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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:29 AM
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Games Of Tag Banned During Recess At Elementary School
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Students at Willett Elementary School in Attleboro can no longer play tag during recess. The same goes for touch football and other unsupervised "chasing" games.

The school's principal said there's too much risk of injury to children during games like tag.

Principal Gaylene Heppe is in her second year as principal at the school.

Parents are divided.

Debbie Laferriere -- who has two children at the school -- said playing tag is part of being a kid. She told the Sun-Chronicle of Attleboro that unsupervised games help children develop social skills that can be valuable later in life.

"I think that it's unfortunate that kids' lives are micromanaged and there are social skills they'll never develop on their own," Laferriere told the paper.

Other parents said it's ironic that schools are banning games like tag at a time of rising concern over childhood obesity.

"I think it's a little bit silly," said parent Christine McAndrews. "The kids love to play pick-up football games that they organize themselves. It's great for their social skills and they resolve things on their own. It's good for them."

But another parent, Celeste D'Elia, said she's witnessed a lot of "near collisions" between children and supports anything that makes the playground safer.

According to the paper, Willett Elementary is not alone. Schools in Cheyenne, Wyo. and Spokane, Wash. banned tag at recess. A suburban Charleston, S.C., school not only banned tagged, but outlawed all unsupervised contact sports.

http://www.wftv.com/education/10102602/detail.html
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PVnRT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:33 AM
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1. Give me a fucking break
Gee, let's just put everyone into separate, padded cells and immobilize them so that they can't get hurt.

Oh, wait, we have to sedate them, too, or they could hurt themselves by pulling at the restraints.

These fucking worrywort parents who are obsessed with making sure that little Johnny and Susie never get so much as a scratch need to be removed from the gene pool immediately so that the rest of us can live normal lives.
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:33 AM
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2. Oh. My. God.
:eyes:

Let's ban walking, too, shall we? After all, you could trip and get hurt. *sigh*
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mark414 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:38 AM
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3. this is INSANE
in other news, the school also banned talking, for fear that one student might say something that could hurt another.

i'm not even old (i'm 21) and when i was in elementary school, half of our playground was a giant dirt field where we just used to tear the shit out of each other playing football, soccer, and any other sport that we could turn into a full contact sport.

when this next group of kids gets to be adults they're going to be a bunch of pussies, our nation's offices will have to put padding on the corners of all the desks, and allow half an hour everyday for their worker's parents to come in and make sure their day is going okay.
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Drum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:18 AM
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11. lol
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:38 PM
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50. Hell, I went to a city school K-4.
We played all these games on asphalt and I'm 23. If you got hurt, you dealt with it.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:39 AM
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4. Geez
When I went to school, we played dodge ball (which I hated, btw). I swear there is no common sense anymore.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:44 AM
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5. ACAs (Ass-Covering Administrators) Gone Wild
with the help of the type of helicopter parents who would wrap their children in cotton batting and carry them in a Snugli all their lives if they could.
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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:58 PM
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52. Ya got the makins of a good reality show there, Lydia Leftcoast
Sort of cops of the playground set. :headbang:
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AngryAmish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:02 AM
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6. We really need to get better people in education.
When one sees the nitwits that are teaching our children one really thinks we need smarter people in education. Education majors need to be changed so they are no longer the bad joke that they are. But if the standards are raised most of our children will go without teachers. It is a catch-22.
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:05 AM
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7. Bring back tag!
The collisions are half the fun!
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:07 AM
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8. Did they also ban Red Rover and Duck Duck Goose?
Those are contact sports, and I remember more than once getting "injured" by an overzealous classmate or two. I still have a knot on my head where a kid beaned me during Duck Duck Goose. I sued for a cool mil and won. :sarcasm:

Damn, that's idiotic... :grr:
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_testify_ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:11 AM
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10. Duck Duck Goose is probably considered a hate-crime now.
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:29 AM
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12. It has to be. It discriminates against both ducks and geese, and
it can cause severe injury.
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:11 AM
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9. I am SO glad I'm raising my children in a country
that doesn't have its collective head up its ass.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:36 AM
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13. Dodgeball I agree with -- but TAG? Oi
All of the chasing games are generally fun and good exercise. Crazy.
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tk2kewl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:40 AM
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14. I guess a game of "Kill the Guy" is out then...
We used to play a game where one kid got the ball and ran for his life while a couple of dozen other kids tried to tackle him and take the ball away. THe game was "Kill the Guy with the Ball" or "Kill the Guy" for short.
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mark414 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:49 AM
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19. we called it 'kill the carrier'
though another variation was 'smear the queer' and it was fucking awesome!

poor kids...
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hedgehog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:40 AM
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15. Where's the parent willing to complain because the school is
encouraging obesity?
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Lance_Boyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:42 AM
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16. Red Rover, Red Rover...
the collisions *were* the game, and it was good.

