So this is it... I'll be back soon.

My father's surgery is tomorrow AM at 7:30. I am trying to get over the feelings of anger over the ineptitude of the scheduling dept that made the mistake that pushed his surgery back today...and I'm trying not to compare that to what happened to dear Andy.

Your thoughts, prayers, meditations...and just acting like the goofy crew you always are have helped immensely in getting me through these past few weeks feeling as normal as possible. Thank you. Tonight, I sit here feeling decidedly not normal. I feel as if I am sitting on the edge of nothing. One move, and everything could end up horribly wrong.

I've spent a lot of time with my dad the past couple of weeks... He got his will together, his power of attorney and his advanced directive. That was good in a bad way. He took my son fishing... He went for a drive with my daughter. I am only left hoping that these will not be the last memories they have of their Poppy.

I'll be gone for (hopefully only a few) days. But I carry all of those good thoughts, the care and concern with me.

Thanks again you guys. You've done more than you will ever know.

Tonight, I'm going to hang out here for a while. Tomorrow I'm going to fret...but I have a feeling it will all be okay. I'll bring my laptop and let you (those who wish to) know how it goes.

Love,
Laura

Hugs...:hug: :grouphug: :hug:

Thanks :hug:

and you and your family. When I say the rosary tonight, it will be for your dad.

The waiting is the hardest part. If you can bring a funny book or something to do while waiting, the time will go much faster. (I got stuck watching Fox News at the hospital for the first half of the operation).

Good luck, deep breaths. God willing, all will be well.

Love, M.

Please keep yourself well, also. :hug:

And Happy Birthday by the way!! May you have a wonderful year ahead...filled with (at the very least) new Democratic senators and all the peace, love and happiness your huge heart can hold. :hug:

Feeling a bit better every day, anesthesia has worn off, finally, so he is sleeping well.

One day at a time.

Thanks for the birthday wishes! Had a great day.

Hang in there. Peace and comfort to you. :hug:

...I am trying to talk myself out of devouring the entire box of animal crackers that I just opened. :hug:

for your Dad. You hang in there and think ONLY good thoughts.

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kesha

When this is all over, let's finally do lunch, or go for a drive, or meet somewhere for coffee. :hug: :loveya:

You take care of you. Tomorrow is going to be a long day. Don't forget to eat!! Drink lots of water and keep yourself in good spirits. Your dad is in good hands.


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kesha

Hell, let's make it a full-blown SE Michigan meetup to celebrate your dad's recovery.

Post surgery (successful), what will you be doing? Probably lots to take care of, recovery, etc. Live there, be there (1 week from today) and tomorrow is just another day that gets you to where you are.

Stay positive. I'll do the same thinking of you guys.

while I make supper and MrG plays catch with our son. My daughter will probably be drooling over Magglio Ordonez on the television.


Thanks fivegan. :hug:

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:hug: It's great to see you! I didn't think I'd get to do that today. :loveya:

We just caught each other. I am turning in now for the night. :hug:

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and wake up refreshed.

:hug: :loveya: You are the best of friends.

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I'm off to bed soon. I just wanted to post some more thanks. :)

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Will be checking DU tomorrow periodically.

Love,

Maureen

Thanks :hug:

We're all pulling for him here.

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For your father, you, and the rest of the family. I hope that it turns out alright. Either way, it is good that he has everything together and spent time with all of you. It will probably help him be more relaxed in any case.

Thank you so much. I just got back from dropping him off at home (he left his car here) and I hated to leave. :( :hug:

You and yours are being held close by all of us. Please let us know how it goes.

:hug: and prayers.

:hug: I will check in when I can. :hug:

and sending prayers and good vibes. It is impossible not to fret but your optimism is a good sign. Let us know when you are able how he is thriving, okay?

Thank you kiraboo. :hug:

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Keep those thoughts positive. Your dad has one of the best doctors in the country. And he has you there looking out for him.

Karmanos is supposed to be awesome with regard to this and his doctor is really upbeat. I just can't bear the thought of waiting.

:hug: Thanks again.

My friend's mother went there to treat leukemia beginning last December; had only a 40-50% chance of surviving chemo and she's in complete remission as of early this month.

Positive attitude and great doctors work wonders. I am thinking of you and your father -- many positive vibes coming your way.

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Everytime I see a post from you, I think about you and your Dad. I'll continue to think of you both.

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He's in my prayers. :hug:

:hug: It helps so much to know that.

and back on the mend.

All my very best hopes and prayers are flowing out to you, your dad and your whole family right now....

And for as long as all of you need them.....

Keep us informed as you feel able, OK?

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I will check in when I am able. :hug:

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I will have my fingers and toes and whatever else I can find crossed for you and your family. :hug:

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Try to get some rest. Doctors can do wonderful things nowadays. I'm a cancer survivor. I should know.

You are all in my prayers. We will be holding you close :grouphug:

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and the rest of the family.

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Still sending out those prayers and postive energies :grouphug:

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good I can send to your father is headed his way -and also to you and your family. I also wish you lots of faith, confidence, hope and positive thinking. Because you have posted about your father's health on this message board, you now have people around the world sending positive vibes and praying for your father's well-being and your family's well-being. And of course you have our love and support

:hug: :hug: :hug: :loveya: Laura. Take care of yourself

I hope your dad's surgery goes well (went well, if it's over). I've been thinking about you these past few days.

Please let me know how it goes and if you need anything.

Sharon

:hug: MrsG

are in my thoughts, MrsGrumpy. :hug:

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and your Dad's. :hug: :D Please keep us posted.

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and to you and the rest of the family. I send all the good vibes over the ocean.

Keep your head up :hug:

hang in there (the BOTH of you) :hug:

.....and the entire Grumpy family....shoulder to shoulder in strength. :grouphug: :loveya: