How many of you have stayed in a relationship knowing your SO

complain jane

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Thu Jan-13-05 04:42 PM
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Poll question: How many of you have stayed in a relationship knowing your SO

was still in love with their ex?

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La Lioness Priyanka

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Thu Jan-13-05 04:44 PM
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1. knowing or thinking?

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complain jane

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Thu Jan-13-05 05:48 PM
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4. Being able to tell. And having it backed up with opinions of people

from SO's past.

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sleipnir

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Thu Jan-13-05 04:45 PM
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2. Is this considered a sex thread?

with the sex lock-down, I would hope it hasn't gone this far.

And yes, I have, but not for very long.

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Champ

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Thu Jan-13-05 04:57 PM
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3. Too general for me to answer

It was clear she still had some feelings for an ex she spent over a year with, but it was obviously clear to me she wasn't going to get back with him on any circumstance. So far it's been over 6 months and I'm still correct.

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complain jane

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Thu Jan-13-05 05:49 PM
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5. Like, SO turns to jello when ex enters room.

Nothing would come of it because SO's ex wants nothing to come of it.

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La Lioness Priyanka

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Thu Jan-13-05 05:50 PM
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6. my so would turn 'weird' when the ex walked in

it was odd.

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complain jane

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Thu Jan-13-05 05:55 PM
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7. Is this person still your SO?

Edited on Thu Jan-13-05 05:56 PM by the dogfish

There are like a bazillion other issues with this relationship anyway. This part's kind of like the last straw.

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La Lioness Priyanka

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Thu Jan-13-05 05:56 PM
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8. no

Edited on Thu Jan-13-05 05:57 PM by lionesspriyanka

though i stayed with the person for a long time...

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skygazer

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Thu Jan-13-05 05:59 PM
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9. I've not done so

But I wouldn't get involved with someone who was still so obviously hung up on someone else. To me, that means they aren't ready to be in a different relationship. I can see no good coming from such a situation but as I say, I've never been in it.

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complain jane

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Thu Jan-13-05 08:11 PM
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11. I agree w/you. Sometimes you're told otherwise & don't see until later.

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Freebird12004

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Thu Jan-13-05 06:01 PM
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10. I was a dope

but I loved him

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