Soon kids will be reduced to a rousing game of Intense Stare Football at recess. :eyes:

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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:48 AM
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17. GOOD!
Little brats shouldn't have play time anyway. I don't send my tax dollars out to the schools so the little shits can play Ring Around the Rosy all friggin' day.

I say add a few extra hours to their learnin' time and forget about this play time shit.

Oh, and what's up with this "lunchtime" bullshit? Back in my day... we had little cotton swaps dipped in lemon juice in our desks, and when we felt like we were going to pass out, we would suck on the swab for a bit until blood was flowing again, then back to work...and we LIKED it.

















B-)
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:56 AM
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20. Um, Yeah! You brats get off my lawn!
:evilgrin:
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:28 AM
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30. Brats?
What do sausages have to do with this topic?
:silly:
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:31 AM
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31. Mmmmmmmmmm Brats
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:38 AM
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32. Bratlings, not bratwurst.
:evilgrin:
Yah know, rug rats, curtain climbers, yard monkeys, ankle biters, crumb snatchers.
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 12:41 PM
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44. Oh. You mean
little bastards?
}(
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 12:46 PM
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46. precisely
:evilgrin:
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calico1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 10:29 AM
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84. And you had to cross a river to get to school
and had only one pair of shoes!

:P
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jakefrep Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:48 AM
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18. Good riddance....
...Tag is pretty much worthless and stupid. God I hated that game. "Great for social skills", my ass.
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:26 AM
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29. all of the games that kids play like Red Rover, dodge ball, etc.
Edited on Wed Oct-18-06 11:27 AM by tigereye
do teach and reinforce motor skills, turn taking, processing and cognitive skills, etc.

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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 07:48 AM
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79. Dodgeball is/was a bully game
I'm very glad alot of schools have banned it.

I wasn't bullied in grammar school, but I saw alot of nastiness funneled towards others through this "game."
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 11:00 AM
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87. true, it could have that component
but ours was always supervised....my son's school has a somewhat less intense version.
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:59 AM
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21. Only kids who hate America play tag.
After all, the game is free and does nothing to help our corporate economy. Think of the jobs created by video games, for example. What is more, the pharmaseutical industy suffers because all that excerise makes children healthy.

Geez, who will think of the corporations?:-(
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The2ndWheel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:09 AM
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22. Only makes sense
Wouldn't be surprised if it keeps getting worse, inch by inch, as we spin around the sun.

Did they ban "sui" yet? They have to ban that for the violence and name. Best recess game I ever played though. Nothing like multiple tennis ball shaped bruises.
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:13 AM
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23. I miss my lawn darts.
:(
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:14 AM
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24. So I guess 'crack the whip' is right out, then?
We played that in elementary school - our playground was all sand (the desert, dontcha know) and we'd form these giant lines of kids and go tearing around making hairpin turns until the last 2-3 were flung away...

I understand you can do this on ice, too.
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 12:36 PM
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42. My neighborhood was so tough they bowled OVERHANDED


Rough I tell ya it's rough out there. I'm okay now but last week I was in rough shape lemme tell ya...
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kay1864 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:20 AM
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25. I'll be the contrarian here...
Why is this so bad? Unsupervised kids chasing each other, next thing you know you've got a head injury, laceration, whatever as one of the kids being chased collides with the merry-go-round. Why risk that?

My two-year-old's daycare doesn't allow the kids to run when they're on the sidewalk or around playground equipment. Elementary school kids can't run in the hallways. How is this any different?
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mark414 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:23 AM
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26. because it's recess, and they are kids
oh my god a child bumped his head! the world stopped turning!

no, not at all. yeah, a kid can get a bump on the head or scrape his knee up but is it going to kill them? is it going to make them turn into dysfunctional adults? no. they are kids. kids run around, they get hurt, and in 10 minutes they forget about it. it happens.

they are stealing childhood from these children.
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kay1864 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:43 AM
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35. We're clearly talking about two different things
I'm not talking about bumped heads or scraped knees. I'm talking about serious head injuries and lacerations. Avoiding those kinds of injuries is not "stealing childhood". Nor is it something they will "forget in 10 minutes".
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mark414 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:50 AM
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36. we should just ban everything then
kids can't ride bicycles, go outside, walk somewhere, or ever take their feet off the ground.

in fact, we should probably just use dog carriers to cart our kids around - it will be safer and there will be no risk that they will be hurt.

kids get hurt, sometimes badly, though certainly not ever playing tag. running around like chicken little (the children might be falling! the children might be falling!) doesn't do anything but hurt these kids.

i took a lot of nasty spills when i was young because i did a lot of dumb things. if i have kids i expect nothing less because THAT'S WHAT KIDS DO.
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kay1864 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:54 AM
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37. Maybe you should re-read the OP too
It's talking about what schools do, not what you do with your own kids. Oh wait, you don't have any. My bad.
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mark414 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 12:15 PM
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40. it's TAG
a game of TAG.

i don't have any kids cause i'm still a kid myself, but i sure feel sorry for yours

TAG!
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kay1864 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 12:27 PM
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41. Let's be clear about a couple of things
Tag is unsupervised 6-year-olds, running as fast as they can, around playground equipment. (read the OP: see the word "unsupervised"? It's kinda important)

And you feel sorry for my kids :rofl:

You do like to extrapolate to extremes, don't you? Newsflash for ya: weakens your point.
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ChoralScholar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:27 PM
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47. Why are kids unsupervised at recess anyway?
When I was in school - not THAT long ago:

We did have playground equipment, but we had another open field adjacent where we played football, soccer, tag, etc.
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:07 PM
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53. Jesus I hope you don't let your kids out of softly-padded areas.
They may get hurt.

:cry:

No, I don't have kids, but I was a kid and I remember being one. Kids get hurt doing stupid things. It's part of being a kid.
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MiniMandaRuth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:39 PM
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59. I played tag everyday until I was eleven.
And when I stopped, what do you know, I got chubby?

Also, I must of played the game thousands of times... I still do. What's the worst that has happened? A small bump on the head. It hurt, sure. But I sucked it up. And how do lacerations happen? Playgrounds don't have razor sharp objects everywhere.
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:44 PM
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63. Back in my day playgrounds did and they were FUCKING awesome.
And I'm only 8-9 years older than you. Kids these days are WAYYYYY too protected. I'm shocked at the number of parents who completely forget their childhoods and feel the need to wrap their kids in foam.
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MiniMandaRuth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:46 PM
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64. Exactly.
We would tear each other up. A kid walks into the class with a bleeding knee. So what? He got over it. And plus, it's fun to talk about when you're older.

Hey, we play tag in band all the time. I always loose because I have short legs and play the bari sax.
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:50 PM
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66. We played glove tag when I was a fencer in HS.
We'd stick our glove in the back of our pants. We had to keep one hand behind our backs and attempt to stay in a fencing stance. It could get while, but it was fun.

Oh and the Viking Day we have at karate camp, now that would give some of these wimpy ass parents a much-deserved heart attack...
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MiniMandaRuth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:52 PM
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68. Viking day?
Do I even want to know? :rofl:
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:55 PM
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70. Picture about 50 people ranging in age from six to sixty...
loading up on waterballons and the biggest, baddest supersoakers they could afford, loading into canoes and setting out onto a small lake with the intent of soaking and pummeling their opponent while attempting to capsize their canoe.

Viking Day is THE FUCKING BEST THING EVER INVENTED!!!
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mark414 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:49 PM
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65. haha, our big jungle gym thing was made of old splintered wood
and one of the platform steps going up to the big slide had no bars or anything to protect you from falling...we used to have contests to see who had enough balls to jump off of it

and we had another mini jungle gym that was just a giant stack of old tires that were all bolted and tied together, christ was that thing hazardous, but a hell of a lot of fun too

sadly, both are now gone...:cry: poor kids
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:51 PM
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67. And guess what?
I bet neither of us either recieved any injuries beyond scrapes, some bumps on our heads or getting the wind knocked out of us on the playground.

