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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:47 PM
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My 15 year old niece has been missing for 24 hours. I need support!
I just had a phone call from my sister followed by another phone call from my nieces step mother informing me that my niece has gone missing.

She was last seen at a local train station with some guy older than herself.

The police are involved.

This has really been a rough 24 hours for me. First learning of Scottie72's death, and now this. I don't know just how much more I can take. I am really at breaking point, and just really need support right now.

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obxhead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:51 PM
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1. Wow. I can't give you much...
as I'm sure you're already doing everything you can.

:hug: :hug: :hug:

Hope this helps a small bit.
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:57 PM
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9. Everything helps!
It is a difficult situation to be in. My sister lives in the bush. And is a four hour drive from where I am.

My niece had been living with her father and step mother here in Melbourne. I don't have very much contact with them at all.

At this stage I don't know what to do!
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obxhead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:07 PM
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19. Many would say go to your god, I say
Go to her friends. Somebody knows whats going on. If you keep pounding them, they will eventually "spill the beans."

:hug: again I hope all ends well for you.
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TallahasseeGrannie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:51 PM
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2. I don't know you
yet. But I can imagine how scary this is for you.

First, you need to keep cool for your family right now. Your sister needs you. There's going to be a lot of work to be done in getting her back, things like pictures and talks with the police and all that sort of thing.

Many of us survive running off with older guys. She will, too. He is probably just her "boyfriend" as unpleasant as that might be...sexual predators usually aim a bit younger.

Get some sleep tonight. Keep us informed.
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:58 PM
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11. Thanks!
Unfortunately it is going to be a long day for me. Different time zone for you. So unless she gets found today, I suspect tongiht is going to be a very sleepless night for everyone in both families.
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yewberry Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:51 PM
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3. I wish I had something to say that would help
but I'm not sure that there is anything.

Keep thinking good thoughts, make yourself available to your sister and your family, and know that many people will be hoping for your niece's safe return.

Good luck.
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:59 PM
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12. Thank you! (n/t)
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astonamous Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:51 PM
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4. I don't know how much support I can be, but I'm here and will be
here as long as you need. What part of the country is your niece missing from?
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:00 PM
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13. Not any part of the U.S.
She has gone missing from the suburbs of Melbourne, Australia.

The worst part is where she was last seen, it happens to be one of the worst train stations in one of the worst suburbs in Melbourne.
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astonamous Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:37 PM
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29. Is there any type of Alert (Amber t ype) in Australia?
15 year old girls are hard to figure out sometimes. We raise them to be individuals and empower them and then try to hold them back when they reach their mid-teens. They aren't old enough to be out on their own yet, their harmones control them and they think they know everything.

As an ex-15 year old girl who use to know everything, I did some pretty stupid things, but in the end, I always found myself listening to my inner voice (6th sense) when I got myself in situations that were scary. I am praying that this will be the case with your niece. That she is caught up in an adventure with her "boyfriend" and realize that being out in the world on your own isn't all that much fun.
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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:53 PM
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5. Try to get the media involved too
what state are you in? Get an Amber Alert going.

The more action you take (if you can) the better you will feel.

:hug:

Hope it turns out ok.
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:02 PM
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14. Unfortunately this isn't in the U.S.
So no amber alerts.

Everything that can be done by the police is being done. They have people out looking for her. They have walkers out with photo's. The media has not picked the story up yet. Usually something like this does't break the first day.
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NNadir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:54 PM
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6. Good luck. I'm hoping that it turns out to be less serious than you
imagine.

Sometimes these things have happy endings. I hope your family's case is one like that.
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:03 PM
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15. Thank you! (n/t)
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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:54 PM
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7. AMBER alert???
What qualifiers?? Lord, let's DO SOMETHING!!!
Where is this (general area)may I please ask??
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:04 PM
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16. Unfortunately there isn't a lot DUers can do.
The area is the suburbs of Melbourne, Australia.

Thanks for the thoughts though. Really helps.
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Lavender Brown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:54 PM
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8. How frightening.
I hope she will turn up safe and sound. Best wishes for your family. :hug:
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:05 PM
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17. Thank you!
Is it very frightening.

Usually I am quite calm in bad situations, but not this time.

