|
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend Bookmark this thread |
This topic is archived. |
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:06 PM Original message |
Your comments, please? It's about guilt -- over "a string of pearls" --- |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
1. I think sending them back would be a good idea |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
2. Do you want to send them to him? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:22 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. Yes, I do feel they belonged to his mother, who is now deceased. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:35 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. Doesn't seem like "just a gesture" to me. Rather, it seems |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
PennyK (382 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
3. Have you read... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:14 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Yes, I am familiar with Guy de Maupassant's short story -- |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
oregonjen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
4. I would send them back |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:16 PM Response to Original message |
6. It's better'n guilt over |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
blue neen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
8. It would be a very kind gesture on your part. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:32 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Thank you, Blue Neen. I appreciate your kind sentiments. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:35 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. no it wouldn't |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
9. If you think you should send them back, then you should send them back. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
10. i think you should not contact them again or bother them w this |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
oregonjen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:37 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. There's a difference between monetary worth and sentimental worth |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:40 PM Response to Reply #10 |
15. This is a pretty harsh commentary, pitohui, but you could certainly |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:43 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. It sounds to me like he is mature and understanding enough |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 03:28 PM Response to Reply #15 |
38. I understand how you feel, Radio Lady. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Kire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 03:51 PM Response to Reply #38 |
41. exactly |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:07 PM Response to Reply #38 |
47. Please let me know if he decides to return the ring. Does he know where |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 06:10 PM Response to Reply #47 |
63. We've tried to locate her via Internet, but no luck. The last time he |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Dear Bastards (40 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 04:10 PM Response to Reply #10 |
44. This situation is not the same |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
AlienGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
16. I think it'd be a touching and appropriate gesture |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:44 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. LOL! The ceramic poop is in the mail, AlienGirl! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
19. I think I understand how you feel .. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
20. send them back, imo they are of no other utility to you... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
21. Send them back. If you were in financial crisis.. you would have every |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
22. Follow your instincts - whatever you choose, I support you. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 11:31 AM Response to Reply #22 |
30. Thank you for your insight, Rabrrrrrr. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 04:05 PM Response to Reply #22 |
43. Deleted message |
Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:26 PM Response to Reply #43 |
54. Uh, welcome to DU. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-28-06 10:53 AM Response to Reply #54 |
69. You tried.. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
23. What I'm missing in this story is whether they were a regular gift, or if |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 11:25 AM Response to Reply #23 |
29. Nickster, I wish I could remember more details. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 12:08 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. Well, based on what we know of the situation. My take is that the pearls |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 12:19 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. Well stated, Nickster. I appreciate the time you have taken to |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 05:58 PM Response to Original message |
24. A different point of view |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
dpbrown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
25. Sending the pearls back would be an insult |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:13 PM Response to Reply #25 |
49. there's no question they are "hers to keep" |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:16 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. Exactly, Skittles. It's a feeling rather than anything else. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:29 PM Response to Reply #51 |
56. And a selfless and beautiful one, IMHO. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
26. Absolute honesty? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 08:49 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. I agree with Khashka....and I will add that if it "bothers" you to |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-24-06 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
28. I'm sort of with Nickster on this... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 11:46 AM Response to Reply #28 |
31. You know, Kali, I will not call him any more. I did it on a lark waiting |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Karenca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 03:38 PM Response to Reply #31 |
39. I wouldn't either........RE: Post# 10 |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Karenca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 03:44 PM Response to Reply #31 |
40. RadioLady...Your 31 year old husband left you...a 19 year old girl |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Dear Bastards (40 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 04:03 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. this bears repeating |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-28-06 11:05 AM Response to Reply #40 |
70. AMEN KARENCA!! **EVERYONE READ THIS POST** |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
33. I would send them back and my note would say |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Orangepeel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
35. call him again and ask if he knows if they're an heirloom |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
36. Was he close with his mother? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:16 PM Response to Reply #36 |
50. I don't know if he was or not. I can't recall if he had any siblings, |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 12:52 PM Response to Original message |
37. Very kind and thoughtful to return those pearls. Very. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:17 PM Response to Reply #37 |
52. That's exactly how I feel. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:29 PM Response to Reply #52 |
55. Yep. it was clear from the OP. What a sweet gesture. He will be moved. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
45. I don't really see why you're carrying a load of guilt about this |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:24 PM Response to Reply #45 |
53. Beautifully stated, Skygazer. I accept your hug. My son has married |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:01 PM Response to Original message |
46. I think you should return the pearls, and not because of guilt |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:33 PM Response to Reply #46 |
57. I appreciate your comments, Midlodemocrat. He mentioned two |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:11 PM Response to Original message |
48. *sniff* |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:35 PM Response to Reply #48 |
59. Here's an ethernet Kleenex, Skittles! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
58. Ok, I'm sorry if I'm repeating anything already said, but... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:48 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. No problem, KC2. This turned out to be a longer thread than expected. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:55 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. Yes, when those close to us begin to die |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 05:59 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. OK. I respect and appreciate your viewpoint. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Karenca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 06:24 PM Response to Reply #60 |
64. I'm so sorry about |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 06:02 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. Your thoughts are appreciated. Yes, my second husband will |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-25-06 06:45 PM Response to Original message |
65. if it's something that's been on your mind .... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 05:56 PM Response to Reply #65 |
66. Your post was very well thought out. I am still pondering this. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-28-06 10:41 AM Response to Original message |
68. UPDATE: My husband has encouraged me to re-think this situation again. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) | Sat May 04th 2024, 06:50 AM Response to Original message |
Advertisements [?] |
Top |
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge |
Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators
Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.
Home | Discussion Forums | Journals | Store | Donate
About DU | Contact Us | Privacy Policy
Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.
© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC