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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:26 PM Original message |
Anybody else who does not care about having kids? Are we abnormal? |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
1. I have no children |
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Reverend_Smitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
2. I don't want kids either... |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:52 PM Response to Reply #2 |
17. I never had a single maternal instinct until I had my child. |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 12:18 AM Response to Reply #17 |
133. I second that |
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Kathy in Cambridge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:30 PM Response to Original message |
3. If people want to have kids, more power to them |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:43 PM Response to Reply #3 |
102. Ahhhh Kathy, I've seen your posts... |
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ohiosmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:30 PM Response to Original message |
4. Married 35 years. No kids. Never a desire to have any. |
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Shoeempress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:30 PM Response to Original message |
5. Childless by choice, and thank god there are people like your sister |
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revree (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:31 PM Response to Original message |
6. You are perfectly normal... |
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Spinzonner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:35 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Some women see being a successful mom |
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anitar1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 07:55 PM Response to Reply #9 |
30. But we are taught that having children is the norm. |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:03 PM Response to Reply #9 |
123. I am - I'm the one to judge |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:37 AM Response to Reply #6 |
83. 40 yrs old, no kids, never wanted them, and half the people I |
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Spinzonner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
7. Having or raising ? |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:35 PM Response to Original message |
8. Yes, you are seriously disturbed. |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:41 PM Response to Original message |
10. I'm not aching to have kids. |
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48pan (957 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:43 PM Response to Original message |
11. Never had any... |
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SCRUBDASHRUB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:46 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. Married seven years, I'm 34 and am not rarin' to start breeding. |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
12. No babies for me... |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:45 PM Response to Original message |
13. Took a good look at my family when I was 8 years old |
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Spinzonner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:55 PM Response to Reply #13 |
20. That's an evolutionary irresponsible attitude |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 07:53 AM Response to Reply #20 |
62. Now you tell me |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:49 PM Response to Original message |
15. I never planned on having a child. |
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loudestchick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:50 PM Response to Original message |
16. Actually, I believe that as part of an effective survival strategy some |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:54 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. Yup, this was a bit of a dilemma for Wilson and his theories... |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:53 PM Response to Original message |
18. No, I've never had a strong maternal drive |
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nytemare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
21. I can borrow my sister's kids |
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kikiek (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
22. We chose to not have children. To each his own in my opinion. Never felt |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
23. No kids here...you are not a mutant or anything |
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calico1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
24. I am 47 and have none. |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 07:41 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. Me too, but I knew from much younger than 25. |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 07:46 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. Wow! I cannot stand kids, frankly... But perhaps only spoiled kids... |
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prole_for_peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:12 PM Response to Reply #28 |
36. nothing wrong with that. |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 07:43 AM Response to Reply #36 |
60. Glad to hear we are not the only monsters!!!! |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:37 PM Response to Reply #27 |
131. I Knew When I Was Nine Years Old |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 09:43 AM Response to Reply #24 |
142. 42 and "knew" at about 13. |
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WMliberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
25. the only pitter patter of little feet i want to hear |
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WindRavenX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
26. I plan on adopting |
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legally blonde (747 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 07:51 PM Response to Original message |
29. At this point in my life |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 07:58 PM Response to Original message |
31. It's a personal decision. |
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Dastard Stepchild (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:01 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. I concur with your thought... |
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laugle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 07:59 PM Response to Original message |
32. Married 17 years tomorrow and |
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Vektor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 01:45 AM Response to Reply #32 |
49. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! |
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laugle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 03:22 PM Response to Reply #49 |
153. Thanks for the congrats, |
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Vektor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 09:00 PM Response to Reply #153 |
160. Thank you! |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 08:56 AM Response to Reply #32 |
66. Woooo Hooo! Congrats. |
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laugle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 03:20 PM Response to Reply #66 |
152. Thanks sweetie!!!! |
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yvr girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:00 PM Response to Original message |
33. I'm sort of ambivalent |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:08 PM Response to Reply #33 |
124. You might want to check out foster parent programs |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 09:28 AM Response to Reply #33 |
140. you get used to icky |
