Ever think that someone else thinks that you did something bad,

Guaranteed

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Mon Dec-12-05 07:53 PM
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Ever think that someone else thinks that you did something bad,

even though you didn't do it?

How does one deal with a thing like that?

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Dave Reynolds

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Mon Dec-12-05 07:56 PM
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1. Well, if I ever think that I ever think

that someone else thinks I did something bad, even though I did not do it...

Oh crap..now my brain is making clanking noises....

In any case, if I know I did nothing bad, I just leave other people to think what they will.

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Guaranteed

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Mon Dec-12-05 07:58 PM
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2. What if it's your boss?

And he's been acting weird toward you for the past few days, after a really odd coincidence happened that circumstantially could imply that you did something bad, which is why you think that he thinks that you did something bad?

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Dave Reynolds

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Mon Dec-12-05 08:10 PM
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3. I have had that happen,

I have a good relationship with my boss, so I nonchalantly went up to her and asked "anything you need me to know?" I have stressed with my bosses that immediate feedback (the next day) is appreciated, since I am on a shift pretty much alone and without guidance.

I am not sure how comfortable you are with your boss, but getting things out in the open works for me.

I'm sure things will be okay.

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Guaranteed

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Mon Dec-12-05 08:24 PM
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6. I've only been working there in the single-digit weeks

Him thinking I did this would be pretty bad, too

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merh

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Mon Dec-12-05 08:30 PM
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8. I'd ask to talk to my boss in private

and ask him if he thinks I did that "wrong" thing and explain to him that I could sense his concerns.
I'd then tell him my side and let him know that I didn't do it.

Good luck :hug:

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trof

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Mon Dec-12-05 08:11 PM
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4. I'm sorry. This is too convoluted for my small brain.

Details?

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TallahasseeGrannie

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Mon Dec-12-05 08:16 PM
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5. Usually I kill them.

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Sugar Smack

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Mon Dec-12-05 08:28 PM
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7. LOL!!!!!!!!!! I *heart* you!

:spray:

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LaurenG

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Mon Dec-12-05 08:32 PM
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9. I always think that

In fact if I do-do something bad, (like get in a flame fest in GD) I feel doubly so. Just give yourself a break and realize it's just old stuff from when you were a kid. At least this was what it was in my case. I used to get in trouble for things I really never did. You need a hug.:hug:

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