Help! My kid's a fascist!

Ok, so it's a hypothetical scenario. But as an expectant father the thought occurred to me:

"What if he/she turns out to be a raving fascist. Or what if he she despises all the principles I hold dear."

Any answers

principles you hold dear...at least while a teen-ager :)

I have a 9 year old daughter. I think it's fun to watch the ways her mom and I shape her mind and her belief structure. At 9 years old, you begin to realize the things that are important to you that extend beyond your toy collection. The things that are important to her are all the right things.

My biggest fear is that she marries some freeper then becomes one herself.

My fear: a future racist. Imagine getting THAT call from your kids teacher.
THE HORROR

just kidding...don't do that...

"Son, I brought you into this world, and I can take you out."

you provide your child with the tools to learn to think for his or herself, that includes plenty of reading matter and intelligent discussion in the home.

Those who think for themselves will turn out ok. It's such a rare attribute though, your child will probably not win any popularity contests.

they learn that you´re a hypocrite. And as I don´t think you are: don´t be afraid.
Children ALWAYS learn their first social skills from their parents.
Be there for your children, play with them and strengthen them, love them and NEVER EVER give a promise that you cannot keep.
I think, then your child will be a nice person. Only persons with a lack of selfconfidence and/ or a very unhappy childhood are at risk to really hate others.

Oh, and: best wishes for you and your family!

Unless you have some way-out-of-the-mainstream beliefs, they pretty much grow up thinking like you do.
She's 32, and a chip off the old block if there ever was one.

on edit: When you are wrong (and you will be, at least a few times) never, NEVER hesitate to go to your child and say so.

By Kurt Vonnegut. I don't know how much control we have on our kids but my honest guess it that this is not going to be a serious problem - if you are consistant yourself.

write a reasoned letter to the editor of your local paper, taking issue with some republican columnist. Sign your name and city of residence.

2. Sit back and wait for the angry, sputtering, incoherent boudelangs to leave messages on your phone threatening your life and property.

3. Let your kid listen, and dismiss those guys as just typical republicans.

That oughtta work...

;-)

there are two words you can teach your child, one is love the other is hate (I saw that on a commercial, it is so true!) We have 4 boys and they are very different and the first thing we have done is get them to appreciate the differences within each other and as they are in grade school, they are showing that they appreciate the differences in others at school.

You have to let your child be themself and guide them. They will not always make the choices you want them to make or have the beliefs that you want them to have but sometimes you have to respect that. You can't embrace difference (leading them to the democratic path) and get mad if they aren't like you.

The best thing you can do as a parent is have the respect of your children. If they respect you, they won't want to intentionally hurt you. I know that sounds silly but it is true

...just kidding

ON EDIT: Just like Bar should have done! <--Not Kidding!