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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:15 PM
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I just did my own laundry for the first time...
...since July 23rd. I'm marking my recovery by what household chores I can do. Is something wrong with me?

:shrug:

Anyway, on Monday I start back at my second job, which means I'll be working my full schedules at both jobs, also for the first time since July.

I still need a cane, but maybe that will help me get a seat on the train.
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izzie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:17 PM
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1. It is a step in front of toilet cleaning believe me.
You do not have to like it you must get it done.
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Sal316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:20 PM
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2. Yay!
That's so cool, Rene! Household chores are part of normal day to day routine, so it makes sense that you'd measure it by that.

I'm so glad your recovery has gone relatively smoothly... big ol' karmic hugs to you and your hubby!

Sal
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:21 PM
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3. Amazing what we take for granted.
If I hadn't done my laundry since July 23rd, it would have been out of laziness.

I'm glad you are returning to normal. :-)
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salin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:22 PM
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4. Yeaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All progress is progress. As always your perspective on life - even something like doing laundry as a marker of progress, or the cane perhaps adding value on the train - lighten my day.

:thumbsup: Hurray for steady, even if slow, healing!
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:27 PM
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8. Thanks salin and everyone, for caring about this.
It was actually really hard to walk up the stairs with my laundry bag. I was thinking on the stairs, when I get up to the apartment I can post my great achievement in the Lounge.

:)

I'm so glad you're here.
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salin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:56 PM
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15. and we are glad
that you continue to share - so we can celebrate with you!

How often do we think about hauling a load of laundry around as anything at all but a chore... never stopping to think about how fortunate we are that it is just a chore - and one we do while grousing, but that does not challenge us physically to do it (haul laundry, not grouse). So easy to take so many things forgranted.

And here you are... maneuvering that load with a struggle... thinking about what it signifies and that you want to share it!

We love you. Support you. And I am pretty sure I am not alone in saying that we also continue to learn from and be inspired by you. And that started LONG before your accident. Just is even more amplified these days.
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WannaJumpMyScooter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 06:24 PM
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20. That's really great news. And it points out what I tell people
who don't understand what I get off a group of people I have never, and most of whom I will never, meet.
This is the real promise of the internet to me... to connect people of similar interests and beliefs from anywhere.

I said it before, and here it is again...

I am glad you came out of that mess as well as you did. Thanks for being here for us, of course we are here for you.
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:24 PM
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5. Congrads
Very good. I got some holey socks that need darning. Can I bring them over?


DDQM
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blm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:25 PM
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6. heh...canes are sexy, rbnyc.
Doing the familiar things you couldn't do for so long becomes precious. Don't worry, they'll become plain old housework once again. ;)
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:30 PM
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10. Sexy? Do you really think so?
It makes me feel like a dork. Especially because I'm trying to walk without a limp, and when I do a good job I'm afraid people are thinking, "What the hell is she carrying that cane for, there's nothing wrong with her?"

I actually saw a young person with a cane on the subway the other day and I wanted to talk to him, but he was too far ahead of me coming out of the train.
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Kenneth ken Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:26 PM
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7. congrats!
wanna do mine? think of it as more rehab.

:bounce:

:hi:
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:29 PM
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9. So...when are you gonna move the piano?
Way to go, girl.
:hi:
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:31 PM
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11. My husband will want to know...
...when I can take the AC unit out of the window and put it back in storage.

;-)
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:32 PM
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12. congrads
Edited on Fri Oct-10-03 04:32 PM by JohnKleeb
When was your accident the 24th? Shucks you had your accident around my birthday. Still glad to see you recovered, back here and doing great, and supporting the best candiate of em all :). Thats just great Rene.
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geniph Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:32 PM
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13. One doesn't realize how difficult
so many daily tasks are until one has to do them while on crutches, or a cane, or in a wheelchair. I was totally stymied by laundry the first time I had to do a wash while on crutches. I stood there looking at the laundry basket and the stairs, leaning on my crutches, and crying. Grocery shopping was nearly as bad - that was before the days of plastic grocery bags with handles.

Strength to you, Rene. Are you sure you're ready for both jobs? That's pretty sporty considering how badly you were hurt. I send all my best hopes for a speedy and complete recovery.
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:38 PM
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14. I'm doing desk duty mostly...
...not a lot of running around, errands, etc. I really feel the need to get back into it. I feel like the longer I wait, the harder it will be. I'm already afraid I don't remember how to use the donor software at the breast cancer org.

I've been taking the subway for almost 2 weeks, so I'm pretty sure I'm up for it.

:)
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madrchsod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 04:59 PM
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16. nay, there`s nothing wrong
that`s how i figured out how far along with my various medical problems..my wife would always say don`t do this and that, but i had to find out if i could do them. it seems your`re ready to take on the world again. really are new yorkers that nice?
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LynneSin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 05:13 PM
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17. Rene, can you come to my place and do my laundry??
Sometimes that pile looks like I haven't done it for over 3 months

:crazy:

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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 06:13 PM
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19. Well, you've seen the pile over here.
We have way too many clothes!

:hi:
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soupkitchen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 05:25 PM
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18. Any chance you can do mine?
Love, soupkitchen
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-03 06:30 PM
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21. Congratulations (I think?!)!
Take care of yourself--you're in our hearts. Just don't get cocky and go off painting the house, okay?!
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