Well, I am apparently in the dog house, put there by MrSG.

I was supposed to go to Oregon this weekend, but just didn't feel right about it all day, so I decided not to go. I was going to bring my daughter and son-in-law with me; instead, I let them take my car (their car isn't really reliable for longer trips).

MrSG is barely speaking to me, and when I asked him what was going on, he initially said, "Nothing." I knew he was lying, and that kind of pissed me off. I mean, if you're mad at me, tell me, 'kay? He finally said that he was getting frustrated at my not following through on things. Well, that's true in a way; I was not able to afford my anti-depressants for a couple of months, and basically got into an I-don't-give-a-fuck-about-anything frame of mind. But he knew that. I finally have insurance, so am back on the meds, and can already tell the difference, even though it's only been about 4-5 days since I started back on them again.

Anyway, we watched the Mariners game together, then he got up, said, "I'm going to bed," and went upstairs. I hope I'm not in for a whole weekend of this. :eyes:

:hug:

out of the doghouse a few times before he gets home.

You don't need to be in the doghouse all weekend.

I hope you can sneak some cool toys in the doghouse when he's not looking. :rofl:

some of her toys! :rofl:

I think you and the dog should just hang out all weekend & ignore Mr ______!:P

:hug:

:woohoo:

as much as my personal piece of mind and my identity. I hope you can find a good solution to all of this.

there's "nothing wrong." :grr:

Redstone

I dislike two sociological pigeon holes that are constantly applied to the Sexes:

1. Women are "naturally contrary" in nature, thus constantly change their minds or simply can't stick to a decision.

2. Men...as a group, are emotionally "Kids 4 Ever" stuck in immaturity mode for perpetuity ( Yikes!:wow: two "ity words" in one sentence). We allegedly are emotionally walled-off from the women in our lives.:scared:

IMNSHO..that's it and that's that...going to bed it's 0149 here, in the East.

something obviously is. And you know, I wouldn't mind if he said, "Yeah, I'm bothered about something, but I don't want to talk about it right now." I can respect that. There are times when I'm angry or upset, and don't feel like talking about it at a particular time. But eventually, I think things need to be talked about.

Why is that? A 2nd marriage? 'My daughter' instead of our daughter. 'I was not able to afford ...' instead of 'we were not able to afford ...'

I am not sure what he was supposed to do besides say 'I am going to bed'. Analyze the game? Invite you along?

Secretly, he had probably invited some buddies over to watch the game, or he planned to go golfing tomorrow, and since you stayed he knows he won't be able to.

I don't know though. My knowledge of relationships comes from "Everybody Loves Raymond" and I never even watched that show because I could not stand Raymond.

And I'm responsible for my personal purchases, as he is for his.

And if he did invite people over, I wouldn't care. I'm not anti-friend. Nor anti-golf.

My loving bride of 13 years (2nd marriage for both) fell into an 11 month covered-up depression after her father passed away...so I'm an expert on communication break-downs...so here's My Butt-inski query:

:silly: :crazy: :think: :smoke:

Did you call any of your closest gal-pals to discuss this first...or just
mosey on over to the keyboard and post it where 103,000 people can read it?

FWIW...I met Ray Romano at a restaurant in NYC,but, I never ONCE watched that crap he called a show...I did like 'Mad About You",though.:rofl:
and even own a Show coffee mug:spray:

and peace

Plus I have some things I want to take care of around here, so I'll be able to do that.

and you can think about your bro!

:mad:

for once

Hmmmmmm??????? :spank: :evilgrin:

spankin' me again

:rofl:

sweet dreams, doll :hug:

think he'd mind, since The Wizard of Oz is his fav movie! :hi:

:hug:

It seems to me that you're entitled to spend the weekend at home if you want to. :shrug:

Thanks, ThomCat. :hug:

Do without something else if you have to. You CANNOT get your brain chemistry under control without medication, any more than a diabetic can "wish" their blood sugar to the correct level.

Item 2: Notwithstanding the above, MrSG shouldn't be acting like that. Forgiveness is supposed to be unlimited when you're married.

Hey, you asked for an opinion. I gave you two.

Redstone

Sage advice, indeed!:yourock:

:yourock: Redstone.

As always, you get straight to the heart of things. Thanks. :pals:

:hug::hug::hug:

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you got it coming to ya...

you are good people and don't ever forget it!!!

:hi:

Very much appreciated, my friend. :hug: :loveya: :hug:

You're still divorcing him, right? Good. That passive-aggressive bullshit is unacceptable. He's treating you terribly. As soon as you are able--leave. Forever.

I'm out of the loop on your life, SG.

Good luck finding Peace inyour post-divorce world.

This behavior? Is not shit she needs.

Makes me see bugs! :grr: