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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 05:16 AM
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How long have you known your BEST friend?
Kenny and I just had our birthdays a couple days apart. Both 43. I've known him since I was 5.

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Saphire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 06:00 AM
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1. meet when we were 12, so....about 38 years.
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Puglover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 06:07 AM
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2. I met my best friend in 1974.
We were both in college. We were lovers. THAT didn't work. And became best friends. She once told me, "Jerry(her husband) has my heart, you have my soul." She died Feb 24th of ovarian cancer. I miss her more as each day passes.
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Marnieworld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 05:57 PM
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45. I am so sorry for your loss
Im all choked up now. Lucky you have a pug to love you. I have one and they are the sweetest, silliest lil friends. I'm glad for you that the two of ou found a way to be in eachothers lives even though it didn't work romantically. You're very lucky to have figured that out.

:hug:
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stuntcat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 06:08 AM
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3. I got to know him when we were 12 or 13, so about 25 years
We were each other's 1st boyfriend/girlfriend but now we're each other's brother/sister.
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dropkickpa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 06:59 AM
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4. 18 years
I met Michelle literally the day my family moved to Pittsburgh and we've been great friends since (ok, we had some of the usual adolecsent spats and fist-fights).

We're growing a little apart, though, due in part to her increasing fundyness and the fact that I just cannot stand to be around the majority of her family anymore (fundy wanna be conservo butt heads, her uncle actually told me I'd be grateful he had a large weapons stash when the terra-ists come to Pittsburgh. I laughed in his face). It's pretty sad, really.
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taterguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 07:36 AM
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5. 1,588 days
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mikeytherat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 07:39 AM
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6. Mrs. Rat and I have known each other for 25 years,
and have been married for 17 of those 25.

mikey_the_rat
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 07:41 AM
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7. 'bout 28 years since we were all 12 or 13 and played little league football together
We won the championship that year
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 07:43 AM
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8. Since about 7 years old
So that would be 31 years. Egads!
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realisticphish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 07:47 AM
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9. 11 years
but I'm 21, so it's a long time :)
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av8rdave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 08:07 AM
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10. 31 years
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 08:11 AM
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11. we have known each other since we were 3, but have been friends since we were 13
so that makes it 15 years
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 08:29 AM
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12. 24 years (nt)
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Nicholas D Wolfwood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 08:31 AM
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13. 9 years now.
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 08:32 AM
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14. Not quite a year
Reyd Reid Reed and I became friends last summer.

:hug:

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seemunkee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 09:01 AM
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15. Met when we were 16, I'm now 50
My wife and the best friend I've ever had.


Brian is the best friend that I'm not married to and the only person I've known longer than my wife. We met in Boy Scouts when we were 13 and have been hiking, climbing, camping together ever since.
Last October in Death Valley
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Zavulon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 09:03 AM
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16. 32 years
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mark414 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 09:08 AM
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17. since kindergarten, so...17 years?
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Daisymae97 Donating Member (27 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 09:39 AM
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18. We met in preschool
So 38 years

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cobalt1999 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 09:44 AM
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19. 31 years and counting...
We were best friends then; best friends now.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 09:55 AM
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20. 50 years
We're 20 months apart in age (she's the younger one), and I remember when she was learning to walk. We have so many silly sayings we made up from when we were tiny, and we still say them and still crack up.
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1gobluedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 09:57 AM
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21. 42 years
Met the summer before kindergarten. I've known my best friend from college for 29 years and my best post-college friend for 16 years. I tend to hang on to my friends....:-)
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InvisibleTouch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 11:51 AM
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22. Since 1983.
Though we fell out of touch for 11 years (and 4 months, 2 weeks, and 5 days, as he tells it!), and only in recent years resumed our friendship.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 11:53 AM
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23. About 20 years.
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 11:54 AM
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24. since she was born
i count my seester as my best friend, so nearly 23 years. if you go outside my family, 10 years, complete with the teenage girl drama and strife
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Ariana Celeste Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 11:54 AM
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25. Since I was 15ish
making it 6 going on 7 years
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GenDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 12:42 PM
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26. We were toddlers
It was her birthday yesterday -- we're both 48. I still consider her my best friend.
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 12:43 PM
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27. over 30 years -- long time
like a sister to me
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 12:44 PM
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28. 18 years.
We've been friends for about 15 years.
:-)
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 02:04 PM
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29. Not long enough.
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buddhamama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 02:53 PM
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30. yes, not long enough...
:) :hug: :loveya:
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dolo amber Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 02:56 PM
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31. 18 years...we met at a Flock of Seagulls concert
:D

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Spacemom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 02:58 PM
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32. 22 years
We met in 7th grade.

She stood beside me when I got married. She cared for me after I lost my mom, when I was a total wreck.

A truer friend doesn't exist. :loveya:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 03:02 PM
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33. Since 1968
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cwydro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 03:02 PM
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34. just about 20 years.
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GalleryGod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 03:07 PM
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35. 48 years this Summer.
FWIW Department:

I went to College he became a 3rd generation Marine (2 1/2 tours of 'Nam).

I'm teaching today; he's a software genius and a millionaire.

We go to 34 Phillies games evey Summer.


He's taking me back to Khe Sanh next Summer...40 years later.



The Battle of Khe Sanh was conducted in northwestern Quang Tri Province, Republic of Vietnam, between 21 January and 8 April 1968 during the Vietnam War. The combatants were elements of the United States (U.S.) III Marine Amphibious Force (III MAF) and two to three division-size elements of the People's Army of Vietnam (PAVN). The American command in South Vietnam gave the defense of the base the nickname Operation Scotland.

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Mad_Dem_X Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 03:24 PM
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36. Since 2nd grade
I'm 40; she's 39.
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JitterbugPerfume Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 04:41 PM
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37. 48 years
we met in the hospital when her oldest son and my oldest daughter was born in August of 1959
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Maine-ah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 04:46 PM
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38. 27 years
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 04:51 PM
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39. 23 years. He & I hated each other at first.
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Broken_Hero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 05:01 PM
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40. 16yrs.....nt
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smtpgirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 05:51 PM
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41. 28 years
I met Cheryl in 1979, she is 1 year younger than I.
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Reverend_Smitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 05:53 PM
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42. about 4-5 years...
we met as freshman in college, roomed together and still talk to each other just about every day
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Marnieworld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 05:53 PM
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43. 3o years
We met at age 5 on the kindergarten schoolbus.

Not including my sweet hubby who I've known for 10 years. :loveya:
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NC_Nurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 05:55 PM
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44. About 23 years....
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querelle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 06:02 PM
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46. 18 Years
We were introduced to one another by a mutual friend and started dating. We were compatible on every level except sex. I have a tendancy to be rather wild and uninhibited, but he was not. I got bored and ended the relationship but I couldn't let go of him. We remain best friends to this day.

Q
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nini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 06:03 PM
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47. most of my closest friends are from childhood
one goes back to 3 years old.


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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 06:16 PM
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48. BF
22years now and I have another one that is 35years


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Kajsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 06:18 PM
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49. 40 years.

n/t
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salin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 07:23 PM
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50. for around 38 years
very close to your story.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 07:24 PM
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51. 8 years
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Maineiac Donating Member (361 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 07:30 PM
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52. Crim son & I
first started hanging out last year on May 5th. She's the best friend I've ever had.
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GalleryGod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 12:58 AM
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54. On Cinco De Mayo ! WoW!
:toast: :beer: :wow: :rofl: :woohoo:
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acmavm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-18-07 07:56 PM
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53. 42 years
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maddezmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 02:31 AM
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55. 31 years
meet when we were 11 and will be married 18 years in May. :)
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RoyGBiv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 02:47 AM
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56. 22 Years

Met her when I was 15.

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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-19-07 05:48 AM
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57. We met in second grade when we were both seven years old.
:) I'll be 44 in two weeks, and she'll be 44 in October. :D
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