I heard about them on the news being there, and I was scared to go home. Mom and dad said not to worry about them, they were nutcases and not christians. And that stuck with me. There are those in the middle that will come to our side, but personally I think it will take less polarization and more working on something we all hold common.
The left had a magic back then, hated yes by some, but still there was a magic about the whole 60-70's thing. We never gave up. We had leaders willing to die for their cause. We had hippies. We had love and peace. We had a time where we tried to pull together people, where we had billy jack movies, electric kool aid acid stuff, and some wild people who just went out and made it all happen.
Sure, scholars will look at in a different light, will see things more deeply, but to me as a young kid and to those I knew who were adults they saw things in a different, non-scholar, type light. We reached people then, we made a change, and the world as we knew it changed for the better.
Fire up the cool clothes. Get some hippie talk going. Paint some busses and lets get rolling to keep the powers that be from making the federal government one big powerful beast. It's time for the hippies to come out of retirement en masse, time for the peace symbols to make a come back, it is time to stand.
Rant over (incoherent and typed up as I felt it, sorry for the dijointed post). I may be wrong on things - but wrong does not mean they were not my impressions at the time. And as I remember them, I felt a sense of freedom in the air.
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