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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 09:23 AM Original message |
Straight women Du'ers, did you change your name when you got married? |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 09:23 AM Response to Original message |
1. Yes, I did. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 02:06 PM Response to Reply #1 |
35. Me too. I hyphenated for a while (my maiden name is pretty long) |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 03:04 PM Response to Reply #35 |
41. I considered keeping my birth name as a middle name, but I didn't want to |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 09:24 AM Response to Original message |
2. yep. |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 09:54 AM Response to Original message |
3. the first two marriages, NO |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 09:57 AM Response to Original message |
4. Eventually. |
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MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 09:59 AM Response to Original message |
5. Nope |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
6. I did |
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genie_weenie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
7. Sorry to butt in... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 10:11 AM Response to Reply #7 |
9. I have too, for the same reason, and also because it's just a |
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genie_weenie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 10:15 AM Response to Reply #9 |
11. I always wondered why |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-19-07 11:36 AM Response to Reply #7 |
73. I went to court and legally changed my last name. I've never... |
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azmouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 10:04 AM Response to Original message |
8. I took my husband's family name. |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 10:13 AM Response to Original message |
10. My wife is Chinese, and Chinese women usually don't change their names |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
12. No. At the suggestion of my dad. He was cool. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 10:23 AM Response to Original message |
13. I did but didn't really want to |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 10:26 AM Response to Original message |
14. I did, but only becuase I hated my maiden name. |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:12 PM Response to Reply #14 |
21. See, I'm not attached to mine... |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:14 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. My sister and I were the last in our family to get the name, |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:15 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. Yeah, I have a little brother, who I assume |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
15. Kept my name. |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:07 PM Response to Original message |
16. I added Mr. kt's name, and kept my maiden name as a middle name. |
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Mad_Dem_X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
17. Yes |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
18. I did under duress, and I regret it. |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 04:20 PM Response to Reply #18 |
47. My mother-in-law just refuses to acknowledge that I didn't change it. She sends |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-19-07 11:46 AM Response to Reply #47 |
76. My mother did this. I finally told her that if she continued to do this... |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
19. I'm Bi, but I am getting married |
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Karenca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:10 PM Response to Reply #19 |
57. Yay!! for you :)) |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:25 PM Response to Reply #57 |
61. thank you!! |
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Karenca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:31 PM Response to Reply #61 |
64. Back at you :)) |
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sybylla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
20. Yep, but wish I hadn't |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-19-07 10:53 AM Response to Reply #20 |
70. I understand your feelings, but.... |
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Polly Hennessey (274 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:16 PM Response to Original message |
24. Name Change |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:25 PM Response to Original message |
25. I kept my name and added my husband's |
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MorningGlow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
26. Yes and I don't regret it |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
27. i did and seeing as how my maiden named rhymed with a body part down south |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:04 PM Response to Reply #27 |
56. Your maiden name is Dolores? |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:23 PM Response to Reply #56 |
59. no!!!!!! |
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CottonBear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
28. First marriage: no. Second marriage: yes and I regretted it. I'm going to change my name back.n/t |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
29. I changed mine and didn't have any problems... |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-19-07 11:44 AM Response to Reply #29 |
75. I did that in my first marriage. I took part of his name and part of my... |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 12:47 PM Response to Original message |
30. I didn't change mine. n/t |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
31. No. |
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scarlet_owl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
32. Yes. I lived with a hyphenated last name my whole un-married life. |
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DixieBlue (504 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
33. nope. and i have no intention of doing so. |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
34. Yes, I liked his last name better. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
36. No. The county clerk refused to register us and committed a misdemeanor |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 05:09 PM Response to Reply #36 |
50. Update to my present situation: |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-19-07 07:57 AM Response to Reply #36 |
68. Wow, 2 dips in one posting. |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
37. I didn't |
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Kutjara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 02:34 PM Response to Original message |
38. My wife didn't. Her surname is very rare, so she wanted to keep it. |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
39. It took me a couple of years to get everything switched over. |
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skippysmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
40. I did |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
42. I did |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
43. No, I kept mine. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
44. My dear raccoon... |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
45. No, I never did. I think it bothers my husband a little bit but he understands. |
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OnceUponTimeOnTheNet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 04:19 PM Response to Original message |
46. I did, I wanted to. |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
48. I did although I didn't want to....but the first thing in marriage is compromise |
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AwakeAtLast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
49. Yup. Got rid of my first husband's last name |
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Dastard Stepchild (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
51. I hyphenated legally and go by my maiden name.... |
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femmedem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 05:17 PM Response to Original message |
52. I did. Then I got divorced, and I'm so bad about paperwork |
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CharmCity (202 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
53. No way!! |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 05:46 PM Response to Original message |
54. yes and still that name since the divorce |
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Flaxbee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
55. yup. my 'maiden' name was long, always mispronounced, |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-19-07 10:56 AM Response to Reply #55 |
72. I like how you put "maiden" in quotes. |
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kath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
58. Nope. Don't like the patriarchal bullshit. IMHO, the couple should |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-19-07 08:00 AM Response to Reply #58 |
69. I like the idea of the coin toss. nt |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:24 PM Response to Original message |
60. I kept my maiden name but later added my husbands name |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:28 PM Response to Original message |
62. no, although if I were deciding now, I might have |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
63. No. Why would I? |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
65. No, I didn't change my name. |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
66. No. n/t |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-18-07 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
67. Nope. Each of us in my family has totally different first and last names. |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-19-07 10:54 AM Response to Original message |
71. No |
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RubyDuby in GA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-19-07 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
74. Yes, I was happy to. I love my hubby. |
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