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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:23 PM Original message |
My cousins' 9 year old daughter died from an aneurysm last night. |
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reyd reid reed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:26 PM Response to Original message |
1. I have no advice |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:27 PM Response to Original message |
2. oh no. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:29 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. Am I able to 'be there for him' w/o |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:31 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. i don't think that would be a bad thing |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:37 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. Thanks |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-31-06 01:14 PM Response to Reply #8 |
74. Sometimes it helps to have another person to sob with |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:27 PM Response to Original message |
3. It feels wrong |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
4. How awful. |
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speedoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
5. I wish I could give you some advice. All I can give you is my.. |
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flamingyouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:29 PM Response to Original message |
6. I'm so sorry |
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LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:29 PM Response to Original message |
7. oh god.... |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:29 PM Response to Original message |
9. No parent should have to bury their own child |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:38 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. It is making my mind go through horrible thoughts |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:13 PM Response to Reply #15 |
35. I got all my children to adulthood, and still.... |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:32 PM Response to Original message |
11. I'm so sorry to hear that. |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
12. Just be supportive in any way you can |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:43 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. Life is still easy for me...... |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:37 PM Response to Original message |
14. No advice, just a candle for you and yours. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:41 PM Response to Original message |
16. Holy Mary, Mother of God. One can only say what is in one's heart, |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:45 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. What is sooo sick.... I feel gratitude that it was not one of my children. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:47 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. No need to feel guilty. It's an entirely human reaction. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:28 PM Response to Reply #20 |
42. I know it is a natural reaction... but I'm supposed |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:49 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Redstone is right... |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:42 PM Response to Original message |
17. alittlelark, that hurt so much to read. |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
22. How utterly tragic |
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Lowell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
23. Littlelark, there is not much you can say |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:03 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. This is good advice, Littlelark. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:03 PM Response to Reply #23 |
32. I am vey sorry for your experiences..... |
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Lowell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:12 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. No, alittlelark, you are not wrong |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:24 PM Response to Reply #34 |
41. You sound like a very resiliant man. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-31-06 03:12 PM Response to Reply #34 |
77. that old adage, "Time heals all wounds" |
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Lowell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-31-06 03:34 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. Hi Skittles |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-01-06 07:34 AM Response to Reply #78 |
80. yes |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
24. That is so incredibly tragic. |
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Katina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
25. There are no word but |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:59 PM Response to Original message |
26. I am so sorry... |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:59 PM Response to Original message |
27. Just tell them you are there for them.... |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 08:59 PM Response to Original message |
28. I am so sick to hear this |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
29. I'm so sorry. |
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greatauntoftriplets (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
30. I am so sad for your cousins....and you..... |
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anarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:05 PM Response to Original message |
33. no advice...just sorry |
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Metta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
36. These are the ones God could no longer bear to be without. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:18 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. They are Atheists. |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
38. I can't possibly imagine what that's like, so my advice is suspect, |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:06 PM Response to Reply #38 |
43. Actually, I had not thought about them..... |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
39. Right now your presence and support might be a comfort |
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likesmountains 52 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
40. Keep in touch with them in the coming weeks...even if you don't know |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:08 PM Response to Original message |
44. Oh my, that's just horrible. |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:12 PM Response to Original message |
45. Oh no! |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:18 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. They have a son who is 2 yrs older |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:39 PM Response to Reply #48 |
69. What a horrible age to suffer the loss of a sibling... |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:53 PM Response to Reply #69 |
70. I agree about the support group...and... |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:16 PM Response to Original message |
46. I am so sorry - |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:55 PM Response to Reply #46 |
56. Damn that is soooo sad. |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-31-06 12:41 PM Response to Reply #56 |
71. Right now no, |
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hyphenate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:17 PM Response to Original message |
47. Unfortunately |
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borlis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:19 PM Response to Original message |
49. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. |
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lavenderdiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:23 PM Response to Original message |
50. I am so very, very sorry alittlelark- |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
51. I'm sorry |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:25 PM Response to Original message |
52. Man, that just hurts. |
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RFKHumphreyObama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
53. No advice but rest assured that you and your family and your cousin's |
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Zomby Woof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
54. I am so sorry |
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smitty (580 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
55. Losing a child is the worst thing that can happen. |
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jus_the_facts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:57 PM Response to Original message |
57. My sympathies to you and yours.... |
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RFKHumphreyObama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 10:58 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. I'm sorry Jus_The_Facts |
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jus_the_facts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:05 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. Thank You....she's a great lady..... |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
60. It just feels so WRONG. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:23 PM Response to Reply #60 |
64. I think you hit the nail on the head. |
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ComerPerro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
61. My God, that is horrible. |
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deadparrot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:14 PM Response to Original message |
62. I'm so sorry. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:31 PM Response to Reply #62 |
66. .. |
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rockymountaindem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:15 PM Response to Original message |
63. My condolences |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:28 PM Response to Original message |
65. i didn't even know this happened |
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Mz Pip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
67. There are no words |
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mad-mommy (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-30-06 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
68. I am so sorry for your loss... |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-31-06 12:42 PM Response to Original message |
72. I'm so sorry |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-31-06 01:01 PM Response to Original message |
73. You can only offer your love and sympathy at this hard time |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-31-06 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
75. There's nothing you can say... |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-31-06 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
76. Oh my god, that is horrible |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-31-06 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
79. I'm so very, very sorry |
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