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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-18-06 10:49 PM
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Poll question: Loneliness is
Choose one as an absolute. If there is cause for multiple responses being equally accurate, please respond with your definition.
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-18-06 11:08 PM
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1. Loneliness is bad. But solitude is golden.
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Dangerously Amused Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-18-06 11:10 PM
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2. I live in that solitude which is painful in youth,




...but delicious in the years of maturity. - Albert Einstein


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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-18-06 11:10 PM
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3. It just
is. I try not to focus on it because there's not much I can do to change it at the moment.
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MadAsHellNewYorker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 12:05 AM
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4. life.
...my life...
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 12:14 AM
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7. Mine too...
:hug:
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MadAsHellNewYorker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 12:35 AM
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11. .
:hug:
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 12:07 AM
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5. A warm gun....oh wait....that's happiness.
If that's happiness, I'm not sure I want to know what loneliness "is".:P
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 12:26 AM
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10. A cold bullet?
:shrug:
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Random_Australian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 12:13 AM
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6. What life was for my last 17 years, but is not now...
I didn't vote though. All the choices were incorrect.
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belladonna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 12:16 AM
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8. The person you thought loved you being in the same room
But still feeling lonely.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 12:21 AM
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9. A flower dying in the desert, my dear HypnoToad.......
With the river just beyond......

And the sun burning down relentlessly......mercilessly....

Can you feel it withering your life, your love?

I can.......
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 08:16 AM
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13. But the sun hasn't set yet and there's still a 25% chance of rain.
:)

(see, I'm not a pessimist. :7 )
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tibbir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 01:33 AM
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12. The flower dying in the desert would be my choice
butbeing in a crowded room of partying people knowing no one is pretty bad too
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 10:02 AM
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14. Part of the transition.
I voted for paradox.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 10:11 AM
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15. it is the flower and the paradox
and it sucks...there is a difference between being alone and being lonely...when I first divorced I was alone and wanted it that way...now I want to be in a relationship and there is NO one out there who wants to be with me so now I am alone and DON'T want to be that way...that is loneliness and that is flower









it sucks and I am sick of it but there is NO action I can take to solve the problem...and that is the paradox
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bikebloke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 10:21 AM
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16. Rather than sink, I learned to swim.
I adapted and grew content with solitude. It's certainly better than mediocre company grabbed out of desperation.

Yesterday I was contacted by a bloke from my kibbutz days twenty-four years ago. Back then my life was hyper-social, and I thrived in it. Now I'm 180 degrees from that life.
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Mikimouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-19-06 10:48 AM
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17. 'tis a double edged sword...
Lonliness is the true freedom to be a flower dying in the desert.
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