Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Do I have a future?

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU
 
Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-14-05 05:08 PM
Original message
Do I have a future?
I have computer skills, some graphics design skills, some web skills, some database creation/manipulation skills.

I have allergies.

I have a sense of humor held with esteem by many, though others think I'm off the wall. One person thinks I'm bizarre, but that's his problem.

I have a sense of community and looking out for other people.

I have a sense of fair play and will not cheat to get somewhere.

I will always back out of something if I see somebody who is superior make a claim.

I am NOT, however, the brightest bulb on the tree. I may have a high IQ, but I am also tantamount to Chrissy Snow/Reg Barclay hybrid in persona. Thanks to Asperger's combined with traumatic childhood.

But I survived and am willing to serve and be a productive part in this world, if the world chooses to accept me.

What must I do to be accepted?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
OldLeftieLawyer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-14-05 05:10 PM
Response to Original message
1. Quit backing out
Your idea of who's superior just might not be accurate.

Superior?

That's a funny thing, now that you mention it. I mean, who's superior to whom?

So, stand your ground.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Jara sang Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-14-05 05:10 PM
Response to Original message
2. What is future? What is past?
The transitory nature of the present makes it hard to tell.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Shoeempress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-14-05 05:11 PM
Response to Original message
3. Accept yourself. No one is loved by everyone. Me, I'm the queen of the
geeks, not in a techno way, just geeky. But I like me, I love my husband, who loves me back, and my cats think I'm fabulous cuz I can open their food. What more can I ask for?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MuseRider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-14-05 05:12 PM
Response to Original message
4. I think you
are great! We have not communicated a lot but I read what you write. Seems like you are A OK here. Are you just too shy in public? Seriously, those traits together are getting kinda rare these days and they are respectable traits.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NC_Nurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-14-05 05:47 PM
Response to Original message
5. Yes!
You are an interesting and wonderful person. I read your posts and I like you. Asperger's ain't the end of the world...my son has it, my brother is autistic and both are functioning just fine.

Don't give up. I love ya! :D
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Neoma Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-14-05 05:53 PM
Response to Original message
6. Just remember that the future comes one day at a time.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DemExpat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-14-05 05:58 PM
Response to Original message
7. Maybe realize that the "world" will never accept you....
only individuals will!

And try to somehow carve out your place to serve because chances are no one is going to offer it to you.

These are also issues I have dealt with in my life, so I know where you are coming from to a certain degree. Surviving is a valuable skill in itself, don't you agree?

:hug:

DemEx



Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
KittyWampus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-14-05 06:03 PM
Response to Original message
8. "What must I do to be accepted?" Only Capitalize "L"'s When Posting?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Fri May 03rd 2024, 04:58 AM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC