how do you like your man?

Lots of hair or bald?
Short or tall?
Thin or built?
Hairy chest or smooth skin?
Blue eyes or brown? (or other)
Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?
Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?
Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)
A man who can cook or a man who will clean?
Boxers or breifs?
Truck man or fast car man?
A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?
Sensuous or wild?

n/t

My man:
Balding
Tall-ish
average
started smooth-heading toward hairy
brown eyes
jeans and t-shirt
funny and intellectual
no booze, no smokes
he cleans the house
boxer briefs
he doesn't much care about cars
my man is well-read, and well-intentioned about fixing things :)
my man is super-sensuous

Since I am really happy with my man, I figured I would just describe what I already have.


(edited for spelling)

Thick blond hair
Not particularly tall or particularly short.
On the thin side but not scrawny. Some muscle, he does aikido.
Pretty friggin' hairy. I like it.
Gorgeous dark blue eyes
A little fashion-conscious in that indie-rock-boy way. Slightly metrosexual. Primps in the mirror way more than I do.
Very funny. Very smart. Studied astrophysics and modern-classical music in college. Still very interested in both fields, lectures me all the time on astronomy and space exploration. (It helps my dad like him. :D)
Half-Canadian. Part Romanian.
Classically trained pianist (very skilled hands :evilgrin:)
Cat person. Spoils our furbabies rotten.
Social drinker, smoker (like me)
Slight neat freak (me: big slob. This is our #1 fight issue). Cleans and cooks.
Boxers.
Cars? Huh? Who needs a car where we live? (He used to drive a beatup old Toyota pickup truck for his keyboards, but got rid of it when the parking tickets got to exceed the value of the truck.)
Four years younger than me.
Big ol' Star Wars, X-Files, and Lord of the Rings geek. (Like me.)
Can fix computers and musical instruments.
Treats me with total respect and, I hope, vice versa.
Lefty/Dem/Liberal/Bush-hater

Hairy
Short
Built
Hairy chest
Dark eyes
Jeans and t-shirt
Serious/intellectual guy
Cigar and whiskey man
A man who will clean
Briefs
Truck man
A guy who can fix things
Sensuous

Lots of hair or bald?
hair

Short or tall?
tall

Thin or built?
either (lean or built, not super-skinny and frankly not-so-much into obese)

Hairy chest or smooth skin?
no preference, just natural

Blue eyes or brown? (or other)
blue, but doesn't much matter

Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?
jean and t-shirt

Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?
both

Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)
neither

A man who can cook or a man who will clean?
both (clean if I have to pick though)

Boxers or breifs?
boxer briefs

Truck man or fast car man?
sensible, fuel efficient car man (motorcycles included)

A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?
well-read- I can fix my own stuff.

Sensuous or wild?
A man who can follow my lead depending on what I'm in the mood for. ;)

except I'm not tall...:7

Just taller than me really. Probably Danny DeVito wouldn't do it for me. :)

At least thats what my drivers license says...

<<Lots of hair or bald?
hair>>

All that and then some

<<Short or tall?
tall>>

6'2"

<<Thin or built?
either (lean or built, not super-skinny and frankly not-so-much into obese)>>

Lean. I'm a runner.

<<Hairy chest or smooth skin?
no preference, just natural>>

Too much native. No Tom Selleck here but glad it doesn't matter.

<<Blue eyes or brown? (or other)
blue, but doesn't much matter>>

Blue

<<Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?
jean and t-shirt>>

Jeans and untucked button down all the way to the collar.

<<Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?
both>>

You are in luck.

<<Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)
neither>>

First snag.

<<A man who can cook or a man who will clean?
both (clean if I have to pick though)>>

I am the best cook I know and I left mommie at 17 and can clean up after myself.

<<Boxers or breifs?
boxer briefs>>

On a roll.

<<Truck man or fast car man?
sensible, fuel efficient car man (motorcycles included)>>

I loathe my dependence on a car.

<<A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?
well-read- I can fix my own stuff.>>

Everything is great. All I have to do is give up one vice.

<<Sensuous or wild?
A man who can follow my lead depending on what I'm in the mood for. ;)>>

OK. You get three times in a row then it is my turn.

Excellent answer! :7

Lots of hair or bald?
Lots of hair, longish too. ;)

Short or tall?
Tall please.

Thin or built?
Um... inbetween.

