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Sitting here because I drank coffee right after taking a 4-hour nap-haven't slept all night-and I'm just musing on some of the big depressing issues in my life.
First and foremost, I wish I'd moved in with my dad when I was about 14, rather than shortly before I turned 16. I stayed with my mom, and that worked out real well. More constant fighting over stupid, petty little things because we can't peacefully coexist for more than a few hours, never mind days or years. Having my clothes fucking STINK because my mother was too goddamn cheap to spend any money on air fresheners when we had three cats and she never did anything to clean up the fucking mildew everywhere. Barely getting to develop any social skills because the only thing my mom would ever let me do was go wargame once a week, with a few friends of mine under adult supervision, and that ended for other reasons a few months after I turned 14. It had only lasted for a year before it shut down. I made one friend out of that. He was the only close friend I had in high school, and he was a year younger than me, so I spent some time in HS alone and friendless. I never got to catch a bus over to the bookstore or a coffee shop, or go see a movie by myself. I never got to watch any good, culture-defining movies with my mom, because most of those are rated R and her bitchness wouldn't let me watch anything with that rating.
So I wound up spending sophomore year (14, yes, I am damned smart) sad and alone, with the social skills of a retard. Having to put up with my mom's creepy best friend, who made me uncomfortable as hell. A side note: I was so socially inept that I avoided saying anything to one of the only three girls who was actually attracted to me in high school (and open about it) because she had the general build of my mom's creepy friend (short, pudgy, red hair).
Sophomore year really sucked, because in addition to constantly fighting with my mom, I got mocked a LOT in school, and was taking far too many honors/academic classes for my current state of mental fitness. Also, despite being shy around the aforementioned girl, I tried asking probably ten-fifteen other girls out, and got shot down every time but one-and the one was only because she decided to prank me by saying yes and then dropping me two days later for a basketball player. Got a reputation as a nutcase.
Junior year also sucked, because while I finally wound up in classes that weren't filled with jerks (although there were a few), I kept fighting with my mom until it eventually escalated so badly that I decided to move in with my dad. Additionally, I wound up missing out on girl #2 out of three, because my social skills sucked enough that I didn't realize she'd been hitting on me until my SENIOR year. She was a year ahead of me. Fewer academic classes, but I took Honors Biology under the hardest teacher in the school, so the workload stayed about the same. I was alone, feeling unloved, and so goddamn sad I was borderline suicidal. I spent junior year with various therapists, but because my mother didn't want to put me on meds, I couldn't get out of my depression.
It took from December until April for me to get everything taken care of to move out, mainly because Dad had to go apartment hunting for something close to school we could stay until I graduated. This was mainly because my BITCH of a mother wouldn't let me get my goddamn learner's permit! I was in a city in FLORIDA, where everything is fucking spread out, public transport only comes by once an hour, and having a car is, unfortunately, a required status symbol!!! So I spent the remainder of high school with no car. I didn't get my damn permit until after I turned 16, since the fucking bitch wouldn't hand over the damned documents I needed to get it, and it took months for my dad and I to realize this and get new copies from the state.
So it's senior year. I am the only guy in the school without a car. I am in mostly honors classes, which are full of preppy bastards and bitches who look upon a car as a required status symbol. I am still socially retarded, and am out of shape to boot. And, unsurprisingly, I developed a tendency to insult people as a way of briefly relieving my pain. I start going to a gym with my dad and take a personal fitness class at school. It helps me build a little muscle, but leaves me way behind all the dudes who have been lifting since they were freshmen. Which means I can't compete for preppy chicks, and I don't have classes with anyone who isn't shallow or already taken. One final girl seemed attracted to me, but she was an annoying scrawny bitch, and I wound up cussing her out after she'd been picking on a friend of mine who was kind of slow.
I am still, unsurprisingly, depressed, although my dad at least lets me catch the bus and go places. So the tension builds up, and occasionally I snap at people. What really springs to mind is the time one guy hit me with a book while I was sleeping. I pinned him to a wall as soon as class was out, and screamed at him for a couple minutes. He stopped giving me shit, but I got even more of a reputation as a nutcase. I am constantly sick with diarrhea. Finally, finally, in MARCH of my senior year, I get some antidepressants. Note that this is after I've already made a D in the first quarter of my AP Government class from having to deal with depression/stress. So senior year sucked, and I wound up being very happy to graduate and move away, even if it meant not being near my only close friend.
So I spend the summer happily enough, but become a social recluse because my dad's new condo is way the hell away from anything fun and I don't have a car, nor does the bus system run nearby. I'd have to swim across the Intercoastal Waterway to get to the closest stop-can't walk, because I'm pudgy and don't want to sweat and stink. I don't have a problem with this. Dad does, and overrules me. So nothing to do over the summer except read, use the computer, and watch TV.
I finally get to college on August 28th. The experience so far is weakened by the fact that I have piss-poor social skills, nobody in my dorm is really that social to begin with, and we're about a mile away from the rest of campus. Shuttles stop running at 5:30 on Fridays, and 9:30 on Saturdays/Sundays. If I walk, I'll be sweaty (just discovered THIS FALL that I have hyperhydrosis in my rectal sweat glands-which means that my ass can sweat enough to soak through boxers and non-mesh shorts in AN HOUR) and people won't want to hang out with me. Not that they do anyway. Fuck.
Sorry for dumping all this shit on you guys, but I'm really stressed and need some comfort.
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