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NNadir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 03:09 PM
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Today would have been my mother's 82nd birthday.
She didn't see her 52nd birthday, and I miss her.

It would have been wonderful to have seen her grow old.
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 03:15 PM
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1. That was awfully young.
I'm sorry that you didn't get the chance to see her grow old.:hug:
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NNadir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 03:18 PM
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4. It was young.
It's more than thirty years and still I miss her.

There is so much I wish I'd said.

Thanks for the hug.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 03:16 PM
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2. ......
:hug:
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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 03:18 PM
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3. I am sorry to hear this...
Peace and low stress. God bless you and yours!
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barb162 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 03:24 PM
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5. I know what you mean
Edited on Fri Apr-07-06 03:24 PM by barb162
my mom died in her 50s too...
I am sorry
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NNadir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 03:38 PM
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6. And I'm sorry for you.
We are luckier than some though. Indeed, ironically my mom was less lucky than I as her mother died when she was in her early 40's.

I thought my mother was being maudlin about it all when I was growing up, always reflecting on mortality, her own included. I never thought it would happen to her, and by extension, me. But it did, and now I know why she was how she was.

Here's some hugs for you:

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

Thanks for sharing.
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barb162 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 03:53 PM
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8. Oh my goodness, thank you so much and many hugs back
Yes, her perspective and view were based on what she experienced, wasn't it.
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nini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 03:40 PM
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7. My mom will be 82 in August.
I can't imagine losing her so long ago. I'm so sorry for you loss and pain. :-(
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 04:32 PM
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9. Hey NNadir
:hug:

Thinking of you.
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NNadir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-07-06 05:09 PM
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10. Thanks to all.
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