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sbj405 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 10:54 PM Original message |
How do you deal with someone with no self esteem? |
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NV Whino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
1. Suggest she get some professional help |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 07:48 AM Response to Reply #1 |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:00 AM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Nice... He should suggest suicide? Wow. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 11:41 AM Response to Reply #10 |
22. I was being sarcastic. The person I was responding to may not have been |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 12:51 PM Response to Reply #22 |
30. I don't think that NV's advice was bad at all... |
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Beware the Beast Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:04 AM Response to Reply #9 |
11. That is by far the worst thing I read here in ages. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 11:44 AM Response to Reply #11 |
23. See post 22 for clarification. |
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texanwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
2. I think she likes to be this way, she will only change if she wants to. |
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Floogeldy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 11:25 PM Response to Original message |
3. Deep down, you do think that you can fix her problem. |
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sbj405 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 06:30 AM Response to Reply #3 |
7. Nope. Not at all. I'm really not into projects. |
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fujiyama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-15-06 11:47 PM Response to Original message |
4. Is she always like that? |
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sbj405 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 06:34 AM Response to Reply #4 |
8. I would say is mildly depressed. |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 12:17 AM Response to Original message |
5. I don't know |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 12:22 AM Response to Original message |
6. You love them, and accept the fact that they have no self-esteem. |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:07 AM Response to Original message |
12. My mother-in-law is like this... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:12 AM Response to Original message |
13. That kind of self invalidation isn't changed by a decision. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:16 AM Response to Original message |
14. sounds like she has a martyr complex |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:21 AM Response to Reply #14 |
16. That's exactly what my MIL has. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:22 AM Response to Reply #14 |
17. Sometimes stress, not volition, does that to people's brains. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 10:15 AM Response to Reply #17 |
21. and sometimes being raised by verbally abusive parents does it too... |
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arwalden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
15. Sign Them Up For A DU Membership? |
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skyblue (724 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:34 AM Response to Original message |
18. Professional Help # 1, Needs a Hobby, Needs Attention |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 08:47 AM Response to Original message |
19. I wonder if, when she's talking about all the things she's bad at, |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 10:05 AM Response to Original message |
20. Has she always been like this or is this a phase she's going through? |
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sbj405 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 12:05 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. I would say it's particularly bad now. |
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Corgigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
25. ah, another person playing victim |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 12:10 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. What should the OP do? |
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Corgigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 12:20 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. What I would do is not the right answer for the OP |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
28. I sent this to a girlfriend who was down due to divorce... |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-16-06 12:40 PM Response to Original message |
29. has she always been like this since you've known her or is this |
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