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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 02:51 PM
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I Feel I Should Apologise....
I started, I believe, 97.8 % of the sex threads on around here recently.

If they became boring, monotonous, immature (well, in a way they were designed to be like that), sexist, offensive or just plain old too much to handle - I'm sorry.

I feel responsible, and really shitty. I mean, it's one thing to get a thread locked. It's another thing to get a whole topic locked. Now others can't post because of me. :(

Once again, I'm sorry. I shall give myself 50 lashings and an indian burn.

Feel free to whack me with a paddle or jab me with a pointed stick, I probably deserve it.

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bif Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 02:53 PM
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1. Give yourself a Dutch rub too and all will be forgiven.
n/t
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CatWoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 02:53 PM
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2. bend over
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BurtWorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 02:55 PM
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4. If he enjoys it, does that mean this thread is locked?
:spank:
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:02 PM
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11. oh well
at least it's not a plunger. :)
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grannylib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 02:55 PM
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3. That's very big of you, MagicRat...sincerely...
it takes a decent person to make an apology, particularly a public one...
I personally didn't take offense, but my hat's off to you anyhow.:7
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 02:55 PM
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5. Here's your punishment.
Edited on Thu Nov-13-03 02:58 PM by GOPisEvil


Now, go forth and sin no more! :pals:
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 02:55 PM
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6. awwww......
it's okay...instead of talking about sex, we can talk about chocolate, right? Isn't that what unmarried women in their 30s do?
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Supormom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:05 PM
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12. Chocolate? For married women over forty!
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SiobhanClancy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:07 PM
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13. Most of the unmarried women in their thirties that I know..
Talk about politics,money,work,clothes and men...and probably every now and then.chocolate:)
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:09 PM
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14. Hershey's or Godiva?
I'm partial to Hershey's, personally. :)
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:55 PM
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33. Hershey's kisses are the best on top of peanut butter cookies....
YUM!!! :-)
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bloom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 04:55 PM
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36. I just bought 7 pounds of Ghirardelli chocolate
What does that tell you?


I haven't opened it yet. It is waiting for me in the cupboard.


:)

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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 05:00 PM
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39. tells me you either really like chocolate
Or YOU'RE the one who building that new race of chocolate-flavored super robots who will one day take over mankind and make us all their deliciously sweet slaves.

One or the other.
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Screaming Lord Byron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 02:56 PM
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7. It's all your fault perv-boy.
SHAME! SHAME! SHAME!
With all your unholy perversions, will you be running for office as a repug any time soon?
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 02:56 PM
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8. Hey its ok.
I need to discuss this stuff with Mrs. DEMMAN actually. All forgiven. Now go get me a sixpack, a pack of smokes, and some pork rinds.


DDQM
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:10 PM
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16. Where are my pork rinds dammit!!
DDQM
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:17 PM
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21. alright, alright...here....
bastard! :)

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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:24 PM
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25. Thanks
crunch crunch crunch

DDQM
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cally Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 02:57 PM
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9. You are not the only one to blame
I think it got way beyond what is reasonable for a political website. Many of us participated. I don't think anyone person is responsible, but I think many libs would not want to become a DU member with what was occuring in the Lounge recently. I hope a short term moratorium will occur and we can get back to the old DU.
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banana republican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 02:58 PM
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10. If you must sin
Sin Boldly

Martin Luther
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:10 PM
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15. Not to be repetitive but...
oh good grief (I find myself saying that a lot today).

I for one do not understand what the big damn deal is. This is the Lounge for pete's sake. You want political commentary - go to GD or LBN or one of the topic specific forums. I thought the point of the Lounge was to talk about things that weren't politics - like sex and music and sports and kittens. :eyes:

My solution for those who were offended remains the same. If you don't want to read sex threads then DON'T open them. I don't like threads about cats. You don't see me bitching. I just don't open them.

I refuse to put on a hairshirt and beat my breast in shame.

It's nice the you're sorry Rat and I am admittedly a little annoyed at you for helping to make this happen...but I'll get over that. May take longer for me to get over some of the holier-than-thou attitude from other members of this board. I'm tired of some of the Lounge bashing that's been going on lately and I just think this is the most extreme example of it.

