Sport ist Mord

I went to the gym yesterday evening and got shown some more equipment (on my request). I want to do some more for my thighs/butt/stomach. One is built like a gynecologist's chair, pulls my legs apart x(
Why do I have the feeling that some of those equipments are more instruments of torture than anything else?

I didn't do much on the "new" ones. Just let them show me and tried out. I will work with them next time (which will be tomorrow, I think).

till I met him I wasn't really interested in doing it. But he changed my mind. Not that I need to lose a lot of weight, it is more the idea to stay fit. His words were "I want you to get the right mind set, because once you are pregnant, it will get harder" :wtf:

:) Ok, I guess he is right and now that I started going I really feel better. And I am really proud of me that I am still going and don't put it off. But then, I pay for it and I am not willing to spend money for no reason. And I promised my bf when he left that I will keep going and will be fit when he comes back. And I tend to keep my promises

:)

and I hope to fit in my summer clothes again without problem. And wearing a low cut jeans with a belly (and even if it is just a tiny one) just doesn't look good. I always make fun of girls where the fat is showing too much. It would be a bad idea to walk around the same.

I'm more of telephone pole in terms of a figure

did you ever post a pic of you in one of those "post your pic" threads?

just do an archive search

tell me again: why are you shy???? Cute. I love black guys with glasses. :evilgrin:

I just am :shrug:

and:

:blush:

black guys with glasses are a big turn on for me. They look very intelligent with the glasses on and if the intelligence is really there also .... phew ....

*snaps fingers*

;)

believe me, it took me long enough to find a man that fit me. And guess, he is black (not as dark as you - more brown) and wears glasses .... LOL

but here is a :hug:
one day you will find a girl that appreciate what you can give her. Do you have a preference in color?

But really, I don't have a preference...she could be American, Canadian, French, German,etc.

I hope I do find someone... :shrug:


Is it as big of a deal in Germany when compared to here in terms of dating someone of a different skin color ? (If you don't mind me asking)

esp. not in areas where the US military is. A lot of mixed couples. And other mixes also Turkish/German etc. There are still people who don't like it but you definitely don't get as much dirty looks as in the States, esp. in the South. Not that it ever bothered me. My first black bf I had in Savannah, GA.
My bf's parents are a mixed couple. So he is used to the problematic. He dated all kinds of nationalites already. Some in my family weren't too happy when I started dating non-Germans, esp. black Americans but I think that was more because they are scared to lose me. By now, they are ok with it. Or got used, seeing it won't change a bit what they are saying, I am still dating who I want.

My parents don't have a problem as well. At least with the people my sister has dated so far. Can't say the same about me since I've never had a gf.

I guess your parents just want their kids happy, no matter what color or nationality.

there are a lot out there. Atlanta is a big city ... lot of oportunities .... :)

I wish it were that easy. Of course I could be too picky and coupled with shyness not a good combination.

:shrug:

you don't sound like you were too picky. You are open to a lot of different girls (regarding nationality and color). Is there a Democratic group on campus you can join?

The campus is very small but I know there are :puke: College Republicans on campus

there will be Dems also. Two plus sides. you can make new friends and you can be sure, the girls you meet there are intelligent gals.

we'll see :)

I am older and wiser .... LOL

:D

... I just love this Southern hospitality and respect :D

really don't have a southern accent though.

:D

I like to understand the people I am talking to :P

There are regional accents in German or am I incorrect ?

but since I moves quite often, my German regional accent is mixes. Thüringisch, sächsich, badisch, hessisch :)

but in case you ever talk to me you will hear that I hava an heavy German accent when speaking English. :shrug:

I like women with accents

:D

Did you find English difficult to learn ?

learning vocabulary wasn't and isn't really my thing. But when I was a nanny in NC I was forced to speak English to be able to communicate, it wasn't that hard. I used my dictionary less and less till I didn't need it all anymore. In the end I had to look up words in English so that I remembered what the German word was. And when I could pronounce "Hippopotamus" I knew I got it :)

ya know at this time of night - it's so easy for my brain to come up with answers that would get this thread locked ... but I promised to be good while I'm in Boston. :evilgrin: funny ~ I've always heard "you're goooood", so I thought I already was. :shrug:

and form your answer in a way that doesn't get my thread locked. And believe me I have an idea in mind what I will write my bf :evilgrin:

but I've never gotten any thread locked nor have any of my post been deleted ... cause I'm goooooooood O8)

I seem to remember you once said you wanted to work your butt off - have you been successful ?

what makes you think I believe that????????? :P

My butt is still the same big size as it was before. And I don't want to change anything there. I like my butt and not only I (me?) :evilgrin:

:evilgrin: about why I'm so good

Alright - if you aren't trying to shrink your butt - what are you working on ?

keep my butt in shape (don't want a hanging one), thighs ... need to fit in my pants again, stomach ... I wanna shrink that one and arms to get some muscles

after all - you've got a great attitude combined with modivation :evilgrin: but remember don't change too much because your bf loves you as you are.

:hug:

I won't change too much, I just want to stay fit. that is all. and lose some pounds.