Do you have an ex whom you will always hate a little bit?

if you copycat your own thread then I'm giving the same answer twice. :)
Its true in both cases.

"Well, of COURSE I've never had an STD!"? Yeah, I'm not too fond of her... ;(

(Disclaimer: Events depicted in this post may not have occurred in real life.)

even the ex who screwed my rommmate and got pregnant and married him after 2 years with me.

Wish them only the best.

Karma is a bitch, and it's not my business.

RL

Just pray for

I try not to hate. :P

but there is one i feel utter contempt for

I'm learning

DO NOT HATE


but it is ok to dislike intensely

:thumbsup:

I had always worked out things in family and relationships through love, biting my tongue and coming back later when cooler heads could prevail. It's taken $2000 dollars worth of therapy to begin to experience out that hatred and stop letting it kill me.

They revealed they were never relationships in the first place.

One cannot hate something that is not a reality.


(Edited grammar)

With a small, white hot ball of hate locked deep in the recesses of my soul.

If I ever come across her and she happens to be on fire, I wouldn't piss on her to put it out.

Other than that, I'm good...

but I didn't see a choice for A WHOLE FUCKING LOT... that woulda been my choice.

Then I realized that she was too pretty to hate. It occurred to me that it was probably my own failings that I really hated because cute people are higher than me on the cosmic food chain.

and give it another shot (though the caveat being that none of the relationships were "the one", and chances are they still wouldn't be... but still, one wonders... they were all amazing wonderful incredible women; and, in fact, so far as I know, they all still are).

people.

We just didn't see eye to eye at some point. Like Dave Mason said a brazillion years ago, "There ain't no good guy, there ain't no bad guy, there's only you and me and we just disagree."

after the infidelity and all the evil shit he did to me I shoudl hate his guts, but really I pity him. He's miserable and sad and I can't waste the energy to think of him with the contempt he deserves, when I bother to think of him at all.

There's just one... a duplicitous, treacherous, two-timing, bottom-dwelling lump of pond scum. Sometimes I check the obits to see if he's dead yet. Not that I'm bitter or anything.

DONT MEAN to laugh at your pain...but checking the obits is funny..

I pity her more than anything.

ON EDIT:

To hate somebody, you still have to have some sort of feeling for her/him. IOW, that person still has control over you.

Indifference is a much worse thing to have for a person, IMHO.

I get along well with all my exes

In general, I'm very comfortable with the concept of hate. I don't thinks it's destructive or too harsh. Sometimes I hate people. Sometimes people hate me. You'll have that.

I have an ex-boyfriend who was quite abusive. I hate him. I wouldn't waste any energy acting on the hate, but don't want him to have a happy life.

I knew this one girl who, after a couple months of dating her, started to want to hang out with her ex-boyfriend a lot.

I brought it up in conversation once, as delicately as I could, and her response was something like "For God's sake, I'm not going to run off with him!" - WAAAAY too defensive.

So I wasn't surprised when she did. In retaliation, I made sure all the people we knew found out that she secretly despised all of them. And I called her a bitch. So she wasn't too popular after that.

Hate? No, that would consume me. If something bad happens to her, I won't cry over it. But I have other things I'd rather do than hate someone.

I do like thinking about the failings of some of these girls I dated, so I know never to be around someone like that ever again.

All of mine (which have not been many) have ended on a good note.

They only thing they have in common at the moment is that they are both dead.

Everything in my life worked out for the best. I have no reason to hate anyone.

can you blame?

I think it's a good policy.

-Laelth