Why do you live in the city that you do?

Which he lost, but we are still here and I hate it!

Well, actually, Mrs. Robb does, she's on town council.

And, actually, it's not like I "control" her, so much as I "do exactly what she says".

What was the question? :eyes:

:(.. The place closer to work were so expensive,taht we had to move waaaaay out here :(

be near the doctors who are keeping us alive.

Riverside-ish, Diamond Bar-ish?

Van Nuys-ish, SF Valley-ish?

Santa Clarita, maybe?

Antelope Valley?

Just guessing....

:(

:( indeed.

moved to Cathedral City from Sonoma. Not quite the 909 but same giant county.
ps. a great deal of culture shock , but couldv'e bought 2 new houses here for the one we sold in Beautiful Sonoma Valley. Great gay friendly neighborhood here , and if you're gay that kind of thing is paramount.

The place is so big and so anonymous. Yes, people will be friendly if you decide to initiate a relationship but if you wish to be left alone, they are perfectly happy to cooperate.

Also, the gardening climate. Proximity to NYC. When the economy isn't in the pits, one can do well here. Yet another reason is that my husband is a gourmand. When he needs pumpkin oil, we want to be able to get it without waiting for a postal shipment. And last but not least: the libraries. Our library system is funded in such a way that there are constant purchases of new books.


Cher

I did not have a license when I got the job. Since, it is rural, there is no public transportation close to it. My husband got tired of driving me so we moved less than two miles from where I work. Luckily, I got my license a couple months later.

Way too expensive, but awesome. Lots of activists also. I live in Santa Cruz Ca. :hippie:

or should I say Quake's, I was born here and don't know when to come out of the rain.

3,000 miles away from family, 50 miles from work (well, when I had a job, that is), but I love it here!

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :hi:

I may be happy, but I'm homesick as hell. :hi: (and welcome to DU)

I grew up here, in Iowa, and worked here but was laid off. I don't have to stay here anymore and I'm currently looking for work in other areas so it's not like I feel like I "have" to stay here. In fact, I'd like to escape!

I'm currently searching job sites in other states where I have other immediate or even extended family. I'm 47 and have always been pretty independant, but just a little chicken to go someplace where I don't have "someone" to touch base with. I'm trying not to go someplace colder but leaving my options open.

I'm self-employed and I have various clients who sometimes have positions open. I'll keep my eyes open for something good if you'll tell me what you're interested in.

Where's "Because I fucking feel like it"?

:P

I love living in Philadelphia, the toughest, most bitter and angry city in America.

To me this place is almost perfect, (Melbourne FL, small, relatively inexpensive) and the fact that a local company is paying me well to do it, only makes it that much better.

The problem I have now is that my wife keeps talking about moving. She doesn't believe me when I tell her that I will miss her when she does.

Born & raised in Southern CA, I never imagined I would leave for any reason. But I fell in love with a self-described hillbilly woman from Eastern TN, who'd happened to live in the DC Metro area for 20 years. It worked better for me to move east than for her to move west, so I moved east.

We started out in Northern VA, but this wonderful little house in Southern MD fell on us. The husband of a good friend is a contractor, and he built this house; one day the good friend mentioned to Mrs. Venation that hubby was building this little house, and one thing led to another.

One day, when Mrs. V. retires (she's a bit older), we'll move to Northern AZ. For now, we're happy here.

Just kidding, although it does feel like it sometimes. I've only been here for a month so it's too soon to judge. I have also lived in Southern CA.

LOL Yes, it does seem like the GOP has a stranglehold on SOMD, doesn't it? I hope you like where you are. Check out http://forums.somd.com It's a good place to get info. It's also a good place to get an earful of right-wing opinions. Good people, though.

Welcome to DU :hi:

It's a nice place and I don't mind living there (Bozeman MT) but I uh, won't be living there forever if you know what I mean. Just too small of a town for my tastes.

and you're right, it is quite small. She loves it, but I think wishes a 'big' city weren't so far away. You go to school there?

it was between the two places in the world where I know significant numbers of people: Minneapolis and Tokyo.

I couldn't figure out how to get a residence visa for Japan that would let me work as a free-lance translator, so I ended up here.

The deep wilds.

:eyes:

. . . want to be close to to them" because it's true. But I don't live close to them, so that answer wouldn't have answered your question.

(BTW, how did you post w/ no new post number?)

must be a glitch in the matrix..
:crazy:

courtesy of the first husband, who thought we could do better where housing was cheaper. Two decades and two husbands later, I'm still here and looking for a way out.

I travel a fair amount as part of my job (domestic and international both), and the more cities I see the more I just want to stay where I am.

