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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:44 PM Original message |
Need a little advice |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:45 PM Response to Original message |
1. Not really enough info, but if anything is going to be actionable |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:50 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Let me ask you this. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:55 PM Response to Reply #5 |
12. If they reprimanded him in the past then request a meeting |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:06 PM Response to Reply #12 |
22. NSMA, you are a lawyer, if I remember correctly. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:29 PM Response to Reply #22 |
33. On what grounds? |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:41 PM Response to Reply #33 |
38. I haven't done anything. |
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WildClarySage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:10 PM Response to Reply #1 |
26. Volunteers have rights too, so even if she isn't an employee |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:12 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. I figured there had to be some protections for volunteers |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:48 PM Response to Reply #26 |
41. Oh I agree. In some states labor law applies to volunteers |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:49 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. Really? |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:53 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. Not in active practice |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:55 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. One more question |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:00 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. You'd be better getting higher ups in and mediating the situation |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:03 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. Thank you so much. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:05 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. The step I would take is |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:10 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. No, I know exactly what you mean |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:17 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Southern men are controlled by Steel Magnolias. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 03:18 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. LOL. That is priceless. Thanks! |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:51 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. Actually, that is incorrect |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:53 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Thank you for the time and heart that you offer. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:57 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. Thank you very much for that!!! |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:14 PM Response to Reply #14 |
28. bingo! |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:18 PM Original message |
I have kids begging, begging |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
32. I honestly think that somewhere |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:51 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. IF we relied on only professionals |
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bahrbearian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
3. Start Documenting the harassment? |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:52 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. I have. |
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mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:50 PM Response to Original message |
4. What is he harrasing you about? |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:55 PM Response to Reply #4 |
13. Done. |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:51 PM Response to Original message |
6. Attacking you personally...is he telling you directly or saying things to |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:01 PM Response to Reply #6 |
17. Talk to the assistant principal, and the principal, together or |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:03 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. An additional problem with this guy |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:07 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. He's a bully, if not you, then someone else. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:09 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. Boy, you said it. |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:18 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. If this guy did this in any other context, it would be stalking and harras |
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fit4life (561 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
9. Try his boss. |
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ProudToBeLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
15. It seems you have exhausted your options |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:01 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. That seems to be my only recourse at this point. |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:03 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. The PTA has no power here. This is a personnel issue. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:04 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. The PTA has no power, period. |
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Speck Tater (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
20. I have a tendancy to over-react, but... |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:08 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. Boy, did you hit the nail on the head. |
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mahina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
30. Read "Getting to Yes" by Fisher and Ury |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:21 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. Great advice. Thanks. |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:35 PM Response to Reply #31 |
36. Outspoken how? nt |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:42 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. I called a couple of aides on the carpet |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:30 PM Response to Reply #30 |
34. Excellent recommendation |
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MissMarple (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:37 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. Even if mediation doesn't work, it is a good step in the process. |
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mahina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:50 PM Response to Reply #37 |
44. Exactly. A lawsuit won't get you what you want, |
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hickman1937 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:31 PM Response to Original message |
35. You are providing a priceless service to this school, |
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mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
40. After reading this whole thread... |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-05-05 02:48 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. Thank you. |
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