And we had hell of a lot more fun that kids do now.
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mark414 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:54 PM
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69. i feel bad for kids today
the worst injury i ever saw in my playground experience was a kid who broke his arm when he slipped on some ice when we were playing football in 5th grade...

maybe we should ban ice from playgrounds?
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:56 PM
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71. Perhaps no one should go outside in freezing weather.
Ice attacks everybody.
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:25 AM
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27. I think children need to be unsupervised for awhile.
It is necessary for their development. An injury is usually not serious or lasting. Yes I know there are exceptions, but the develpmental risks of being overly controlling are worse that the remote risk of real harm. Children who are free to be themselves grow up strong and confident. Ones who are kept on a proverbial short lease grow up self-doubting, anxious and insecure.
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:26 AM
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28. It's a *play*ground.
Let them play. Be spontaneous. Test their limits. Interact. Take a risk or two. No one will get killed. Or even seriously hurt.
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kay1864 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:39 AM
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33. Kids don't ever get seriously hurt?
I don't even know how to respond to that.
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 12:00 PM
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38. How many kids were seriously hurt on playgrounds last year?
I mean life-changing, permanent injury, NOT a trip to the emergency room.

I'll bet the odd are against it. Like about the same as a lighting strike.
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kay1864 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 12:02 PM
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39. So trips to the emergency room are okay then?
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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 12:41 PM
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45. yes. it's recess. that's what emergency rooms are for.
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:14 PM
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54. Yeah, seriously.
Especially since playgrounds have already been pussified beyond all belief.
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HughBeaumont Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:41 AM
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34. They want to ban tag . . .
. . . but generally turn a blind eye to hazing and bullying.

That makes perfect sense.
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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:15 PM
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56. You forgot all the meds some schools try to force on kids
Gee, if the little whipper snappers can't RUN off some of their youthful exuberance, no wonder they fidget and get disruptive in class. Many schools force parents to have kids medicated rather than just figure out how to work about WHAT IS PRETTY NORMAL FOR KIDS.

There are too many parents who have to get meds for kids to be allowed to keep them in public schools. Sure, I will give you there are some kids who really are in need of chemical additives, but we see too many kids who are just being kids having pills shoved down their gullets to satisfy a narrow judgment of what is 'normal'.

Kids have energy. Let them run some off and they can sit still in class much easier. Deny them the NATURAL impulse to be physical and there will be trouble.

Tag, not meds!
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El Fuego Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 12:39 PM
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43. Why don't they just ban recess then
Why not just wrap the kids up in a cocoon? How did I ever survive childhood anyway?

:eyes:
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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:17 PM
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57. In some schools, they have.
And they can't figure why there is more 'attention deficit'

The wankers shouldn't be near kids if they are that stupid!
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izzybeans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:30 PM
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48. we played tackle football in elementary school. As long as we had a
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change of pants nobody gave a rip. No wonder my students today are a bunch of complaining assholes. "It's too haaaard!"
"I don't want to read." "I don't understand what these words are." "How come you make us write so much?"
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:35 PM
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49. And no more pencils, because they're sharp. Do away with the buses
because they have no seatbelts. Lunch? Liquid. Wouldn't want them choking. :eyes: Good golly.
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MiniMandaRuth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:41 PM
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60. No liquids...
They might get spilled on their new pants. Oh! Or they might get some in there eye!
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calico1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 10:34 AM
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85. Actually, liquids too. They can go down
the wrong way. Happens to me every so often.
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 09:46 PM
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51. Within 10 years, physical education will consist of
"Can you walk 20 feet without stopping to rest?"

:eyes:

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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:14 PM
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55. Scuse me, but if the kids are really unsupervised,
who in the hell is going to stop them?

It seems to me that teachers on the playground should be able to tell when things are getting out of hand.
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Scooter24 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:20 PM
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58. I wouldn't be surprised if one of the parents that wants to keep "tag"
will be the first one to sue if their child got hurt.

I'm not saying that we should abolish the game either, but the reality is that schools are liability nightmares
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jus_the_facts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:42 PM
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61. We played KISS CHASE religiously in 5th grade....
....yes we did!! :evilgrin:
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Kutjara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 06:17 AM
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77. I still play it, but these days it's called...
..."stalking" apparently. They've taken all the fun out of it, what with injunctions and restraining orders and whatnot.
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MassLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:44 PM
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62. my son just told me today
that kids at his school (he's in fifth grade) are no longer allowed to play tag at recess. I asked why. He said, disgusted, "No hands on." He said recess stinks now--sounds like the adults won't let the kids do ANYthing.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 07:54 AM
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80. I'll stick up for your son's school with a qualifier
When I was in school many moons ago, some kids would use "tag" as a way to push kids they didn't like around. And I mean PUSH to the ground. They were bullying and abusive. We had a mom who was our playground monitor, and she'd put a stop to stuff like that ASAP.

However, most recess appears to eb unsupervised now -- not as many playgrounds moms around. IF they were incidents of very aggressive "play," then I suspect a few bullies spoiled it for the few. That's why I believe in pretty much zero-tolerance for bullying.

That's why kickball, jumping rope, and flag football are great -- they're cardio, fun, helps with teamwork and motor skills/hand-eye coordination -- and all relatively safe for unsupervised kids. They are RULES... and no one will jump on your case faster for not following a rule than a kid!
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texanwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 10:59 PM
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72. We used to go the park and see who could get the swing the highest
before jumping off into the grass.

The goal was to reach the lowest tree limb which was pretty high up.

No one ever broke anything.
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mad-mommy Donating Member (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:21 PM
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73. Sometimes these drastic measures come about because of sheer stupidity.
You can't stop kids from being kids, but in my humble opinion, all contact games, sports, gym classes should be supervised, in the event something does happen, it can be acted upon quickly. During an outside school gym class last year, my son's Kindergarten class was allowed to "free play" , and the kids decided to play a game using a rope, they held onto the rope and ran with it. My son fell, and was dragged along a bit, and stomped on a bit. he had facial injuries, busted lip, bloody nose, nasty eye, and lots of facial abrasions. It looked uglier than it actually was. It could have been worse, and if no one was around, it would have delayed treatment. The kicker was, they were allowed to do this on asphalt, while acres of grass were available. Sometimes these drastic measures come about because of sheer stupidity.
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mduffy31 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-18-06 11:49 PM
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74. I'm just gonna say this
Flame away if you must, but we are turning our kids into such pussies
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China_cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 05:54 AM
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75. I'm not surprised at all
When I was a kid we got skinned knees and elbows and most of us walked around with bruises, scrapes, cuts and bug bites we'd scratched open. Sometimes all at the same time.

Let it happen to your kid today and you'll find the child in protective custody and you in jail for abuse.

Our kids are being 'protected' right out of their childhoods.

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TheFriendlyAnarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 06:16 AM
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76. While I disagree, tag CAN get pretty violent. By the time we were
in middle school, when my friends played it wasn't uncommon for it to result in bloody noses just from running into each other.
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mainegreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 07:40 AM
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78. No merry go rounds, no slides, no jungle gyms, no tetherball,
no tag, no musical chairs, no chain swings.

Christ lets just shoots our kids. Then we wont have to worry about them living a little.

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RDU Socialist Donating Member (290 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 10:10 AM
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81. 14 years ago in third grade we played tackle football during recess
it's not even been two decades, and they're banning tag and touch football? what the hell is wrong with this country? you know what they should be absolutely banning from schools instead of this shit? religion, the department of education's history curriculum which teaches absolute lies to children, and abstinence only sexual education.

for fuck's sake this isn't even a problem, and the only time i ever saw anyone get hurt playing tag was if they did something stupid like instead of tagging the person they slapped them and there was a retaliatory response.
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 10:15 AM
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82. (since this popped back up ) Guess what was on RW talk radio yesterday
Yep THIS STORY

They love this story. The fact that it was in Mass just added to it. Of course they are so illogical that they ignore the fact that they should be using this to attack the trial lawyers (as if that is the actual cause of this) not the "Liberals are ruining our children" which holds very little water considering the unbelieveable asskicking that our soldiers are doing in Iraq right now - I mean that in the sense of pure military assessment.
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calico1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 10:16 AM
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83. Gee, I wonder how the hell I survived
childhood? Not only did I play tag (I have scars on both knees to prove it) but leapfrog, hide and seek and god knows what other dangerous things! And I even played on monkey bars, which I understand were banned a few years back. What's next? Will they ban hopscotch next? Do kids still play that? Or maybe jump rope? After all, a kid can trip and fall on their butt. We don't want that! :wtf:
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YankeyMCC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-19-06 10:47 AM
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86. Life is just too dangerous n/t
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