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LostInAnomie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:47 PM
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Why are my gay friends OBSESSED with boobs?
I'm as big of a boob fan as the next guy but my gay friends are OBSESSED. When I am sitting in the commons at my college they are always making comments of the racks of the women that walk by in a lewd and suggestive manner.

When we are at parties they are always grabbing the girls boobs, and they let them get by with it (I guess because they don't think they are getting anything out of it). Not only that but then they rub it in my face that they were "all over those tits".

If they are gay (and they are) why do they love the fun bags so much? Whats the deal?
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tuvor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:48 PM
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1. They're just latent hets.
Being gay is a phase, don'tcha know!
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intrepid_wanderer Donating Member (559 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:49 PM
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2. hrm...
.. perhaps they're just trying to 'rub it in your face' a bit?


at least they're just kidding... right? <right?> :bounce:
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Briarius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:49 PM
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3. Man, I gotta try that trick!
:evilgrin:
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arcos Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:50 PM
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4. yup, I have several friends with that same thing...
Kind of weird if you ask me, but I guess it's just for fun :P
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hickman1937 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:50 PM
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5. Sounds a tad hostile to me.
Also a lot paternalistic.
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geomon666 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:51 PM
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6. Boobs are one of natures enduring mysteries.
They entice, they seduce, they endear. They turn the minds of all men into jelly. With simple jiggle they can make grown men weep. Oh the power of the Boob is truly phenomenal.
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intrepid_wanderer Donating Member (559 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:54 PM
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8. I'm a boob...
and for all this time I was unaware of my innate POWER!! :nuke:


:bounce:
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geomon666 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:00 PM
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13. Most boobs are not.
Edited on Fri Mar-04-05 10:00 PM by geomon666
Which is why men have not been reduced to a slave state yet.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:51 PM
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7. Maybe they're jealous they don't have the boobs!
Just a thought. I am gay but I am not obsessed with boobs. Some are nice to look at.

I know a lot of gay guys who are also obsessed with the boobies.
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Cannikin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:55 PM
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9. We werent breast fed.....we have issues.
:crazy:
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:57 PM
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10. Gay men are always obessessed with my boobs.
Now, I admit, they are very nice, however. I find it kind of amusing though. I go out to gay clubs and flamer boys will come up to me and ask to touch them.
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edbermac Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 11:16 PM
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34. How nice are they?
A recent pic will be helpful in validating your claim...:evilgrin:
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:58 PM
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11. Um, are they lesbians?
I had to ask just to clarify!
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Mateo Escobar Donating Member (19 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:02 PM
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17. because we feel safe
We're just messin around! Don't feel threatend, trust me, my thoughts are elsewhere!!
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:11 PM
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22. Well, that's clear!
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 09:59 PM
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12. Fun bags?
Fun bags?
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LostInAnomie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:00 PM
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15. That's what the kids are calling them.
Edited on Fri Mar-04-05 10:01 PM by LostInAnomie
I just wanted to be hip.
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edbermac Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 11:15 PM
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33. Mommy bags also...
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salin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 11:07 PM
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32. that rather struck me, as well
geez.
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AutumnMist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:00 PM
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14. I Don't Know
My gay friends just loved my cleavage in my wedding dress. LOL. Talked about it all night at the reception.
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geomon666 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:06 PM
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19. ........pics?
Hey it's worth a shot.:P :silly:
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AutumnMist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:10 PM
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21. Errrrrr.....
No, the only cleavage I would like to share is with my husband. He is a happy man. But it was worth a shot. :)
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tinfoilinfor2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:01 PM
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16. I am a hetero, but some of my lesbian friends speak rather fondly
of males with good "endowment"...I guess we are all just human and appreciate fine things! LOL
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Placebo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:04 PM
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18. I'm CONSTANTLY admiring my friend's...
"chestal area" as I call it...and I'm pretty gay...her chestal area is just so big! She should be proud of it though. :D
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NV Whino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:09 PM
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20. I think there are a lot of things going on here
1. jealousy/envy
2. kind of an undercover woman bashing, because they know that women know they aren't serious and therefore allow them "intimacies".
3. a one-upsmanship to hetero males: "Look what I can do that you can't."
4. We all (gay or hetero) came from women. These women breast fed or they didn't. Doesn't matter. The child maintains an image of the woman's breast--forbidden (if they didn't breast feed) or accessible/desirable if they did.

I think number four is the predominant factor. Could be wrong.
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:18 PM
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23. I don't think gay men are envious of women's breasts
Do you imply they wish they had them? And truly, most gay men I know are staunch defenders of women and would not be inclined to bash them. Just my 2 cents!
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NV Whino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:45 PM
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28. I repeat: there are a lot of things going on here
I don't think there is any one answer. I think some of each of what I have mentioned is true.
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:46 PM
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29. Well maybe a lot of things are going on
but not because they are gay.

Maybe they are just juvenile?
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NV Whino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 11:18 PM
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35. Darn, did I forget to list juvenile? n/t
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fluffernutter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:19 PM
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24. i'm a hetero female and i can appreciate nice boobs.
or other ways a female looks good. i imagine it is the same with gay men. my closest gay friend tends to comment on my boobs a lot too - i don't mind him touching them because it is just like having another woman touch them.
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LostInAnomie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:21 PM
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25. Can we be friends?
I'm not gay, but I can act like it... up to a point.
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fluffernutter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:33 PM
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26. rofl!
:D
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Ivan Sputnik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:42 PM
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27. Maybe they think it's amusing
to parody stereotypical straight guy talk and behavior?

Why don't you ask them?
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LostInAnomie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 10:48 PM
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30. Why would I want to ask my close and personal friends...
... when I can ask complete and total strangers?
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realisticphish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-04-05 11:05 PM
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31. i'm 19 and straight
and, honestly, its not like we talk about boobs all the time. we might say, "look at her, she's hot" but thats the end of discussion :shrug:
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