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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-02-07 11:11 PM Original message |
Keeping vigil tonight for daughter's stalker... |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-02-07 11:29 PM Response to Original message |
1. Have him arrested--press charges each time |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-02-07 11:40 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. All calls are going to my answering machine |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-02-07 11:54 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. He is also harassing you |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:07 AM Response to Reply #5 |
9. I instructed my tenant to call me even if it was the middle of the night |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-02-07 11:39 PM Response to Original message |
2. Man that really sucks |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-02-07 11:53 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Realize that momma instincts protecting her babies kicks in.... |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:02 AM Response to Reply #4 |
7. Never trust an abuser to "cool his heels" and stop his behavior |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:09 AM Response to Reply #4 |
10. That is still of concern |
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TrogL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 06:45 PM Response to Reply #4 |
42. Horseshit |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-02-07 11:57 PM Response to Original message |
6. do you/she have any friends/relatives |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:11 AM Response to Reply #6 |
11. yeah, that's good advice too |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:04 AM Response to Original message |
8. Do what the cops say you can do. Have him arrested, or get that restraining order. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:13 AM Response to Original message |
12. have him arrested and get that restraining order and don't let up. |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:18 AM Response to Original message |
13. I read your original thread and saw the flames. |
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Omphaloskepsis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:19 AM Response to Original message |
14. Umm, you got flamed for posting her info on a dating site without her permission. |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:25 AM Response to Reply #14 |
16. Because chanches were, he would not be near as bad? |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:31 AM Response to Reply #16 |
19. ,,, |
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Omphaloskepsis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:31 AM Response to Reply #16 |
20. Why does she need to be with someone? |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:37 AM Response to Reply #20 |
21. I cannot believe that you are still |
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Omphaloskepsis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:46 AM Response to Reply #21 |
23. She needs to call the fucking cops. Dorking around on the internet is stupid. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:57 AM Response to Reply #23 |
25. She's talked to the cops |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:59 AM Response to Reply #23 |
27. Get a grip, she has been advised of the police of her options. |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:54 AM Response to Reply #21 |
24. You find people like that, but I like to focus on the DU Community |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 01:16 AM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Good! |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:28 AM Response to Reply #14 |
18. ,,, |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:20 AM Response to Original message |
15. I am really touched by the outpouring of concern tonight from my DU community |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:26 AM Response to Reply #15 |
17. Well Of Course! |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:44 AM Response to Reply #17 |
22. One thing that kicks in beside wrinkles with age is wisdom |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:59 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. I understand and respect that |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 03:45 PM Response to Reply #22 |
40. How are you, today? |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 07:05 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. yeah - I'm wondering, too. |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 10:19 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. I was trying not to be an attention hog. |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-04-07 01:34 PM Response to Reply #46 |
59. I'm glad you and yours |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 10:21 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. Hi Mzteris! |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 01:31 AM Response to Original message |
29. That's some nasty sh*t, Digit. But it sounds like you are handling |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 06:57 AM Response to Original message |
30. Keep a journal of every call and contact. |
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Giant Robot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
31. I say this to inform not to frighten |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 09:08 AM Response to Original message |
32. I don't have any opinions, Digit. However, I'm sending lots of light and love... |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
33. Kickin' This... |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 12:42 PM Response to Original message |
34. I'm sure people realized you were serious about the loser boyfriend. |
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Wcross (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
35. Any male relatives around that could discuss this with him? |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
36. Hoping any and all |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
37. Have him arrested! |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
38. I'd have him arrested too. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
39. Digit -- get "The Gift of Fear". The author deals very closely |
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DeposeTheBoyKing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
41. Digit, do stay vigilant |
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NightWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
44. Digit, do you need someone to "take care" of your problem for you? |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 10:46 PM Response to Reply #44 |
49. What happens when one violates the restraining order? |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 11:00 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. I don't know, Digit. |
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DeposeTheBoyKing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-04-07 08:23 AM Response to Reply #49 |
55. It depends on your state |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
45. The police came by just now, ringing my doorbell and knocking like crazy |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 10:20 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. Please let us know what happens. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 11:54 PM Response to Reply #45 |
51. Thanks for the update, Digit! |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 11:59 PM Response to Reply #45 |
53. Thanks for updating us digit |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-04-07 09:37 AM Response to Reply #53 |
58. you're welcome! |
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rumpel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-04-07 01:24 AM Response to Reply #45 |
54. Digit, |
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krispos42 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-03-07 11:57 PM Response to Original message |
52. You need a restraining order and to record all phone calls he makes |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-04-07 08:27 AM Response to Original message |
56. My thoughts: get him arrested, get the restraining order, get counseling. |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-04-07 08:32 AM Response to Original message |
57. Please get a restraining order ASAP |
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