Let's face it people. The world in a scary place right now and only getting scarier. For some of us the reaction is to get a little silly as a means of coping. Thanks ever so much for taking that outlet away.
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:12 PM
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17. Apology accepted.
;-)
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:15 PM
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19. ROFLMAO
:evilgrin:
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:14 PM
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18. yeah, well, what can you do
We're a democracy (sort of) and a lot of people didn't like them. I bend to ze will of ze people.

:)
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:16 PM
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20. I've said it before and I'll say it again...
there were obviously plenty of people who wanted to participate in those threads. Never seen a sex related topic sink to the bottom without a response around here.

We're a bunch of liberal pervs. :evilgrin:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:21 PM
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23. I refuse to put on a hairshirt and beat my breast in shame.
Okay, that visual gets you a Paddle (again)...

:spank:

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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:22 PM
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24. Do you just...
follow me around with that thing waiting? ;-)
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sleipnir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:38 PM
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28. Right on...the Lounge is the Lounge
I'm getting sick of DU turning lately into a censorship haven...

Now, some of the sex threads were getting out of control, it probably was only a matter of time before one popped up that honestly offended a lot of people or had pictures (gulp)...

But still, locking ALL sex threads???....Seems a bit draconian if you ask me.
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TEXASYANKEE Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:51 PM
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30. Agreed.
This is the one forum I frequent where intelligent and like-minded folks really let their hair down, so to speak. If people don't want to read about sex, don't open the thread. It's that simple.

And now I can't talk about sex because it offends some people and I can't talk about kitties because it offends VelmaD. What is left?? Can my life get any more boring??
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:53 PM
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31. Hang on a second...
I never said you couldn't talk about kittens. I just won't go read about it. See, I'm a grown-up and I'm perfectly capable of avoiding things I don't want to see. :-)

*smooches*
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TEXASYANKEE Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:58 PM
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34. Gotcha.
And the truth is, as much as I love my cats, I'd still rather talk about sex! :-)
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CanuckAmok Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:19 PM
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22. No way, you'd find some way to sexualize the punishment!
I never even found out what a "Cleveland Steam Roller" is!
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jeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:34 PM
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26. Maybe there could be one sex-related post
At any given time. Those prudish at heart can look away. Or another forum.

The DU Sexual Deviant's forum or something.
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LynneSin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:36 PM
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27. Here's your 50 lashes


Now come here and let me give you a :hug:
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soleft Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:51 PM
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29. Class act!
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 03:54 PM
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32. I would prefer to spank your bare bottom by hand.
Over my knees, young man!:evilgrin:
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eleny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 04:20 PM
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35. Oh no! Not an Indian burn!!!!
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TrogL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 04:58 PM
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37. I didn't help much
I probably pushed it over the end.

I'm sorry.

:cry:
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Piperay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 04:58 PM
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38. OK...
here you go :spank: :-)
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MercutioATC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 05:49 PM
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40. I'm O.K. with it. Can I poke you with a sharp stick anyway?
:crazy:
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Kamika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 06:17 PM
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41. Ok thank you.
Edited on Thu Nov-13-03 06:18 PM by Kamika
I became pretty annoyed with those sex threads.

I am one of the most open minded women I know and even I started to get annoyed by your threads and by the whole feeling of walking through mudpiles of sex threads in the lounge.

I thought it had gotten to a point where I would call the lounge sexist.. and it takes ALOT for me to call something sexist.

I am really grateful Skinner did something about it.. I hope by the time I'm feeling better (have had a horrible flu last days throwing up like hell and generally looking like a ghost) I'll enjoy the lounge some more.

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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 06:24 PM
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42. Well, you had a lot of help in unbalancing the mix of subjects here
A little sex chat now and then isn't offensive; it's when it gives the impression of being a XXX website that things need regulating.

I will admit though that some of these threads gave me an inferiority complex. Some of you people lead some really interesting lives.
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Kamika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 06:38 PM
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43. not really
Edited on Thu Nov-13-03 06:38 PM by Kamika
People behind their computers says the darnest things :)

Take what people write with a grain of salt
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