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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 10:04 AM Original message |
Can this marriage be saved? |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
1. Get help now |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 10:17 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. If I go alone I'm not sure how it will help. Not that I am |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 06:12 PM Response to Reply #3 |
26. Here's the most important part to remember should you seek counseling alone |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
2. definitely get an objective third party stranger to referee |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
4. we did it, but |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 10:32 AM Response to Reply #4 |
5. Yeah, I want to avoid mud-dragging and to be honest, my |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 10:42 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. trust |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 10:45 AM Response to Reply #6 |
7. That's an interesting question mopinko - I'm not sure either |
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crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 05:33 PM Response to Reply #5 |
21. People treat each other unkindly.... |
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Coventina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 10:45 AM Response to Reply #4 |
8. Good therapists are out there. It may take some looking. |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 10:49 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. individual therapy for serious situations, yeah. |
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latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 10:59 AM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Couples' therapy saved my marriage |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 11:10 AM Response to Reply #10 |
12. i spoke only for myself. |
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latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 05:03 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. Well, you painted your earlier comments about therapy |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 05:13 PM Response to Reply #12 |
17. Tell me about it. |
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nickinSTL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 05:49 PM Response to Reply #12 |
23. you had a bad experience, and it may be that on average |
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Maggie_May (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
11. I don't know how long you have been married but, |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 11:13 AM Response to Reply #11 |
13. i think you have summed it up perfectly. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
14. I would definitely recommend some therapy, either for yourself or both |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
16. The only way out of suffering is to plow right into it full on |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 05:30 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. You're right, I am very confused right now and it is because |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 05:37 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. Being honest doesn't just mean not lying; it means being honestly open |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 05:51 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. But some of those dark scary places are a result of who I am |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 06:01 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. Most often the best way to make them go away is to expose them to light; |
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ncrainbowgrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
18. Yes, Been there. |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
19. I'm just a young'un, yet, so I've no practical advice for you... |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 06:15 PM Response to Original message |
27. We're in counselling right now |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-17-06 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
28. My parents did... |
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