I have just been caught by my 10yr old Santa believing daughter!

She just walked in on me filling the stockings!

She's a determined believer, too! AAARRRGGGHHH!

What do I do now? Help ME!!!

She didn't catch you with the presents, so it's possible you just add to stockings! That's what I'd say. That you were just adding one/two items, but that S. of course was the main man.

My kid has a weird believe in Santa/not.

I blame that on the public schools. :silly:

At school they pimp Santa, all her friends believe in Santa, but I tell her he isn't real and ask her what she wants me to buy.
So she's come up with a complex contract that Santa has with parents.
My.

then she got a drink and went back to bed. Maybe I can tell her it was all a dream! Yeah, that's the ticket! Think that'll work?

J. Kleeb...why are you still up? Wait , I'm not your mom!

I am 17, I am not realy much a kid heh.

that you probably should have waited until the morning, but just wanted to know now and that you were a bad Mommy and won't do it next year.

:)

I have a 5-year-old son. He's all about that Santa dude this year!

I mean, she's all half asleep and stuff, she can't *really* remember tomorrow what she saw.

Plus, I think she might not mention it at all.

There is a small chance that she's suspecting he's not real and that's why you got the weird look... but I'd let her take the lead on the whole thing.

her continued belief has really surprized me. Maybe it's over?

It's just a theory, but I never let my parents know that I didn't believe in Santa anymore. I'm sure they figured by the time I hit Jr. High that I'd probably caught on, but I'm also sure they couldn't pinpoint an age when I stopped believing. I'm 22 now and my only sibling is 19 and we still leave cookies and milk out for Santa (he brings us a box of apples to munch on while we open our family presents). Pretending to believe in Santa Claus is just part of Christmas. :)

being the Easter Bunny one year but they figured out their own story so they continued to believe. Not only did they see me at 5AM hiding eggs the Easter Bunny left her coffee cup by the driveway and it was just like one we had! They continued to believe, they are funny that way.

I also have 2 younger children...I'm not ready for the sad disappointment on her face.

but if she is a true believer she may still, at 10, be able to come up with something. I am sorry I can't remember, they were younger but they were not really little either.

This was about 10 years ago, when I was 13 or so. I had (without any prior thinking-over) told him of the story of the REAL Saint Nicholas who lived and died in the 4th century. I had suddenly realized this, and then I told him that "Oh, but he came back to life in 1725."

He believed it without a hitch. Thank God he was only 6 at the time.

I nearly accidently told my one brother too.

Also, my mother is Lutheran (although she doesn't practice it).:)

Your part of the country has too many Lutherans :D.

They won't try to "save your soul" like the Bapties and Vangies do.

and you have to admit because of the high German and Scanavian influx of hte midwest, there's a lot of them. Oh and Baptists are yes soul savers, but I most identify with after my own Catholic faith, the Eastern Orthodox.

There is no such thing as too many Lutherans

that has me really laughing out loud. :D

Next she won't believe in the Easter Bunny or that Republicans are compassionate, honest, and fiscally responsible!

Tell her the truth. I had to tell mine the truth last Christmas.

If you aren't ready to do that, you should have told her that you were stealing some candy out of her stocking...that you had a sudden chocolate craving after you had heard Santa bumping around in the living room.

I told mine the truth, though. It didn't decrease the excitement one bit. As a matter of fact, we still pretend-believe in Santa, and it is really fun for both of us.

w/ me...she doesn't believe in the tooth fairy, easter bunny or any of the rest...but she's holding on to Santa, tooth and nail!

Don't Lie Anymore. Not Worth It.

so she could show her friends when they tell her he's not real...

She's playing the game to please you.

Enough already.

Gonna hit the hay...for at least a couple hours...Merry Christmas all!

his Dad said -- see what you did? Santa knew you were up so he just dumped this stuff here and told us to put it together. Funny

It's for the best. Imagine if she was in junior high still believing in Santa.

She was furious with us for about a half a day. Instantly wanted to know what else we'd been lying about all those years. Then she kind of got into it and shifted to the fun of helping with the illusion for her little cousin. We warned my brother though, and then they decided to tell their older son, then 11, in case my daughter spilled it. We were all laughing about this a few hours ago when she told her boyfriend (now she's thirteen) about it. The Easter bunny and the tooth fairy soon followed. Sorry, DUers, if you didn't already know about these things.

some kids at school to make fun of her, but I ALSO made her promise to never ever tell a wee one that Santa wasn't real, so that the fairy tale would be perpetuated until the time was right for THAT child.

She was indeed disappointed, but I also felt very victorious that I had really pulled it off all those years, with hiding the presents, etc.

From the mouth of the comedian:

"When I was six or seven, I figured out the truth about Santa Claus. I was determined to see Santa Claus come in during the night so I hid behind the sofa, tried not to fall asleep and watched to see what would happen. Sure enough, at about 10PM or 11PM, I saw my parents come down and put the presents under the stocking. I knew the truth about Santa Claus then.
When school resumed, we had a show and tell session. All the kids in class stood up and presented their latest Christmas gifts from Santa. Finally I stood up and announced to the class that Santa Claus was not real
There was a stunned silence and the kids were disbelieving. One boy in particular stood up and accused me of lying. He said that he knew that I was lying because he had asked Santa for a bike and a bike had appeared under the Christmas tree on Christmas Day for him.
So I turned to him and said
"I'm telling you the truth-there is no Santa Claus. I've discovered who really puts all the gifts in all the stockings of children throughout the globe -it's my mom and dad!"

The logistics seemed implausible to me when I was 7 or 8.

Christmas Day I mean?

her believing.

But...friend...i'm sorry...I would be seriously surprised if your daughter still believes in Santa Clause at 10.

I was one of the last hanger-on's in my school when I was a kid...and I was 8 when I figured it out.

I think she may just be going along with you. Maybe she doesn't want to hurt YOUR feelings. Who knows. But still believing in Santa at 10? No offense but I would actually be worried if she does. A 10 year olds brain has developed enough to realize it just is not possible. I would be worried that she would be this naive as she grows up.

No...I'm pretty sure your daughter does not believe in Santa. I don't know your kid...but something tells me...she's got you...not the other way around.

it was a matter of very strong faith, because she didn't believe we would lie to her, hence her anger at us when we told her. My nephew claims he believed when they told him (at eleven)when we told our daughter. I'm sure they'd heard it before from friends but didn't want to believe it was a lie. Certainly their brains would have questioned it, but faith does often overcome what logic won't allow.

Tell her you killed him and that if she knows what's good for her she'll keep quiet

It's a movie for both of you :D

Tell her the truth.

I found out when I was six.

Then--this is true--in December 1985, when I was eight, I went onto the playground at South hillside Elementary School, and told everyone else that there wasn't a santa claus.

The other children were unappreciative.