Hairy chest or smooth skin? I'm not sure how to answer that. :shrug:

Blue eyes or brown? (or other)
Blue.

Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?
Jeans and t-shirt. BUT! He must be able to wear a suit if need be.

Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?
Can't I have funny and smart? :(

Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)
NO SMOKING! :puke:

A man who can cook or a man who will clean?
One who will clean.

Boxers or briefs?
Boxer briefs?

Truck man or fast car man?
Fast car, I like fast cars. I want a fast car.

A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?
Well-read.

Sensuous or wild?
both. ;)

:P

:D
Ok lemme explain.
"Lots of hair or bald?
Lots of hair, longish too.
(Well what do you know, I got a lot of hair and I grow it relatively long sometimes)

Short or tall?
Tall please.
(I lean tall, nearly 6'0)
Thin or built?
Um... inbetween.
I lean fat but I look in between
Hairy chest or smooth skin? I'm not sure how to answer that.
(Ive contemplated shaving it honestly though its not that bad)
Blue eyes or brown? (or other)
Blue.
(I have sexy ass blue eyes)
Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?
Jeans and t-shirt. BUT! He must be able to wear a suit if need be.
(I wear Jeans and T pretty much every day I can)
Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?
Can't I have funny and smart?
(You found him)
Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)
NO SMOKING!
Well, I like booze but I dont smoke cigs)
A man who can cook or a man who will clean?
One who will clean.
(I'll clean albeit reluctantly)
Boxers or briefs?
Boxer briefs?
(I wear boxers)
Truck man or fast car man?
Fast car, I like fast cars. I want a fast car.
(What do you think of guys who dont drive)
A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?
Well-read.
(I love reading)
Sensuous or wild?
both."
(I can be both I guess)

:P

I am also unbelievably shy at times, its hard to believe but its true.

:D. Youre just jealous.

really there's no need act like a baby... :P

but here's a fast car



:P

because that's the only thing I have a strong preference about.

I could never be happy with a man who didn't have a little body hair. I used to think Orlando Bloom was cute until I saw a photo of him and he had obviously waxed his chest. I don't like that. A little hair is a good thing.

edited - but not too much hair.

;-)

From a fan of uber-furriness.

Ok, I guess there CAN be too much.

At first I thought, there can not be too much hair . . .but then I thought of this one guy I knew who was covered in fur. In his case, waxing would have been the best choice. :D

True love is when you take the clippers to your man's back to get him ready to go to the water park so he won't scare small children.

"The Wolfman, Mommy!! THE WOLFMAN!!!"

We make jokes about it in this house. Mr. Bouncy says it keeps him warmer in the winter.

Uber-furriness uber alles.

Now if I could just convince guys not to shave their chests and gals not to shave their legs, I could die happy.

Khash.

It's SO much fun to run your fingers through that lovely carpet of chest hair.

Hey I don't shave my legs in the winter! But I hardly grow any leg hair to begin with, so I guess that doesn't count......

Lots of hair or bald? doesn't matter really
Short or tall? not too short
Thin or built? built
Hairy chest or smooth skin? a little hair
Blue eyes or brown? (or other) doesn't matter
Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt? both have their charm, so i like a guy who can look great in either
Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy? combo
Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? cigar and whiskey
A man who can cook or a man who will clean? cook
Boxers or breifs? boxer briefs
Truck man or fast car man? fast car
A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read? there is a certain charm to both, but i hate a lazy man
Sensuous or wild? depends on the day;)

:D

Lots of hair or bald?
Either (usually have long hair, but the last two had long hair and were balding on the top)
Short or tall?
either (usually taller but it never really was an issue)
Thin or built?
Once again-either
Hairy chest or smooth skin?
HAIRY (no little boys!)
Blue eyes or brown? (or other)
Eyes don't matter
Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?
Jeans and t-shirt
Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?
Both!
Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)
Both are fine
A man who can cook or a man who will clean?
I didn't know that men would do either one
Boxers or breifs?
Depends on my mood
Truck man or fast car man?
A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?
Both. I want someone who can help me w/ home improvement projects and who can debate a subject w/ me (or maybe quote some poetry once in a while
Sensuous or wild?
don't make me pick this

read your answers. We answered pretty similar. Esp. on the cook/cleaning answer. Had to laugh because I read your answers after I posted mine

The sexiest man that I ever met did not have one single thing going towards my "ideal" of youth. He was about 5'4, wore ripped jeans, really long hair and was hairy like a bear. He was a studio drummer who supplemented his income w/ house painting jobs. He could guzzle down a cheap beer and still appreciate a fine wine. And he could quote football stats just as fast as he could quote Shakespeare ( and make a wonderful souffle).
After him, I realized that I had no set type. We are still friends, even though he has met his dream girl and I know that I could count on him if I ever needed anything.

than what they look like. I would say, I don't have certain type either. Except I like black guys. I only dated one German. All others were from other countries (most African Americans).

