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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 03:02 PM Original message |
Poll question: Okay, lounge. I need some advice. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
1. You've Done More Than Enough |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
2. I would talk to them. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 03:26 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. I agree. Talk to them. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
3. A family member with cancer, especially a child |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 03:14 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Yeah, that is what I was saying, but my friends are pissed. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 03:33 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. well, fwiw, fear can make people do strange things. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 06:23 PM Response to Reply #4 |
14. there's nothing to be stumped about |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 06:32 PM Response to Reply #4 |
16. Ignore your friends who are pissed. |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
6. I would explain that your income is dropping due to your husband's |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
8. Talk to them. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 06:25 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. no DON'T talk to them, i've been in this situation |
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npincus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
9. talk to them-- let them know you are unable to continue |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
10. you are a sweet person |
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asthmaticeog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 05:32 PM Response to Original message |
11. Give 'em fair warning and cut 'em loose. |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
12. Give them some advanced warning, then let 'em go. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 06:20 PM Response to Original message |
13. you've been screwed, used, and tattooed |
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OhioBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 06:45 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. that's pretty harsh |
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SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 07:12 PM Response to Original message |
18. Somewhere between the high road and "Stop Paying" |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
19. What do you think? |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
20. It's none of your friends' business. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 07:49 PM Response to Original message |
21. I went with the middle option (cut them loose after a warning). |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 08:10 PM Response to Original message |
22. See, I didn't ever do this because I wanted them to 'be grateful' |
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OhioBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 08:31 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. It doesn't make you petty. |
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greatauntoftriplets (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 08:35 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. It most certainly does NOT make you petty... |
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DainBramaged (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
24. Do it for the child, not for the parents, accept gratitude, not money |
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I_Make_Mistakes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 10:17 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. The takers in this world take, and I have to be like a previous |
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yvr girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 11:00 PM Response to Original message |
27. I think you have been unbelievably kind and generous |
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NV Whino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
28. First of all |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
29. Think of it as kharma. Even if they don't offer up some sort of repayment |
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yurbud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 03:42 AM Response to Original message |
30. if you ever give someone money, consider it GONE. you want to mention |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:51 AM Response to Reply #30 |
35. I never expected to be repaid. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 07:57 AM Response to Original message |
31. Okay, After sleeping on this and reading everyone's |
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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:36 AM Response to Original message |
32. take the high road |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:41 AM Response to Reply #32 |
33. I agree with you, Bertha. |
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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:49 AM Response to Reply #33 |
34. "It's what us dems do, isn't it?" We surely try, sweetie. |
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underpants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
36. I would talk to them and tell them that you simply can't do it anymore |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
37. You are a good person. |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-17-06 01:02 PM Response to Original message |
38. Your generosity and love for |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-17-06 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
39. Midlo, you've been a true Christian, and done all you can. If you can't |
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