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Jennos20
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:07 PM
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On a scale from 1 to 10, how wrong is it to hang out with your professor?
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:07 PM
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1. What is your definition of "hang out?"
And what gender is the professor?
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:08 PM
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out to eat and chill at starbucks. Male
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:11 PM
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3. Group or just the two of you?
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:13 PM
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:15 PM
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6. 9 times out of 10, I'd say it's a bad idea
What's the school's policy?
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:14 PM
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5. Jennos20 welcome to du.
as long as the university doesn't have any rules against it I'd say live as you want to live.
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:15 PM
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if he is single. Wrong if he is married. Keep it to groups. (i.e., don't be alone together) He could get in shitloads of trouble. If you two are really interested, wait til the semester is over.
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:22 PM
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I should probably ignore him till the semester is over.
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:15 PM
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I was friends with a few of my professors. It's probably not a good idea to sleep with them, but hanging out is fine. ;-)
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:30 PM
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I wouldn't sleep with him...I know that would be really wrong. However I have to admit he is quite attractive..
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Tue Apr-11-06 08:16 PM
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9. I've worked in higher ed for years
while it may not be against any formal policy, it's not a good idea. Maybe after he's no longer your prof, but while there still is a grade to be given... I was married to a faculty member for years. Out of class relationships can have far-reaching effects...
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