The longer, the better. And hairy. Don't know why-maybe the Lynard Skynard fan coming out in me. I love to meet the guys who look like they should be in a Southern rock band and find out that they are the most intellegent people you will ever meet.
I have dated American, English, French, Russian (oh, he was really hot!), Brazilian and Italian. Loved them all, except for Jabba the Hut (Callie's father-he could die in a ditch and it wouldn't hurt me).

Americans (1 white all others black), English (or better Scottish), Iranian, African, Australian, Mexican, one German. I think that was it.

I wish that I had more contact w/ them. The brogue makes me swoon.

I just love to watch movies were there are Scots in it. Like 4 weddings and a funeral. John Hannah ... I think he has a cute accent and looks cute also. Or Trainspotting. Just to hear the language. Not that I understand anything ... :)

I didn't know you liked Four Weddings and a Funeral! I cry every time Matthew speaks at Gareth's funeral.

in the beginning I didn't understand anything. But in the end .... more Scottish PLEASE. Just loved it. And they were so nice as soon as the figured that I am not ENGLISH .. lol

American men take note-if you have any Scottish blood in you and can fake a decent brogue, I am so yours!

not quite sure the guys find that here ... lol

But do I really want a ton of replies w/ horrible brogues? I think not. BTW-Longgrain has volunteered to be our victim.

great!!!! But that means I have to stay up longer .... darn ... lol

It's back in your thread about reaching 1000 posts.
He wants his triple layer cake.

check out my answer to that :evilgrin: but he hasn't answered yet.

Doesn't mean I haven't seen it...:evilgrin:

ffm and I put it all out-right here on the board. And we tend to answer for each other.
I bet you'd really like to read our replies to each other on yahoo.

Great accent and who in their right mind doesn't like a guy in a kilt?

Khash.

And even better is the easy access (I'll stop before I lock the thread).

Can it be a friendly competition or should I shoot you at the first opportunity?

:)

Khash.

If I am not the guys type, I'll send him over to you!

Between the two of us no man is safe :)

Khash.

And the parades are coming-there ought to be a few kilts in the bunch. Let's hope for a breezy day!

You can go from wild ceilidh dancing in them (without getting too hot) to walking down the street on a cold night (without getting too cold); and if I do say so myself my calves aren't half bad either.

R.E. the accent, has to be the right one; Scots accents are very diverse. I can't abide most accents from the West (Glaswegian is a language all of its own), but an Angus or Highland lilt is divine. Apparently the Inverness accent is the most easily understood of all the British accents.

since I stayed there for 6 weeks to do an intern in the Mitchell Library.

But what is more interesting: What do YOU wear underneath the kilt???? you know, that is the most important question at all ;)

I do have Scots ancestry but am not technically a true Scot...

What there is down there is a secret - though the right man could probably find out fairly quickly. Suffice it to say that I'm not about to start doing hand-stands whilst wearing a kilt.

too bad. ;)

one thing I remember in Glasgow is that one evening I walked with some girls through the park and there was that one guy who played the pipe. It was fantastic to listen.

I can't imagine why that would be ;-)

We'll just say that I don't think that I've dishonoured any ofd my ancestors.

does baking or boiling water count? I work as a janitor, so I can clean like a Taz, but at home I do not really see the point (or much of anything else that is buried under all these papers, but at least I know where my keyboard is).
Also,
"...Your hands are sweeter than nut-brown bread when you touch me ...
Nothing else in this song - only your face.
Nothing else here - only your drinking, night gray eyes."

Too mawkish? How about something political?

"A liar lies to the people.
A liar takes the blood of the people
And drinks this blood with a laugh and a lie,
A laugh in his neck,
A lie in his mouth ...

The tongue of a man is tied on this,
On the liar who lies to nations,
The liar who lies to the people.
The tongue of a man is tied on this
And ends: To hell with 'em all
To hell with 'em all ..."

