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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:08 AM Original message |
Why do SOME men lie so freely? |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
1. A reason not dissimilar to a gay man, married to a woman, would cheat... |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:18 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. I agree. I just don't like being played for a fool. And I would never |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:26 PM Response to Reply #1 |
54. Not everyone says the same vows you recounted, HT. |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
2. WHY didn't you ask him? That was always the first question I finally |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:19 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. We were in a unique situation and I didn't feel appropriate to |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:18 AM Response to Original message |
3. oh, how did you end it with him? |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:25 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. I just left. |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:36 PM Response to Reply #8 |
76. I'm so sorry.. it's so disappointing.. and it goes on and on... I remember |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
6. Same reason women do. n/t |
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Horus45 (317 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:25 AM Response to Original message |
7. Not only men lie |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:29 AM Response to Reply #7 |
12. This is true. I've known some cheating women in my day. n/t |
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lakemonster11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:26 AM Response to Original message |
9. I was propositioned once by a married man |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:29 AM Response to Reply #9 |
11. Bold. Same thing happened to me at a party last year. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 07:55 PM Response to Reply #11 |
92. During grad school, I went to a dance at the Medical School with |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
10. Sometimes it's low self-esteem |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 03:25 PM Response to Reply #10 |
80. Nice freudian slip, leftymom! |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 03:35 PM Response to Reply #80 |
81. . |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:31 AM Response to Original message |
13. liars lie .. men and women alike. sad. nt |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:31 AM Response to Original message |
14. never less than poignant = Sigh no more ladies, sigh no more... |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
15. Short answer |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
16. These threads are like the flipside to those "why do women hate nice |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:37 AM Response to Reply #16 |
17. ^_^ |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:38 AM Response to Reply #16 |
18. I'm not trying to be offensive, I'm just frustrated as hell. |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:46 AM Response to Reply #18 |
24. I'm married, and me and every married guy I know |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:53 AM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Yea, it must be me and my social circle. |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:57 AM Response to Reply #28 |
32. Re-read my post and pinpoint the word "exclaim" to me. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:02 PM Response to Reply #18 |
34. I am in the same boat |
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Horus45 (317 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 03:12 PM Response to Reply #18 |
78. I am the same |
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lakemonster11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:38 AM Response to Reply #16 |
19. I don't really mind these sorts of threads. |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:40 AM Response to Reply #19 |
20. Bingo. |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:43 AM Response to Reply #19 |
22. "Why do women lie so freely?" |
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lakemonster11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:44 AM Response to Reply #22 |
23. Did you alert on this one? |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:49 AM Response to Reply #23 |
26. If both are alertable, why are you defending this one? |
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lakemonster11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:58 AM Response to Reply #26 |
33. I didn't say they were "alertable," |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:03 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. I can totally see your point, however.... |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:12 PM Response to Reply #35 |
43. OK, you win - I changed the title. Now can we get back to the subject |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:16 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. Okay...guard down. |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:25 PM Response to Reply #46 |
71. Peace be with you RKZ. |
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lakemonster11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:19 PM Response to Reply #35 |
50. I've seen threads like that before. |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:24 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. that sounds about right... |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:47 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. Why? |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:50 AM Response to Reply #25 |
27. I'd alert on a thread titled "Why do WOMEN lie so freely" because |
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Beware the Beast Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:18 PM Response to Reply #27 |
48. But it's not sexist, RKZ, |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:20 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. Well, I'm out of the oppression game. |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:42 AM Response to Reply #16 |
21. I thought that someone would feel that way |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:04 PM Response to Reply #16 |
37. Nah. The "SOME" and the fact that it's common assholish behavior... |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:10 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Well, the "SOME" just got inserted into the title. |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:13 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. Come on. I changed the title. Can't we all just get along now? n/t |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:17 PM Response to Reply #44 |
47. Yes we can. I'm done being an asshole thread cop now. |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:15 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. But it's there now and the fact is I didn't see it without. |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:19 PM Response to Reply #45 |
49. I'm sure Oscar Levant isn't happy. |
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ChavezSpeakstheTruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:09 PM Response to Reply #16 |
40. I usually just avoid threads like these |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:11 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. Hey, fellow married man! |
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ChavezSpeakstheTruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:26 PM Response to Reply #42 |
72. I'm a guy ain't I? |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:42 PM Response to Reply #16 |
59. You're just |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:06 PM Response to Reply #59 |
63. "Fool" is spelled with an "F." |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:10 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. Good Jorb |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:16 PM Response to Reply #65 |
67. "YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND! YOU *ALL* UNDERSTAND - I MEAN |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:17 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. mer meh mrrr |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:22 PM Response to Reply #68 |
69. "Marzipan...this is Goatface." |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:32 PM Response to Reply #69 |
73. Weee're still limozeeeen! |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
29. This is Stephanie, not Michael....when I was twenty something |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:56 AM Original message |
You are awesome Stephanie!!! |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:56 AM Response to Reply #29 |
30. Now that's classic. |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 11:56 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. you're a better woman than i am, i hate lobster... |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:04 PM Response to Original message |
36. Why do some men lie? |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:05 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. A man speaking the truth. |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:07 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. Aw, thanks. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
53. SOME women lie freely, too. |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:26 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. ^_^ |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:28 PM Response to Reply #55 |
56. Heya, gf. |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:29 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. naw, you're doing fine, we seem to have lucked out in that regard... |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:39 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. . |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:34 PM Response to Reply #58 |
74. mini sympathy session; but my goofy X, the one hubby ran down... |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 12:43 PM Response to Original message |
60. I've been lied to.. And I have lied... But that was before... |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
61. Because they're still |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
62. Maybe he wasn't interested in you like that |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:23 PM Response to Reply #62 |
70. Ummmm....he asked me out to dinner. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
64. yep men will lie to get sex |
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William Bloode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 08:10 PM Response to Reply #64 |
93. Hahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!! |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
66. You should feel lucky and have pity for the woman who married him |
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Maestro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
75. I suppose some men and women too are apparently |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
77. I think it is what Erika Jong said |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 03:18 PM Response to Reply #77 |
79. Use it or lose it theory? |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 03:57 PM Response to Reply #79 |
86. use it or lose it? |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 04:02 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. I was actually referring more to his charm than looks. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 03:38 PM Response to Reply #77 |
83. If I were you, I wouldn't posit this opinion to my wife. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 04:08 PM Response to Reply #83 |
88. Neither would I |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
82. That would make me really angry too |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 03:43 PM Response to Reply #82 |
84. Exactly. |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 03:48 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. And speaking as a single woman |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
89. As the song says . . . |
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Hand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
90. Insh'Allah... nt |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
91. I would suggest it's not just MEN who lie, sadly enough. |
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misanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
94. After reading all these replies... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-27-05 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
95. Did you ask him if he was married? |
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