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NightTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:11 PM
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Poll question: Question: Is being pompous and condescending ever appropriate?
Edited on Thu Feb-24-05 10:12 PM by NightTrain
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eyepaddle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:13 PM
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1. Look, as long as being pompous and self important is my hobby
Edited on Thu Feb-24-05 10:15 PM by eyepaddle
it for damn sure better be appropriate!

knave!

Oh heck--you edited--and now my subject line is inaproproate. I suppose I will suffer this indignity--although not gladly.
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NightTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:13 PM
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2. Hee, hee.
;)
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eyepaddle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:15 PM
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4. Glad you caught that!
Sometimes people get riled up fast! :hi:
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miss_kitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:14 PM
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3. This, I assume, is a question based on a 'hypothetical' scenario
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prolesunited Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:17 PM
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5. Only if you're clearly superior
to the other person. :hi:
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Susang Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 11:51 PM
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24. I think you're on solid ground
As you seem to be an all around superior person! :loveya:
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ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:23 PM
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6. Do you find people who don't agree with you to be pompous?
Are you aiming to pick a fight?
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:24 PM
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ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:26 PM
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8. Man. I wish you the best and I hope you find work soon.
I want to be here for you but you seem horribly pissed.
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Shananigans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:42 PM
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13. Don't worry, Chavez.
I still like you. :)
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Kire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:49 PM
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16. I'm there, too.
I always wonder what the "Ignored" messages say when someone posts in my threads, so I am still confident the message will get to its destination.

I think this thread, it's title, and who started it, is real ironic.
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:34 PM
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9. Just remember, you have a right to my opinion
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NightTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:35 PM
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10. Ha-ha-ha! An oldie but a goodie.
:hi:
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Kire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:50 PM
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17. are you twisting your mustache when you laugh like that?
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Wat_Tyler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:42 PM
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11. There isn't one long-time poster on DU who hasn't been either at one point
It's human nature.
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Shananigans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:42 PM
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12. I'd say no.
But then again, I often wonder if being angry and abusive are ever appropriate, either...
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Kire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:46 PM
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14. only if you're my grandmother.
my children can be pompous and condescending, too...I'll allow that, but I won't let them get away with it

Everybody else has to watch Bram Stoker's Dracula 'til they're blue in the face.
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WillyT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 10:46 PM
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15. In My Highly Educated, And Worldly Experienced Way...
I'd have to tell you childlike ignoramouses... No!

:hi::evilgrin::hi:
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NightTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 11:18 PM
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18. Hee-hee-hee! Beautiful.
:yourock:
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salin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 11:26 PM
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20. funny thing... is how it is an "eye of the beholder" sort of thing
a number of years ago there was a debate on school vouchers where I attended grad school. Miltron Freidman on the pro side and a well regarded Stanford Prof Ed Economist on the anti side. At the time I had a great deal of contact with both MBA students and grad ed students. I didn't attend the debate *My father, an economist, considered Friedman his antithesis and I have always found Friedman hard to stomach*. After the debate I spoke with a number of folks from both "sides." - Each described the person he agreed with as well versed, articulate and respectful of the other debator; and viewed the "opponent" as arrogant, pompous, condescending and full of empty rhetoric. The completely mirrored responses, depending upon the agreement of viewpont, was almost enough to wish I had attended. But left me forever with the view that even a term I had viewed as fairly constant, "condescending", could be quite subjective when on is fully invested in one particular view.
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 11:20 PM
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19. Ugh. It just makes you want to go haystack on someone, doesn't it?
:argh:
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 11:42 PM
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21. Don't ever ask me that question before consulting me first
Don't go there unless you have my permission.

And, BTW, YOU'RE FIRED.

}(
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Susang Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 11:45 PM
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22. Hard to say
Though it doesn't really change the substance of the actual statement or argument, does it?

So would disregarding someone's opinion just because they are being pompous or condescending ever appropriate? Or is that just as foolish as acting condescending and pompous?
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Placebo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-24-05 11:48 PM
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23. Of course.
"I'm a Democrat and you're not, hahaha!"

"I've got an iPod and you don't, hahaha!"

"I'm an American and you're not, hahaha!"

"My underwear cost more than your whole outfit, hahaha!"

"My _____ is bigger than yours, hahaha!"

:evilgrin:
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Bat Boy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 12:01 AM
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25. It depends.
Edited on Fri Feb-25-05 12:07 AM by Bat Boy
Honesty, however, is always appropriate.

On edit: Self restraint is pretty cool, too.
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 02:04 AM
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26. That's my whole act
Dammit!
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Donkeyboy75 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 03:25 AM
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27. Sometimes.
If the person you're dealing with is batshit nuts.
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fleabert Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-25-05 04:14 AM
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28. Even an idiot knows that, sheesh.
What a preposterous thread this is...
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