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lost-in-nj

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Fri Jun-22-07 10:33 PM
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Honest answers..... anonymous forum

Edited on Fri Jun-22-07 11:29 PM by lost-in-nj

Who here has cheated on their
spouse or SO????
Who has been cheated on??

Where is your relationship now???

Really
I would Like to know?

:hug: :hug:

I have been cheated on......
no judgments from me

lost

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fizzgig

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Fri Jun-22-07 10:41 PM
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1. yes on both counts

Edited on Fri Jun-22-07 10:44 PM by kagehime

i am not necessarily proud of my actions, but i did it willingly.

as far as being cheated on, i was looking for a reason to dump him anyway

eta: when i cheated (it happened during a vacation), i broke up with the guy when i got home

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lost-in-nj

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Fri Jun-22-07 10:48 PM
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8. kagehime

You knew better when you got home.....

good for you...

lost

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Ptah

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Fri Jun-22-07 10:42 PM
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2. I was cheated on.

Edited on Fri Jun-22-07 10:46 PM by Ptah

I divorced her, was granted full custody, with child support.

Sunrise, Sunset

:hug:

Typo edit

Second edit to add:

we are life-long friends.

Sometimes the mother of my children is my best friend.

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Bjornsdotter

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Fri Jun-22-07 10:44 PM
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3. No and no

... married 21 years. We have our ups and downs (now get your minds out of the gutter) and we have been through some terrible times together. The key word is together; I imagine we'll be together until one of us dies.

Cheers

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lost-in-nj

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Fri Jun-22-07 10:47 PM
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6. hugs to both of you....

n/t

lost

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SPKrazy

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Fri Jun-22-07 10:45 PM
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4. Okay

No cheating on my spouse or SO

Past SO cheated on me with my best friend. Our friendship never was quite the same.

She cheated with others too for that matter

My relationship now? Uhm, as anonymous as this may seem, it isn't anonymous, but I'll say, it is non-existent as a romantic involvement, it is existent as a friendship.

that's about it.

:hug:

:hi:

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Omphaloskepsis

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Fri Jun-22-07 10:46 PM
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5. I have never cheated...

I don't know if I have been cheated on. I have never caught anyone cheating. If I did catch someone cheating I would be gone so fast. Cheating is inexcusable and dangerous.

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MassLiberal

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Fri Jun-22-07 10:48 PM
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7. no to both questions

Married nearly 21 years and still okay.

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alarimer

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Fri Jun-22-07 11:34 PM
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9. I've never had a relationship last long enough for that to happen

I have been involved (unknowingly at the time) with a guy who was still married, although he told me otherwise. Oopsie. Jerk.

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LaraMN

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Fri Jun-22-07 11:36 PM
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10. Never cheated on anyone, never been cheated on

(to the best of my knowledge, of course,) and I've been married for eight years.

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