I am a security officer and do know the dangers. So that makes it even more frightening.
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 08:57 PM
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10. Sending you and your family good thoughts for a safe return.
:hug:
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:06 PM
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18. Thank you! (n/t)
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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:07 PM
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20. (((((BIG HUGS))))
we are with you
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ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:08 PM
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21. wow - any help I can give I will
how frightening this must be.
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11 Bravo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:13 PM
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22. All I have to offer is my prayers, and you've got them.
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:23 PM
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23. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers...
Do you have a link to a missing persons site, and maybe some more details? It can't hurt for DUers to be on the lookout.

I hope with all my heart that she turns up soon...happy and healthy.
:hug:
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BamaGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:25 PM
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24. Wow, I hope she's home soon!
:hug: Hang in there and you'll be in our thoughts.
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southlandshari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:30 PM
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25. Thinking of you!!
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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tjdee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:30 PM
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26. Please make sure you eat and sleep as much as you can.
I know it seems like a dumb thing to say, but when something like this happens, eating and sleeping are the last things on your mind (understandably). But try to keep doing the dumb things like that so you have your strength/faculties.

I'm so so sorry and I hope your niece is found safely. My thoughts are with your family.

Scottie72 died? :-(
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IChing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:33 PM
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27. sorry, my thoughts are with you, try to visualize the positive.
that it will come out good. I will:hug: :hug:
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Pithlet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:33 PM
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28. Oh, no.
You've got mine. I hope they find your niece, soon. :hug: Please update us when you can.
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friesianrider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:41 PM
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30. Oh my God, foreigncorrespondent...
That is absolutely awful - I don't even know what to say that could possibly comfort you. But, only thing I can say is you are VERY supported here - I will be praying for you, your family, and your niece, and that she returns home safe and healthy very soon.

If you feel like you have no one to talk to, PM me anytime at all.

:hug:
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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 09:47 PM
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31. Oh no--I'm so sorry--
Edited on Tue Nov-08-05 09:48 PM by bliss_eternal
:grouphug:

I'll have you all in my thoughts and prayers. I sincerely hope she is brought home safely!

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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 10:32 PM
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32. Oh dude....
:hug: :hug: :hug: I wish there were something I could do to help. My thoughts are with you, and her family.
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CatBoreal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 10:34 PM
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33. Hoping and praying she's okay....
...:hug: Hang in there.
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madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 10:39 PM
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34. Notify the National Center For Missing and Exploited Children
and, is there an Amber Alert out yet? Do these things ASAP.
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grannylib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 11:43 PM
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35. How horrible, for her, and you, and your family...how old is she?
I am so sorry....for whatever it's worth, I am thinking of and praying for you, and for her safe return
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 11:44 PM
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36. Wow...that's terrible.
Hugs to you and your family. :hug:
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 11:50 PM
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37. What a horrible situation for you to be in......
You have my support, prayers and best hopes for a quick and happy outcome.....


:grouphug:
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AngryAmish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-08-05 11:57 PM
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38. Golly
Good thoughts going on here.
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:01 AM
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39. Oh no! How very stressful and frightening!
I certainly hope she's found VERY soon!:( :hug:
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Maat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 12:02 AM
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40. Sending positive energy your way!
They will find her safe!

You will get through these times ... sending healing energy your way!
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newyawker99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 06:21 AM
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41. Oh, how horrible!
I hope she is found soon, safe and unharmed.


:hug:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 06:39 AM
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42. You and your niece and your whole family are in my thoughts.
I hope they find her. :hug:
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 06:41 AM
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43. UPDATE!
My niece has been found!!! IN short she ended up at one of my sisters friends. I ended up driving down to her friends house today, and my sister drove down to Melbourne tonight.

SO my niece is with us now, and a lot more relaxed than what she has been in a long time. Her father was mistreating her and she was no longer happy there.

Thank you so much for all the wonderful support.

I am heading to my sisters tomorrow, so I won't be posting for a few days.

Thank you again, everyone!!!
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Kenneth ken Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 06:52 AM
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45. YAY

:hug:

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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 06:53 AM
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46. Wonderful news!
I'm so glad she's safe. :hug:
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 07:05 AM
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47. Just saw this thread; So glad everything worked out!
:hug: to you and your family FC.
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 07:29 AM
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48. What a relief
a big hug to you and your family.
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Clintmax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-09-05 06:43 AM
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44. Oh, gods.
FC, I am SO sorry! I hope she's found AT ONCE and everything is OK! *sending good vibes to you*
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