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LeftPeopleFinishFirst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-04 02:09 PM
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I love how the exchange student made my brother hate my family.
When he found out she left this morning he started yelling and calling me cold hearted, a bitch, and unsociable... amongst other things. She flirted constantly had him totally played and now my brother is no longer being a brother.

I have a feeling that things are going to suck for a really long time because of this. Sorry to keep dumping my problems on this board, I just don't know where else I can talk that people don't know her or won't tell her about it.

Blah.
<3
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-04 02:12 PM
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1. It will pass over like a bad storm and things will get better
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cally Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-04 02:15 PM
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2. How old is he?
You are a family. It will take time to discuss this, but I doubt it will remain a wedge. I told you we had an exchange student. My younger daughter and her totally bonded and by the end of her stay, it was uncomfortable for hte rest of us. They formed a united front against the rest of the family. It took awhile, but we are back to being a family.
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LeftPeopleFinishFirst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-04 02:26 PM
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5. 19 going on 20
He knew she was sort of rude, but also thought she was hot, so just blamed her bitchiness on me as well.

And she flirted with him ALL THE TIME. It was getting really uncomfortable.
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bettyellen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-04 02:58 PM
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9. tell him "she's junot that into you" or otherwise she might have stayed...
Edited on Fri Dec-31-04 02:59 PM by bettyellen
bo'ys gotta grow up and realize it was the girls choice, not yours.
he was being played, bitchy girls do that. they have to line up some peopn on their side. lesson learned.
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-04 02:18 PM
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3. You should've kicked her in the ass on her way out the door.
Your brother will get over it. Brothers always do. No worries.
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Kellanved Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-04 02:24 PM
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4. When in Rome, do as the Romans do.
It was her job to adapt, not yours.


If it is that important to him: send him on an exchange to Europe ;-). And -speaking from experience - he'll recover. FWIW: getting back into school will be really difficult for her, she'll probbaly have to repeat the whole last year.
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LeftPeopleFinishFirst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-04 02:27 PM
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6. She will
She has three more years to go when she gets back. She was supposed to be a junior in Germany this year, but now she will be a junior in 05-06.
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tjdee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-04 02:45 PM
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7. Well, he wanted the sex, LOL.
How could a girl flattering him have been so unbearable to everyone else?

:eyes:

Don't worry, it'll pass.
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Elidor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-04 02:54 PM
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8. That bitch
We should bomb her country. In fact, we probably will, at some point. So fuck her. She'll get hers.
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-31-04 03:30 PM
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10. Did he "know" her well?
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