I prefer a tall, jeans and t-shirt guy a little on the chunky side with dark hair and dark eyes. Hairy chest is ok. Funny and intellectual. I don't like heavy drinkers or smokers, but a pot smoker is ok. I don't like men who are into cars or sports. I like a well-read man who is sensuous.

I just described my husband-except for the sensuous part.

Oh, and boxers.

>Lots of hair or bald?

All of the above. Lotsa long hair. Or smooth and bald and kissable. Particularly guys with receding hair that's going grey.

>Short or tall?

Tall. Very tall. I'm 6 ft and like guys taller than me. But I also have a thing for dwarfs.


>Thin or built?

As Courtney Love said: white boy skinny and big black men.


>Hairy chest or smooth skin?

Hair. Lots of it. Particularly hairy shoulders and hairy backs. I like my men to look like monkeys.

>Blue eyes or brown? (or other)

Green.

>Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?

Suit and tie.

>Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?

Both.

>Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)

Cigarettes and bourbon.

>A man who can cook or a man who will clean?

I'll do the cooking, he does the cleaning. In the words of Neil Young - a man needs a maid.

>Boxers or breifs?

Definitely tight white briefs. I like to rip em off. With my teeth.

>Truck man or fast car man?

Don't care. I'm really not interested in guys' penis substitutes.

>A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?

Both.

>Sensuous or wild?

Both. A guy I can just touch for hours who'll also throw me against the wall, tear my clothes off and make me his bitch. I'm pretty easy on this one but I do want it ALL.

Khash.

Hair: definitely dark hair, but some bald men are sexy
Height: 5'10"-6'3"
Build: Beefy, muscular, but not weight-lifter intense
Chest Hair: Either way, but I like a little hair
Eye color: black or brown
Suit & tie or jeans: both
Funny or intellectual: both
Beer & cig or whiskey: either
Cook or clean: both
Boxers or briefs: either one (or commando in 501s B-))
Truck or fast car: truck
Fix things or well-read: both
Sensuous or wild: sensuous with some wildness

Lots of hair or bald?
in between. I used to like guys with long her when I was young, now I enjoy both :)

Short or tall?
not too tall, just a bit taller than I am

Thin or built?
not too skinny, I like to have a bit of meat on them to grab.

Hairy chest or smooth skin?
a tiny bit of hair on the chest

Blue eyes or brown? (or other)
bf has brown eyes. i think I never dated a guy with blue eyes. But I don't care about the color of the eyes.

Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?
both

Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?
both. Love to have fun but want intelligent conversations also

Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)
whiskey and wine :)

A man who can cook or a man who will clean?
are there men who do that??????

Boxers or breifs?
boxers

Truck man or fast car man?
fast car

A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?
well-read I have to admit. But there are guys who can do both.

Sensuous or wild?
both at its time :evilgrin:

Definitely stocky. I never dated a super-thin guy. Beefy is the way I like 'em. Thick.

I don't really care on hair or bald.

I LOVE furriness, the furrier the better.

As for eye color, I never cared, but I married a green-eyed devil.

Jeans and t-shirt. But suits can be sexy, I guess.

Mmmm, my guy isn't funny in the traditional sense, he's more serious/intellectual. But in a down to earth way, if that makes sense (he's the opposite of a snob).

Cigar and whiskey.

A man who will clean.

How about no boxers, no briefs, no drawers at all?

No preference on vehicle.

How about both can fix things AND well-read?

Sensuous AND wild.

cannot participate.

It's a rule.

I've been with him for fifteen years, though! I'm not even AWARE of other options anymore.

LOL.

Oh shit--I can't say that or I'll get your thread locked!
---

About 6 ft, bald, brown eyes to die for, funny as hell, and one of the most literate men I've ever met. He gives the best hugs you'll ever get and he's a super daddy. He refuses to cook, takes out the garbage, fixes my computer, and he mows the yard. Likes wines and can discuss them intelligently, former smoker and has no hangups about his cars or any other pseudo-penis stuff.

I've been married to him for ten years on April 1.


Laura

If I provided answers to the questions then I'd probably see a guy tomorrow contradicting all of my answers whom I thought was hot as hell. Some tall guys, some short guys. Some dark eyes, some light eyes.

THERE ARE JUST TOO MANY WONDERFUL POSSIBILITIES WITH MEN, I CAN'T COPE.

But broadly speaking:

Lots of hair or bald? Enough to run my fingers through - but must must must be clean.