Still don't remember where the hell I came from or how to get back there...

I hate it here. The economy sucks, wages are some of the lowest in the country, the christian right is so prevalent here you can't throw a rock without hitting a Pat Robertson worshiper (not that I've tried...yet :evilgrin:), and the there is no alternative press or place where freethinking types gather. The truth is, there probably aren't enough progressives in this town to fill an Excursion (not that we'd get in one anyway :))

Lately Asheville NC has been looking like the place for me, so that's probably where I'll end up.

so :shrug:
but after high school, I am getting out of state pronto. Where? I am looking for a college in a city or something.

Born, left for a while, and came back. So much history, culture, physical beauty. Caveats are the weather and the exorbitant cost of living.

Those are pretty strong reasons, wouldn't you say so?

so i'd have to say no. hehe, as long as you're happy, good for you!

and being a Catholic, I also don't prosletize. I appreciate the separation of church and state.

well, one of 'em, anyhow.

if ya ever make the drive on I-65 from montgomery to b'ham you'll pass a giant billboard (put up by a private citizen - it doesn't advertise any particular church or religion) that reads:

GO TO CHURCH!

OR THE DEVIL WILL GET YOU!

cracks me up every time i go back to visit.

...when I accepted a writing position at QualMed, an HMO that was headquartered here. I was laid off at the beginning on 1998, so for almost six years now, I've been commuting to Colorado Springs. (No tech writing jobs in Pueblo.)

i came to sacramento initially to complete my college education, but ended up staying because the cost of living was lower than other parts of california AND there were jobs. it's a great family area too, and midway between tahoe and san francisco:-)

Just kidding!

I don't leave because my parents are here, as is my husband's mother. Otherwise, I'd be back in St. Louis faster than anything.

I have lived in the St. Louis area all of my life and love it. I love changes in the weather, the hills around our area look like they are on fire in the fall. The culture is decent, the Symphony is good, we get Broadway Shows at The Fox and you can't beat the sports teams!

It's a great place to raise a family.

Thankfully it's a 3 hour drive or I'd be fatter than I am now. I LOVE Ted Drewes custard.

We get what, 4 months of usable weather a year? blecch... i'm going to say the hell with my family in a few years and move for good.. something with an ocean breeze.

But, also, Saginaw rocks!
John
It is, after all, The Center of the Universe.

I grew up about an hour from where I live now. My husband and I had lived in various places around the US and were both pining for the SF Bay Area. He was offered a job in Marin and we moved immediately. We've lived here for 10 years. I love it but I suspect we will move in a few years. I would like to live in a big city again.

I don't live in a city
I don't live in a town
In the summer it's green
In the winter it's brown

I have a big lawn
With a doe and her fawn
I'm going to bed now
I just made a yawn

on edit: my feeble attempt at "Seussisms" truly sucks.

warts and all there is no place like home

I was planning to move to california but I'm afraid of their new governor.

brought us here. Younger son is in 11th grade, and I want to leave as soon as he graduates high school. If husband doesn't start looking around for another job, I may take off on my own.

I had lived in Long Beach in 1975 when I was married. I truly fell in love with Southern California. I came back the first chance I got. I have made some wonderful friends here, I have a terrific job, I've had some incredible relationships, and I never run out of things to do. In fact, there's always so much to do sometimes I don't know how to spend a weekend: maybe at the beach, maybe up in the mountains, maybe at the Hollywood bowl,maybe just hangin' out at the Bodhi Tree Bookstore.I'm an aspiring writer and I love the energy here too. Yes, there's the traffic, the crime, and the other downfalls of a big city...but hey....it's three days before Christmas and I (who really dislike cold weather) had the air conditioner on in my car TODAY! What more can I say but burst into the Randy Newman song: "I Love L.A.!"

After growing up in Boston. I came here in 1980 and never went back.
Its expensive to live here, and its pretty much freeped, but 9 months a year of CONSTANT sunshine and warm dry temps has kept me here.

I will never escape it. :-(

hows that?

Okay... there are isolated pockets of pleasant living and shopping and dining. But overall, it's in economic and civil decay.

I often find myself driving out of the county to go shopping. It's a vicious cycle that feeds itself. Nobody spends money in the county, so services and selection get worse, therefore nobody spends money in the county.

-- Allen

I like it here very much. Culture, fine restaurants, great architecture, diversity, gay friendly.

The only other place I'd move to is Toronto, which has much of the same qualities that Chicago has.

:) Plus,now me beloved lives here as well.

metro area (Mpls/St Paul) and our friends are here!
Wish the job scene didn't suck so bad though...