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Edited on Sun Nov-16-03 04:08 PM by HypnoToad
Someone once said 'Life isn't fair'. Yet many forget that other little expression which says something along the lines of 'Life is what we make it.'" So why isn't it the way we romanticize it to be? What must we do to make a fiction a reality?
I prefer thinking of how good life could be if all of us living made a concerted effort, rather than being nice wind-up unquestioning toy citizens for our respective 'governments'.
That's the only way I'm going to answer your question. EVERYBODY in life has problems, whether created by self, environment, or combination of two.
Let's work on finding solutions, not blaming problems. Western society often looks at symptoms, rather than problems. I think finding solutions is far more effective and helps far more people.
Especially when NOBODY is given a manual when they pop out of the womb. And not everybody can figure it out how to be successful in life and success is also based partially on a concept called luck.
My own fault in life is not in bringing about that awareness to people. But then, I never knew how - until now.
Indeed, many gay people live fucked up lives. Is it their fault they are gay? How about perceived to be gay? YOU are being very generalistic when, in fact, there are many types of situations where the cause of the person's life being fucked up was based on society's wrongful bias.
I've got several more thoughts on this issue, but I'm tired. But, in short, it's a matter of situation and it is VERY RARELY the utter fault of the person who got into that bad situation.
Society needs to improve itself, but I'm only seeing a society more concerned with maintaining its status quo, particularly on the part of the people with the most influence. And the status quo is a very unhealthy one, even for the planet itself. A planet we cannot escape from...
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