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Placebo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:03 PM Original message |
DU Heterosexual Married Women: Did You Take Your Husband's Surname? |
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flamingyouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
1. I didn't but wouldn't rule it out in the future |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:05 PM Response to Original message |
2. I wouldn't have except |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:21 PM Response to Reply #2 |
20. I'm right there with you. |
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yvr girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:05 PM Response to Original message |
3. I'm not married, but I'll probably just tag the name on at the end |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:06 PM Response to Original message |
4. Haele didn't |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:06 PM Response to Original message |
5. I didn't |
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Kire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:08 PM Response to Original message |
6. my mom says she married my dad just so she wouldn't be picked last anymore |
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proud patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:08 PM Response to Original message |
7. No my husband took mine |
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Glenda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:11 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Cool! |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:13 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. That's cool! |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 12:18 AM Response to Reply #13 |
38. I kept my maiden name as my middle name. |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 11:08 AM Response to Reply #38 |
41. I feel you... |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 11:25 AM Response to Reply #38 |
45. I thought it was more common in the north. |
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Mizmoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
8. I use either or both |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:10 PM Response to Original message |
9. I didn't until after he adopted my son |
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fleabert (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:11 PM Response to Original message |
10. yep. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:17 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. see with this kind of reasoning |
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fleabert (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 11:02 PM Response to Reply #16 |
34. I had the idea of making up a new name for both of us, but he wasn't |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
12. I did. |
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RockaFowler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:15 PM Response to Original message |
14. I took my husband's name |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:17 PM Response to Original message |
15. No, I kept my name. I could not imagine having any other name. |
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Eloriel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:18 PM Response to Original message |
17. Nope, I didn't. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 11:36 AM Response to Reply #17 |
48. I like your approach. If both the man and the woman were going to |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:18 PM Response to Original message |
18. Well, my ex-wife did not |
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Pirate Smile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:19 PM Response to Original message |
19. I did because I didn't have a career yet (just finished undergrad and |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:23 PM Response to Original message |
21. I did, and am changing it back when the divorce is final (theoretically, |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 11:28 PM Response to Reply #21 |
35. didn't change mine partially for feminist reasons |
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DawgHouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:25 PM Response to Original message |
22. I did and I was sorry I did! |
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silverlib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:25 PM Response to Original message |
23. No |
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Minimus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
24. Well it was different for each marriage: |
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ronnykmarshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 12:47 PM Response to Reply #24 |
58. Think about poor Liz Taylor! |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:44 PM Response to Original message |
25. Nope, took one's sanity, another's life savings, third one's cat |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
26. Yes, BUT |
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DemExpat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
27. No, I kept mine.... |
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DELUSIONAL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 09:41 PM Response to Original message |
28. No |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 09:51 PM Response to Original message |
29. Yes--most people assumed that I had and after my son |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 11:34 AM Response to Reply #29 |
46. Yeah, I am surprised that so many men (and women, I guess) feel |
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 09:53 PM Response to Original message |
30. It amazes me that anybody would do this... |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 10:45 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. Meh. |
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 02:43 PM Response to Reply #33 |
61. So why didn't you change it to "Smith" before you got married, |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 04:27 PM Response to Reply #61 |
71. Great question. |
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WindRavenX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 09:54 PM Response to Original message |
31. Not that I'm married... |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 09:56 PM Response to Original message |
32. Kept mine and added his |
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Tikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 11:46 PM Response to Original message |
36. Know what? I did... and I, now, have the cutest three name combo.... |
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Dastard Stepchild (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-28-05 11:46 PM Response to Original message |
37. I'm hyphenated... |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
39. If my partner and I got married... |
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Renew Deal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 12:43 PM Response to Reply #39 |
57. You can keep your name professionally and change it personally |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 04:19 PM Response to Reply #57 |
70. Sure, but why? n/t |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 12:34 AM Response to Original message |
40. I kept my "maiden name" on the radio |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
42. I wasn't going to, but since my fiance has such a GREAT, noble and regal |
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Beware the Beast Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 02:40 PM Response to Reply #42 |
60. Vone, too, thdee hyphenated surnames! |
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Zing Zing Zingbah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
43. I did... |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
44. I did. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
47. I did - but I was pressured to do so. |
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Coventina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 11:40 AM Response to Original message |
49. I did not, but I use it informally sometimes. |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
50. My wife might do it when she becomes a US citizen |
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Beware the Beast Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
51. I wanted to take my wife's last name. |
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loudestchick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
52. My married last name is MUCH easier than my single last name. |
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XNASA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 12:04 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. Mrs. XNASA would agree with that. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 12:35 PM Response to Original message |
54. I didn't the first time.... |
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Willy Lee (925 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 12:39 PM Response to Original message |
55. I kept my name!! |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 12:41 PM Response to Original message |
56. Bisexual woman married to man--did not |
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coffeenap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 12:49 PM Response to Original message |
59. did not--1984 marriage |
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silverpatronus (520 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
62. i won't |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
63. No, I love my name |
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July (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 03:14 PM Response to Original message |
64. Nope. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
65. I did because I was pissed off at my dad at the time |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
66. I use both. His more than mine, now. |
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CatBoreal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
67. Kept mine... |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
68. I have a very ethnic last name, which I don't want to trade for SO's |
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Ramsey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 04:02 PM Response to Original message |
69. No, did not |
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mcscajun (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
72. Did the first time but not the second. |
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FourStarDemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-01-05 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
73. I didn't.. |
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