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serryjw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
35. 55 no kids by choice but |
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hyphenate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:17 PM Response to Original message |
37. I'm with you |
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DemGirl7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:17 PM Response to Original message |
38. Alot of people don't have a desire to have kids... |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
39. Childfree |
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caty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
40. I read a survey years ago |
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hyphenate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:31 PM Response to Original message |
41. One thing that always irritates me, though |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 07:30 AM Response to Reply #41 |
59. My feeling is that if you have children then you have made a |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 10:09 PM Response to Reply #59 |
114. My kids do come first, but... |
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VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:32 PM Response to Original message |
42. It never even made a blip on my screen. 2 cats are about all I can handle! |
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laugle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 01:07 AM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Love your realistic kitty pictures!!! |
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kedrys (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
43. Married 9+ years, no kids |
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Pool Hall Ace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-05 08:36 PM Response to Original message |
44. You are not abnormal. |
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Qanisqineq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 01:17 AM Response to Original message |
46. no kids |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 01:32 AM Response to Original message |
47. Kidless by choice. |
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Vektor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 01:43 AM Response to Original message |
48. Happily married, no interest in having kids. |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 01:46 AM Response to Original message |
50. I don't care whether you have kids or not |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 01:51 AM Response to Original message |
51. we exist because the world needs balance |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 01:53 AM Response to Original message |
52. I never cared about having kids... at all. |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 03:43 AM Response to Original message |
53. Please! |
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CornField (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 04:18 AM Response to Original message |
54. Abnormal? No. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 06:06 AM Response to Original message |
55. Don't Have Them, Don't Want Them, Sterilized Twice |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:13 PM Response to Reply #55 |
126. Twice? |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:33 PM Response to Reply #126 |
129. Tubal Ligation and Endometrial Ablation |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:38 PM Response to Reply #129 |
132. Ahhhh |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 06:12 AM Response to Original message |
56. Not abnormal. I plan to live the rest of my life happily child-free. |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 06:46 AM Response to Original message |
57. wow, welcome to the crusty, old fogeys... |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 09:45 AM Response to Reply #57 |
143. Maybe it's just a "I don't want kids" thread |
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Heyo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 07:08 AM Response to Original message |
58. If your abby-normal... |
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Modem Butterfly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 07:48 AM Response to Original message |
61. We don't want them either |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
63. overpopulation also means extinction |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 08:31 AM Response to Original message |
64. Makes sense for the survival of a society |
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Left_Winger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 08:54 AM Response to Original message |
65. No, I do not think we are abnormal at all |
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Brewman_Jax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 09:03 AM Response to Original message |
67. None for me |
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SW FL Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 09:20 AM Response to Original message |
68. You are not abnormal |
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livetohike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 09:34 AM Response to Original message |
69. Married 30 years and childless by choice |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 09:38 AM Response to Original message |
70. Your not abnormal, not by a long shot |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 09:47 AM Response to Reply #70 |
71. Thanks! |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 09:49 AM Response to Reply #71 |
73. cheers! |
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GOPBasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
72. Lots of people make that choice. n/t |
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cedahlia (883 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
74. "You'll change your mind!" |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:11 AM Response to Reply #74 |
76. My image of fatherhood is the one depicted in ERASERHEAD! |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 10:17 PM Response to Reply #74 |
116. I despise that that riff... |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 09:48 AM Response to Reply #74 |
144. Because it's "ok" for guys to "scared" of babies |
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HughBeaumont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
75. I have a stepson. That's it. |
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El Fuego (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
77. I've never wanted kids. Ever. |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:19 AM Response to Original message |
78. I get angry at people who try to pressure childless people |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:23 AM Response to Reply #78 |
80. I bet somebody without kids would never become Prez... |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:49 AM Response to Reply #80 |
84. I'm still waiting for... |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:53 AM Response to Reply #84 |
86. Well said... |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 10:14 PM Response to Reply #80 |
115. This guy did: |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
79. Joy Williams - "The Case Against Babies." |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:31 AM Response to Reply #79 |
82. Nice! Thanks for the link! |
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Lisa0825 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:25 AM Response to Original message |
81. I used to want kids. Now I am ambivalent. |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
85. some people want kids, others don't |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:54 AM Response to Reply #85 |
87. I agree... But minorities tend to be considered "abnormal" |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 01:42 PM Response to Reply #87 |
96. Considered abnormal by the minority of the majority. n/t |
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RatRacer (176 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
88. Yours is a minority position, not an "abnormal" one. |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:56 AM Response to Reply #88 |
89. Yup, I agree... |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
90. My husband used to be on the fence, now he wants one. I'm still |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 12:03 PM Response to Reply #90 |
91. I hear you! Dunno, it's easy for hubbies to say "let's do it" |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 01:20 PM Response to Reply #91 |
94. Thank you. I mean, don't get me wrong, I believe my husband |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 01:26 PM Response to Reply #94 |
95. There is something called "healthy selfishness". You need it to |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 09:26 PM Response to Reply #94 |
110. Grace, |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 10:17 AM Response to Reply #110 |
146. Thanks Oregonian. You're very kind. |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 01:30 PM Response to Reply #146 |
150. I know. It's a lot to take on. |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 02:11 PM Response to Reply #150 |
151. It is ironic |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 07:40 PM Response to Reply #151 |
155. How about you make him a deal. |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
92. I want kids, but I want to be in a better financial state before I breed. |
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4_Legs_Good (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 12:09 PM Response to Original message |
93. Some people have the maternal/paternal instinct, others don't |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:22 PM Response to Original message |
97. no, I don't really want them either |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
98. You're overthinking it. |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:41 PM Response to Reply #98 |
100. I forgot to mention that: I don't mind being abnormal! Rather... |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:47 PM Response to Reply #100 |
104. You're not abnormal. |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
99. No |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
101. I don't want any kids. |
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mwdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
103. It's either in you or it's not.. |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:48 PM Response to Original message |
105. It's hard for those of us with kids to respond to this. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
106. Zero population growth. |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:53 PM Response to Reply #106 |
107. I'm with ya except I'd make a horrible mom... n/t |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
108. Abnormal, you're downright UnChristian! |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 06:00 PM Response to Reply #108 |
109. Noooooo! I'm gonna go to hell! |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 09:33 PM Response to Reply #109 |
111. Well, at least they'll be no kids there |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 09:36 PM Response to Reply #111 |
112. LOL, all the screaming kids will be in Heaven!! |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 10:07 PM Response to Reply #112 |
113. yup, shouting praise' to G_D... |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 10:19 PM Response to Original message |
117. What does abnormal mean? |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 10:34 PM Response to Reply #117 |
118. Hmmm, here is why we may be considered abnormal... |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 11:07 AM Response to Reply #118 |
149. Oh, I'm well aware of that. |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
119. Recreational sex without procreation is what distinguishes us from... |
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BattyDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
120. Don't have 'em ... don't want 'em |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 10:58 PM Response to Original message |
121. You exist because you're beautiful |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:01 PM Response to Reply #121 |
122. I love you |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:08 PM Response to Reply #122 |
125. Oh, OK, can I say it too? I love you all, platonically, of course. |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:18 PM Response to Reply #122 |
127. Well, I love you, too - but, |
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valis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:20 PM Response to Reply #127 |
128. Absolutely! |
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fishnfla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-25-05 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
130. Yes, my parents felt the same way |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 05:09 AM Response to Original message |
134. I've never been so happy to be child-free in my whole life. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 05:12 AM Response to Original message |
135. Ah, kids. Can't stand 'em. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 05:13 AM Response to Original message |
136. I feel sorry for anyone tied down with children. |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 09:10 PM Response to Reply #136 |
161. Um, please spare us your pity. |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 09:19 PM Response to Reply #161 |
163. Same here. |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 06:12 AM Response to Original message |
137. I didn't until I turned up pregnagnt (oops) |
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gator_in_Ontario (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 06:25 AM Response to Original message |
138. I made a conscious decision NOT to have children |
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Dastard Stepchild (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 06:32 AM Response to Original message |
139. People always use such strong language.... |
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C_eh_N_eh_D_eh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 09:39 AM Response to Original message |
141. Not so much that I don't want to be a father... |
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silvermachine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
145. No kids here.... |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 10:24 AM Response to Original message |
147. No kids, very, very happy |
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Demit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 10:37 AM Response to Original message |
148. "God hasn't blessed us yet." |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
154. I am childfree by choice for years and will never have one. |
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FizzFuzz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 08:24 PM Response to Reply #154 |
158. hi barb, hows it goin? |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-27-05 01:13 PM Response to Reply #158 |
164. good! and you? |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 08:06 PM Response to Original message |
156. These days... |
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FizzFuzz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 08:21 PM Response to Original message |
157. never wanted 'em--can't stand being around children. |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
159. My wife and I waited nine years before having children. |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-26-05 09:16 PM Response to Original message |
162. I believe in reincarnation... |
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