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jilln (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 04:51 PM Original message |
Wedding etiquette question |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
1. Who cares how common it is? |
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jilln (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 04:58 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. I do, that's why I asked. |
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MonkeyFunk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
2. not to "tell" her |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
3. Common, or etiquette? |
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jilln (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:00 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. Good point. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
4. That's a tricky one. |
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jilln (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:02 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. Thanks |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:28 PM Response to Reply #4 |
13. That's a spot-on explanation from Rab "Emily Post" rrrrrr. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:35 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. It's weird, but etiquette and protocol I find fascinating |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 06:39 PM Response to Reply #16 |
23. Well, I'm glad somebody cares. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 06:58 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. I think people can pick their own clothes out |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 07:23 PM Response to Reply #24 |
32. No one's saying they can't. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 08:23 PM Response to Reply #32 |
38. I read it, and found it historically accurate and interesting trivia. |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 09:47 PM Response to Reply #38 |
45. Are you seriously comparing etiquette with republican anti-community policies? |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 11:20 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. I was commenting on your use of the word "civilized" |
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Shakespeare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 11:32 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. Oh, for crying out loud. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-12-07 12:30 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. I think we'll have to agree to disagree |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 09:22 PM Response to Reply #24 |
44. I think if you read this thread, you will find no one who says otherwise. |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 07:08 PM Response to Reply #16 |
30. oh hell no, etiquette is a social lubricant |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 09:17 PM Response to Reply #30 |
42. That's pretty much it - it's really about hospitality and making others comfortable. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 07:39 PM Response to Reply #16 |
33. Dear Rabrrrrrr Manners Post Baldridge, |
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Seabiscuit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 07:41 PM Response to Reply #16 |
34. As one ages, one begins to appreciate that all "etiquette" boils down to |
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Katina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-12-07 09:04 AM Response to Reply #16 |
52. I do too |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 07:02 PM Response to Reply #4 |
26. I've done weddings where the mothers wore the colors of the |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-12-07 09:06 AM Response to Reply #4 |
53. Exactly. Although in my wedding, my MIL picked out her |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
6. According to Miz t., that's a bit much. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
9. Haven't heard of that before. When my daughter got married in March, |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
10. Who has ANY right to tell anyone else what to wear to a wedding? |
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jilln (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:22 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. That's pretty much how I feel about it. |
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tandot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:29 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. I told my wedding guests what to wear at our wedding in September |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:34 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. You bridezilla! |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 06:08 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. I would have come... |
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tandot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 06:25 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. This post is worthless |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 06:59 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. The mothers should coordinate: |
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tandot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 09:22 PM Response to Reply #25 |
43. I might have some problems getting my mom to put on pink eye lashes |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 07:03 PM Response to Reply #10 |
28. That's kinda funny. |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 07:19 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. It's a warning sign. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 08:41 PM Response to Reply #31 |
41. Oh, that's silly |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 11:31 PM Response to Reply #41 |
48. For Christ's sake, give me the address and the time of the wedding and I'll take care of it. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-12-07 09:35 AM Response to Reply #31 |
55. Oh, nonsense |
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jilln (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-12-07 09:19 AM Response to Reply #28 |
54. Just to be clear |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
12. Often the bride's mother and the groom's mother will discuss dresses... |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:41 PM Response to Original message |
17. And as I think about this situation, I would counsel the MOG to wear anything BUT that color |
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jilln (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 05:44 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. LOL! That would never happen. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 07:04 PM Response to Reply #17 |
29. I concur. nt |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 06:11 PM Response to Original message |
20. She should wear this: |
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Raven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 06:35 PM Response to Original message |
22. It's common for the groom's mother to check with the bride's |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
27. It's not common and it's not appropriate. |
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mentalsolstice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 08:01 PM Response to Original message |
35. I think... |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 08:05 PM Response to Original message |
36. The 2 weddings I went to |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 08:25 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. what would have happened |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 08:31 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. nothing.. |
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triguy46 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 08:11 PM Response to Original message |
37. The rule of weddings is that there are no rules. Whatever you can get away with. |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-11-07 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
46. I thought my MIL's black mourning veil was a bit over the top, but I didn't say anything. |
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mykpart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-12-07 06:14 AM Response to Original message |
51. As a former MOG, |
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