Short or tall? Either 5'11 - 6'2 or below 5'9

Thin or built? Built, but not with horrendously big muscles.

Hairy chest or smooth skin? Smooth, but not shaved or waxed.

Blue eyes or brown? (or other) Blue, or maybe brown, or maybe green.

Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt? Suit and tie, but some guys just look hot enough to melt the ice-caps in jeans.

Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy? Intellectual enough to hold a philosophical conversation, but with a wicked sense of humour.

Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other) Cigar and whisky - on second thoughts dump the cigar no smoke please.

A man who can cook or a man who will clean? Will clean, or even better has enough money to employ a cleaner.

Boxers or breifs? Boxers, preferably on the floor already.

Truck man or fast car man? Don't like trucks and couldn't give a damn about cars; just as long as he isn't playing with it all of the time.

A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read? Well-read.

Sensuous or wild? Switching between the two in perfect synchrosis with my mood.

lots of hair or shaved head
not too tall
built
hairy chest
green eyes
jeans and a t-shirt
intellectual
Beer and a pipe
cook something good for us
boxers
fast car
well read
sensuous

:hi:

:hi::hug:

Honestly if they can seduce my brain, the rest is usually pretty good.

My "preferences" are very short hair.

Solid, thick, but not cut, build.

The older i get the more i love hairy chests.

Jeans and tee-shirt as long as they are able to occasionally, COMFORTABLY" wear a suit and tie.

I have a habit of finding either strong and silent and brooding types or piss your pants funny, domineering types. I WANT ONE with both. Thoughtful and funny.

Beer or whiskey as long as they don't mind it is usually a beer, in the bottle, for me.

Nothing better in life than standing in the kitchen together, cooking and cleaning. I don't mind which they prefer as long as we do it together.

I LOVE boxer briefs

Truck man

One who will help me fix things AND talk to me about what they have been reading.

Sensual in doses. Too much and i am off put. I prefer stronger to "wild" Honestly, more important than either is a match where you both "sense" what is right and when.

why so many "ors" ... i'd prefer "all of the above" on several of those ....

8 to 80, crippled or crazy is fine with her.

She said her standards when she met me were teeth, hair, and a job. The teeth could be store bought and hair on the chest was a fine substitute for hair on the head.

It's quite depressing. :nopity:

not a one.

grrrrrr

But I felt the same way for the boys thread...


Categorizing isn't fun

I bet most of the people who read either one of them probably didn't match all the answers on any of them either.

If not... all I can say is...

Well, that would explain alot. LOL

I think you are most likely very right indeed in thinking that. How does the saying go, "Noone is perfect unless you allow them to be", or something like that...I'm sure you get my point anyhow :)

it's natural to have a preferance when it comes to personal appearances. But some people become too picky when it comes to the more superficial things. Like someone who would have been a great companion and a wonderful person was passed by because they didn't drive the right car, or wear the right clothes. Everyone is judgemental. Some more than others. We would love to not be judgemental but it is inevitable. Most are done entirely sub-conscoiusly. Thats percisely what a "first-impression" is. We are making an instant judgement of a person based on our personal preferances and life experiances. And its not restricted to people we interact with. We make instant judgements of everyone we see. The only control we have is how we allow those judgements to affect how we act or treat a person. One time, I needed to buy a full buisiness suit, so I dressed in the most ragged and worn out clothes I could find. I started going from store to store. Lost had a great selection. Lost had great prices. My criteria for buying the suit... The first store I went to that a staff-person came over to me with a genuine desire to help me find a nice suit. I finally found a place to get my suit on my 9th store. I was even asked to leave 3 stores before I was asked if I was there to buy anything!!!

Lots of hair or bald? - Hair

Short or tall? - Short

Thin or built? - Built

Hairy chest or smooth skin? - Smooth or just a little hair.

Blue eyes or brown? (or other) - Brown

Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt? - Jeans and t-shirt

Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy? - Funny - hands down

Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other) - Yuck, neither - I hate smoke.

A man who can cook or a man who will clean? - A man who will clean
Boxers or breifs? - Boxers

Truck man or fast car man? - Truck man, but only because you twisted my arm, otherwise, neither.

A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read? - well read

Sensuous or wild? - why not both? Since I have to pick, I'll take sensuous.

I was thiiiiiiiiiis close. AND I love The Clash.

:shrug:

:o

I like a man who is about 6 feet tall, with dark brown hair, brown eyes, a gorgeous smile, who is thoughtful, understanding, romantic, always thinking about what will make me happy, has a great butt, makes me tingle, a quirky mind, a terrific laugh, cooks, cleans and who is laying on the bed reading a magazine at this precise moment.

Hair- either, but not in between, shave it or grow it, pick one.
Short- I prefer 5'10" or less
thin- Buff creeps me out
Smooth- hair is icky
eyes-any color, just expressive please
clothes- casual as the norm, but clean up nicely and have some style
Funny and smart
spirits & smokes- not a snob, but can do wine or beer, no dope but cigars or cigs are okay sometimes
gimme a cleaner any day, I will cook
Boxers or commando
I hate trucks
well read
Sensuous

skip the suit, and the rest is optional.

if you make me laugh and we can share books, you are in.

ps - you left out 'commando'.......

But I'll like him just as well when he's old, grey, stooped and with a paunch.

:loveya:

:hi: They are the best...even when they start to fade.

:hi:

Practice good hygiene, and love my cats, then they're ok in my book.
Of course, being a Democrat is a must, and none of that controlling bullshit.

but, if all my guesses were to be had on a whim of the one I think I'd like...


Hair: definitely dark hair, perhaps a lil' Brillo-ish
Height: 5'10"-5'11"
Build: some guns... perhaps with a nice tat & a 5-8 pack would be nice
Chest Hair: au natural... whatever that is, but I am partial to just a small trail
Eye color: Green, Blue, &/or some very specific Browns
Suit & tie or jeans: clothes? OK, 501's??
Funny or intellectual: b, followed closely by a
Beer & cig or whiskey: how about Beer or Whiskey (mood/setting based), but NO cigs
Cook or clean: clean.. I'll cook
Boxers or briefs: gotta steal here: commando in 501s - but soft cotton boxers are good too
Truck or fast car: truck
Fix things or well-read: capable of both please
Sensuous or wild: sensuous

:loveya:

:loveya:

But I fear rejection, so I was setting the bar lower for this particular thread.

:P

Lots of hair or bald?
Hair isn't a big thing for me, so I'm not picky there. If it's long, cool. If it's short, cool. I suppose I do have a slight thing for mop tops. And I do like curly 'dos. I also seem to like beards.

Short or tall?
No preference. I don't have height issues. I've never dated a short guy, but that hasn't been because of avoidance... just never seemed to have a short guy interested in me.

Thin or built?
Errrr... good question. I suppose I don't really care, but I am rather large-boned and muscular even though I am short, so I would probably feel really self-conscious next to a super thin guy.

Hairy chest or smooth skin?
I'm actually not concerned either way.

Blue eyes or brown? (or other)
I can see the beauty in all the colors. Deep brown is very warm and lovely, and green is great, too. Blue is pleasing, and hazel is delightful.

Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?
Jeans and t-shirt. I'm very casual. I need a casual guy. Bonus points if the guy goes thrifting with me.

Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?
Both. I like to laugh and think... usually simultaneously.

Beer and cigarette man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)
I like beer. No...I really like beer. I've always liked beer. A beer drinking man and I would get along very, very well.

A man who can cook or a man who will clean?
A cooking man. I don't mind cleaning, but I hate preparing chow.

Boxers or briefs?
None! OK, that's not practical. None around the house and whatever's comfy in public.

Truck man or fast car man?
Bus man? Used car man? Bike man? I like the new Toyota Scions. Maybe a sensible used Toyota man if a driver, public transporter if an urban guy.

A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?
Hmmmm.... well-read.

Sensuous or wild?
I like an amalgam of sensual geekiness with a hint of utter nerdery and a penchance for hanging out.

edited for sp.

I'm well read.

heehee

Lots of hair or bald?

Either way can be attractive, but I do admit an observable fascination for dark haired men with beards.

Short or tall?

Height is irrelevant to me. Character is important.

Thin or built?

I've seen fellas both ways and thought they were attractive, and also both ways which did nothing for me. It's more a matter of confidence and grace of movement, it's a total package thing.

Hairy chest or smooth skin?

Either way, really. I enjoy a fuzzy dude, but I also can admire the smooth as a baby's backside variety.

Blue eyes or brown? (or other)

Just the colour of stones under water.

Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?

No thanks.

Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?

If he can't be both at turns he really isn't for me.

Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)

I grew up in a wine and olives family. I'm not sure I think this relevant to attraction in any way, but I am acquainted with far more beer and cigarette types than cigar and fine scotch sorts.

A man who can cook or a man who will clean?

Not relevant.

Boxers or breifs?

No thanks.

Truck man or fast car man?

Fast car.

A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?

Most of the dudes I know can do both. Actually, so can I.

Sensuous or wild?

Intense.

...like my coffee.

and good in bed. The rest doesn't matter

Lots of hair or bald? Can go either way
Short or tall? Tall (I am over 6' tall)
Thin or built? husky (must weigh more than me)
Hairy chest or smooth skin? hairy chest
Blue eyes or brown? (or other) Brown
Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt? Casual
Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy? Both
Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other) Espresso and scones
A man who can cook or a man who will clean? Both
Boxers or breifs? Boxers
Truck man or fast car man? Truck
A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read? Well read
Sensuous or wild? Sensuous

Long hair, tall, no chest hair, pretty. It's ok if he doesn't speak english beause I am not planning on having a conversation with him.

I have often had the same thought. I just want to use, not have a real conversation.

I'm sure that both you and he are very lucky and happy men.

I am the luckiest man on Earth to have Doug in my life.

<GASP!!>

:-)

:)

Lots of hair or bald? Don't do the bald thing, but other than that, don't care about hair.
Short or tall? Just tall enough to where my head fits perfectly under his chin.
Thin or built? I like someone that I can grab onto, not someone that when I hug him I say "Where'd you go??"
Hairy chest or smooth skin? Prefer smooth, but some guys can pull off the hair. :)
Blue eyes or brown? (or other)? Blue, but it really doesn't matter.
Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt? jean, t-shirt, and flip flops. :)
Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy? An intellectual guy with a sense of humor.
Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other) Beer and cigarrette man.
A man who can cook or a man who will clean? A man who can cook but doesn't mind cleaning. Sucks to have to clean all by yourself.
Boxers or breifs? Boxer briefs.
Truck man or fast car man? Fast car man.
A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read? A well-read man that can fix things. :)
Sensuous or wild? A sensuous man with a wild side. Every night doesn't have to be a new adventure, but I don't want to take the same trip each time. :)

Lots of hair or bald?
Doesn't matter

Short or tall?
Tall

Thin or built?
Doesn't matter

Hairy chest or smooth skin?
Not too hairy.

Blue eyes or brown? (or other)
Doesn't matter

Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?
Jeans and t-shirt

Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?
Intellectual and funny guy

Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)
Neither! ICK!

A man who can cook or a man who will clean?
I can't have both??? OK, A man who will clean.

Boxers or breifs?
Boxers

Truck man or fast car man?
Neither -- economical car.

A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?
I can't have both of these, either??? OK, one who is well-read.

Sensuous or wild?
Come on... BOTH!!!

I would also like to add my 'perfect' man likes animals, does not smoke, is caring, liberal (of course) and open-minded.

So if any of you fit this description or know someone who does, send them my way, OK?

Peace,
Bella

Lots of hair or bald?
lots of hair/ditto
Short or tall?
short/ tall
Thin or built?
toned though not heavily muscled/ flexible
Hairy chest or smooth skin?
a little hairy/ smooth
Blue eyes or brown? (or other)
blue eyes/ flexible
Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?
sweater and khakis/ditto
Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?
serious--thinks he's funny/ funny
Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)
beer, merlot and occasional cigarrette man/ less beer and no ciggy man
A man who can cook or a man who will clean?
neither/ either
Boxers or breifs?
briefs/ditto
Truck man or fast car man?
hybrid car man/ditto
A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?
well-read/ ditto
Sensuous or wild?
Wha?

Lots of hair or bald?
hair

Short or tall?
medium height

Thin or built?
built

Hairy chest or smooth skin?
smooth skin (shaved)

Blue eyes or brown? (or other)
I don't care really.

Suit and tie or jeans and t-shirt?
Suit and tie, or dressed up nicely.

Funny guy or serious/intellectual guy?
Funny and smart

Beer and cigarrete man or cigar and whiskey man? (or other)
Neither.

A man who can cook or a man who will clean?
Both.

Boxers or breifs?
boxer briefs

Truck man or fast car man?
Van or some other practical vehicle.

A guy who can fix things or one who is well-read?
A guy who can fix things and make things, but who also has a college education.

Sensuous or wild?
wild